So this, is what the parents have to cope with, with a way-too-sensitive child at home, huh??? Translated…
“Your daughter is so very quiet—have you ever considered, taking her to the doctors?”
“Jody is so easily hurt. If she sees that other children were picked on, she’d cried too. When she’d heard sad stories, she’d cry. We don’t know what to do with her.”
“Everybody in the kindergarten is eager to participate in group activities, but, your son just refused. Is he also this stubborn at home too?”
Do these lines sound familiar? Of course, these words can get to you, as if, your kid’s the one with the problems, but, your child has a keen sense of observation, shows a lot of care and concerns toward others, and is very sensitive. You knew real well, that if you heed these words, forced him to get socialized, the child would be in a whole lot of pain. And, if you go with the flow of your child’s personality characteristics, s/he might be well-off. And still, as the same words keep coming up, you’d started doubting, whether or not you’re fitting as a parent, and that you might be responsible, for your child, behaving the way s/he does.
How to Education Children Who are Too Sensitive?
You feared, that you may be doing things wrong, worried that no one can help you. You might have already realized, that most of the parenting books all talked about “behavioral problems”, such as getting agitated easily, distracted, rough, attacking. From this angle, there’s NOTHING wrong with your child. There were NO mentions of the problems you’d encountered, eating problems, being too shy, nightmares, worries, and, strong emotional outburst, for no apparent reasons at all. And, you couldn’t discipline your child using normal methods, even IF you’d just criticized her/him lightly, your child would have a complete meltdown.
The Words of Advice from the Experts:
When people tell you, that something IS wrong with your child, don’t believe them, and don’t LET your child believe them either. Your child is UNIQUE, that, is not your fault. Naturally, there would be room for improvement in parent-child interaction techniques, but, don’t ever believe that something IS wrong with you, or your offspring.
Based off of studies, fifteen to twenty percent of the children in the population are born naturally sensitive. And, with this great number, it’s hardly “abnormal”. Besides, in ALL the species that’s been studied, there are JUST as high records of individuals in the population that are this sensitive. And, IF that, is the result of evolution, then, there MUST be a reason for it, we just can’t see it is all.
There are many evidence that suggests, that people who are highly sensitive are NOT necessarily shy, nor are they all neurotic OR anxious all the time, or even, depressed. For some of the more sensitive members of the population, these emotional responses are caused by environmental stimuli, NOT inborn traits.
What, is a Heightened Level of Sensitivity?
People who have a heightened level of sensitivity are more aware of the details in their surrounding environment, and, before they acted, they’d think, thoroughly first before they took the actions. Whether it be adults or children, those who are sensitive usually have a higher level of empathy, more intelligent, has strong instincts, with creativity, more careful, with a lot of conscience.
They understood better, the result of their own actions, and so, they’re less willing, to do the wrong things. They couldn’t cope well with higher volumes of sounds, or an influx of information coming to them at any given time. They would avoid these stimuli, which makes them appear shy or distant from others. If they couldn’t avoid the circumstances of being under too many stimuli, then, they’d become “difficult to deal with”, or “way too sensitive”.
Although those who are deemed more sensitive pay attention to the details more, but, they may not have a better sense of sight, hearing, taste, or smell. But, there are those with a better ability in one of their sensory organs. The key point here, is that when their brains processed the information, they do it more thoroughly. Not just their brains, those who are deemed more sensitive also have a stronger spinal reflex too. Their immune systems are more active, they are prone to develop allergic reactions to things. Which means, that their bodies are designed, to understand and observe this world even MORE thoroughly.
So, just because your kid cries a lot, or wouldn’t play in groups, PARENTS and TEACHERS, that still doesn’t mean that there IS something wrong with the kid, something IS wrong, with Y-O-U, stupid adult, who work so totally FUCKING (oopsy!!!) hard, to FIT all those little ones, inside just ONE square, but hey, some of us are rectangles, triangles, rhombi, circles, along with an ASSORTMENT of shapes AND sizes, and, we still DON’T just FIT properly to the “norm” (whatever THAT is!!!), so STOP trying to FIT your young INTO certain boxes, and just love them for the way that they are, after all, they still did NOT ask to be BROUGHT to the “outside world”, you two ADULTS are the ones to have FUCKED, and, out still popped??? Oh yeah, those “pretty little MISTAKES” of yours, remember? Uh, YEAH, and, D-U-H!!!
The Hatred that Got Sparked Up as MERS-CoV Outbreaks Continued
Observations, how the government here, had, managed to, manipulated the people, from the Front Page Sections, translated…
As MERS-CoV broke the boundaries of our nation, the hospitals lost control, the armed services in trial, and yet, we’d only come to know the fact, as the media press told us. What’s even odder was, the party in power assigned Yang to the posts; but what we actually cared about is: did the commanding centers find that hole in the systems? Dual-standards of quarantines, to affecting the sides to stand against each other, it’s NOT helping the situation, and I hope, that the president, Tsai and her officials, can stop deferring our attention.
The pilot’s contraction of MERS-CoV, the local cases started back up, the, commanding centers’ covering up the information, not making it public knowledge, the city government of Taipei, as well as the city council’s helping ourselves, the command centers threatened to sue, but, the misbehaving pilot that ran around the city, his tracks were discovered, and it’d forced the government to pay more attention. While the hospital where the physician had contracted the virus, is under the jurisdiction of the Department of Welfare and Sanitations, and from before, someone already blew the whistles on how the clinics used the self-pay to scan for the existence of the virus; while Chen told the press to stop this witch hunt, and yet, Cheng and the DDP supported media posted the spots of contractions, the dual standards of procedures, is it crises control, or just, keeping the government officials’ titles, or, is it, protecting the citizen here in Taiwan?
The commanders’ covering up the facts, the president, the head of government officials called out, “work together, with the medial staff members, to block out the virus”, and so, Yang, who’d pressed the government hard for the answers became used, as a scapegoat; Yang’s claims sounded too harsh, but at this time, he’d become, a scapegoat for Chen’s behaviors.
The people fell into a state of panic again, the president, Tsai, and the secretary of state, Su criticized Yang for adding fuel to the flames, and helped the online army grow stronger, and there’s the reappearances of hatred and anger that got started at the beginning of the outbreaks last year. The government claimed that it’d cherished the medical workers, and yet, the medical workers were played like pawns; the government called out to everybody to have “empathy”, in actuality, it’s trying, to get everybody onboard, to silence those who has a difference of opinion against them.
People are afraid of the virus, and the government finally found that forcefulness from before the storms of the pork with ractopamine, using the outbreaks, to spark up hatred, and this worked to soothe the minds of the government official, than finding a working cure for MERS-CoV, developing that vaccine that worked.
And so, this, is what the government’s currently doing, it’s, diverting the attention of the people, manipulating the masses, using that ONE voice, the DDPs, and the presidents, silencing ALL voices that have something different to say, and, the sad part is that the people here, don’t see anything wrong with this picture, they get comfortable, allowing the government to THINK on their behalf, instead of thinking on THEIR OWN behalves!
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