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A Two-Year-Old Child Was Abused to a Vegetative State, His Parents Were Charged

Parents who hurt their young, off the Front Page Sections, translated…

At the start of last year, there was a two-year-old boy who fell into a coma, his parents carried him into the E.R. to ask for help, but the child had subdural hematoma, he became, a vegetable, the doctors who treated him found that he was covered in bruises and wounds old and new, that there were, puncture wounds on the soles of his feet; the police and social workers intervened, and found, that the boy’s twin older sister, and another younger sister of a little over a year old were, “disciplined” the wrong way long-term, the Changwha District Court yesterday charged the abusive parents.

This pair of husband and wife admitted to what they did to their own young children, admitted that they’d, improperly, disciplined the children.  In the indictments, the D.A. stated, that the boy’s father was guilty of abuse, and the mother had long-term abused the children, and charged with physical assault, and negligence assault, and suggested to the judge, to increase their sentences by fifty percent of what would normally be given to the adults charged in similar conditions.

cruelty to a young child, photo found online

At around noon of February 8th, this couple rushed their two-year-old comatose son into the E.R.  The doctors examined him, found the child to suffer from subdural hematoma, and they couldn’t get him back, he fell into a vegetative state, and because the doctors, in their examinations of the boy found there were wounds old and new on him, that there were puncture wounds on the soles of his feet, they suspected it was a serious case of child abuse, and immediately notified the police and the social services.

The child’s mother admitted, that on February 8th of last year, she was alone at home with the children, he’d started crying, she couldn’t soothe him, she’d picked him up and started, shaking him, and accidentally, bumped the young boy’s head on the wooden wardrobe, then the child had, stopped crying, and that was when she’d realized that her son was in a comatose, and started twitching unstop, she’d, panicked, and found something sharp, to stab the child’s soles, to attempt to wake him up using pain.  Later, as her husband returned home from buying them lunch, they’d quickly, rushed their young child to the E.R.

And, we still have here, TWO unfit parents, and, this time, a two-year-old young boy was beaten to comatose, and this couple managed to have a total of FOUR young children between them, and you can guess, how many times this kid’s younger and older siblings may have been abused, but, you’d, probably, NOT come close to the exact number of times these young children were hurt!  And these parents deserve to DIE for what they did to their own young children.

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The Father Slammed the Infant Girl Causing Her to Have Subdural Hematoma, Charged with Domestic Violence

These cases seemed to be, never-ending, don’t’ they???  Another case of an infant being abused!  Off the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Liu, in Changwha was accused of forcing his a little older than a year old daughter who was developmentally delayed to physical therapy, allowing her to fall on her own, and, as he was having an argument on the ways of teaching his own young, he’d, thrown his own young daughter onto the table, causing her to have subdural hematoma, and the infant started vomiting endlessly; the D.A.s office in Changwha charged Liu with laws to prevent domestic violence, and other charges, asked the courts to sentence him heavily.

Liu’s wife was also taken into custody, the D.A. dropped the indictment charges against her, due to lack of evidence of abuse.  But, the Changwha Social Services Department, after reviewing the facts, believed that it would be ill-fitted for the infant girl to go home, and still placed her in protective custody.

The D.A said, that when the infant was just a little over a month old, she suffered a subdural hematoma from “not being cared for properly by an unknown member of the family” and was, hospitalized, back then, there were bruises on the infant’s eyes and left cheek, she seemed to have suffered from shaken baby syndrome, and was diagnosed as developmentally delayed.  In February of last year, the child started vomiting, and started sleeping too much, was taken to the hospitals, and the hospital examined her and found there were injuries new and old on her, that she’d suffered subdural hematoma, the hospital suspected that she was abused.

The county government and the police investigated found, that because Liu’s noting the infant had injuries on her, refused to take her to the hospitals to get treated, and after many days, he’d taken her in on February 22nd.  Back then, Liu told, that he’d allowed the infant to stumble around as she’d learned to walk, that she’d, bumped her head.

