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The Son is a Driver, and Had His Poverty-Stricken Parents Pick Up After His Mess

We have here, a SPOILED ROTTEN B-R-A-T who needs his mama and papa to CLEAN up HIS bad mess, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The nineteen-year-old youth, Deng worked as a driver for a scam ring, followed the orders and collected one million dollars totally, from the two victims, after he’d received $3,000N.T. for his work, he was arrested; although Deng was from a poverty-stricken background, his parents kept apologizing to the victims and paid for the damages their son had caused in installments, the Shilin District Courts, after reprimanding Deng, gave him the lightest sentence for the crimes, just one year in jail, hoped that he could really turn over a new leaf.

The judge pointed out, that the last year amended fraud of “over three accomplices” are over one, and under seven years of prison terms, and considered that Deng was still quite young, and was at the bottommost level of the scam ring, and that, was why the judge was willing to reduce his sentence.  Lu and Chen fell prey to the overly used scam of “We have Your Son”, and had paid Deng $200,000N.T. and $800,000 in ransom to Deng, after Deng got his $3,000 in payment for his work, he was caught.

Last year, the woman Lu got a call said that her son signed for someone, but couldn’t make the payments, and had been taken away, she’d quickly made withdraws of $200,000N.T.; five days later, a retired man, Chen got a similar call, he’d placed the $800,000N.T. by the MRT station in Danshui, but the caller stated, “You still need to pay us $500,000N.T. in interests”, he felt that it was odd, immediately called the police, and, the police caught Deng, who was there, to pick up the cash drop.

Deng said, that his friends told him, “just pick up the cash, and you’d earned some money”, that, was why he’d become a driver; Deng said, that a man named, “Stinky” only gave him a cell phone, and that the headquarter of this scam ring is located in China, and had remote controlled him by phone, telling him what to do, he was unclear who was responsible for doing what in the ring.

Their son had helped scammed someone and got into trouble, the parents are heartbroken, continually apologized to the two victims, and promised to pay up the money.  The victims saw how stressed out the parents of Deng was, said, “we’re worried that our son was abducted, that, was why we were scammed, and you worried about your son getting jailed”, all parents are the same, so, they’d taken pity on Deng’s parents and agreed to settle with them.

The courts investigated, that Deng was given a two month sentence for public endangerment for drunk driving, he was also involved in another case of fraud, and was being overseen by the district court of Taipei; awhile ago, when the judge of the Shihlin District Court opened the courts, he’d scolded the teen, “You really don’t have a clue”, Deng replied, “I didn’t know that the laws were this strict!”

And that, is how this young criminal got, BUT that minor SLAP on his wrists, and, because he had yet to learn his lessons the HARD way, he will surely return to his old ways of being bad after he’s released from jail, and, it’s all because the victims took pity on the parents, who spoiled their son rotten!

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Allowing the Children to Learn to Become Independent

Observations from the workforce, translated…

I work in a food manufacturing factory, every time around the New Year’s, we’re the busiest, and so, the company would hire some temporary employees, to increase the help, so we can become better adapted to this busiest time of year.

Recently, there was a new part-timing kid, tall and strong, and, perhaps, this was his first job, he’d worked very slowly, but that could slowly be trained, but if he didn’t have the energies, everything he did, becomes, dead and boring too.

This kid has a very BAD level of comprehension, it’s hard for me to imagine, that he’s going to college, he’d repeated the same actions for the work, and still, he didn’t have a CLUE what he was doing now.

Every day around lunch, he’d received a call like clockwork, it was from him mom, asked him if he’d eaten yet, and what he’s doing now!  And that, was when I first gained the perspective, of what a “mama’s boy” actually looked like!

He’d already in college, and his mother still hovered over him, when will the child become truly independent?  Seeing how many blood suckers there are in the world today, are they all caused by the parents’ unwillingness and inability to let go too?

Yes, that, is the “creation process” of blood suckers, because you keep on hovering over your kids, you’d taken away the ability to fend for themselves, and, unless you stupid parents CAN outlive your own offspring, there’s NO way you can possibly watch over your young 24/7, and, the process of letting go SHOULD start early, because the later it got, the harder it would be, to WEAN them ALL!!!

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Helping Her Sons, to Cover Up a Murder…

Whatever happened to the values of “you do the crimes, you do the times”, or “TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES for YOUR OWN bad behaviors”???  Apparently, this woman had missed out on that “memo”, from NBCNEWS.com, copyrighted on Associated Press…

A woman admitted on Wednesday that she helped two of her children conceal evidence of a gang-related double slaying that occurred at her home, where the bodies were buried in a yard.

