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Brought Up that Way

“You can’t blame him”, she’d told, all her friends, as they all showed their condolences toward how she got that shiner on her eye, along with those bruised cheeks, again!

Brought up that way, that, was the sorry excuse that she’d used, to rationalize why he would take the downs of his life out on her!  Brought up that way, excusing his bad behaviors, how long, can you keep on, lying to yourself?  I know how much you wanted to believe in his FALSE promises of how he’ll change, how he will NEVER lay a hand on you, but, by NOT taking actions against HIS abuse, you’re only, getting yourself deeper…

Brought up that way, you’d been, using that, to EXCUSE his bad behaviors, and how many times had he hit you?  Gosh, I dunno, let me C-O-U-N-T………Brought up that way, yeah, so, let’s, examine the situations, shall we?  So, based off of that way of logic, shouldn’t ALL men who were raised under abuse, BE abusive?  But, NOT all MEN raised by abuse are abusive to their spouses (although the occurrences of abuse is higher, than the occurrences of not!).

Brought up that way?  So, I can BEAT the SHIT out of someone, when I feel awful about me, if I saw my father, beating on my mother every single night of my childhood?  Or, can I say those “accidental” hurtful words to you, because I heard daddy, yelling those mean things to mommy, and, they actually thought, that I was, already, asleep, as their arguments occurred, LATE in the nights?

Stop making excuses already, brought up that way?  Yeah, I too, WAS raised up by VERBAL, EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL abuses, as well as SEXUAL molestations, and for that, I’d taken it all out, on my D-O-L-L-S, ‘cuz they can’t fight BACK, so, don’t tell me I don’t know SHIT ‘bout scapegoating here!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The Washington Post Criticized that Obama Had Brain-Washed the Americans “What Happened in Syrian is None of Our Business”

International affairs, is it, our business or is it not???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

The commentaries on Washington Post pointed out, that the most accidental achievement that President Obama has internationally was that he made the Americans feel, that the tragedies in Syrian was not the Americans’ responsibilities.

The commentaries aid, that ten years ago, the conflicts in Darfur, Sudan had caused humanitarian problems, the American churches got involved in saving Darfur; in 2001, the IS destroyed the two most precious statues of Buddha, it’d shocked the world.

Today, the IS bombed the ancient sites of Palmyra; half of Syrians citizens are without homes, and over a quarter of a million were killed, but, in the U.S. the calls for “Saving Darfur” back then wasn’t changed into “Saving Syria”.

The Americans are not enthusiastic about saving Syrian, one of the reason being the president, Obama.  He kept consoling the people, that not doing anything is the intelligent, and most fitting to the morals.  He’d often stated, that there’s nothing that the U.S. can do, that the forces fighting in Syrian are a bunch of “doctors, farmers, and pharmacists”.

He’d also said, that if U.S. intervened, it can only make matters worse.  When he was interviewed by the “New Republic” Magazines in 2013, he’d stated, “I’m thinking about our limits, not our warring abilities or our capabilities.”

He’d asked, “If there are millions being slaughtered in Syrian, and, tens of thousands being murdered in Congo, which country do I offer aid to?”, it’d also hinted, that if the U.S. can’t solve every single problem in the world, then, maybe, they should just, stand by and watch.

Obama promised, that he will take actions, if the U.S. can no longer cope with just watching from the sidelines, the goings on in Syrian, or when something truly awful happens; training the resistance army, set up safety zones in the borders of Turkey.  But, once the heat subsided, then, the plans would be abandoned, or downsized.

The Washington Post pointed out, that the supporters of Obama don’t see what he was doing as a “necessary evil”, which was, a great achievement.  And, the U.S. finally led the world with its brains and NOT its emotions, and learned to be humble, to not be egotistical.  The realists pointed out, that when the U.S. is guided by the ideals and the emotions, then, troubles appear, like the black hawk helicopters getting shot down in Somalia.

The media said, that if Obama’s doing nothing can yield better results, then, they have nothing more to say.  But, the actual situation had turned into a humanitarian disaster.  Iraq had become a nation of terrorists, and, Syria now has chemical weapons being used, the Islamic Nation is calling on millions of foreign soldiers, and is already, threatening the safety of the U.S. soil, and the crowds of refugees are causing European instability.

So, why do you think that President Obama is now, taking this laissez faire approach, when apparently, the WORLD is requiring that the U.S. get intervened?  Perhaps, because, the president is now, realizing, that the trend of U.S. behavior in involving itself in war in history, like the war in Iraq when Bush was the president, along with all the wars that don’t involve the U.S. originally, and, butting in, in all those times in history only caused U.S. casualties, and, Obama’s not doing anything is also, pissing people off, but, examine the events in history, like how the war in Iraq had worked out for the Bush presidency…

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Using Religion as an Excuse, Pulled His Wife Along, with His Arms Around His “Spare”, They’d Gone on a Trip Together

This man has the BALLS, I’ll give you that!  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Lu had an affair, he’d even set up so that his wife, and his spare, Hsu and he went together, on a worshipping trip; he’d lied to his wife, that Hsu was a coworker, and lied to Hsu about how his wife was his ex-wife, and, he was able to, get away.  Later on, Lu started becoming suspicious, and, his wife checked his cell, and found, that her husband was having an ongoing affair, and the other woman was pregnant, she sued her husband and Hsu for adultery.

