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Her Parents Were Fighting, and the High School Student Climbed Out the Windows, Sat on Top of the Air-Conditioning Systems

There was just this picture, in the Front Page Sections, translated…

In the Taishan District of Hsinbei City, a high school girl, early yesterday morning heard her parents fighting, saying that they want to divorce, and the mother claimed she was going to leave, the high school girl took a fruit knife, climbed up to the lanai of her third floor home, on top of the air-conditioning systems, threatened to kill herself, and the firefighters consoled her from her window, and the fire fighter on the fire engines was able to grab Wu, so, they’d prevented a tragic event.

What’s even outrageous was, that the parents, after they’d fought, they’d gone back to their bedrooms, and fell asleep, they never even realized that something wasn’t right with their daughter, until the fire department came, did they realize how serious this had become.

Wow, you still have GOT to be SHITTING me here, parents!!! How STUPID do you think we all are?  When you get into those fights at night, to prevent us from being affected, and you supposed that we’re ALL asleep sound in our beds, but, we’re actually N-O-T, because we got our ears, GLUED to the doors, hearing every single detail of your fights, so, do NOT assume (b/c that would still turn ALL of y’all into ASSholes!!!) that just because we don’t tell you we saw, means that we saw nothing, we are still watching you, stupid PARENTS!!!

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When “Fun” Became a Sorry Excuse for Drug Use

And no, I still did NOT just make this one up either, it’s found, on the online newspaper pages, translated…

The police subprecint in Neipu recently discovered four men who used the popular instant messaging program of LINE, along with Facebook, to deal drugs to students, and they’d even held a “party” in a motel too, and, there were fourteen middle school and high school age students who fell victim.

The Neipu subprecinct started chasing the leads, found that four men, Chen, Hsu, Chang, and Lin, took advantage of it being the summer vacation right now, and solicited teens at places like net cafés, shrimp fishing farms, motels, along with other “hot spots” for youths to gather, sold drugs to them, to establish “connections”, then, they’d used the chat programs, to notify the students when there will be a drug party.

The police told, that the four men used the cell phone chat programs as a medium, to notify the teens when there will be a party, without a specific location, and, they’d texted, “Hey, let’s have a party”, as a secret code for the teens to know, that there would be a drug party somewhere, during the party, the four men would prepare ecstasy, along with other illegal substances, to hook the teens.

The police found, that the fourteen students who were caught, were still in school, and couldn’t support themselves economically, some had taken their parents’ money to buy the drugs, some had used their own money saved up from part-timing work, other than a few who had priors, most were first time offenders.  And, after the police questioned them, some of them told the police, “I just wanted to try it, for fun”, and it’d made the parents angry, but some of the parents told the police, “We couldn’t discipline them!”, and, after questioning, everybody IS booked.

And so, this, is how easily they fall, after all, they’re way too young, way too easily impressed, and, they’re at an age where they are needing acceptance the most, and, IF the parents couldn’t control these teens, then, it’ll be up to the law to make sure that the teens are “steered” into the right directions, and sometimes, it still wouldn’t work, because a LOT of those kids are destined for a life of crimes…

 

 

 

 

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Shake it…Making Friends with Her Cell Phone, an Adolescent Girl Lost Her Virginity

The prices of virginity, is still getting C-H-E-A-P-E-R by the nanosecond here, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

A fifteen-year-old adolescent girl in Tainan, at the start of the month, used her cell phone program to make friends, and connected with a male college student, the adolescent saw that the college guy looked gentle, and resembled a Korean movie star, they started going out together, later, she was lifted to the man’s rental home to watch porn, and forced to have sex with him, afterwards the adolescent female told her parents, and the parents got mad and went to the police.

The police chased the leads and found the man, and he was charged with obstruction of sexual freedom.  The police estimated, that during the summertime, it’s the peak of incidences of rape for adolescent girls, since the start of the summer vacation, the city of Tainan had found eleven reports of rapes on adolescent girls, and four of these cases, the young women had used friendship networking applications on the cell phones and made friends with strangers, and then, were raped, and, the online community had implied that the cell phone friendship programs are a “sure thing for ‘scoring’”.

The police found that this middle school age girl enjoyed using the widely used friendship making program, at the start of the month when she went shopping at the city’s malls, she used the “Shake it” application, to search for those who are using the same application as she, and, there was a good looking, college male in his twenties who’d sent out an application to her, she saw that he looked like a Korean movie star, and she was so glad that he’d invited her.

The young woman cried and told the police, that the man was gentle, first, he’d taken her to places to visit, they’d even shared a candlelight dinner, which he had paid, after the meals, he’d invited her to his rental home, to watch a movie, she didn’t suspect, and followed him home, and he’d put on an X-rated film, had forced her to watch it with him.

The young girl described that the man had “changed completely” as they’d arrived to his home, first, he’d locked the doors, then, after he stripped down, he’d told her to do the same, and after he got his way with her, he’d allowed her to take the bus home.

