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The Next One Will be Better

Caught him cheating, and so, it’s, break up time!  Translated…

The summer evenings, with that, smoky, scent and the breezes so gentle, I’d asked the person I was into to a date at Bitan, and it was getting late, I’d worried, that he couldn’t make the final trains, I’d told him to, go ahead.  Normally, it was me who watched her leave, but this time, he’d told, “every time I’d left before you, this time, I will, watch you go then.”, the two of us stood still at the gates, and I couldn’t, turn him down, and so I’d, told him, to be safe on his way home tonight.

It was midnight, as I was ready to pick up my scooter to ride him, I’d bumped into my professor who was just getting out of a dinner party. We’d chatted for a bit, as I’d, ridden out, readied to go home, I saw the passenger riding on the back of the electric scooter, she looked, more and more, familiar, and I was shocked to realize, that it was my date who’d said she will see me off first; at this time, he’d wrapped his arms around the waist of another man, the two were laughing and talking together.

It was like the primetime soap scripts, I was, shocked, afterwards I’d called him up, and he’d admitted that he had, many whom pursued him, that I was, merely, one of the, many.  I got angry, and stopped all contacts with him, I’d told my friend about this, and he’d only smiled and responded, “thank heavens you found out early, the next one will be, better!”, I’d clasped my hands together, “Grateful I am to you, professor, you’re, with all the, foresights I needed!”

And so, had you not bumped into your professor on that night, you wouldn’t have been delayed, and had you not been delayed, and you wouldn’t have caught your boyfriend with another guy, and so, it was bumping into your professor, that was exactly what fate ordered for you, to find that your boyfriend was, a cheat!

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He’d Gone to the Motels to Have an Affair, Busted by the Dual-Evidence of the Same Tracks of the Text Messages He’d Shared with the Woman

This still just showed, how you WILL get CAUGHT, with your electronic footprints that became, permanent, inerasable!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Lin from Kaohsiung shared the flirtatious conversations on an communication app, they’d talked about motels, and the types of room they were checking into, Lin’s wife saved the dialog, sued for a million dollars N.T.  Lin denied having gone to the motel, but the judge reviewed the records, found that Chang held the information on checking into the motel, that there’s a “compiled similarity” of the ad they’d received in the texts, believed that both had damaged Lin’s wife’s right as a spouse, mandated that they pay her $200,000N.T.s.

Lin had been married to his wife for nine years, last year in June, his wife found him having the intimacies he’d shared with his coworker, Chang, the two not only messaged each other “love you”, “love you, another new place we can chat with you, yay!”, and they’d started discussing openly the rooms of motel in Xiaogang, the cost, and in the end, they’d made a date to go for a stay last year on July 18t..

As Lin’s wife found out, she’d saved the dialogue as evidence, and sued them both for a million dollars N.T.  Although both claimed that they were only coworkers, that nothing had occurred between them, that the FB account that Lin’s wife found the dialogue on didn’t belonged to either of them.

The judge investigated and found, that Chang’s FB and LINE ids were identical, that there was the photo on Lin’s FB with Chang and her daughter together, that the Messenger dialogue was Lin’s photo too, that the English names were identical, confirmed that the conversation that Chang’s wife showed as evidence were from Chang and Lin.

And, on the afternoon of July 18th of last, Chang had the registration records of checking into the motel at Xiaogang, denied having stayed in the same room as Lin.  But as the judge reviewed over the communication records of Lin, found that on the day at 4:52 in the afternoon, he got a texted ad, which traced back to the cell tower closest to the motel’s location.  And, at two in the afternoon, Chang also received the exact same ad, and the location of the cell tower was the same with where Lin had received his text, so the suspicions of them being at the same motel stood valid.

The judge found, that public figures going into the motels with members of the opposite sex other than their spouses, had been means to imply an affair was happening, which showed, that the motels aren’t a social place for married people, the two had texted one another the flirtatious messages, and entered into the motel together, that it’d passed the boundaries of normal man and woman interactions, sentenced that Chang and Lin needed to pay Lin’s wife $200,000N.T.s, and this can still be appealed.

And so, this just showed, that there’s the electronic footprints, not just the paper trails anymore, as everything’s gone high-tech these days, to get found, that if you were cheating on your spouses, you will get caught, and get SUED by your spouses (one at a time!), and you and the one you’d had that extramarital affair with will both end up losing BIG times!

