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An Unemployed Man Abused His Own Son to Death, His Wife Inquired About it, and Got Her Teeth Knocked Out

A VIOLENT man, with the PRIORS of PHYSICAL abuse, can’t control his temper, lost his job, and everything combined, turned into, MURDER and DOMESTIC, violence…off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The twenty-two-year-old unemployed man, Feng became a stay-at-home dad, because his three-months-old young son started getting fussy, he’d become impatient, beaten the infant until he’d sustained brain injury, until he saw his son’s lips turned purple, did he then realize, that he’d done something awful, the infant was then rushed to the hospital, on ECMO, and resuscitated for a month and a half, and, pronounced dead, the Taichung D.A.’s Office charged Feng on domestic violence manslaughter, the case will be tried by a jury.

The investigation found, that on December 10th, 2023, Feng in his home in the eastside of Taichung, became impatient of his own young son’s continual cries, lost control, started beating his young son’s face, head, to slamming the infant, causing the infant to sustain brain damage from the external traumas, subdural hematoma of his visual cortex, and he’d not stopped abusing the infant until he’d, stopped, crying.

The infant was beaten to nose bleed, and Feng took a few tissues and wiped the blood from the infant’s nose, until early in the evening, as he saw his son’s corner of the lips turned purple, unresponsive, then he’d notified his own wife, Lai emergently, then Lai called the emergency services, but before the infant boy got to the hospital, he’d, stopped breathing, showed no signs of life.

Although the hospital put the infant on ECMO, and got his vital signs back, the infant was in a coma, after a little over a month in the hospital, the family decided to take him off of life support this year on January 26th, and the infant died from the brain injuries, and encephalitis.

The district attorney also discovered, that after Feng beaten his own young son to injury, as Lai asked him what happened, they’d started verbally altercating, when he’d, physically abused his own wife, broken her front teeth, causing her to sustain contusions on her face and nose.

As Feng was taken into custody, he’d denied the allegations of abuse on his own young son, claimed that his son accidentally bumped his head into the steering wheel while he was driving, then changed his statement that he was carrying the infant, accidentally fell, and he’d, injured his own young, but the D.A. compared the testimonies and the autopsy report, not believed him.

And so, this is awful, how after this man abused his own young son to death, he’d, evaded responsibility too.  He’d, ABUSED his wife as she’d inquired him on the abuse of their, young too.  This LOSER needs to get charged with MURDER and DOMESTIC violence, and gets LOCKED away for fifty-plus years, and it still won’t be “just” enough, because he’d, MURDERED his own young son by abuse!

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There are Many Holes in the Restraining Orders, the Hindsight of How it Worked Can’t Stop the Violence, the Only Way to Prevent the Violent Attacks by the Perps, Prevention, Protective Custody of the Abused, is the Only Way to Stop the Tragedies from Recurring

See, how FUNCTIONAL (yeah, I’m afraid, that my SARCASM is, BACK in, “action” here, again!), the restraining orders are, in preventing the abused from getting abused repeatedly, and even, getting MURDERED by the, perps???  And in these cases, the “theory” still, works, WAY better, than the, “applications”…off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

There are, those, restraining orders that didn’t come in time, in the cases of divorces ended up in murder-suicide, or how the breakup led to murdering of the exes, there was a man who got upset over how his ex-wife took up with another, threatened, “can the restraining orders protect you for 24/7 from me?”, then, immediately, ran her over with his car; the attorneys believed, that in recent times, the judges are quite lenient in their evaluation of signing the restraining orders into effect, but, if the perps are emotionally unstable, then, the restraining orders would proven ineffective, and there’s the need to mandate the perps into treatment, to place perps into temporary custody, hindsight will only cause more tragedies.

The Central Police University’s Crime Prevention Department Professor, Shen stated, that if the abuser is confirmed of a psychological disorder, then, the justices can mandate the individual into treatment, but if there are no diagnoses by the psych department, then, it would be difficult to restrict the perps using this means.  He noted, that there is a need to evaluate the risk in the home fronts, and basing the restraining orders off of that, to start amending the constitutions, to set up the laws, to find ways to offer more protection.

how can this…a piece of paper, PRINTED in letters a words…image from online…

He who once worked as a district attorney, now an attorney at law told, that there are the clear cut rules of the restraining order written in black-and-white, the problem lies in that the perp doesn’t want to follow them, and the currently legislation does not give law enforcement to use any possible means to restrict the perps, and many perps would lose control, and became more violent, the police, the social services can only, evaluate their own means in hindsight, that was why these tragedies keep repeating.

