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Is the Child’s Oversensitivity a Behavior Problem?

So this, is what the parents have to cope with, with a way-too-sensitive child at home, huh???  Translated…

“Your daughter is so very quiet—have you ever considered, taking her to the doctors?”

“Jody is so easily hurt.  If she sees that other children were picked on, she’d cried too.  When she’d heard sad stories, she’d cry.  We don’t know what to do with her.”

“Everybody in the kindergarten is eager to participate in group activities, but, your son just refused.  Is he also this stubborn at home too?”

Do these lines sound familiar?  Of course, these words can get to you, as if, your kid’s the one with the problems, but, your child has a keen sense of observation, shows a lot of care and concerns toward others, and is very sensitive.  You knew real well, that if you heed these words, forced him to get socialized, the child would be in a whole lot of pain.  And, if you go with the flow of your child’s personality characteristics, s/he might be well-off.  And still, as the same words keep coming up, you’d started doubting, whether or not you’re fitting as a parent, and that you might be responsible, for your child, behaving the way s/he does.

How to Education Children Who are Too Sensitive?

You feared, that you may be doing things wrong, worried that no one can help you.  You might have already realized, that most of the parenting books all talked about “behavioral problems”, such as getting agitated easily, distracted, rough, attacking.  From this angle, there’s NOTHING wrong with your child.  There were NO mentions of the problems you’d encountered, eating problems, being too shy, nightmares, worries, and, strong emotional outburst, for no apparent reasons at all.  And, you couldn’t discipline your child using normal methods, even IF you’d just criticized her/him lightly, your child would have a complete meltdown.

The Words of Advice from the Experts:

When people tell you, that something IS wrong with your child, don’t believe them, and don’t LET your child believe them either.  Your child is UNIQUE, that, is not your fault.  Naturally, there would be room for improvement in parent-child interaction techniques, but, don’t ever believe that something IS wrong with you, or your offspring.

Based off of studies, fifteen to twenty percent of the children in the population are born naturally sensitive.  And, with this great number, it’s hardly “abnormal”.  Besides, in ALL the species that’s been studied, there are JUST as high records of individuals in the population that are this sensitive.  And, IF that, is the result of evolution, then, there MUST be a reason for it, we just can’t see it is all.

There are many evidence that suggests, that people who are highly sensitive are NOT necessarily shy, nor are they all neurotic OR anxious all the time, or even, depressed.  For some of the more sensitive members of the population, these emotional responses are caused by environmental stimuli, NOT inborn traits.

What, is a Heightened Level of Sensitivity?

People who have a heightened level of sensitivity are more aware of the details in their surrounding environment, and, before they acted, they’d think, thoroughly first before they took the actions.  Whether it be adults or children, those who are sensitive usually have a higher level of empathy, more intelligent, has strong instincts, with creativity, more careful, with a lot of conscience.

They understood better, the result of their own actions, and so, they’re less willing, to do the wrong things.  They couldn’t cope well with higher volumes of sounds, or an influx of information coming to them at any given time.  They would avoid these stimuli, which makes them appear shy or distant from others.  If they couldn’t avoid the circumstances of being under too many stimuli, then, they’d become “difficult to deal with”, or “way too sensitive”.

Although those who are deemed more sensitive pay attention to the details more, but, they may not have a better sense of sight, hearing, taste, or smell.  But, there are those with a better ability in one of their sensory organs.  The key point here, is that when their brains processed the information, they do it more thoroughly.  Not just their brains, those who are deemed more sensitive also have a stronger spinal reflex too.  Their immune systems are more active, they are prone to develop allergic reactions to things.  Which means, that their bodies are designed, to understand and observe this world even MORE thoroughly.

So, just because your kid cries a lot, or wouldn’t play in groups, PARENTS and TEACHERS, that still doesn’t mean that there IS something wrong with the kid, something IS wrong, with Y-O-U, stupid adult, who work so totally FUCKING (oopsy!!!) hard, to FIT all those little ones, inside just ONE square, but hey, some of us are rectangles, triangles, rhombi, circles, along with an ASSORTMENT of shapes AND sizes, and, we still DON’T just FIT properly to the “norm” (whatever THAT is!!!), so STOP trying to FIT your young INTO certain boxes, and just love them for the way that they are, after all, they still did NOT ask to be BROUGHT to the “outside world”, you two ADULTS are the ones to have FUCKED, and, out still popped???  Oh yeah, those “pretty little MISTAKES” of yours, remember?  Uh, YEAH, and, D-U-H!!!