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Catch Me, Cheating…

Oopsy, yeah, I got, caught…

Catch me, cheating, yeah, uh, good luck on it, because if I WERE to cheat (still NOT going “there”!), nobody’s gonna, catch ME, ‘cuz I know how to, cover up these tracks of mine, and I surely as hell, will NOT leave ANY traces of my cheating means around the house for you to find.

Catch me, cheating, yeah, you wish, ‘cuz I got MORE morals than you, @#$%ER (maxed out!), besides, ain’t got NO need of that sort (and, EWWWWWWWW, G-R-O-S-S!), besides, I still recall how it’d felt, to have that proby thing shoved UP my you-know-where from back in ’07, and let me tell you, it did NOT feel “good”, and the sole purpose of that shitty procedure was to check out my “insides”…

Catch me cheating, uh, you’re gonna have to use those hard-earned dollars you’re currently NOT making, to hire a TON of P.I.’s, to track me down, to station every one of those IDIOTS (no offense!), at EVERY single corner of the streets I’d been sighted on, an you still won’t catch ME cheating, ‘cuz???

and this, is what I will, NEVER get found, doing…

Oh yeah, I had NEVER cheated, not even on a test, although I had gotten accused of cheating back in the elementary years, but I don’t think I even sat next to that guy that my classmates accused me of cheating off of, and they’d accused me simply because?  I got the EXACT same questions WRONG on that exam as he had, and no, I still did NOT cheat on that either, ‘k???

Caught me cheating, you won’t, ‘cuz, I ain’t no cheater like you, and I know that you will, cheat on me, given your past histories with all them bitches and whores you’d ever, SHOVED your DICK into.

So yeah, how the FUCK can you measure up to the QUEEN again?  Oh wait, you can’t.

And that, is that!

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Wife or Lover

A loser, caught between his own wife, and his, whore, and it wasn’t until that the other woman (his whore) made the decision to start over with another brand new man, the affair had, finally, ended!  Call this, the confession, of a CHEAT if you will!  Translated…

I admit, that I fell for, another woman, the night I’d asked that girl to sleep with me away from home, I’d found, I’d started, falling deep.  After all, for a man, from loving a woman, to being in love with a girl, that means, that happiness must, learn to, coexist, with the, heartbreaks.  I’d met a ton of women, but only as I held her, I’d be reminded, that I was, cheating on my wife of twenty years, like how back in college, I’d, dated two girlfriends at the same time, I am, ashamed of myself.

Making a choice normally comes with, comparing the two, disappointment, and destruction of a relationship.  I’d cherished and loved people, not wanted to hurt women and cost them to waste their youth away on me, actually, I don’t want to ignore my own, instincts the most, in my maturity, I would’ve, never imagined, I could, feel my heart skipping a beat in time again, the love came, out of, nowhere, her smile started, surfacing before me, and it’d, made me feel the bliss, I’d loved, seeing me, reflected, from her, brown-colored, pupils.

like this…

and it’s still, ALL the man’s fault here! Photo from online

It’s not that I don’t love my own wife, I do, everybody knew it, I’d help around the house when I got home, took my kids to cram school, kiss my own wife passionately, and made love to her too.  I believe, that staying low key, and keeping this as is, can keep everybody safe, and, being in power, I’d given all my time, my money, as well as, my love too, and not wanted get anything back from, anybody else.

But on that day, as she’d, started, feeling something for another man, I couldn’t help but feel that heartache inside of me, and that sense of loss, and that was when I’d realized, that I too, had been, too afraid, to choose, fearing that I may not have, everything I ever, wanted.

And yeah, this is the mindset of a cheater here, he can’t let go of his wife, out of obligation, out of, responsibilities, as she’d kept his home so well, birthed out his children, and yet, he still couldn’t help but fall for that, younger woman, who’d, made him feel, more alive, that’s just the general state of mind for men who cheat, they wanted it both ways.

Well, here’s that NEWSFLASH (again!) for you, you mother FUCKING sons-of-bitches (still not the four-legged varieties, because at LEAST we can all train those to behave themselves!), we want it both ways, it’s just that most women (this might be a generalization, I wouldn’t know here!) are bound by morals, and the society’s views of women who cheat, being labeled as “whores”, “tart”, “harlots”, etc., etc., etc., that would keep us all way, from cheating on our, husbands, and besides, women are more prone to emotional/psychological affairs, meaning that we do NOT act on our urges to SCREW!