He told, that if the perps had broken the rules of the restraining orders, for instance, continually stalked, harassed, the victims are able to call the police, and ask the police to arrest the perps on breaking the terms of the restraining order, and getting the perps taken in can keep them in custody, but more often than not, you see these irrational abuser using an even more violent means to disregard the restraining order, and continually abuse the victims, and the police department or the local social services can only, examine the incident in hindsight.

be effective enough to stop THIS??? Photo from online

photo from online

He pointed out, that the problem lies in that the country does NOT have enough resources, to set up the preventive measures, to place the abused who filed for the restraining orders to get out of the fears of the environment of being abused, or to prevent further abuse, and more severe, injuries, even deaths.

So, the theory of all of this, is still, perfect, but the application, well, not so much.  For the law abiding, which NONE of the abusers are, the restraining orders are effective, and, unless you can get the police right to your side at the moment that someone else came near you, like if you got someone in the police forces living with you at home, then, there’s, NO chance that the police can protect these victims of domestic violence on time, and so, the theory of this system of protecting the abused, as proposed by the DDP government and Tsai, looked so pretty, but when you put the rules into practice, yeah, there are, a lot of, holes in the systems, like how can you, stop abuse, when it happens, if there’s NO cop patrolling your neighborhood, when that husband or boyfriend came home drunk at night, and was, looking for a punching bag…

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The Three Court-Issued Restraining Orders Still Couldn’t Save Her from Her Husband’s Abuse

This is, the USELESSNESS of the, restraining orders, as abuse keeps on, happening, all around, the world, and there’s, NOTHING any of us, can do, about it!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The Restraining Orders Couldn’t Save Her Body, Her Heart, Her Spirits from, Breaking

She Was a Foreign Bride, Had Been Living Under Her Husband’s Abuse for More than a Decade, Right After She’d Given Birth, She Was Pushed Down the Stairs by Her Husband

there’s no protection against this…photo from online

Mei was originally from the northeast of China, grew up in Korea, made fun of her own accent.  Nine years ago, she’d met her antique dealer husband from Taiwan online, they’d married quickly, and moved back to Taiwan together.  She’d originally thought that her life would be, set, without knowing, that this was, the start of, her long endured, abusive marriage, she’d been repeatedly abused by him, the courts had issued more than three restraining orders against him for her, but she’d never, quite trusted that the “shelter program” could, get her away, from the abuse.

And, she’d, finally got placed, with her young into a short-term shelter in Hsinbei City, and was introduced by the Garden of Hope Foundation, to find a social complex in Linkou, the long-term sort of shelter.  Mei disclosed, that she could, finally see the light, out of the abusive marriage she got, trapped in by from before now.

She’d told, that it was more than a decade ago, when her husband became, violent toward her for the very first time, she’d not called the cops, with her own toughness of nature, being from the northeast, she’d, wanted to resolve the matter herself, to escape back home, or to Korea, didn’t file for divorce.  The most serious abuse she’d ever endured was right after she’d given birth, she was pushed from the second-floor steps, suffered head trauma, gotten so many stitches, and a broken, nose too.

“Maybe, it’s, the saint complex, that’s misled me to believe, that I can, change someone, I’d selected to put up with it.”, she’d told, every time she forgave, her husband only grew worse and worse, during the time as she’d escaped to South Korea, she’d attempted suicide multiple times, “I can’t get divorced, my life is, stuck!”, she was in so much pain she couldn’t sleep at night at all.

