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The Mother from the Murdering of His Own Cerebral Palsy Son: We Couldn’t Get Help Anywhere

The “follow-up” of yesterday’s tragedy, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The man, He, was suspected of strangling his own son with cerebral palsy to death, after the Taipei District Attorney’s Office took the man into questioning yesterday, they’d turned He to his own wife’s custody, and mandated house arrest for him.  As He’s wife went to the D.A.’s office to pick up her husband, she’d stated, “I hope he (son) won’t have this sort of torture in the next lifetime, and be a healthy child.”

He admitted to what he’d done, and, after the court case came into session, the D.A. believed, that he was not at flight risks, that he wasn’t going to weasel his way out, and that he was the primary source of income for his family, and so, they’d placed him into his wife’s custody, and asked the city of Taipei’s domestic violence call center, to help He get to the hospital for an evaluation, to assess his mental states, as well as the family’s situation, to decide the treatments, the counseling that comes afterwards.  As for the precise cause of death of his own son, the D.A. will wait for the autopsy results.

He’s wife said, that everybody had gotten ill, after taking care of her son, in the second year of the son’s high school year, the entire family helped to find a place for him to go, but, as the institutions and the schools saw how severely handicapped the son was, they’d not taken him, and, as the son went into his last year of high school, he’d felt, that everybody was singling him out, and, he’d blocked the world out since.

He’s wife said, that the Social Services Department had sent people to their house to help bathe, feed, and care for her son, but, after her son graduated from high school, the services weren’t continued, she’d once used how she had spinal injuries, with a heart condition, how her father-in-law is elderly, how her husband works, along with other reasons to file for assistance for her son’s sake, but, the Department of Social Services told them that they couldn’t manage to get more people to them, “We’d still relied on ourselves in the end.”

He’s wife said, at first, her son didn’t know his own conditions, but slowly, he came to realize, that he couldn’t walk, couldn’t write either, and, starting in middle school, he’d started, mutilating himself, “He (the son) had even told me that he’s sorry he couldn’t walk.”

He’s wife said, “My birthday was on March 21, and, on the 22nd, it was, the date of my own son’s death, I really don’t know what to say.”

And so, had the social services department not withdrew the assistance from this family, then, this tragedy could’ve been well avoided, but, there’s NO way that the government can provide for the cares of the handicapped people indefinitely, there’s this lack of human resources, as well as the lack of funding.

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The Young Mother Who Was Saved from Suicide, “I’d Strangled My Two Children to Death”

From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A young married woman, Lin, awhile back, took her two young kids to commit suicide by overdosing, the two kids are dead, the woman was rushed to the hospital and is now, out of danger, the police officers yesterday went to interrogate Lin, she’d cried and told them that she was emotionally unstable that day, that she’d fed her kids some medication, waited until they passed out, then, strangled them both.

Lin was very emotional when the police interrogated her, mentioned how “in the current world, there’s nothing keeping us here, I don’t want to let them live, so they’d have to weather through more pains in the futures”, “After I’d killed them both, I’d tried committing suicide.”

Lin said, in the little over six years, she’d been troubled by mental difficulties, went to two clinics to see doctors, and got medicines, later she’d gone off her meds, and in the past year, she’d started back on them once more.

On the 27th of last month, in the afternoon, she’d driven her kids to Kenting, and, on the way, she’d become emotionally unstable again, and gone off the freeways, bought some fast food at a fast food joint in Mingshyong, then, took her kids to a motel, mixed the pills into their drinks, waited until her kids passed out, she’d strangled them, her daughter tried to fight, then, she’d strangled her daughter with a rope, then, she’d downed the rest of the pills.

Lin said, she wanted to commit suicide, and didn’t want to leave her kids, to become burdens to her families, decided to take them with her, that, was why she’d strangled them to death.  Lin also said, that she and her husband were getting along very well, other than the occasional altercations, there was NO economic stresses, nor was there affair on her husband’s part, or domestic violence.

After Lin woke up yesterday, the family members consoled her that everything was all right, that the kids are fine, that they’d been taken back to Taichung already, but Lin knew, that she’d killed her kids by strangulation, as the police was about to interrogate her, she’d started crying, and when she told them how she’d strangled her kids, she was crying so hard she couldn’t even talk, said that she is in deep regret.