There are warning signs that cell phone programs have, to stress the dangers of “meeting up with strangers”, and, the users can use that application and then, the cell phone will search other users in the vicinity, and the “shake it” function allows the users to find other users in the area, but, most of the naïve young adolescent girls, if they’d met up with bad people, then, they wouldn’t know how to handle it.

Yeah, and ALL of this SHIT happened because???  Oh yeah, the MIDDLE school girl (you ARE in your teens, aren’t you?  And, had you NOT been watching the N-E-W-S???  Or, is it the Invincibility Fable, working ITS magic here???) has NO clue, because she’s inexperienced, and, too D-U-M-B to know better, I mean, we would have the TWO-sense, but, not this group of kids from the younger generations…

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The Heart of the Springtime in the Summers

I had an unexpected crush in the summer session of my seventeenth year, and, even now, as I’d passed the forty-year-old marker, I still can’t forget about how my heart fluttered that summer when I was seventeen.

It was so hot that summer, and I was forced to join in the summer sessions, in that time, we were a coed school, but, the boys and girls were isolated by gender on their separate floors, but, a group of young kids, rebelled against the battles of continuing our education, and, it’d happened, one afternoon, in Chinese class.  The Chinese class instructor used her high-pitched voice to wake a girl who’s half-asleep, but, unexpectedly, there came the choir songs of the boys’ class from a floor down, “The grasses are green, the fog are white, leaning next to her…”, that young and crisp singing voice, it made the girls who were about to doze off, started to cover their mouths and couldn’t stop giggling.

Must be the infatuations of their age.

And so, you’re STUCK in class, in a HOT summer’s afternoon, and, you’re about to snooze, because of how hot the weather, and, you’d rather BE somewhere else, and, there came, the boys’ choir, and, it’d gotten your attention, didn’t it?

 

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He’d Stolen Pictures of Hot Girls, and Asked Adolescent Girls to Strip on Webcam

Another SEXUAL predator, found, and caught, ONLINE, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

A twenty-two-year-old man, Yeou used the photos of a hottie as his own, headed online to Facebook, to befriend young adolescent females, then, solicited them to take their tops off and webcam conference him, then, he’d tell them that he’s a man, and coerced them into having sex with him; the Taipei Detective Agency caught him yesterday, found that there were a TON of nude conversations with younger women on his laptop, and suspected that there were at least, EIGHT victims.

The Taipei Police Department reminded the adolescents, that when they were making friends online, they should keep the three “not’s” in mind: not getting too into it, not exposing one’s own body, not dating in secret”; to NOT get too trapped by the online world that it’d affected your routines, to NOT overly expose one’s own information via webcam or by photographs, to NOT meet out alone with someone you’d met online, and, you must choose a public place with great lighting if you are going out to meet up with someone you just met online.

The police pointed out, that Yeou last December, flagged down the photograph of hot women, to use as his profile photo on Facebook with a female name too, claimed that he’d just returned to the country from studying abroad.  Awhile ago, after he met a girl in Changhwa, he’d claimed that it was more open in foreign places that he’d wanted to see whose body looked hotter, and had sent the photograph he’d snagged of a woman, said, if I dared to do it, then, why can’t you?

He’d enticed her, said that if she was willing to take off her clothes in front of webcam, then, he’ll give her $3,000N.T.s.  The adolescent girl fell in the tempting offers, and stripped her top off, and, after Yeou had recorded the footage, he’d told her that he was a man, and forced the girl to meet with him, then, raped her, or, he will let the photograph go viral online.

The youth told the women and children’s department of the Changhwa police department, and cooperated with their investigations; but Yeou still kept going after the adolescent.  The girl told him she’d already notified the police, Yeou said he was out of the country that the police couldn’t track him down, he just wanted to have sex with her.

The police tracked down the ISP of Yeou’s computer yesterday, and made an arrest, early yesterday morning.

How STUPID can you younger ladies get?  And, it’s still for that little money too.  And you’d think, that these days, virginities should sell at a WHOLE lot higher, but it isn’t, and that just shows you how naïve those stupid girls are, to fall for trash like this one, and now you know, so, do NOT fall for it again, but I’m 99.99 (still living that .01%) PERCENT certain, that there would be another “victim” of similar case such as this one soon, I’m sure, maybe not tomorrow, maybe NOT the day after, but, soon…

 

 

 

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Teenage Attempted Suicides are Mostly Due to Emotional Difficulties or Relationship Issues

From the Front Page Sections, translated…

Yesterday the Sanitations Department posted its latest statistics, suicide had fallen OUT of the top ten reasons for death of the citizen here, for four years in a row now, but, it’s the second reason of why teens kill themselves, after careful analysis, the researchers found, that in the still not mature enough teenage years, sixty percent of suicide attempts are made, because of relationship or interpersonal difficulties.