Later, she’d returned to Taiwan with her own son again, her husband continued abusing her, and, her son became, another of his, targets too, she took her son into hiding, the social workers consoled with her, then, she’d finally, accepted the short-term placement program provided to her.  Finally, she’d no longer needed to worry that her husband might come knocking on her doors, and in the help of the social workers, she’d, secretly transferred her own son out of her husband’s registry, finally, life slowly, returned back, onto, the right tracks.

and this doesn’t really, help! Despite what the city or country says…photo from online

To fight for her life to live independently of her husband, she’d gone to court, but, the judge questioned why she’d run to Korea with her son, who’s, Taiwanese, and the judge demanded her to stop crying in court.  Mei told, that even the court justices lacked the awareness of domestic violence, and, she’d fought for her son’s custody for a year and a half, and the result, her husband had, joint custody.

The laws against domestic violence is not severely enough in punishing the abusers, there’s only, a piece of paper, to protect the victims from being abused again, this is precisely why there are, too many cases of domestic violence on the small island of, Taiwan, she’d said, helplessly, “it’s such a tiny place, with not enough people, but, there’s, this high a ratio of domestic violence.”

So this is how the law doesn’t do SQUAT, to protect the victims who are living under the constant fears of being, abused, and, these shelter programs, they’re set up, but without enough resources, they can’t, function to help those who are in need, and, the society need to change its views about domestic violence, and know the truth of things, before anything, changes, and, because the people of the society chose to blind themselves to these things, that’s why, nothing is, being, done, to help those who are, in dire, need.

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The Tragedies of Murder in Domestic Violence Cases, the Couple Need to Be Careful Not to Allow Their Emotions to Run Haywire

This is still in HINDSIGHT, which is still 20/20!  Off of the Newspapers, translated…

The Criminology Department professor, Cheng from Zhongzhen University observed the case of domestic violence resulting in three deaths and one wounded, that this is a classic murder case of domestic violence, Wu and his wife got into a verbal altercation, he’d murdered his own wife, then, killed himself, he exerted borderline personality traits; the county government’s social services department had sent the social workers to help the families with the aftermath, the school started the counseling for the students.

Cheng stated, that if the couple’s relations showed signs of trouble in communications, domestic violence issues, the Domestic Violence Prevention Center should be notified, the Family Education Center, as well as seeking out help from a marriage counselor or a psychotherapist, and the families, the neighbors should get a little nosier too.  The family and community counseling center manager, Lu by the Chiayi University said, males are less likely to seek out help, he deducted, that the husband may have accumulated the bad feelings for along time, then, exploded, and it’d caused harm to his own, young.

The supervisor of the Chiayi Chapter of a nonprofit organization, Lee told, that the youngest son who’d survived, who’d witnessed these violent acts and tragedies may show signs of withdrawal, refusing to go to school, insomnia, and loss of appetite and other symptoms, that the help from a child psychologist may be necessary for him, the families and school need to help him get the assistance he needed, stay beside him, to offer the child emotional and social support.

The counselor, Lin stated, that parents should NOT see the children as their own properties, hurting them, and taking their lives, the individual who’d gone violent should also be more aware of her/his own anger management, if s/he feels angry, then, s/he should get away from where s/he is, and start breathing deep, to calm oneself down, to lower the chances of doing something that one would regret.

Yeah, this is still, all hindsight, and, there’s still, NO way anyone could’ve, prevent this tragedy or any others like this one, because, we only read about these things in the news, and let it become yesterday’s new, and we forget, and the key to prevent these sorts of tragedies is by having a higher sense of awareness of oneself, and yet, do people have that?  Not really, because if everybody is too aware of her/himself, this SHIT would not happen in the first place, would it?  Of course not, and, you also should not get jealous, and that is what everybody needs to work out, to STOP mistaking possessiveness for love!

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The Tragedies in Chiayi, the Man Murdered His Wife & Son, the Committed Suicide, Resulting in Three Deaths and One Wounded

Another case of domestic violence that ended in murder, and deaths, like these cases normally, would, off of the Newspapers, translated…

The Man Refusing to Sign the Divorce Caused the Couple to Fight for Days on End, Awhile Ago, the Man Was Suspected of Getting Locked Out After the Separation to Visit His Families, Flew into a Rage, and Committed the Murders

The thirty-eight-year-old man, Wu was suspected of not getting a divorce settled, had been fighting for days on end, in the midnight hours of yesterday, he was suspected of losing it after getting locked out, he’d climbed up the aluminum ladder from the outside to his second story home into the room, hacked his wife and ten-year-old son to death, and injured his own eight-year-old son severely, then, cut his own throat, fell off the building, and died.  Before Wu committed the murders, he’d texted his own father, “I’m taking my kids with me”, and his father called the police, but as the paramedics and the police arrived, it was already too late, the three were found dead.