 

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Keeping Kids Locked Up for Twenty-Two Hours a Day…

This, is NOT only JUST being unfit parents here, from Yahoo.com, by: M. Gillespie…

A husband and wife accused of making three of their adopted children virtual prisoners inside their home pleaded not guilty Wednesday in a case that began after prosecutors say two girls crashed the family van while trying to make their escape.

The 58-year-old adopted father is charged with sexually abusing the two girls, now ages 17 and 14. He and his 64-year-old wife are both charged with kidnapping, felonious assault and endangering children in Ashtabula County, east of Cleveland.

The Associated Press is not naming the suspects to avoid identifying the girls. County Prosecutor Nicholas Iarocci said the couple also abused and neglected an adopted son, now 21, who is mentally disabled.

Iarocci said Wednesday that the couple “repeatedly and harshly” beat the girls and older son with a paddle that eventually became stained with blood. The three victims were given little to eat and were malnourished, Iarocci said.

He called living conditions inside the home “deplorable.”

The victims were typically allowed out of their rooms for two hours a day for school lessons and to use the bathroom, Iarocci said. They were not allowed to socialize with other children in recent years, he said.

Iarocci could not explain why a younger adopted son, now 13, was not abused.

Indictments allege the abuse occurred over a two-year period starting in September 2011. The investigation began after the two girls escaped from their shared bedroom in August 2013, sped away in the van and got into an accident, Iarocci said.

The girls were cited in juvenile court, which led them to tell a probation officer about the abuse, Iarocci said. The three children and the man were removed from the home and placed in foster care a month after the crash.

The couple adopted the four children about 11 years ago. The abuse began after two teenage boys who also lived there left the home after turning 18, Iarocci said.

The abuse inflicted psychological damage on the girls, but they and their older adopted brother have thrived in foster care, Iarocci said.

“They’re almost different children,” he said, adding that the girls are being adopted by another family.

So, this case, is quite weird, if you ask me, because if you have the heart, the desire, AND the mind, to adopt children, then, what would, lead you to, abuse and neglect them so, or maybe, because pain was inflicted onto you when you were growing up, and, you’d just, wanted to be the hand that hurt now, and this, is how abuse still rolled on down…and by cutting these kids off of contact with the outside world, I’m thinking (then again, I would not know here!!!) that the parents are trying, to isolate them, so they’d become totally, completely, dependent on them, so, this may also have something to do with how the parents wanted their adopted children to not grow up and move away………

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The Judge’s Take on the Case: the Religious Group Leader Engaged the Members in Groupthink, They Couldn’t Decide for Themselves

The opinion of the judge who ruled on the case, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

Why would Ru-Yuen Ming Gong’s member comply with Chiao-Ming Chen and do such atrocious things?  The judge had once scheduled for the six defendants to the hospital to get their psyc evaluations, to make sure, that none of them had any mental issues that can affect their judgments of right and wrong.  The verdict quoted the concepts of “an ordinary evil” Hannah Arendt, believed that it’s a behavior that came out of abnormal social influences, and, the evil part of it is it’d caused the person to not think straight, which was why the behaviors are so hard to understand.

The judge found out, that when Chen gathered her group at “Silent Gardens”, if she felt that someone has misbehaved or said the wrong things, she would call on everybody else who were there, and started grilling the individual on the same or different questions, and when the replies didn’t match up, then, the members would take turns, slapping the person, and, after awhile, the members of her cult learned that they must be truthful with her, it’d given Chen an “absolute authority”.  There was a youngest daughter of one of the members that was disciplined by the group, and was slapped until she’d become deaf, but she not only didn’t sue, instead, she’d continued, joining the group gatherings.

The death of Jeng had happened in “Silent Gardens”, Chen’s neighbors said, that after the incident, nearly nobody came in or out of the place, and from time to time, they’d seen the families come back to offer incense to the ancestors, but the common areas were unkempt, the trees had all died, and, leaves fallen everywhere.  In the past, every years, the flowers would be kept very well, and the family members are already considering selling the properties.

And so, because you don’t have a strong sense of the self, you looked to your leader, and when your leader says, “Jump”, you do it, and, after a few times of this “training”, your brains are completely turned OFF, and so, that, was why you’d blindly, followed the woman’s lead, in torturing of the young man, because you don’t have a strong sense of yourselves!