And so, that is, that.

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The Other Woman Fought for the Inheritances, the Judge Found Her Loss for Claiming the Alimonies & Child Supports as She Has a Viable Way of Making a Living

On the rights to the deceased assets of the illegitimate child and the mother of the illegitimate child, off of the Newspapers, translated…

As a loved one dies, someone unknown to you, suddenly appeared, wanted a share of the deceased assets?   The man, Hsu had been established in his career, because he didn’t have a child in his marriage, he’d gone against his wife’s back, had an extramarital affair, and had a son, and, five years later, Hsu died suddenly, the other woman went through the laws, and, confirmed that her son had the right to Hsu’s assets, then, she’d SUED the wife of Hsu to pay another half a million for child support too, the members of the legal realm stated, that there’s the strict rules of child support, and because you’d paid the support when you’re still alive, there’s, no guarantee that after you’re dead, the support will keep on being paid to the individuals.

Civil Law 1149 pointed out, that those who are raised by those who’d died, should have the relatives of the deceased to decide to what extent the child or spousal support should keep going, to split up the inheritance accordingly.  Simply stated, this is applicable to those whom there’s no legal bounds of support, a sort of an after-death support.

Based off of the courts’ investigations, Hus met a Chinese woman, Wei back in 2015 and started dating her from the tea rooms, he’d bought her a stay, and paid her for her living expenses, while Wei reproduced a son for Hsu by 2018, then in 2020, Hsu died suddenly, Wei had lost her economical support, and quickly filed for the paternity suit with the courts of her own son.

And, although her son had the right to inherit the assets of Hsu, but Wei believed that she got nothing, and so she’d quoted Civil Code 1149, hoping to get the relatives to come together to a meeting, to consider giving her part of Hsu’s assets as money for her livelihood, but all of Hsu’s next-of-kin didn’t respond back, and so she’d gone to the courts, demanded that Hsu’s wife have to pay her half a million dollars N.T. out of the total she’d inherited from her deceased husband.

The judge reviewed over the data to investigate, found that Wei had sent the letters to Hsu’s direct blood relatives, the distant relatives, a total of twelve members of his families, and asked for the meetings of the families to be held, but, none of those whom she’d written the letters to responded back to her, this gave her the right to take the matters to court.

Hsu’s father testified, that Wei told him, that Hsu didn’t have a child, and wanted her to reproduce one for him, and Wei also produced the records of their conversations on the matter, of how he’d helped taken care of their son, and cooked, the judge found, that Wei’s status of cohabiting with the woman was legal, and that there’s the facts to prove, that he was, involve in the upbringing of his own son with Wei.

But in the end, Wei still didn’t win the child support claims, reason being the definition of child support.  The judge based the rules of Code 1149 being how the death of the individual, causing the inherited unable to support themselves, that was why this law was to set up to protect the wellbeing, the key here is that the individual couldn’t maintain the basic needs of life for oneself, and is reliant on others to help.

The judge reviewed over Wei’s financial records, that in these few years, she’d not just had a car registered to her, there weren’t any viable assets, but Wei was born in 1985, still able-bodied and capable of making a living on her own, Wei didn’t deny that, plus there’s no proof that in order to care for her young offspring, she couldn’t work, that her conditions didn’t qualify to “unable to sustain life, and lacking the skills to provide for oneself”, that’s why Wei is found to lose the claims of the inheritance of the man she’d reproduced a son for.

And so, this is a “win”, I suppose, for the wife, because this other woman wanted to get the assets from the man she reproduced a son for, who’d died, and he was rich, and she’d wanted a piece of the pie, that’s why she’d sued, that’s what this sounded like, and, if this were truth, then, the woman is really awful, she’d already, broken someone’s family up, and now, as the man who had an affair with her died, she’d still, wanted a piece of his assets, uh, yeah right, if the judge allowed her to claim the man’s assets, then, that would be, INJUSTICE, but he didn’t!

But this is still not, justice, because imagine the pains, the trials of the wife, what she must’ve weathered through, as her husband cheated on her, @#$%ED around with HIS whore, and, nobody’s paying for that here!