Based off of understanding, Wu works as a wood sculptor, his wife who was eight years junior, Lin worked in customer services to provide for the family, Wu suspected his wife for having an affair, prohibited her to go to work, and complained that she’d spent too much money.  The two were negotiating the terms of their divorce lately.  Wu was suspected of worrying how he would have nothing after the divorce, which was what caused him to commit the murders, before he’d gone on the killing spree, he’d texted his youngest sister-in-law, “I will make you live in pain!”

The D.A. told, that early in the morning at around three, Lu climbed the aluminum ladder into the bedroom, used a twenty-five centimeter long fruit knife, murdered his own wife, his wife had fourteen stab wounds, found dead by the bed, with the wounds in the chest, her neck being what killed her, the ten-year-old son sustained a slash on the left of his neck, which was what’d killed him, the eight-year-old younger son was stabbed in the neck, following, Wu started slashing the left and the right side of his neck, and his wrists too, fell from the second floor balcony.

Wu’s younger sister told, that her brother-in-law had been emotionally unstable, easily worked up, and had restricted her older sister’s whereabouts, she couldn’t withstand the pressures anymore, filed for divorce, and he’d threatened her multiple times verbally, “if you divorce, I will take you  and the kids out, the house you live in will be unoccupied forever”, last Friday, her older brother-in-law was in suspicion that her older sister was having an affair, checked her phone, but found no evidence, and, he’d thrown her cell phone onto the floors and started abusing her.

Wu’s’ wife’s younger sister told, that she and her mother were present as he’d started abusing her older sister, and immediately after he’d beaten her, they’d taken her to the hospital to get her injuries documented, and consoled with her to move out of the apartment, to move in with their parents in Taichung, but she’d worried it might anger her husband, didn’t dare, hoped that they could peacefully divorce first, then, take her two children and leave, but they all were, murdered.

Social Services investigated, that Wu wasn’t listed as violent, and the family wasn’t listed as high-risk, that on Monday a call came, and domestic violence was suspected, and the social workers only started intervening, the very first time the social workers visited, the domestic violence ended in murder occurred, they couldn’t stop the tragedies from happening.  The head of Social Services, Chang stated, on the day, the social workers helped Lin set up and assessed her safety situation, and gave her the information packet on domestic violence prevention, assisted her in getting a restraining order, but Lin didn’t get a restraining order, and the social services could not force her to take action, and the Social Services regretted this.

The school where the two boys attended told, that they were in the band, loved music and science, were well behaved, courteous, with many talents, and the school never expected this tragedy to fall on them.  The school principal told, that the youngest son arrived to school with his father, he saw them laughing as the man dropped him off, he didn’t find any signs of domestic violence in the family.

Of course not, these things, they don’t show up, until it’s too late, like in this case, the restraining order still didn’t come soon enough, and besides, these abusive spouses can care less about those court issued restraining order, and continue to, abuse their families, and this one caused two children to die, with the perpetrator, sustaining only, “minor” injuries, and he will be charged with murder and domestic violence after the hospital treated him.

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The Love that Turned into Hate. She’d Poured a Strong Acid on Him, Causing Him to Sustain Twenty-Nine-Percent Burn on His Body, His Face Disfigured

The difference between aggravated assault and attempted murder lies in the FACT, that this woman didn’t bring ENOUGH acid to cause severe enough damage on this man whom she’d had upsets with…on how the charges does NOT fit right to the extent of the crime here, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The woman, Chiu and her cohabiting partner, Hsieh argued over their relationship, to get him back, Chiu premediated in pouring strong acid on the man, prepared the solution in a bottle, waited at the parking lot late in the nights when Hsieh got out of his car, then, she’d, rushed up to him, poured the acid all over his body, causing his face, neck, and his body to get eroded, to the point of his becoming disfigured, his nose was out of shape, his arms no longer moved as they used to either, he’d sustained twenty-nine-percent burns over his body, the D.A. charged Chiu on aggravated assault recently.

