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The Air, My Friend

The column by Jimmi Liao, translated…

The Wind Started Blowing, the Hat Flew Off

The Wind Stopped, the Hat, Dropped into the Water

The Wind Got Angry, Why is Everything Blamed on it?

artwork of Jimmi Liao, off of UDN.com幾米

This is scapegoating, because instead of making sure that that hat is, SECURE on your heads, you’d, blamed it on the wind because it’s, much, much easier than, to take responsibilities for what you failed to do in the first place, this happens, quite a lot, if you can believe it!


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The Murder of a Police Officer at a Night Club, “a Spoiled Rotten Brat”, His Mother Once Called Him “Well-Behaved”

So, whose F-A-U-L-T IS it, the mother’s, the father’s, the son himself’s???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

The primary suspect who was responsible for beating the detective, Shue to death was a member of the “daddy’s boys club”, his father ran a company that sold grand-scale lamps, he’d gotten sent to Australia to study since his middle school years, after his return after college, he’d worked at his father’s company, in a minor position, and would often hang out at nightclubs.  The police described him as “a spoiled rotten brat”, not knowing the severity of his own actions, and suspected of placing the blames on his accomplice.

Based off of understanding, Tseng’s family background is very rich, he lives in a mansion in the high-end Xinyi District with his parents, and his older brother and sister-in-law, with two rooms for the hired help too; his father had a stroke and was immobilized, he’d owned a lighting fixture company in Shijr, Hsinbei City, they own FIVE sports cars, including Benz, Bentley, Audi, and Chevrolet, which were all registered under the company.

After the murder of the police officer, the police came to visit Tseng’s home, but Tseng wasn’t there, his family members were watching television, the cops clarified, “Your son was suspected of the murder of a police officer!”, the parents didn’t believe it, the police said, “Just watch the news!”, the parents turned to the news channels, and were very stunned, still couldn’t believe, that their son would beat up a cop.

Even though, the son had committed a crime, the parents still stood by him, the mother told the officer, that her son is extremely well-behaved, and couldn’t have murdered anybody.  And, after the father dialed the son’s cell, and was rerouted to voicemail, he said that if the police can’t get in touch with his son, then just “arrest me instead”!

The girlfriend who’d dated Tseng for a year, Liu claimed to be attending a certain private university in Hsinbei City, they’d gone all over the places to hang out; the police searched their Facebook pages, there were a TON of outings of them together, and, within a few short months, they’d gone all over the world like Hong Kong, Macau, the Alps, etc., etc., etc.  The police sighed, “with the normal wages of the average younger generations, this simply couldn’t be achieved!”

The police discovered, that Tseng didn’t have ties with gangs, but because he’d gone to night clubs to party a lot, and is a huge spender, he’d met a TON of gangsters, and, the gangsters may see that he is rich, and that, was why they’d “had his back”, but, after Tseng turned himself in to the police, he’d told, that he didn’t tell his “brothers” to beat up on the officers, claimed that there were a TON of people whom he didn’t know, and they met, and started beating on one another.

The Second Generations of Yu-Chang, Large-Scale Spender, and Active

The primary suspect who was responsible for telling others to murder the police officer, Tseng, has dual citizen ship from Australia and Taiwan, is said to be from a rich family, his family manages the Yo-Chang Company, Tseng went abroad to finish his studies, then, started working for the company too.

And so, you still have this SPOILED B-R-A-T who’d MURDERED a cop, and now, he’s only starting to realize the seriousness of the matter, and, he cries, “mommy, mommy, help me, save me”, and, naturally HIS parents would still cover HIS ass, because that, was what they’d done all along, and that, would be how this LOSER was so totally, SPOILED R-O-T-T-E-N!

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A Father Took His Five-Year-Old Daughter to Jump a Ditch, and Was Forcibly Hospitalized


And that still makes you an UNFIT parent!!!  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Jiang, who’s been diagnosed as emotionally unstable, was displeased at how his wife kept ignoring him, he’d set his house on fire, then, used a screw driver, took his daughter hostage, and jumped, with her, into a deep ditch, and was in a stand-off with the police for two whole hours; and the police took advantage of the time when they’re handing him a cigarette, to carry the little girl who’s shocked away, and forced him into the hospital, after he was charged with public endangerment.

“Would daddy burn us to death?”, every time the child spoke of her uncertainties, the family would also fear; in order to prevent any more threatening behaviors from Jiang to his family, the families hoped he could get the complete care and hospitalizations he will require.  The Sanitary Department stated, that they will get a medical doctor’s opinion on the matter, then, see if there’s a need for forced hospitalization.

The man in charge of the Center for Domestic Violence Prevention, Lin pointed out, that last year, they’d listed the Jiang household as a high-risk family, and had sent social workers to visit them regularly, and giving them counsel and the situations are improving, and that Jiang had lost it two days ago, they’d already helped Jiang’s wife and kids by filing an emergency restraining order against Jiang.

The police investigated and found, that the thirty-eight year-old man had been unemployed and stayed at home for awhile now, and the household relied on outside charity, along with government assistance to get by; recently, Jiang’s personality had changed, and every time he’d gotten into a disagreement with his families, he would start throwing things, and had multiple times, set fires to his own place of residence.

Even though, the family had multiple times, scheduled him for hospital stays, but he’d always manage to sneak out.  The nurses from the public sanitations department had three-times, helped him to get hospitalized, but, he’d locked the bedroom doors from the inside, and, the nurses considered that he might be emotionally unstable, and so, they’d left him alone, and didn’t force their way into his room.