Arnetta Welch pleaded guilty to hindering apprehension, Camden County prosecutors said. The 42-year-old is expected to get a two-year probation term when she’s sentenced in March.

Welch bought cleaning supplies and helped with the removal of evidence following the February 2010 killings of Michael Hawkins and his girlfriend, Muriah Huff, prosecutors said. The couple was tortured, beaten, shot and buried in the backyard of Welch’s Camden home, prosecutors have said.

The bodies of Hawkins, of Mount Holly, and Huff, of Cinnaminson, weren’t discovered for three days.

Hawkins, 23, was killed over a gang dispute and a stolen bottle of liquor, authorities say. Huff, 18, had accompanied Hawkins to the home and was killed to prevent her from identifying the attackers, they say.

Welch’s children, 19-year-old Shatara Carter and 24-year-old Dennis Welch, were among 10 defendants who have been convicted or pleaded guilty for their roles in the slayings.

Dennis Welch pleaded guilty to aggravated manslaughter in 2013 and was sentenced to 25 years in prison. Carter, who was 14 at the time of the killings, pleaded guilty as an adult to aggravated manslaughter last year and was sentenced to 22 years in prison

So in the end, who, did you help out, mom???  Did you help your son dodge HIS punishment for the crimes he’d committed?  Uh, HECK NO, and now, you’d implicated yourself too, because you attempted to cover HIS ass, and, was it worth it?  And, what sort of a value, would YOU be teaching your “of age”, ADULT son?  Oh, I know, my mama will wipe up my FUCKED up mess FOR me, which means that I will NEVER need to STEP up, and take the responsibilities for my own behaviors, yay me!!!  Are you FUCKING (and don’t pardon me this time!!!) shitting me here???

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A Girl Who Was Bullied for the Way She Looked Gets a Brand New Prom Dress with the Money Donated to Help Her…

Taunted, for the way she looked, high school can be so cruel for some, from The Huffington Post, written by: A. Scherker…

Last year, 18-year-old Kristen Layne found the perfect dress for her junior prom at White House High School in Tennessee. But when Kristen put the dress on sale on Facebook to raise money for a new prom dress for senior year, she encountered the kind of Internet cruelty every high school student dreads.

According to Seventeen, Kristen posted this photo of her junior prom dress on the Facebook group “For Sale In Sumner County, TN”:

The dress had made Kristen feel like a princess. So she was shocked when some of the Facebook group’s members started insulting her photo. Kristen told WSMV that “[T]hese two men were just saying some very hateful things, just telling me I was fat and that I wasn’t beautiful.”

Kristen stood up for herself, writing, “Can you please stop with the comments? Sorry that I’m not pleasing to your eye.” The rest of Kristen’s community quickly united behind her. Friends posted positive, loving comments like, “It’s obvious this woman is beautiful, inside and out.” Others wrote to Kristen, saying she inspired them to overcome their own body image issues:

WSMV reports that community members also raised nearly $400 to help Kristen buy a brand new princess dress for senior prom.

This still shows how people are very easily affected by others’ opinions of oneself, I mean, IF you really think you’re beautiful enough, then, why would you even CARE what other people might say?  Or, could it be, that you’re at that age,w ehn your peers’ opinions of you is the primary determinant of who you are, that you are just, unable, to ignore those nasty comments?

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Her Son Stole Money Continuously the Eighty-Year-Old Mother Paid it Back for Him Each & Every Time

Guess WHO is the ENABLER in this story???  From the Newspapers, translated…

A forty-year old man, Deng was under great economic duress, and, in order to pay the debts he’d owed, he stole a lot, and each and every time, he had his eighty-year-old mother take care of it for him, awhile back, he’d gone to the local guardian’s temples, and stole away Liu’s over $140,000N.T’s lotto tickets, in the end, his mother took the cash, and went to the subprecinct, got down on her knees, and begged, for a favor for her son, all the officers felt bad for her.

Based off of understanding, the seventy-year-old woman, Liu would set up scratch off stand at the local guardian’s temple until the early morning hours, the forty-year-old man, Deng on the early morning of the 7th, went to the temple, to ask for money, saw how Liu was putting up her tickets into her handbag, he’d taken the advantage of the time she’d turned away, and managed to steal away all the tickets, with the total worth of well over $145,000N.T.s.