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The Transfers

Moved in with his WHORE, thinking that his wife had NO clue, but, she’d, tracked him down, and now, he’d gotten that third strike, and, will soon be, kicked OUT of his own home!  The revenge of the wife, is soon to be, fulfilled here, translated…

The MRT Orange Route from Zhonghe to Sinchuang to Luzhou went past the stations one by one, stopped at Yong-An Market Station.

She exited, and hesitated, should she take the bus, or, a cab?

Orange Route 5 of the buses, not to save up on the commute, but because she wanted to delay getting to where she was going.

The stations ran through the display, one right after the next, and the next, and the next, the driver too, was kind enough, to remind the passengers, that the next station was the Zhongshan Road Intersection, she couldn’t delay getting off even if she’d wanted to.

She’d crossed the intersection based off of the map, turned into the alley, found that building, and, took out her cell phone, double checked the photo of the external of the building, it’s the right one.  She’d followed the delivery person in, outside the entrance, there were the scooters, and bicycles parked, somewhat, cramped, with the graffiti on the walls, the oil stains on the steps, making the apartment appeared, ancient.

Fifth floor, without the elevators, she’d felt, a bit, winded.  He’d only had the stents in his heart, and, isn’t agile enough to climb yet, how’d he get to his place?  Does he not worry at all?  In the early morning as he went out, he’d told, that he will be visiting an old friend, she’d reminded him, “don’t go get drunk, take good care of your heart.”

It’d dawned on her now, that she’d, not understood anything of him, what he was, after, really?

The long hallway with the apartment numbers one right after the next, and the next, she’d, followed the numbers down the line, and, found the number of the residence, and, the intel she bought with money, would be correct, she supposed.

The steel gate had the screens, there was a corner of the screen missing, the gray paint on the steel door a bit, chipped off, the doorbell was the older style, the rectangular kind.  She lifted her hand up, her fingers curled, she’d started, tangling with herself.  Thought, seeing how I’m already here, I need the proofs!  Maybe, it isn’t, as I’d, imagined it.

The truth is about to get bust wide open, she’d, taken a deep inhale, reminded herself, that no matter what was on the other side, she’s not, to lose her, stance.

The doorbell rang, the voices came from within, the footsteps, the click of the lock, the steel gate, pushed, mildly open, a woman’s face came.  She’d seen her over hundreds of times before, and confirmed, that it was her all right, with the flattened features, no makeup on, the sweater she was wearing already fuzzed up, with the curling hairclip behind her head.  That’s what she looked like?

“Who are you?”, the woman’s hoarse voice, with the shock that reflected from her eyes, trying to keep her stature.

Without waiting for the woman to respond, she’d pulled the steel gate open, tilted her head in, and, surely, she saw her husband there, sitting on the couch, with a child of a little over a year old on his knees, feeding him using a small bowl.

And he’d told her, that he didn’t care if they could have children or not, turned out, he already had one.  And, to think, that she’d scheduled an appointment at the fertility clinic, to try one more time for his sake.

Her husband’s face turned pale, lips started trembling, his eyes went from confused, to fear, wanted to get up, but kept, falling down on that couch, patted his chest, made the “ah!  Ah!”, the woman rushed over to him, calling his name aloud.

His name, kept lying, in the spousal column of her identification card, and now, the name got, blurted, out of another, woman’s, lips.  She’d sighed, and, held back her urges, to want to go up and look, made her hands into a fist, then, turned around, and left.

Even if she’d, played the scenes over, over, over, and over again in her mind, however, as she came face to face with the truth, she’d not gotten emotional, acted like a madwoman, started screaming hysterically, and cried, she’d acted, unimaginably, calm and collected.

Heading down the stairs, the cold wind came in from the soles of her feet, headed upward, into her heart, she’d, rubbed her hands together, covered her face, and, wiped away the tears, that came out of the corner of her eye.  She’d decided to call the cab using her cell phone.  This time, she didn’t want to take the transfers, she was fatigued, and just wanted to, rush back to her mansion with the elevators, to plan, how to, eliminate her husband, to give him his, third, strike!

And so, this is how, this woman had, acted, so calmly (it’s scary!), to confirm what she probably already knew of her husband’s cheating, and, what comes next can be, expected, this LOSER who kept a whore on the side will be paying alimony for the rest of his life, and he still has an illegitimate son to care for, and the other woman too.  Suits him right!