As the Taipei District Attorney’s Office was investigating the details of the cases, Lu paid his wife, and she’d dropped the case against him, and, Hsu was found, to not known about Lu was already married, and yesterday, both of them got the charges dropped against them.

Lu who works in the transportation industry has a son with his wife, during 2013, he’d met Hsu, who was two years older than he, they became a couple; because of Lu’s job, he’d often taken Hsu out on trips, and, because they are both very religious, they’d gone to the temples.

At the start of last year, Lu took his wife and Hsu on a worshipping group trip, Lu lied to his wife about Hsu being his coworker, and his wife believed him, but, after that trip the three of them took together, Lu had found an assortment of excuses, to go to work early and to come home late, his wife realized that something wasn’t quite right, started zooming in on her husband’s whereabouts.

Last August, Lu’s wife snuck into her husband’s text message to his own mother, and it was about how he admitted to having a “spare wheel”, and she’d found another text of Hsu’s words of anger to her husband after they had a fight, it’d mentioned, “These two children are my pains forever, you wouldn’t know”, that, was when Lu’s wife realized, that the “coworker” her husband talks about was actually his whore.

As the D.A. prosecuted the case, Hsu admitted to having sex with Lu, but claimed that she didn’t know he was already married; Lu also told, that he didn’t tell Hsu that he was already married, and so, the D.A. believed, that there was no proof, of Hsu knowing, that Lu was already married.

Yeah, uh, you’ve GOT to be shitting me, right?  What the F***?  And this man still hid behind the BIG shield called “religion”, wow!  And, this still just shows, how BAD they can behave, IF we don’t keep them in check!

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Properly Dressed, Just Talking, Doesn’t Count as Soliciting? He’d Only Fondled and Not Had Sex…She Got the Money She

Yeah, uh, you’ve GOT to be SHITTING me here, right???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A woman, Pan was accused of solicitations at a motel by the police, and she was fined $5,000N.T.s based off of the laws that protected orders in the society, she felt it was unjustifiable, claimed that her john claimed to have erectile dysfunction, and that they’d merely touched each other, with their clothes on, that they never engaged in sexual intercourse, she’d taken the fine slips to the courts to appeal it.  The Taipei District Court believed that the police didn’t specify the charges clearly enough, found that Pan won, and dismissed the charges against her, Pan didn’t have to get fined, and the police couldn’t fight for the rulings to be overturned.

The verdict stated, that sexual intercourse meant that someone IS paid for sexual behavior or inappropriate sexual actions, but in this case, whether or not Pan had been engaged in such activities, nobody can confirm.

The police accused, on the evening of May 6th this year, Pan met up at a hotel near to the CKS Memorial Hall with Lin, to have sexual intercourse, and Pan had taken $500N.T.s from Lin for sex, that she’d broken the laws of societal order, and so, the police were fining her $1,500N.T.s.

Pan stated that she’d known Lin for a long time, and the surveillance from the hotel showed that she’d entered into the suite by herself, that it goes against Lin’s claims of how they’d struck up a conversation in the hallways of the hotel then, walked into the suite together, and, the police had confiscated the $500N.T. that she had, which the police asked her to turn over, “The money was NOT for the sex”.

Lin testified, that he did meet Pan for the very first time in the hallways of the hotel, asked if Pan wanted to have a conversation with him, and so, after the two of them entered into his suite, he’d told Pan, that he had erectile dysfunction, then, Pan gave him a “hand job with his pants on, and fully dressed for about five seconds.”, he’d later paid Pan $500N.T. for it, that in the process of being touched by Pan, she’d never told him that she could do anything extra for him.

The judge had investigated into the matter, and pointed out, that based off of Lin’s testimonies, it couldn’t prove, that they did have an agreement to have sex for money, and that the police couldn’t make the decisions, that they were selling and buying sexual activities based off of the fact that before Lin left the hotel room, he had paid Pan.

This will open up, a HUGE door for those johns and the whores, after all, we’re NOT doing anything that is DESTROYING the orders of the society, I’m merely touching him, with HIS pants on, and I didn’t ask her to give ME a “handjob”, she did that all on her own, and besides, we’d NEVER agreed on the amount which I’d be paying her, yeah uh, this only opens UP that HUGE door, because this is, the blurred line of the law here.

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When Falsifying the Ingredients Became “Culture”

Unfortunately, this, had become, a TREND!

When falsifying the ingredients became “culture”, because the world is run by those god DAMN merchants with absolutely NO alternative motive other than making a FEW more EXTRA bucks, and so, that, is why there are so many poisonous foods, expired raw materials being used now.

When falsifying the ingredients became “culture”, there’s NO way to alter it, as this “culture” is already begun, and, until someone DIES from it, nobody’s gonna give a SHIT, because, it didn’t HIT them personally yet, and, even IF someone DIES, it’s still NOT our business, because, it’s not one of our own, who’d died because of it.