Yesterday as the coroner’s autopsied the young children, they’d found that the muscles of the young girl’s hyoid muscles had hemorrhages, and that there were finger markings on her neck, that she’d died of suffocation, the coroners then took samples of the internal organs, and sent the sample to the justice department to determine if there are drugs in the systems.  Because Lin had histories in depression, she’s still in the I.C.U., with the police, keeping a close eye on her.

And so, this mother has a history of depression, and, she didn’t want to keep her kids on this earth without her, so that, was why she’d killed them first, then, attempted suicide, and now, she’s going to have to live with the fact, the guilt, that she’d MURDERED her own young, for what?  Her own selfish reasons!

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A Boy with a Birth Defect in the Head & Throat, Unable to Grow Up in Time

A story of loss of one’s own offspring, from the Newspapers, translated…

A young boy with malignant neoplasm of the larynx had passed away yesterday, the doctors stated that this condition is not a rare illness of the childhood years of the throat and head, and that the parents must watch the child’s as s/he slept and was being fed, and, normally, this condition goes away on its own when the patient gets older the grandfather of the child who died yesterday sighed, “he didn’t even have a chance to grow up, and he’s already dead.”

Yesterday morning at around six, a ten-month old baby boy died, of no apparent causes in his own home, the family told, that the child was diagnosed with malignant neoplasm of the larynx, and because he couldn’t swallow on his own, he was living with a feeding tube, at birth, the baby boy was hospitalized for two months to get treatments, and, after he was released from the hospital, he’d gone back to the hospitals multiple times.

Yesterday morning, as the parents were just about to carry him up to feed him, they shockingly discovered, that he didn’t have a heart rate, and wasn’t breathing at all, and, even though, they rushed him to the hospitals, it was already too late, the family was in enormous pain, the young boy’s grandfather stated, that when they’d taken him to the doctors, the doctors told the family, “Wait and see if he gets better”, and now, he’s already gone.

The obstetrics department of Taipei Hospital’s manager, Wu stated, that this condition is a very often-seen abnormality of the head and throat regions of young infants, if it was not that bad, the condition will heal on its own by age one and a half, and, for most kids with this condition, it’d heal up completely by age four.

Wu pointed out, that the collapse of the ligaments in the throat will cause difficult breathing, and difficulties swallowing, and, in the most serious case, the patient would need breathing tubes to live, but, the patient can get laser surgery to make the soft tissues hard, so it won’t collapse, and, when the person gets older, it will heal just the same.

Wu reminded the parents, that if there are children in the house, normally, the parents should prevent the infant from sleeping on her/his back, so the child can breathe easily, and children with this condition are all recommended to sleep on their sides.

And, when the parents are feeding, they should hold and support the child’s neck, and feed the child in separate times, to make sure that the food doesn’t get stuck inside the throats.

So, even though this is a birth defect, it’s still treatable, but the parents weren’t paying attention, and so, their baby boy died, and, it still wasn’t anybody’s fault here, because the parents did all they could for this child, and, the child still died…

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A Father Who’d Murdered His Own Daughter, Dumped Her Body, and Now, His Son is Missing Too

Yeah, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The man who’s serving time for something else, Jiang yesterday confessed on how because he couldn’t manage to keep up with his own daughter from his ex-wife, he’d murdered her when she was just five, and buried her.  The police department went looking for the body, and, dug up a set of bones, and, they’d sent it into the medical examiner’s office to see if it belonged to a human being, and, they’d called in Jiang’s current wife, Yeh, to see if she knew about this matter.

And, the sons that Jiang had with his current wife, Yeh, currently, the eight-year-old eldest is registered for school, but the seven-year-old younger son is nowhere to be found.  Yeh told the police, that she’d gone into serve time for fraud back in 2008 for four months, and when she got released, she couldn’t find her own son, the husband told her he’d sold him, but, couldn’t describe the transactions in precise details.  The police feared that the child is also dead, unless he’s found again.

The entire case was reported by the young girl’s birth mother, and learned that the daughter she’d left with her ex hadn’t registered for school, and she couldn’t get in touch with her ex, and dreamed that her daughter was covered in blood, telling her, “Mom, why don’t you want me?”, she’d suspected that something awful had happened to her daughter, she’d called the police.  Based off of understanding, after Jiang (age 36) and Tsai (age 31) were divorced, he’d gotten the custody of their daughter, and married Yeh later on, had two sons by her.