The police reviewed the surveillance, and followed the leads, and managed to find Deng on the 11th, Deng told the police, that the $56,000N.T. he’d won, he’d used it to pay off his debts.  Based off of the investigations, Deng had multiple charges of theft, and accumulated a ton of credit card debts, and because he couldn’t pay off all his debts on a $23,000N.T. a month salary from the printing company, that, was why he’d stolen.

As Deng’s mother got notified by the police, she’d rushed to subprecinct, his mother said, that she has three children, and this middle child had gotten her worried the most, would often steal, and was unable to pay back what he’d stolen, and would need her to pay for him, every time he’d done it.

Deng’s mother begged on her knees to Liu, and gave the $145,000N.T.s back to Liu, and cried, “Do forgive my son”, the officers there felt bad too, and, Deng said, that he knew what he’d done was wrong.

Liu said, that she too, lived off hard, and was willing to forgive the man.  But stealing is a prosecutory crime, after the police interrogated the man, they booked Deng to be processed in court.

And so, because you couldn’t pay your bills, you’d stolen the lotto tickets that someone sold, well, did you NOT consider that the person who’s stand you sold from has to make a living too, and, you still had your mama come and WIPE your ass for you?  You’re a GROWN man, are you FUCKING shitting me here?  And, the mother is at fault too, because she’d not cut her son off, which caused her son to SUCK onto her like a LEECH!

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She’s Not a Bad Person, She Just Got Caught Up with the Wrong Crowd

You are, the company you keep!  Or, once again, this, may just be another “rationalization” the parents made…

She’s not a bad person, she just got caught up with the wrong crowd, she used to be such a well-behaving child, I don’t know what went wrong, we’d given her a good education and everything too, believe or not!

She’s not a bad person, she just got caught up with the wrong crowd, and, we tried, really hard too, to help her, but we just couldn’t, she was already, under those bad influences.  She’s not a bad person, really, there was a time, when she was so very sweet, and yet, somewhere along the way to growing up, something changed…

She’s not a bad person, she just got caught up with the wrong crowd, there’s no way, that you can work your way around that, it’s already a fact, that she’d fallen, under bad influences these days here.

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A Seventeen-Year-Old Stole Condoms, the Fourteen-Year-Old Who Was Uninvolved Took the Fall for $3,500N.T.s

An example of a mother’s selfishness, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

A woman, Chen’s seventeen year old high school son shoplifted condoms from a super convenience store, after the cops came to her, she’d told her son’s middle school classmate to take the fall for her son, but she didn’t pay him the specified amount, and the youngest son’s classmate told his father about how “I’d acted as a thief on someone else’s behalf, and I didn’t get paid enough.”, and that, was how this case busted wide open.

The Hsinbei District Attorney’s Office prosecuted Chen based off of enticing someone else to confess to a crime s/he didn’t commit, and asked for a sentence; her sons’ classmates were turned over to juvenile courts to processes.

The D.A. found out, that Chen knew that her eldest son didn’t have his motorist license, and still gave him her motorcycle to ride; at the beginning of August this year, the son shoplifted a box of condoms into his pant pockets, then, rode off with his young girlfriend.

The store clerk found that something was taken from the shop, reviewed the surveillance and called it in; the police could tell that it was a youth who’d committed the shoplifting, and found the owner of the motorcycle from the license plate, and took the footage to her house, and asked her if her motorcycle had been stolen, or if she knew the thief in the footage.

Chen recognized that it was her eldest right away, but said, that she knew who he was, and after she got to the bottom of the whole story, she’ll have someone go to the subprecinct to explain; back then, the classmate from her younger fourteen-year-old son was over, she’d pulled the boy to the side, told him, that if he was willing to confess to taking the item from the super convenience shop, then, she will give him $3,500N.T.s.

After the middle schooler agreed, he’d gone to the subprecinct immediately, and, no matter what the police asked, he’d answered how Chen told him to, and after he’d taken the fall, he’d gone back to Chen, to claim his prize, but, she’d only paid him $2,000N.T.s; after he’d gone home, he’d complained to his father, “I’d helped out being a thief and gotten ripped off”, his father inquired further, then, pulled his son to the subprecinct to get all of it on record, and told the cops that the man in the footage was not even remotely like his son.

As the court held its session, Chen confessed, claimed that she just didn’t want her son to have a record, said that her eldest wanted to buy condoms but was bashful to do so, that, was why he’d shoplifted it.  And the middle school told of what had happened in court, and, his father started telling Chen off, that she’d only thought about not wanting a record for her own son, but had destroyed someone else’s son.

Here, you still have some really BAD parenting behaviors, the mother, because she didn’t want her son to have a police record, she’d asked someone else to take the fall, for her son’s shoplifting…

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