Based off of understanding, Chiu (age 39) as she’d started cohabiting with Hsieh, started having frequent altercations with him, on the night of March 29th, Chiu prepared a bottle of strong acid, and ambushed at a parking lot in northern Taichung, waited until two in the morn the following day, he saw Hsieh riding up in a cab, as soon as he got out, she’d rushed up to him, poured the acid on his face, his body.

Hsieh had fourth degree chemical burns on his eyes, his face, his neck, his head and on his limbs, taking up twenty-nine-percent of his body, his face became disfigured, his nose out of shape, retinal injuries, and lost the agilities in his hands and arms.

After Chiu committed the crime, she’d stayed on scene, the police first took her back to the station as a witness, but found her to have the erosions of acid on her wrists, her shoes, and as she’d complied in answering the questions, that was when the police found the bottle with the strong acid solute in her car.

As the D.A. interrogated her, she’d admitted that she was upset over the love which was why she’d taken revenge on him, and the surveillance in the parking lot showed that it was her, plus Hsieh’s testimonies identifying her as the perp too.

Hsieh sued Chiu on attempted murder, Chiu denied that she had the intents for murder, the district attorneys believed, that after she’d poured the acid, she’d not committed any more malicious acts, based off of the amount of acid she had on her, although it will cause the skin to get eroded, but, it’s hard to tell, that it would cause death, found her guilty of aggravated assault.

Yeah, uh, how’s that just?  I mean, you brought the strong acid, and poured it all over your cohabiting boyfriend’s body, and that’s not called intent to murder?  What the @#$%?  Yeah, and just because this dude got lucky, not gotten killed, this woman is getting that slap on her wrist, that’s still NOT justice!

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Texted His Ex, Cursed Her to Die Soon, Picked Up His Children, & Dumping Them by the Side of the Road, the Abusive Man Was Charged, Finally, for Violating the Terms of the Restraining Order

Well, look on, the BRIGHT side, at least this MOTHER @#$%ER, did NOT go through with, MURDERING his own, ex-wife here!  How slow the LAWS are to react, to things like this, despite how we are among the “most advanced” (so stated this DDP government!) in the anti-stalking, anti-abuse laws here!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The man, Wang with priors in drugs, was suspected of physically abusing his ex-wife and children, after the courts issued an emergency restraining order, he’d, texted his ex-wife to harass her, to cuss her out, cursed, “I’d wished you would die soon every single day”, etc., etc., etc., and in February of this year, he’d even gone to the bus station, to pick up his own young, then, ditched his child at the intersections.  The Shihlin District Attorney’s Office charged him on the seven violations of his wife’s restraining orders against him, asked the courts to given him a severe sentence.

Due to his drug priors, Wang was sentenced to a year two months, which he finished serving just two years ago in October.  Before Wang divorced, he was physically abusive toward his wife and underage children, his wife couldn’t stand it anymore, asked the courts for a restraining order.  The Shihlin District Court passed the emergency restraining order last September, in October of last year, it was issued, mandated that Wang should NOT illegally harm his wife or young physically or psychologically, the term of the restraining order was for a year and six months.

The indictment pointed out, that Wang was suspected of breaking the protective order set by the courts, that between September 20th of last year and May of this year, he’d multiple times harassed his ex wife vial text messages, cussed her out, and texted her, “how much do I need to wrap in the white envelopes for your death, you will get run down and killed by automobile, I hope everybody in your family dies, save the money for your medications, your coffins, give me back the children, I will curse you dead every single day”, etc., etc., etc.

At around five in the evening on February 25th this year, Wang, without his ex-wife’s permission, went to a bus station and picked up their son, then, left the son at a random intersection, then called to cuss and harass his ex-wife.

As Wang got taken into custody, he’d admitted to everything he’d done, the district attorneys used the phone call records, the contents of the texts he’d sent, along with the already set in place restraining order his ex had against him, confirmed that he’d, breached the terms of his restraining order seven times, and charged him on it, asked the courts to give him the punishments by the counts, and due to the chances of him reoffending again, to ask for an even heavier sentence for him.