This March, Jiang’s eldest son said to his teacher, “My older sister was starved to death by grandma underneath the table,” the teachers listed them as “high-risk” family, and in September, the schools reported the family, once more, as “high-risk”; this August, Jiang was imprisoned, in September, the school reported the family as high-risk again, and the police at Hsinbei city got the tip, and called up the district attorney’s office.

The District Attorney’s office at Hsinbei City found that Jiang was taken to prison in August of this year, and they’d had the police interrogated him.  Jiang claimed from before that he wasn’t well-to-do, and had an active arrest warrant on him on theft, etc., etc., etc., he’d taken his family to run, and because he couldn’t afford to keep his own daughter, he’d abandoned her at a park in 2008.

The police conducted their fifth interview yesterday, and took her to the place where he’d told them he’d lived at his family, and found that it was all bullshit; Jiang then told the police that he’d murdered his daughter, dumped her body at Taipei Juvenile Detention Hall’s backside, and took the police to dig up the bones; but the police, after examined the remains, believed that it wasn’t from humans at all.

So, this LOSER killed his own children, and lied to the cops about it, and he got caught, and he’s still doing thing his way, leading the police on a wild goose chase, thinking that he can outsmart them, well, eventually, everything he did will come BACK to him, more than tenfold that’s for sure!

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Words that Killed

The pen had become, MIGHTIER than the SWORD after all here!!!

Words that killed, you might wonder, how, can words that flowed out of someone’s mouth so carelessly CAN do so much damage, right?  Well, it’s all in the ears of the beholder.

Words that killed, they might have been blurted out, in the heat of the moment, and, once those words of anguish, of pain, of hurt rolled from your tongues, you may shocking realize what you’d just said, and yet, there’s NO taking ANY of it back again!  Words that killed, why?  Because words always hurt more, because words will do a TON of damages to you, internally, while those sticks and stones?  They merely hurt you physically, and, we all should KNOW, how those emotional/psychological scars heal back up, a HELL of a LOT harder than those physical ones, don’t we???

Words that killed, they flew careless out of you, and, I heard them, took them to heart, because I relied on you to love me, but you NEVER did, because you were NEVER loved, using the RIGHT way (and yes, there IS a right AND a wrong way of love too!), and so, you unknowingly passed the abuse you’d received from your bad parents down to me, and, if I wasn’t as AWARE as I am already, I may just unknowingly (still doesn’t make ME less guilty either!) pass it down, to MY own flesh-and-blood, oh, wait a minute, didn’t Emily already DIE???  Sure she had, WAY back in 2008, and this, is currently 2014, and that would be, HOW many years again???  Why don’t you ALL do the “math”, and, feel free to “send” me your “answers”, and this last one, is still, MY SARCASM “talkin’”, so, don’t really send me the “answer”, and by the way, the “answer” is S-I-X!!!

Words that killed you, words that killed me, words killed us ALL, and then, There WERE N-O-N-E……..

 

 

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Things I Will Never Get to Do with You

Started making a list, a list of things I wanted to do with you, but, midway through making my list, you were gone, in a heartbeat, and so, I’d immediately tossed that list out, and started making me another list: things I will NEVER do with you.

Teach you how to be a little hostess, help you entertain all of our guests.  Read you that favorite bedtime story of yours to you again and again, and you, begging me for JUST one more story before you go to sleep.  These, are ALL the things, I will NEVER get to do with you, because you NO longer exists.

Things I will never do with you, because you were taken from me, and, I couldn’t find you again, NO matter how hard I’d tried, and, NO matter how high or low I’d searched, I can’t find you again!  Thing I will never do with you, the list just grows longer, and longer by the day, and I’m here, and you’re NOT!!!  It’s just so unfair, why, you should take the RAPS for what they did?  Well, guess that’s life, and, even though I still miss you from time to time, I’m at peace, about the fact, that you will NEVER be born, and it’s still for your own benefit, that you were NEVER conceived, my love………

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How Could Ten Years Be Enough for Rape?