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On the Matter of Alexander Leehom Wang: from Peeping into the Private Lives of the Stars, to the Collective Loss of Hoard Responsibilities

How the case of infidelity, the bad behaviors of the singer, Wang is only, the tips of the iceberg, of a bigger problem of this, society of ours here!  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

The singer-songwriter’s divorce became a nuclear bomb for the Asian entertainment circle, the rants online is never-ending.  Although he’d announced his temporary exit of the entertainment industry, but the affair, his sex addictions are still, being discussed by the entertainment industries, and, the ricochet bullets are flying all over the places now.  The reputation that Wang built up on himself of being a gentle, honest, good man, a high quality performer, all destroyed in an instant, and this became a mirror of truth, reflected out the deteriorating culture of Taiwanese entertainment industry, and the wayward shift of values in the society in Taiwan, and this, should be the topic we need to discuss, aside from this “show” that we’re, currently, watching right now.

This time, although Lee, Wang’s wife, is the less capable party of this marriage, but, she’d used her sharp words, and her accurate timing, to HIT Wang back, and she’d scored, and the online community noted her as the “hammer of Thor”.  After the physical abuse of the legislator, Kao by her boyfriend, Lin, the people are more critical of violence, of the party that wasn’t, faithful enough in a marriage, it’d shown, how Taiwan IS, progressing, toward a more gender equal society.  On the other hands, the incident of Leehom Wang also showed of the false image of a “high quality” performer, the weakening of morality, and responsibilities, and the trends of him being a “giant baby” and “mama’s boy” got out too.  the seemingly free and open environment, is actually, quite the opposite, plus the manipulations from the press, it’d, weakened the citizens means to check the facts before they take their sides.

The entertainment industries are with a ton of good looking men and women, and it’d become, a hotbed for sex scandals.  But, on the matter of image completely collapsing, Wang’s case was the first few; reason for it wasn’t because he’s divorced from Lee, but because of his bad means of handling these, crises.  For instance, toward the accusations brought against him, he’d neither affirmed, nor denied, not made an apology for his, wrongdoing, and, his father’s coming out to speak on his behalf, it’d shown further, how his marriage had, gone bad.  Plus, using the Japanese old name to refer to Lee, his father had, caused even more of the effects of what he’d, wanted to, achieve.  Especially of how whenever Wang got into trouble, he’d looked to his parents to solve it for him, but, not fought for the custody, or even, the rights of joint custody for his own three children, it’d made us note, how irresponsible he truly is, toward the society, as well as, his own, family.

stars who were caught, cheating! Found online

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With Lee’s disclosures of Wang’s many bad behaviors, with the embellishments from the paparazzi, we also observed, the abnormal biosphere of the entertainment industry.  Of these, some of the singers used the idolizing of the fans, to extort, and to deceive; some of the artists even used the interactions with other artists, stars, to increase ones’ own fame, and popularity; and once something happened to the individuals, they’d immediately, severed off connections, or tried covering for the individuals.  In the movie industries, are there only the sex, the rich, the fun and party, that’s, common to all?  In, seeing the stars that we are closely relating to started derailing from the right means of behaving, wouldn’t the friends warn each other, or would they just, watch the individuals, keep on, heading down that track of, self-destruction?

In recent years, the media only cared about the number of hits, and it’d, added to the expansion of the cases of infidelity by Leehom Wang, and some of the already forgotten cases are dug back out again.  And because of this, in exposing each other’s bad behaviors, there were the performers who’d, overdosed and rushed to the hospitals; the singers posting the warning phrases toward sex, and, members of the online community immediately reacted that it was similar to Wang’s bad behaviors.  This not just, added to the heated debate, but it would also, add to how the public sees the members of the entertainment industry as, “All the same”, and, those in the movie industries, the singers who are wise, should take heed.  And, the intelligent members of the audience, also need to remain rational, to not get fooled by the performances, or follow the crowds and blame whoever it is that the crowds are, blaming.