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A Father Who’d Murdered His Own Daughter, Dumped Her Body, and Now, His Son is Missing Too

Yeah, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The man who’s serving time for something else, Jiang yesterday confessed on how because he couldn’t manage to keep up with his own daughter from his ex-wife, he’d murdered her when she was just five, and buried her.  The police department went looking for the body, and, dug up a set of bones, and, they’d sent it into the medical examiner’s office to see if it belonged to a human being, and, they’d called in Jiang’s current wife, Yeh, to see if she knew about this matter.

And, the sons that Jiang had with his current wife, Yeh, currently, the eight-year-old eldest is registered for school, but the seven-year-old younger son is nowhere to be found.  Yeh told the police, that she’d gone into serve time for fraud back in 2008 for four months, and when she got released, she couldn’t find her own son, the husband told her he’d sold him, but, couldn’t describe the transactions in precise details.  The police feared that the child is also dead, unless he’s found again.

The entire case was reported by the young girl’s birth mother, and learned that the daughter she’d left with her ex hadn’t registered for school, and she couldn’t get in touch with her ex, and dreamed that her daughter was covered in blood, telling her, “Mom, why don’t you want me?”, she’d suspected that something awful had happened to her daughter, she’d called the police.  Based off of understanding, after Jiang (age 36) and Tsai (age 31) were divorced, he’d gotten the custody of their daughter, and married Yeh later on, had two sons by her.

This March, Jiang’s eldest son said to his teacher, “My older sister was starved to death by grandma underneath the table,” the teachers listed them as “high-risk” family, and in September, the schools reported the family, once more, as “high-risk”; this August, Jiang was imprisoned, in September, the school reported the family as high-risk again, and the police at Hsinbei city got the tip, and called up the district attorney’s office.

The District Attorney’s office at Hsinbei City found that Jiang was taken to prison in August of this year, and they’d had the police interrogated him.  Jiang claimed from before that he wasn’t well-to-do, and had an active arrest warrant on him on theft, etc., etc., etc., he’d taken his family to run, and because he couldn’t afford to keep his own daughter, he’d abandoned her at a park in 2008.

The police conducted their fifth interview yesterday, and took her to the place where he’d told them he’d lived at his family, and found that it was all bullshit; Jiang then told the police that he’d murdered his daughter, dumped her body at Taipei Juvenile Detention Hall’s backside, and took the police to dig up the bones; but the police, after examined the remains, believed that it wasn’t from humans at all.

So, this LOSER killed his own children, and lied to the cops about it, and he got caught, and he’s still doing thing his way, leading the police on a wild goose chase, thinking that he can outsmart them, well, eventually, everything he did will come BACK to him, more than tenfold that’s for sure!

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A Man Abused His Girlfriend’s Young Daughter, Got a “Heavy Sentence” of Fourteen Years

Did you NOT read that last case of the newborn being COOKED by the mother’s boyfriend???  So, why the FUCK (don’t pardon me this time!) is this still happening???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Chou, in Yunlin two years ago, moved in with a married woman, Ke, and because of Ke’s young one-year-three months old daughter won’t stop crying, Chou had multiple times, used rulers, sticks, or cloth hanger, to beat the child, he’d even scooped up the child, and fly-kicked the child, causing her to fall to the ground, the infant, after these abuses, because of the back of her head was beaten, she’d fallen into a coma, then died.

The D.A. charged Chou and Ke together, the first trail, the courts sentenced Chou on abused to death to eleven years, eight months, and sentenced the mother on abuse for three months and she is to serve one more month in jail.  The second trials maintained the ruling toward the mother, but believed that Chou didn’t follow the payback plans, and he is without remorse, he’d charged him on abuse to death on fourteen years and a half, and, on the damages part, he could pay a fine.  The highest courts maintained the rulings of the appeal courts.

As the trial was proceeding, the grandmother of the child showed up and started wailing, screamed at Chou, called him “inhumane, I must get you back for my granddaughter’s sake.”  Even though, Chou had reached a settlement of two million dollars with the infant’s father, Chou still hadn’t paid a single dime.

The verdict pointed out, in an online game, Ke had met Chou, who fixed up the air-conditioning systems, two years ago in May, Ke took along her daughter, and moved in with Chou in Yunlin, the one year three months old daughter would cry often, and Ke would used glue sticks to beat her own daughter’s back or legs, causing the child’s back to swell and bruise.

