When the government, BUTTS into the families’ “businesses” of, how to discipline our own, children, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…
The Department of Justice is, planning on amending the parental right to punish their own young, it seemed, that this would make it even harder for the parents, which would ultimately, add more trouble to the, already, lowering, birthrate in this country.
To help with the birthrates, the government only knew how to, put down the cash. And surely, money is, important, but, raising, educating the children, the time that it will take, the energies, is way harder to, tackle for the, parents. And now, the government is planning to tie up the parents’, teaching you HOW you are to, raise your own, young, otherwise, you would be deemed as, unfitting, to the point of, taking you to court, to stripping you of your, parental, rights.
I agree with the head of protections of the Sanitation Welfare Department’s “everybody should learn how to use the more civilized means to educate”, but, ideals are, never close to the realities of, things, and the laws can’t expect every single parent to be, “experts of parenting” either.
My father was raised the Japanese method, and he was, especially tough, toward me, the eldest, son, physical discipline was, everyday and normal, but based off of the means today, it would constitute as, abuse; I don’t’ know if this impacted my personality formation as an adult, but, as I grew older, I could understand, how my father took it upon himself, to make sure that he’d, trained me, right. As I had children, I’d started, learning to, try to, educate them, using the, more civilized means, but I’d found, that kids don’t know enough reasoning, and I simply, can’t use the non-physical means, to get them to, behave well all the time. For instance, playing with fire, and, picking up a stick and hitting things, especially for boys, they’re, naturally, curious, playful, with absolutely, NO sense of, safety, only through making them associate a behavior with pain, that is, how they will, remember what they should not, do; but based off of “expert opinions”, this constitutes as, physical punishment, that it would deeply impact a child’s, developing, mind, and this is, “illegal” now!
With the coming of a grandson, we’d asked our son, to be, more patient with him. But boys have too much energy, and misbehaved a whole lot, and, if we can’t even, punish them to face the wall, or to make them perform physical tasks, or even yell at them, I’m sure, the majority of parents would have to, surrender then! And so, there’s the need of boundary definition for discipline versus, abuse, so the parents can know if they’d, crossed the lines or not.
If by thinking, ridding the right of parents to punishing their young when they’d done something they’re not supposed to, then, there would be, no more, problems, this is too simple-minded, in the matter of, the education of, our own, next, generations.
And so, this showed, just how difficult parents are having it these days, because we can’t even, make our own children to go to the corner anymore, because that constitutes as, “corporal punishment” as defined by the government, and so, how do we, as parents (still not one!), manage? We can’t, we can only, test the waters, and, try stay within the lines of what’s legal in disciplining our own young, but this would be, next to impossible, because the government did NOT have the rules of what’s allowed in punishment if a kid misbehaved, and the alternative of what we can all do, when our kids no longer give a SHIT about those, “three verbal warnings” we give to them, and, the kids may get worse, because they learn that “you can’t hit me!”
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