When falsifying the ingredients became “culture”, there’s just nothing we can do, to UP the morale, because, the world had, gone to the dogs, oh wait, it’s WORSE, than having the world GONE to the D-O-G-S, because at least, you CAN train your dogs, to SIT, STAY, now, be a good boy, and go FETCH!  But not with people………

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A Doctor Had an Affair with His Patient’s Daughter, the Price for His Infidelity: Three Million Dollars N.T.

The price this man paid, for HIS infidelity, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

A doctor, Shue, had an affair, with the daughter of one of his patients, he’d agreed to pay over $3.24 million N.T. in hush-money and the fees for abortion, but later on, he’d gone back on his words; the woman sued him, for him to fulfill his promises to her, the Highest Courts in Taiwan based off of their verbal agreements ruled that Shue must pay the woman the $2.57 million N.T., but he could still appeal to get the amount reduced.

The woman stated, that Shue was a famous doctor from a well-known general hospital in the city of Taipei, her mother was treated by him, and that, was how she’d met Shue; later on, Shue introduced her to work in China, after a few contacts, they’d gotten acquainted with one another.  In 2010, she’d gone on a trip to China to travel, and visited Shue, and she was raped by him, and got pregnant, suffered through the serious case of PTSD, later on, she’d gotten threatening text messages from Shue’s “spare” endlessly, she was under constant emotional duress, and because of how scared she was, she’d miscarried her child.

She said, that Shue had signed three settlement agreements on September 19th, October 3rd, and October 26th, agreed to pay her hush money, the fees for her rent for two years, twenty months of fees for her to live off of, but, he’d kept stalling, and had now paid a little over $670,000N.T. so far.

Toward the woman’s claims, the doctor, Shue stated, that he’d signed the agreement, in exchange for the woman, not going public about their affair, that this agreement was against the morality, so it was, invalid.  He’d also accused, that the reason he’d paid her the rents, because he wanted her out, but, later on, the woman didn’t live in China, she had NO right to ask for the rent amounts.  And, he’d agreed to pay the damages of miscarriage of two million dollars, and signed the contract, but, four years ago, he’d found, that she’d given birth to a child just the same, that she’d conned him, so, the woman has NO right to ask for the payments.

The highest courts believed, that the three agreements are to end the disagreements, that none had gone against the morality standards of the society; the doctor, Shue claimed to have been scammed, but four years ago, he’d texted the woman, “I hope you can become a fitting mother”, he knew that the woman is pregnant, but didn’t toss away the agreements he’d signed with her back then, the courts didn’t rule in his favor.

And so, this, is how a LOSER try to WEASEL out from paying for HIS affair, and in the end, he still couldn’t escape the punishments by the law, and this still just shows how NO good deeds go UNPUNISHED!

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The Murders of Kaohsiung Medical University, His Best Friend Fell in Love with a Younger Female Schoolmate for Just Two Days, He’d Murdered His Friend

See how short-lived the love was???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

The medical student from Kaohsiung Medical School, Huang, after murdering his close friend in the class, Liu, attempted suicide, the investigators found, that Huang had used the excuse of needing to get drunk and pouring his heart out, to get Liu to go to his place, and after he’d murdered Liu, he’d set up the crime scene to look like it was a fire, and pretended to be super drunk, actually, the breathalyzer showed that he hadn’t had anything to drink, and this had happened, two days, after Liu had started dating a younger schoolmate he had a crush on.

The police and investigators found, that the girl, on the 25th of last month had agreed to be Liu’s girlfriend, and that very day, they’d gone out together, on the late night of the 27th, Huang asked Liu to his place to drunk, and, Liu had even texted his girlfriend that “it would be awkward, meeting with Huang”, and, shortly after he’d arrived, Liu was murdered.

The school stated, that the girl didn’t show up for school on the 29th of last month, became emotionally unstable and needed the company of her family members, the school will give her counsel.  Her classmate told, that everybody knew that Huang and Liu were the best of friends, and she’d mentioned to her, that when she’s dating one of them, she must be extremely careful.

When Huang was murdering Liu, he’d texted the younger schoolmate using Liu’s cell, saying that he was “making food”, and the cell phone still wasn’t found to this date, the police got a hold of the records of communication, to see if there’s a third party who knew about it, to clarify the reasons Huang murdered, and to see if there are others who may know about what was going to happen, before it did.

The attorney, Chia-Rong Liu stated, that on the 29th of last month when Huang turned himself in, he’d stated, “My life is over”, “If I get sent to jail, then, I don’t want to live anymore”, although he’d agreed to turn himself in, but Huang didn’t have the courage to tell his father the truth, asked him to come the very next day; and Huang never showed, and, although he’d notified the police immediately, it was, too late already.

So, this, is how messy this love triangle got, and, the men were best of friends growing up too, and yet, love still came between them, because the girl whom the murderer loved didn’t reciprocate his affections, that made him angry, and, seeing how his best friend had gotten her attention, it’d made him even MORE furious, which was why he’d murdered his best friend, and, love IS the culprit, of this murder!

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