Chou claimed he was a psychic, claimed that the infant was possessed, not only had he used the punishment toys, rulers, to beat her up, he’d also burned the child with incense and beat her body with a clothe hanger, last June, he’d even fly kicked the child, the child flew across the living room, fell beneath the sofa, and, went into shock, thankfully, a friend of Chou’s performed CPR, to help save the child’s life.

A few days later, the young girl had her bottle, and as sitting on the toy car, Chou, all of a sudden, started hitting the child on the back of the head, the child cried two loud cries, then, fell into a coma, Chou once again, ask his friends to perform CPR, and lifted her to the hospital, the child never woke up again, she’d died six months later.  Chou claimed that he’d only lightly hit the child as a disciplinary method, and Ke claimed that she wasn’t there, but the courts didn’t believe them.

And there are still a TON of parents who are NOT supposed be parents, in this case, the man has emotional problems, and he took his anger of whatever out on the girlfriend’s young daughter, and, fourteen years is still too lenient, these sort of LOSERS should be locked away for L-I-F-E, if you ask me!

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This X-Rated Game We Were Forced to Play

We were forced, to play this X-rated game, that we didn’t even want to be a part of when we were children, but, for survival’s sake, we had, played this X-rated game.

This X-rated game we were forced to play, it was to satisfy his needs (ewwwwwwwwwww, and don’t even!!!), he’d watched his children, FUCK each other silly, and, he’d given his sons tips on fucking his daughters, and, he’d even “demonstrated” to them, how it should be done.

This X-rated game we were forced to play, I will NOT have it anymore, you hear!!!  You come near me, I will SLICE and DICE, and, off, goes your PENISES!  This X-rated game, we were forced to play, we had no choice but to, because he’d threatened to take away his love for us, and, because of how young we once were, we needed his love as kids, and so, we did what we were told, and gotten exposed too young………

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The Father Was Abusive to the Infant, the Mother Covered for Him, the Nine Year Old Daughter Told the Truth About All of It

So, from the mouths of babes, huh???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Lee and his girlfriend, Chien had a baby for two months, but because Lee got into a foul mood several times, and the baby won’t stop crying, he’d beaten up the infant, to the point, that the infant’s sense of hearing and sight become permanently damaged; as the Hsinbei District Attorney’s Office questioned him, he’d denied the allegations, claimed that it was an accident, that he’d dropped his daughter to the ground, and his girlfriend covered for him too, and the D.A. didn’t believe them, and, prosecuted him based off of severe damage charges.

The twenty-something Lee is a construction worker, he’d dated Chien, and, Chien had a nine year old child from her last relationship, last year, she’d had a baby with Lee, the four of them lived together; because Lee was too tired from work, he was usually in a foul mood, when the infant cries or gets too rowdy, he’d slapped her cheeks, head, chest, back, and feet.

Chien and her nine-year-old daughter both witness the infant getting beaten up by Lee, and knew that there were multiple bruises on the young child, but because he’s their main source of income, they’d put up with him; last year, when the infant was just two months old, Lee had beaten her up again, and when Chien came home, the child was already falling into a coma,, she’d rushed her to the hospital.

The hospitals diagnosed her, that her sense of hearing is permanently damaged, her optical nerves had deteriorated, along with other health problems, and they’re all due to being abused, the hospital believed that abuse was what was happening, and notified the police and the city government, and the social workers had sent the nine-year-old and the infant to foster homes now.

When the D.A. questioned, Lee admitted to slapping the infant’s face, but, the other parts were caused by bumping into the stairs when he carried her somewhere, or from accidental falls; as for the day of the hospitalizations, he’d accidentally knocked the child off the bed while he was in a fight with Chien, and Chien had corroborated with his statements.

But the nine-year-old’s testimony, said that she saw Lee beaten his younger sister, slammed the infant down onto the bed; the doctor also confirmed, that the damages weren’t caused in a day’s time, and that if she’d fallen off on her own, it couldn’t have caused this sort of damage, that it must be caused by external forces, and it proves, that the infant was abused, and so, the D.A. believed, that Lee did, hurt the child.

We still have an abuser/enabler relationship here, the man abused his own child, while his girlfriend covers for him over, over AND over again, probably out of fear too, who knows, but the point is, another infant girl got beaten to near death, and, someone MUST pay for that, and the only one who told the truth here, IS the nine-year-old older sister!

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