The indictment told, that last year around New Year’s, Liu’s wife took the infant child home, and her grandmother found there were bruises on her, and Liu’s wife told her that he’d disciplined the infant when she’d started crying out of term.  Liu also posted on FB and argued with his friend, “Why don’t you report my beating my daughter up to the police then?”  the friend replied, “you keep on beating her, your wife said you’d beaten both of your children so bad she couldn’t take them out………”  “it’s just, that the Social Services hadn’t found out yet…”.

And so, that is how this worked, unless someone REPORTS something, the social services wouldn’t have the slightest CLUE to check, and that just won’t work, because usually, by the time shits like these gets reported, someone had gotten so severely injured that s/he had died, or is now, on life-support, and, this violent father’s being charged, is still NOT fitting enough for what he’d done to his own young.

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The Mother from the Murdering of His Own Cerebral Palsy Son: We Couldn’t Get Help Anywhere

The “follow-up” of yesterday’s tragedy, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The man, He, was suspected of strangling his own son with cerebral palsy to death, after the Taipei District Attorney’s Office took the man into questioning yesterday, they’d turned He to his own wife’s custody, and mandated house arrest for him.  As He’s wife went to the D.A.’s office to pick up her husband, she’d stated, “I hope he (son) won’t have this sort of torture in the next lifetime, and be a healthy child.”

He admitted to what he’d done, and, after the court case came into session, the D.A. believed, that he was not at flight risks, that he wasn’t going to weasel his way out, and that he was the primary source of income for his family, and so, they’d placed him into his wife’s custody, and asked the city of Taipei’s domestic violence call center, to help He get to the hospital for an evaluation, to assess his mental states, as well as the family’s situation, to decide the treatments, the counseling that comes afterwards.  As for the precise cause of death of his own son, the D.A. will wait for the autopsy results.

He’s wife said, that everybody had gotten ill, after taking care of her son, in the second year of the son’s high school year, the entire family helped to find a place for him to go, but, as the institutions and the schools saw how severely handicapped the son was, they’d not taken him, and, as the son went into his last year of high school, he’d felt, that everybody was singling him out, and, he’d blocked the world out since.

He’s wife said, that the Social Services Department had sent people to their house to help bathe, feed, and care for her son, but, after her son graduated from high school, the services weren’t continued, she’d once used how she had spinal injuries, with a heart condition, how her father-in-law is elderly, how her husband works, along with other reasons to file for assistance for her son’s sake, but, the Department of Social Services told them that they couldn’t manage to get more people to them, “We’d still relied on ourselves in the end.”

He’s wife said, at first, her son didn’t know his own conditions, but slowly, he came to realize, that he couldn’t walk, couldn’t write either, and, starting in middle school, he’d started, mutilating himself, “He (the son) had even told me that he’s sorry he couldn’t walk.”

He’s wife said, “My birthday was on March 21, and, on the 22nd, it was, the date of my own son’s death, I really don’t know what to say.”

And so, had the social services department not withdrew the assistance from this family, then, this tragedy could’ve been well avoided, but, there’s NO way that the government can provide for the cares of the handicapped people indefinitely, there’s this lack of human resources, as well as the lack of funding.

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The Young Mother Who Was Saved from Suicide, “I’d Strangled My Two Children to Death”

From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A young married woman, Lin, awhile back, took her two young kids to commit suicide by overdosing, the two kids are dead, the woman was rushed to the hospital and is now, out of danger, the police officers yesterday went to interrogate Lin, she’d cried and told them that she was emotionally unstable that day, that she’d fed her kids some medication, waited until they passed out, then, strangled them both.

Lin was very emotional when the police interrogated her, mentioned how “in the current world, there’s nothing keeping us here, I don’t want to let them live, so they’d have to weather through more pains in the futures”, “After I’d killed them both, I’d tried committing suicide.”

Lin said, in the little over six years, she’d been troubled by mental difficulties, went to two clinics to see doctors, and got medicines, later she’d gone off her meds, and in the past year, she’d started back on them once more.

On the 27th of last month, in the afternoon, she’d driven her kids to Kenting, and, on the way, she’d become emotionally unstable again, and gone off the freeways, bought some fast food at a fast food joint in Mingshyong, then, took her kids to a motel, mixed the pills into their drinks, waited until her kids passed out, she’d strangled them, her daughter tried to fight, then, she’d strangled her daughter with a rope, then, she’d downed the rest of the pills.