The public issues votes just ended, Tsai’s government is doing the budget case of the city and county of Hsinchu’s merging together, Wang’s affairs, sex addictions is covering all the discussion spaces online, surely, the president is considering the matter.  The former head of the county of Kaohsiung, Yang beckoned the public on FB, “to go easy on Leehom Wang”, and stated, that there are, eighty, ninety percent in the politics who have the affairs, that we should, demand more about them.  Set aside that Yang may have exaggerated, but, from the Department of Health & Welfare Sanitations, the Medical Welfare Corporation C.E.O., Wang, the head of public health insurance, Lee with their cases of infidelity coming out into the open, the government took a laissez-faire attitude to, wasn’t this due to the debauchery of morality of the persons in power too?  So, what’s the difference between Wang being noted as a “giant baby” and this?

Looking at the end of Wang’s marriage, from how he’d, disregarded his public status, to how the media had, exploited and consumed the stories, it all showed, that this, is due to a lacking in social responsibilities.  In the past three decades, Taiwan had, quickly changed, the values of old is no longer fitting to today, and, as we’d lost those old values, and still not yet found new ones to follow, all we have, are the, exaggerated, mottos, and all of these are what’s feeding to, the Leehom Wangs right now!

And so, this brings out the bigger problem, of how these role models of society, singers, performers, presidents of countries aren’t leading by better example, and so, naturally, everything become corrupt, from the top, down, and, because the very top is rotten, there’s no way of those at the bottom, to not be, rotten.

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Why are You, So Awful, to Your, Unfaithful, Husband?

A case of, blaming the VICTIM here!!!

Why are you, so awful, to your, unfaithful, husband???  Uh, isn’t it, obvious?  He CHEATED on me, and what, I’m just supposed to, forgive AND forget, and take him back in my no-longer-in-existence, loving arms, provide him with a soft place to land, a TIT, to suck on?  (Wait, isn’t that his MAMA’s “job”???).

Why are you, so awful, to your, unfaithful, husband???  I mean, there are, worse things than, cheating, like if your husband’s a bad drunk, and would BEAT you after he comes home at night, drunk?  Or, that he’d, owed, a ton of, gambling debts, and you’re, constantly, getting harassed at work or at home, by the collectors, there are, WORSE things, than having a man, cheat on you.

and, here’s, how they will, make it up, to us, women!

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Why are you, so awful, to your, unfaithful, husband???  That’s not, the “air” of what a woman should be!  A woman should be, forgiving, after all, he had, admitted to you, that he was, cheating on you.  Why are you, so awful, to your, unfaithful, husband???  He had, already, made it up to you, by registering the properties, the cars, under your name already, and he’s providing for the school tuitions of your children, what MORE, do you want?

And this, is a classic case, of going after the one who’d been, wronged, the one who has the reason, the proofs, of wrongdoing in her hands, and this is still just, BULLSHIT, of how you, mother FUCKERS, as well as the rest of the fucking god damn society just, expects us women, to TAKE it, now, think on this: if it were us women who’d, cheated on you mother fuckers (not name-calling!), will you, men, be so understanding, so kind, to forgive us all for our, infidelity?  Yeah, I think not!

And therefore (⸫), you mother @#$%ERS (maxed out!), don’t got, NO right, to ask us to forgive you when you cheat!

on and this too!

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And, losers, DO stop, double-standarding, us all already, huh???

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The Idols’ Means of, Self-Destruction

How the star had, flushed HIS own, reputations, D-O-W-N, that DRAIN here!  Observations on the infidelity of the singer Wang and the impacts of his bad behaviors on his wife, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

On the day of the public policy voting, had the members of the public paid enough concerns over the issues as they are doing Wang’s affair, then, the issues would’ve all been, passed.  But unfortunately, all people were seeing, was, the loser behaviors of an idol, his infidelity in the marriage, causing his divorced wife’s nuclear accusations, destroying his, reputations; then, with his aging father’s statement from overseas, to support him, which only, brought more, questions to the matter.

That day, Wang returned from Beijing to Taiwan, was, down and out, it’d stated, how he was even more lacking in handling of his own problems, than how he’d, treated his own, marriage.  The image that the couple gave was being in love, that they’re a, perfectly, happy, family, and yet, behind the curtains, the spotlights, everything became, rotten and, rancid.  Especially, after they broke up, the “parting peacefully”, this common courtesy can’t even be, achieved, they’d still, kept disclosing one another’s disgusting news on the matter of money, so ugly.