And so, this, is what you get, you were, abusive of your wife and child, and your wife filed for divorce and got a restraining order against you, and you were upset because of it, and you’d not not only, examined your own bad behaviors, instead, believed that it was her fault, for keeping your child away from you, for turning your child against you, yeah, that’s a bad person, and you deserve the HARSHEST sentence for continual harassment of your own, ex wife.

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The Legal Experts: the Courts Can’t Understand the Facets of the Cases of Domestic Violence

Only those who lived in the abuse knows how it’d, felt, the courts can’t even begin to comprehend what it’s, like, how there’s not enough focus on getting the abusers caught, and sent to jail, so the victims won’t have to live in fear of their, lives, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The Women’s & Children’s Advocates attorney, Tien pointed out, that with the status quo of Kao and her influences on the society, she could become victimized by domestic violence, Lin’s many crimes, separately considered, aren’t serious at all but, the judge who’d handed down such a light sentence for this repeated abuser, doesn’t quite balance out in crime and punishment.

And, all the domestic violence are all progressives, from screams, hitting the walls, throwing things, and in the end, injuring one another, from the victims’ perspective, it’s all, abuse, but, toward these sorts of violence in intimate relations, should there be a heavier sentence given out?  And how much evidence would be needed to prove?  And there are room for change in the current laws to prevent domestic violence.

A judge who chose to not be named pointed out, that rather than stating how Lin got off easy, “I believe, all of the cases on domestic violence in the past had been, way too, lenient”.  The court justice analyzed, in considering the sentence, there would be the examples from the past cases taken in, “the victims are tragically injured in the abusive relationships.  It’s just that under normal circumstances, the courts have NO way of knowing, just how AWFUL the victims suffered.”

A court judge mentioned the cases of domestic violence s/he resided over before, most of the victims, after they’d pressed charges, the district attorneys would NOT work the case endlessly, and the victim, needed to keep on fearing for their lives, by the threats of the abusers, “not very many of the accused will get jailed, let alone, dreaming of how the justices, the D.A. would, get to the cases quickly enough, comparing, the victims of domestic violence, aren’t given enough protection by the justice systems.”

And that, is what needed change, because these cases aren’t as major as those, murders, massacres, so they’re more than likely, to get put on the backburner, in that pile of files, and that’s just bad, because, these victims of domestic violence are the ones, most in need, of the laws to, protect them, and yet, these cases aren’t high enough on the D.A.’s lists of, priorities.

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The Foreign Woman Thought to Finally Had it with the Long-Term Abuse from Her Husband, After Her Husband Passed Out from Drinking, She’d Murdered Him, Accompanied His Body for Four Hours Then Turned Herself in

The uneven relationship status was what led to this woman, murdering her husband, because she’s a foreign spouse, and she’d taken years of abuse from him, I would imagine, that was, what made her, crack, finally, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

An Indonesian woman, suspected of not getting along with her husband from Taiwan long-term, after her husband passed out from drinking, she’d smashed his head, then, stabbed a knife into his throat; the man died instantly, she’d accompanied his corpse for four hours, then called to the police to turn herself in, the police charged her on murder, took her in.  The district attorney’s office two days ago examined the corpse, and asked the courts to take the woman into custody, which the courts signed off on, they will be conducting an autopsy to clarify the cause of death.

The police investigated, the forty-five-year-old Indonesian woman married the fifty-two-year-old man, Lu nine years ago, they live in Pingzhen District, Taoyuan, with no children, and not gotten along.

Based off of understanding, the woman wanted to return to Indonesia to sort out the matters of her family’s properties, but her husband wouldn’t allow her to leave, they’d fought multiple times, in 2017 and 2018, there were the domestic disturbances calls, the two accused one another for abuse, the woman said she was shoved and beaten by Lu.

The woman claimed, on the evening of the nineteenth of this month, the two were together at home, Lu, suspected of being in a foul mood after he was drunk, started nagging again, she couldn’t take it anymore; at 1:30 the following morning, when Lu was sound asleep, she’d hit him over the head multiple times with a bowl, then, stabbed into his throat using a butcher’s knife until he had no signs of life.