Lin said, she wanted to commit suicide, and didn’t want to leave her kids, to become burdens to her families, decided to take them with her, that, was why she’d strangled them to death.  Lin also said, that she and her husband were getting along very well, other than the occasional altercations, there was NO economic stresses, nor was there affair on her husband’s part, or domestic violence.

After Lin woke up yesterday, the family members consoled her that everything was all right, that the kids are fine, that they’d been taken back to Taichung already, but Lin knew, that she’d killed her kids by strangulation, as the police was about to interrogate her, she’d started crying, and when she told them how she’d strangled her kids, she was crying so hard she couldn’t even talk, said that she is in deep regret.

Yesterday as the coroner’s autopsied the young children, they’d found that the muscles of the young girl’s hyoid muscles had hemorrhages, and that there were finger markings on her neck, that she’d died of suffocation, the coroners then took samples of the internal organs, and sent the sample to the justice department to determine if there are drugs in the systems.  Because Lin had histories in depression, she’s still in the I.C.U., with the police, keeping a close eye on her.

And so, this mother has a history of depression, and, she didn’t want to keep her kids on this earth without her, so that, was why she’d killed them first, then, attempted suicide, and now, she’s going to have to live with the fact, the guilt, that she’d MURDERED her own young, for what?  Her own selfish reasons!

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A Boy with a Birth Defect in the Head & Throat, Unable to Grow Up in Time

A story of loss of one’s own offspring, from the Newspapers, translated…

A young boy with malignant neoplasm of the larynx had passed away yesterday, the doctors stated that this condition is not a rare illness of the childhood years of the throat and head, and that the parents must watch the child’s as s/he slept and was being fed, and, normally, this condition goes away on its own when the patient gets older the grandfather of the child who died yesterday sighed, “he didn’t even have a chance to grow up, and he’s already dead.”

Yesterday morning at around six, a ten-month old baby boy died, of no apparent causes in his own home, the family told, that the child was diagnosed with malignant neoplasm of the larynx, and because he couldn’t swallow on his own, he was living with a feeding tube, at birth, the baby boy was hospitalized for two months to get treatments, and, after he was released from the hospital, he’d gone back to the hospitals multiple times.

Yesterday morning, as the parents were just about to carry him up to feed him, they shockingly discovered, that he didn’t have a heart rate, and wasn’t breathing at all, and, even though, they rushed him to the hospitals, it was already too late, the family was in enormous pain, the young boy’s grandfather stated, that when they’d taken him to the doctors, the doctors told the family, “Wait and see if he gets better”, and now, he’s already gone.

The obstetrics department of Taipei Hospital’s manager, Wu stated, that this condition is a very often-seen abnormality of the head and throat regions of young infants, if it was not that bad, the condition will heal on its own by age one and a half, and, for most kids with this condition, it’d heal up completely by age four.

Wu pointed out, that the collapse of the ligaments in the throat will cause difficult breathing, and difficulties swallowing, and, in the most serious case, the patient would need breathing tubes to live, but, the patient can get laser surgery to make the soft tissues hard, so it won’t collapse, and, when the person gets older, it will heal just the same.

Wu reminded the parents, that if there are children in the house, normally, the parents should prevent the infant from sleeping on her/his back, so the child can breathe easily, and children with this condition are all recommended to sleep on their sides.

And, when the parents are feeding, they should hold and support the child’s neck, and feed the child in separate times, to make sure that the food doesn’t get stuck inside the throats.

So, even though this is a birth defect, it’s still treatable, but the parents weren’t paying attention, and so, their baby boy died, and, it still wasn’t anybody’s fault here, because the parents did all they could for this child, and, the child still died…

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A Father Who’d Murdered His Own Daughter, Dumped Her Body, and Now, His Son is Missing Too

Yeah, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The man who’s serving time for something else, Jiang yesterday confessed on how because he couldn’t manage to keep up with his own daughter from his ex-wife, he’d murdered her when she was just five, and buried her.  The police department went looking for the body, and, dug up a set of bones, and, they’d sent it into the medical examiner’s office to see if it belonged to a human being, and, they’d called in Jiang’s current wife, Yeh, to see if she knew about this matter.