The top ten reasons for death, based off of the statistical measures, of the results, adolescents ages from fifteen to twenty-four, the three top causes of death were: accidents, suicide, and malignant tumors, and, the youngest report of suicide last year was of a twelve year old child.

Dissecting the reason why teens commit suicide even closely, emotional difficulties, relationship difficulties are the first reason, the second reason was substance abuse, the third being work, and economics.

The Suicide Prevention Center’s manager, Chang stated, that in adolescents, males committed suicides more often than females, but in the younger generations, rarely any had the ability to complete suicide attempts, and, the most widely used way of “de-stressing” is by slitting ones’ own wrists.

The experts said, that most suicide attempts made by teens are usually related to romance or relationships, for instance, getting cheated on, or breaking up, and fearing that the adults would worry, so, the children don’t tell anybody, the suggestion is for parents to lower themselves to the children’s levels, to discuss with them this matter, to help them walk out of the gloom.

Chang stated, that before a teen commits suicide, there would be sings, for instance, grades started slipping, taking leaves of absence often from school, withdrawn from socializing, getting bullied by their peers, huge incidents occurring in the home fronts, and knife wounds on the wrists and arms, or verbal expressions of suicidal thoughts, if the instructors and elders can detect this early, then, it would be the key to prevent suicide.

Yeah, but, how many parents actually cared enough, to ask that teen at your separate houses, “hey child, how’s your day?  Did anything happen in school you want to tell me about?”, uh, that’s still NOT enough, and, because you, stupid (yeah, I’m still talkin’ to ALL of you!!!) parents FAILED to take note of your children’s S.O.S’s, that, is why their pains had NOWHERE to go, and, when pains got nowhere to go, well, it’s going SOMEWHERE all right, I would know this, how again?  Oh yeah, I’d HAD my shares (yes, there’d been MORE than once!!!) of suicide “encounters”, but, I just didn’t make it to the “other side” there, because I wasn’t supposed to.  So, PAY attention, you STUPID parents out there!!!

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An “Extra” Son at My House, the Interactions Between Parent and Children

Translated…

My eldest was born in my mother-in-law’s house out of country, my mother-in-law and my husband both believed the claims of the fortune-teller, insisted on keeping my eldest at my mother-in-law’s house until he’s grown, until he wanted to come back to Taiwan to learn baking, after high school, he’d gotten into a foreign program from overseas and came over to Taiwan to further his education.

I didn’t take care of my eldest child when he was younge3r, and so, he’s not at all that close to us, and so, my second born and my youngest, I’d insisted on raising them myself.  When the three brothers finally got together, I’d observed how they got along, it’s quite interesting, actually.

My youngest had always been afraid of his second eldest brother since he was younger, because as my second child became a teenager, he was only in the lower grades in the elementary years, and every time he’d gotten too noisy, his older brother would hit him, until my second born went abroad to college, their relationship started improving.

As my eldest first entered into our family, he’d acted like a guest, and would NOT blame his younger brothers for anything at all, and would patiently answer his younger brothers’ inquiries, and so, my youngest was taken with his oldest brother.  But, as the time passes, my eldest took from his younger brother, started talking back to me, actually, I’m real glad to see this, because he did not treat himself as an outsider to our family anymore.

As my second child started his cram school in middle school, I’d met a counselor who was still a college student, I thought he looked familiar, the way he was so mischievous reminded me of myself when I was younger!  The cram school monitor had nothing but good things to say about this teacher, and that got my attention even more.  After I’d held a few conversations with him, I’d found that he was not only active, intelligent, courteous to others, and understanding, I’d told my second child to learn from him more.

After my second child graduated, this instructor had received his master’s degree and gotten into the army, we’d lost touch, until I’d met him once more by chance on MSN, and that, was when I got reconnected with him via his blog, after I’d gotten to know him well, I’d took him as my godson.

And now, my youngest is in the higher grade level of his elementary year, and his grade in English just never quite measured up, I’d recalled how my godson might be of assistance, and so, I’d “forcibly” made him into my youngest son’s tutor.

That’s real well, my house had three men originally, and now, I’d found an extra one.

My two older sons lived outside of my home, my youngest would study in cram school until late every night, and my godson would come to teach my youngest once every other week.  From time to time, when the boys got together, they’d ganged up on me, the only female, and I would have arguments with them, my house is so lively!

Everybody said, “daughters are fathers’ lovers from a past life”, and, so, sons should be the mothers’ lovers by the same way of thought!  I’d often exchanged words with my sons as if we’re of the same generation, and those who don’t know us well would believe that we have tension between us all, actually, my youngest son would still want me to lie with him and he’d asked me for hugs too!

As for that godson I’d met from outside, well, he was probably my son from a previous life!  Because he’d become more and more like those three boys I have at home now!

And so, that, is what harmony in the house looks like, and, even though the mother IS outnumbered, but she’s having a grand time, interacting with all of her children, and her kindness toward a stranger in worth mentioning too.

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