After the woman committed murder, she’d accompanied the body for four hours, at 5:30 in the morn, she’d walked over to the opposite of her street to turn herself in, the police followed her to her home, and found Lu, dead, she was cuffed; she’d claimed that she couldn’t withstand the long-term physical abuse, that was what made her do it, but, she had no visible injuries when the police arrested her, the police charged her on domestic violence murder.

Two days ago the Taoyuan D.A.’s Office reviewed the facts of the case, believed that the woman is at flight risk, asked the courts to have her in custody which the courts signed off on, and the body of the man is set for an autopsy on the twenty-fifth to clarify the cause of death.

Based off of understanding, Lu recently lost his job, his wife worked the odds and ends, the work was unstable, but their household economics was okay, and the details of the case is still pending investigation.

And so, based off of this, the woman had been long-term abused by her husband, and finally CRACKED, and, she’s a foreign spouse, which meant, she didn’t have the social support, the assistance she would need in her case, that can help her sort the matters through, and, there’s the repeated incidents of reports on domestic violence by the man on this woman that’s kept on record too.

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The Upsets Between the Mother and Daughter-in-Law that Turned into Tragedy in the Family, the Former Flight Attendant Poured Gas and Burned Her Ex to Death, Received Fifteen Years

And, the upsets that’s led to this, as one can only imagine, is still that FINAL, straw!  The woman murdered her husband, sure, that, what had, led up to, all of this, is worth noting here, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The former flight attendant, Lee and her husband who’s eight years her junior, Yang had a domestic violence dispute due to the problems with her in-laws, last year in March, she’d brought a keg of gasoline home to confront her husband, she’d poured the gas over her husband, then, set him on fire, causing him to sustain eighty-percent surface burns on his body, he was resuscitated for forty-five days, and then died.  The district attorney’s office indicted Lee on murder.  The Taichung District Court sentenced Lee on murder to fifteen years in prison, this can still be appealed.

The police and district attorney’s office investigated, that the forty-four year-old Lee and Yang live in a local residence in Fengyuan, after they were wed, Lee had often had confrontations with her in-laws, due to a difference in lifestyle, especially, the tension between the mother and daughter-in-law is strenuous, and she’d felt that her husband was passive in handling the matter too.

Last year in March, Lee had posted online, with the photo of the bite marks on her arms, and the emergency room visit documentations, accused her mother-in-law for biting her, and spraying chili oils on her, while her husband’s families posted the videos to rebut, stated that her mother-in-law got slapped across the face by Lee, kicked, and Lee had even threatened to cut her mother’s hair off with scissors, claimed, “it’s actually a case of daughter-in-law abusing the mother-in-law”, and, as the video went virus, the online community described the mother and daughter-in-law relationship as “mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, shocking interactions”.  The mother-in-law later pressed charges on assault toward Lee, last year on March eleventh, Lee scapegoated her husband, went to the gas station, bought the gas, bottled it up, went home, as her husband was asleep, she’d poured the gas on him, then, lit him up, causing him to sustain eighty-percent burns on his whole body, Lee also suffered from the burns as well, and the kitchen, the bedroom was on fire as well.

The Taichung District Court pointed out, that there’d been multiple records of domestic violence with Lee, her husband and her in-laws, and this time Lee’s upset was caused by her husband’s lying to her, that the tapes that’s stored in the police stations had already been, deleted, and her in-laws’ abuse of her.

The courts believed, that Lee intentionally bought the gasoline, and waited until her husband was asleep, then, poured the gas on him, and started the fires with the lighters multiple times, to kill him, that it was an indirect intention to murder him, that it wasn’t, directly intended, and she’d murdered him, and she’d not gained his families’ forgiveness afterwards, sentenced her to fifteen years.

Yeah, this woman did something really bad all right, but, you failed to note, how much she’d kept inside of her, until it finally exploded, and, imagine the amount of pressure, the upsets, the displeases that’s been piled one on top of the next and the next, and the next, for this woman, to finally, do something so violent, and this is still caused by the relationship going bad with her in-laws, and this shit still didn’t happen, overnight here.

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