This, is NOT only degrading, but very demeaning too, and, it SURELY took the J-U-R-Y, LONG enough, to “arrive” at their decisions that’s for certain, from MSNNEWS.com…

BILLINGS, Mont. (AP) — A Montana teacher was sentenced Friday to 10 years in prison in a notorious student rape case that dragged on for years and led to the censure of a judge who partially blamed the victim.

Stacey Dean Rambold, 55, was resentenced by a new judge exactly a year after he completed an initial one-month prison term for the crime.

Rambold appeared to grimace as Friday’s sentence was read by Judge Randal Spaulding. He was then handcuffed and led away by deputies, pausing briefly to exchange words with family as he exited the courtroom.

Rambold pleaded guilty last year to a single count of sexual intercourse without consent in the 2007 rape of 14-year-old Cherice Moralez, a freshman in his Billings Senior High School business class. She committed suicide in 2010.

Rambold’s attorney had argued for a two-year sentence, pointing out that the defendant had no prior criminal record, underwent sex offender treatment and was considered by the state as a low risk to re-offend.

Spaulding indicated that the nature of the crime outweighed those factors.

“I considered your abuse and exploitation of your position of trust as a teacher, and specifically Cherice’s teacher,” Spaulding told the defendant.

The state Supreme Court in April overturned Rambold’s initial sentence, citing in part comments from Judge G. Todd Baugh, who suggested the victim shared responsibility.

Baugh was censured and suspended for 31 days. He’s stepping down when his terms ends in January.

Yellowstone County Attorney Scott Twito said he was pleased with the new sentence, which included five additional years of prison time that were suspended.

“The criminal justice system worked today,” he said.

John Moralez, the father of the victim, said he had hoped for a longer sentence, but added that 10 years was better than the one-month Rambold previously served.

During the hearing, Twito asked Judge Spaulding to reject attempts by Rambold’s attorney to make the victim’s conduct with her teacher a factor in the sentencing.

That included references by the defendant’s attorney to video-taped interviews of the victim recorded by law enforcement prior to her death. Those recordings, which have never been made public, had been cited by Baugh during his sentencing.

Under state law, children under 16 cannot consent to sexual intercourse.

“The last thing we want to do is sit here in the criminal justice system and say, ‘What is the age?’ It doesn’t matter. Fourteen is way too young,” Twito said. “There has to be punishment. … Punishment means prison.”

Rambold’s attorney, Jay Lansing, responded that there was no statute preventing the court from considering Moralez’s conduct. He pointed out that prosecutors had not objected to comments about the videotaped interview during Rambold’s first sentencing hearing.

Lansing requested for his client a two-year sentence in the custody of the Department of Corrections, with another 13 years suspended. That would have allowed Rambold to serve his time in a community setting rather than prison.

Rambold broke down crying during a brief statement to the court. He said he was sorry for his actions and had worked hard to make himself a better person. In a recent letter to the court, he lamented the international publicity the case attracted.

“No one can really appreciate and understand what it feels like to have so many people actually hate you and be disgusted by you,” Rambold wrote. “I do not mention this for the sake of sympathy, but it has been hard.”

It was uncertain if the new sentence would be appealed, Lansing said.

After the death of Moralez, the prosecution’s primary witness, Twito’s office in 2010 struck a deal with Rambold that initially allowed him to avoid prison altogether.

Rambold, however, violated that agreement by having unauthorized visits with relatives’ children and entering into a relationship with an adult woman without telling his counselor. As a result, the case was revived and Rambold pleaded guilty.

Two additional counts sexual intercourse without consent were dropped under the deal with prosecutors.

During last year’s sentencing, Baugh suggested Moralez had as much control over her rape as the defendant and said she “appeared older than her chronological age.” He gave Rambold a 15-year term with all but one month suspended.

That triggered an appeal from the office of Attorney General Tim Fox, and ultimately resulted in the case being reassigned to Spaulding.

How, can this be JUST?  I mean, LIVES had been LOST here, and, how is JUST TEN years BE enough, to make up for the girl who took HER life after this LOSER instructor raped her?  So, as you can see, in these cases, punishment will NEVER fit the crimes!  And parents, would YOU feel safe, is a M***ER F***ING son-of-a-BITCH (b/c that, is what this is!) works in your child’s schools?  Yeah…

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