The vicious cycle, which bullying keeps on, recurring, because the problem wasn’t, identified, started back at, the roots here! And, if the roots are uncovered, no measures you take, will be, effective, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…
Based off of the papers, there’s, another gang bullying case in the middle schools, and it was only from hearing that his first year middle school girlfriend claiming that she had a conflict with the victim male student back in the elementary years.
The bullying incidents, showed the severe bad behaviors and values that had been, learned by these, young adolescents, the young perpetrator showed in the footage, called on the gangs, to beat the victim down, it was quite shocking for me to watch.
As the incidents happened, following the standard-operating procedures: step one, Instagram/FB posts; two, forwarding to the enterprises of gangsters; third, public trial by the online communities; fourth, spreading the footages around; fifth, police investigations; sixth, reporting the incidents to school, and the security guards of the schools; seventh, finding out exactly who were, involved; eighth: notifying the parents, and the related individuals to come to school, nineth: delegating the responsibilities to the involved parties; tenth: sue for threats; eleventh: determine if the students should be sent to the police, or to sent them home to be watched by the parents………………
Then what? Those who had no intentions of changing their behaviors, continued to bully with their gangs, and get involved with the mobsters, and get groomed into, the serious, gangsters.
What changes a person, it’s not the threats, nor the control of her/his bad behaviors, not negating her/him, but to help her/him find her/himself, to help the individual realize that there’s a better version of oneself that one can, become, and all of these need the interventions of, professionals, and the “time” too. There really is, only limited things that a school CAN do, and, the schools simply, can’t possibly, handle those, undetonated bombs, and can only, pay more attention, to enforce the awareness to counsel!
The more effective way is for the government to spend the dollars where they would count the most, to set up the budgets for “special task forces”, to actively follow up with the activities of these students, to counsel them, to see the bullying as a huge problem, and to, resolve these, problems.
But, it still doesn’t get done right, because everything will, get lost in the many standardized operating procedures of, reporting the incidents within the schools (if the victims are, brave enough!), then, the schools call up the parents, and the parents ground the students, and, if the act of bullying in the schools worsened, then, the school needed to call up the law enforcement, and the student gets taken to juvenile detention, and picks up more bad behaviors, because s/he has to survive in there, and then, the student comes back out, and gets worse in the bullying means, because they’d picked up on the ways, in juvenile detention, because that’s how they are, to survive!
The vicious cycle will never end, because, the root of the problem hadn’t been, identified here…
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