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It was Wang who’d, begun this, “self-destruct” mode of behaviors.  If he were truly, the same in and out, and kept that image of a good man, gentle, taking care of his own families, then, even as his wife became ever the more, malicious toward him, it couldn’t, damage a tiny bit of his, reputation.  And yet, his booty calls with other women, calling on hookers, all of these accusations are, too thrilling, and he can’t rebut, no longer do all of his friends cut off, and stopped following him on Instagram, it’d even gotten the close female friends to get on the air, to clarify their own names and relationships, with him.  So, how did an idol, fall so hard like this?

After the incident, within a day’s time, there were, THREE companies that ended the spokesperson signing with him.  Which suggested, that the masks he wore as an idol is, completely, stripped of, and now, nobody wants to be anywhere, in the vicinity of, having anything to do with him.  The paparazzi worker in China stated, “Wang’s elegant existence in China is now, over!”; from the “high-quality performer”, he’d fallen, to absolutely, nothing, how quickly everything, crumbled down for him;  And comparing, Weng’s break up with his wife, Barbie Hsu’s divorce would be considered, much, much more, civilized.

And so, this still just showed, how all it takes, is ONE bad behavior, and, your reputations get flushed down that drain, and, everybody will HATE you for what you did to your wife, cheating on her, and it don’t matter how you were formerly noted, how quickly, they all, crumbled here, well, that’s, the stars for ya!

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His Perfect Image, Too Good to Be True, Twenty-Six Years of Reputation, Went Down the Drains Instantly

How his, original, PERFECT image, shattered, instantly, too quickly, the wheels of fate had, turned, against him now!  The results of the singer’s cheating on his own wife, that’s been caught by the, paparazzi, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

It’d been twenty-six years since Leehom Wang became a star, he carried that reputation of a “high-quality” idol with him to date, he’d received the awards for best male singer in Mandarin of the Golden Music Awards twice, and had been the nominees of the producer, songwriter categories, everybody knew him well for his achievements in music.  And because of his looks, he was chosen by Leslie Cheung’s self-directed film, and had the opportunities to work with the major movie stars, Aaron Kwok, Jackie Chan, Sammo Hung, and other major actors from Hong Kong, even Ang Lee had him as the second male lead in Lust, Caution, didn’t care of how he was noted for how inexperienced in the movie scene.

the perfect image of that “boy next door”…

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In the eyes of the famed directors, the predecessor movie stars, he was noted as talented, good looking, with higher education.  In the eyes of the audience, he gave off that flair of sunny, good-natured, good guy feel about him, plus he had an outstanding background, although, on his way to stardom, there were, the gossips about him, it’d not, had the adverse effects, he was like that crystal clear stream that flowed through the world, too good, to be, real, and even IF someone had, doubted if he is the same, on and off the stages, after marrying Lee, who has the major good qualities, all the gossips about his sexual orientation died off, he’d advanced, successfully, from a good natured boy, into a good father to his children, a good husband to his wife, continued to have all the love from his fans.

And, with the movie, “Lust, Caution”, directed by Ang Lee that he had a role in, he successfully entered into Hollywood, and partnered up with his costar, Tang Wei, and starred in “Blackhat” with Chris Hemsworth, but the sales, the commentaries suffered a waterloo.  After his many defeats in the movie industries, he didn’t find a steady place as a host of T.V. programming, but with the music he performed, he was still, stable on, in the past, he’d acted as the mentor on the singing competitions, solidified his status as a major star.

his “ex” lost her virginity to him at age sixteen! Photo from online

Had it not been how his marriage fell apart that got found out, not due to how his ex-wife, Lee posted that long post in the late nights, busting ALL of his bad behaviors in the marriage, his reputation as a highly acclaimed idol may not have gone down the drains overnight.  He’d once directed a movie, “Love in Disguise”, the ticket sales didn’t do as well, but the theme song of “Something You Can’t Not Know” still got sung on today, and the lines of, “there are, so many things about me, that you don’t know!”, which is, too, ironic based off of what’s happened.

And so, this guy made that mistake of a common man, it’s understandable, because, he’s a MAN, and he had the needs, but, because he was also, a public figure, a singer, a movie star, etc., etc., etc., that’s why, the world is now, putting him under that microscope, and, his ex-wife’s post, destroyed the reputation he’d worked so hard to save, and it’d, crumbled his hard work to reach stardom for the past twenty-six years.

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