And, the sons that Jiang had with his current wife, Yeh, currently, the eight-year-old eldest is registered for school, but the seven-year-old younger son is nowhere to be found.  Yeh told the police, that she’d gone into serve time for fraud back in 2008 for four months, and when she got released, she couldn’t find her own son, the husband told her he’d sold him, but, couldn’t describe the transactions in precise details.  The police feared that the child is also dead, unless he’s found again.

The entire case was reported by the young girl’s birth mother, and learned that the daughter she’d left with her ex hadn’t registered for school, and she couldn’t get in touch with her ex, and dreamed that her daughter was covered in blood, telling her, “Mom, why don’t you want me?”, she’d suspected that something awful had happened to her daughter, she’d called the police.  Based off of understanding, after Jiang (age 36) and Tsai (age 31) were divorced, he’d gotten the custody of their daughter, and married Yeh later on, had two sons by her.

This March, Jiang’s eldest son said to his teacher, “My older sister was starved to death by grandma underneath the table,” the teachers listed them as “high-risk” family, and in September, the schools reported the family, once more, as “high-risk”; this August, Jiang was imprisoned, in September, the school reported the family as high-risk again, and the police at Hsinbei city got the tip, and called up the district attorney’s office.

The District Attorney’s office at Hsinbei City found that Jiang was taken to prison in August of this year, and they’d had the police interrogated him.  Jiang claimed from before that he wasn’t well-to-do, and had an active arrest warrant on him on theft, etc., etc., etc., he’d taken his family to run, and because he couldn’t afford to keep his own daughter, he’d abandoned her at a park in 2008.

The police conducted their fifth interview yesterday, and took her to the place where he’d told them he’d lived at his family, and found that it was all bullshit; Jiang then told the police that he’d murdered his daughter, dumped her body at Taipei Juvenile Detention Hall’s backside, and took the police to dig up the bones; but the police, after examined the remains, believed that it wasn’t from humans at all.

So, this LOSER killed his own children, and lied to the cops about it, and he got caught, and he’s still doing thing his way, leading the police on a wild goose chase, thinking that he can outsmart them, well, eventually, everything he did will come BACK to him, more than tenfold that’s for sure!

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Words that Killed

The pen had become, MIGHTIER than the SWORD after all here!!!

Words that killed, you might wonder, how, can words that flowed out of someone’s mouth so carelessly CAN do so much damage, right?  Well, it’s all in the ears of the beholder.

Words that killed, they might have been blurted out, in the heat of the moment, and, once those words of anguish, of pain, of hurt rolled from your tongues, you may shocking realize what you’d just said, and yet, there’s NO taking ANY of it back again!  Words that killed, why?  Because words always hurt more, because words will do a TON of damages to you, internally, while those sticks and stones?  They merely hurt you physically, and, we all should KNOW, how those emotional/psychological scars heal back up, a HELL of a LOT harder than those physical ones, don’t we???

Words that killed, they flew careless out of you, and, I heard them, took them to heart, because I relied on you to love me, but you NEVER did, because you were NEVER loved, using the RIGHT way (and yes, there IS a right AND a wrong way of love too!), and so, you unknowingly passed the abuse you’d received from your bad parents down to me, and, if I wasn’t as AWARE as I am already, I may just unknowingly (still doesn’t make ME less guilty either!) pass it down, to MY own flesh-and-blood, oh, wait a minute, didn’t Emily already DIE???  Sure she had, WAY back in 2008, and this, is currently 2014, and that would be, HOW many years again???  Why don’t you ALL do the “math”, and, feel free to “send” me your “answers”, and this last one, is still, MY SARCASM “talkin’”, so, don’t really send me the “answer”, and by the way, the “answer” is S-I-X!!!

Words that killed you, words that killed me, words killed us ALL, and then, There WERE N-O-N-E……..

 

 

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