At the start of the month, Jiang first used a knife to threaten to kill his own wife, on the 24th, he’d set his own house on fire, the D.A. allowed him to make bail.  Two days ago, in the morning, Jiang was displeased at how his wife ignored him when she was cooking, he’d committed arson once more, and had used a screw driver, and forcefully took his own five-year-old daughter, and jumped into the ditch next to his house, claimed that he will take his own daughter to die with him.

Jiang had several times, pushed his daughter’s head under water as threats.  And, the patrol officers who were called to the scene worked hard to console him, wanted him to think more on his own, along with his daughter’s behalf, and asked his wife and made communication between the couple possible, but they’d still argued nonstop.

The police saw how shocked the little girl was, and was struggling and wailing in her father’s arms, and the police pretended to hand Jiang a cigarette, wanting him to calm down so they can talk; as Jiang reached for the cigarettes, the officer managed to get the child, and, the rest of the crew rushed up, and pulled him onto the ambulance that took him to the city’s care facility, and the child who was still under shock was sent back with Jiang’s eldest brother.

And so, because you were unstable, you jeopardized your own child’s life, what SORT of a father are you?  And, you SHOULD be forcibly hospitalized, whether or NOT you like it, because something IS wrong with you, after all, you’d made your families live in fear for their lives every single day, and that, is how there are still so many unstable adults, and, the ones who suffered the most are still the kids!


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Kept in at Home


The boy, kept in at home, his dog, kept in at home.  The whole morning, the entire night.  His older brother rode in with his girlfriend, they came.  Looking at the boy, not long thereafter, they’d started copying him, kept in at home.  His uncle, looked at them, curiously, made two turns, sat down next to the boy’s dog.  For an entire night, and the following day.

Grandma is going to work, with a bamboo carrier on her shoulders, and a heavy suitcase, passed through her two grandsons and the girl, walked right passed them, and gone around her only son and the dog too, walked out the door, she couldn’t help but look backward, and sighed, gazing at this heavy burden in her life.  Looking at them, wondering, when, would the gold from heaven finally fall off her hands.

And here, you still have sons who SUCKED their parents’ D-R-Y, and in this case, it’s the mother who’s shouldering up everything, because she’s now, taking care of her son, her grandson, AND her grandson’s girlfriend, along with a D-O-G too, when are you ALL going to GROW UP, and learn to do things on your own?  Oh yeah, until your parents had D-I-E-D, because then, you will have NO other choice BUT to stand up!!!

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Thoughts of an Addict

Here Comes Another “Round” of Abuse…

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A Delayed College Graduating Male Leaped Off of the Building the Day After His Graduation

Let’s see what had driven him to suicide, shall we???  Another STRAWBERRY that went S-P-L-A-T!!!  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

On the graduation ceremonies of a certain public university, a male student, Chen, because he couldn’t graduate with the rest of his class due to delayed graduation, yesterday, he was found, dead, in the courtyard where he lived, and was suspected of falling from the fifteenth floor.  Chen’s father said sorrowfully, that his son might have been under too much academic stress.

As the D.A. checked out the fact, the family stated that Chen had a wide variety of interests, and got involved into too many extracurricular activities that they’d taken up most of his time, that he didn’t have the time to make better grades in his required classes, that he kept taking and retaking the courses; Chen had NO emotional troubles, that it might be the stresses from the academia that’s pressuring him too hard, and so, that, was what drove him to suicide.  The family had no problems with the cause of death ruled by the police.

The D.A. stated, that there were NO signs of foul play, or external causes of death, and the body was released back to the family.

Yesterday at around eight in the morn, at a certain community, when a resident was out, hanging up washed clothes, the person had discovered a man, lying in the courtyard down below, and was not breathing, the resident called the police immediately.  The police discovered Chen’s wallet, along with a bottle of unfinished Whiskey at the roof on the fifteenth floor.

Chen’s parents couldn’t believe that their son took his own life, the mother was crying so hard.  The father stated, that Chen filed to delayed graduation this year, that two days ago was the graduation ceremony, that the son couldn’t graduate with his class; but he didn’t notice anything out of the ordinary, nor did the son exert any weird behaviors.  Based off of understanding, both of Chen’s parents are of high social statuses, Chen’s father said, “my son may have been too pressured by the academia and couldn’t handle it and committed suicide.”

Chen’s middle school classmate and friend said, that Chen has high standards for himself, was outstanding in class in middle school, and had been picked as the head of the class by the teacher, is a good student in the teacher’s views, “It’s hard to imagine, that something like this had happened.”

The police pointed out, that there is NO final note anywhere, on his body or in his room, and from Chen’s Facebook pages, his text messages, there are NO signs of him contemplating suicide.  And because the police ruled out external factors in causing death, the preliminaries are focused on this as a suicide.

And so, that, is how easily they still C-R-A-C-K-E-D, and, this guys perfectionist personality surely played a VITAL role in his death too, and, could this have been prevented, maybe, but, why wasn’t it?  You’d still have to ask yourselves that, don’t you???

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In a World of Two, There’s NO Room for You

In a world of two, there’s NO room for you, I mean, let’s FACE it, you’d been an “extra” on this small, small set of ours… In a world of two, there’s NO room for you, don’t you see, IF your mom pays attention to you, then, she won’t have enough time for me, and I got here first, and now, I’m FORCED to share her with you?  Why should I?  And, get your own woman!!!

In a world of two, there’s NO room for you, and that’s just IT, you see?  I won’t HAVE you anymore, and now, this “world of two” had been reduced, to the world of JUST one, and I’m still the O-N-L-Y one.  In a world of two, there’s NO room for you, I don’t want you around, and besides, you’re only taking TIME and ATTENTION from MY wife, and she’s MINE first, she was ALL mine, before you came along, and now, she spends her entire day, cooing, and caaing with you, and that’s just NOT fair…

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