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A Woman Wanted to Break Up, He’d Forced to Have a Threesome, Raped Her…Indicted

Yeah, call it a BAD breakup if you will, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Gang was displeased at how his young girlfriend from the high school years moved out of their love nest, was suspected of abetting a roommate, Yeou who had a crush on his girlfriend to take revenge on her, after they’d managed to get the teenage girl out, they’d beaten her up, stripped her, and tortured her, Yeou had backed away, Gang said to him, “Didn’t you dream of fucking my girlfriend for a long time?”, then, they’d had a three-way, and raped her, the D.A. indicted the two men based off of forced sexual acts.

The D.A.’s indictment pointed out, that Gang (age 19) and his roommate, Yeou (age 20) lived together, and, Gang’s girlfriend moved in with them, and was suspected to have disagreements on rent and money, and Yeou also had conflicts with Gang’s underage girlfriend too, the adolescent girl moved out, because she was angered.

Gang was displeased about it, on the noon hour of February 24th, he’d used the excuse of wanting to talk about breaking up with her, when the girlfriend returned to the rental place, he’d taken her cell phone, pulled out her SIM card, so she couldn’t’ call for help, then, Gang got violent toward his young girlfriend, strangled her neck, and beaten her.

Later on, Gang played the sick game of “Fast Answers”, no matter what the girl replied, he’d told her that she answered wrong, forced her to strip, threatened her, “After you’re completely nude, then, it’s SHOW TIME!”, when the victim begged hard without her clothes on, Gang and Yeou still forcibly pulled her into bed, and, acted out scenes from a porn movie with her.

And so, this, is why when you are breaking up, and your ex wanted to see you, it’s always SAFER, to have a friend to go with you, that way, this sort of SHIT won’t happen, and, this still just shows how you LOSERS treat women who don’t want you anymore.

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She Who Died Seemed to Have Been a Victim of Bullying, the Seven Suspects Were From the Same Village as She

Here’s some background information, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

Chiu who was mildly retarded was from a special condition family, she lives with her single father, and, both her parents, and her older siblings had mental and physical disabilities.

Chiu’s father had found his daughter not returned to home on the night when she was murdered, but, because of his mental disability, he didn’t call the police until yesterday; the school that Chiu goes to, on the day of the crime, had started calling up the father, asking about where his daughter was, and he’d told them, that “she was with her mother”, “She’d gone to stay with her godmother.”

Chiu had written, “I really don’t like getting mad, I hope all my friends can be happy every day”, on the fourth of this month, “help me through this hard time?”, “I’m really sad, depressed, I don’t know what to do, I hope that there’s someone close by to protect me, to accompany me………”, the police suspected that she’d been troubled by bullying and getting singled out by a group.

The person who’d counseled Chiu from before said, that she’d had the habits of stealing things, but, her nature is still good, and would head to the home to deliver the medications for her older sister by the week.  Before she died, Chiu had often hung out at a net café, the owner of the net café told, that Chiu hung out with a group of elementary and middle school aged kids, and would spend one to two hours at a time in the shop, the police suspected that, that, was how she’d gotten involved with Lin and other suspects.

The p9olice said, that the seven involved people are all from the same village, when they were called, they all appeared very calm, seemed to not have any remorse for causing the death of the middle school girl at all, and, toward the end, only a man named Gu started showing remorse and started crying, and told of the hole thing.

The two young children who were involved, Hsieh called the primary suspects, Lin and He as uncles, and the neighbor, Tseng, was her tag-along. Based off of understanding, Hsieh’s father is a repeated suspect in chopping down trees illegally, currently serving time in prison, her older brother is in juvenile detention, yesterday, her mother who’d accompanied her to give her statements left her early in the afternoon.  The school told, that the two children would often skip school for no reasons, and they didn’t understand what kinds of crowds they’re involved with, and that they’re going to work, to counsel the specific cases from here on out.

Lin and Huang called one another husband and wife, but, they’re not married, their daughter in her early teens goes to elementary school.  Yesterday, as the press asked Huang how she could be so cruel to someone who’d the same age as her own child, Lin started staring the interviewers down angrily.  When Lin was interviewed, he’d even claimed, that he was only taking Chiu (the victim) to the parks to hang, and claimed, “can you stop asking me these questions now?”

And so, this, is how violent they’re getting, and, it’s all because one person of the gang felt taken, and, the rest of the “followers” had gone, and MURDERED someone in such brutal manner, and, that, is how peer pressures, and the need to be accepted by a group works in children in the younger years.

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Teach the Children…to Love Life, Then, They Will Have the Abilities to Love Others

From someone’s hearts, after the observations of how a medical student murdered another for competing for the attention of a girl he liked, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The murders of love at Kaohsiung Medical University, because a person couldn’t get over the love, causing two medical students with bright futures to die.  How do we examine the events, treating it as love becoming murder would be too simplistic.

The students of medical schools would have that love for life originally, and, saving others is the basis of the profession’s moralities, and still, how, was the murderer able to, take the life of his dearly beloved friend in the instant.  Murdering for love, wanted another’s love, just to be saved for oneself, but had used the most extremes of measures, to take a hold of this love, all it takes, is to calm oneself, and would realize, that murdering the competitor is not the way to go, but still did it!  Why is that?

This is not an isolated incident at all, in this day and age, murders are a part of every day, and, those who were murdered, because of love, are mostly the competitors, the ones who one loved, oneself, or, anything that prevented oneself from the love.  The simplest reason for love to turn into murder is no reciprocations, toward a love that one can have, the person feels taken, and would rather destroy the love in the process.  The resentments, the hatred, the loss, the helplessness, all combined, into one, and can’t turn the thoughts around, with nobody to talk to, to console, and so, they’d ended it all, with the most valid ways.  Some would even use the actions of murder-suicide to justify that that, was how much they’d loved someone else, that they’re willing, to lose their own lives, for the sakes of love.

Love originally helps make life more complete, and, using love, to fulfill one’s own life, the more you loved, the more completed your lives are.  Love, is toward life, toward oneself, toward the other person, toward the lives of others, and only this kind of love can merge life with love.

But, the lovers would mistake the relationship between life and love, treated love as if it were, their lives, that life existed, because of love, and vice versa, and at the same time, they would treat love as the only source of ones’ own lives, when love is gone, life will become, dried up, and, the thoughts of murder will too, sprout out, because of this messed up value system, losing love IS losing life, I don’t have life anymore, so, why the HELL would I care about other people’s lives?

The murders that occurred because an extra person got involved, or from the loss of love usually occurred, because the person viewed love as the only important matter of one’s own life, life is priceless, love, even more so!  I will NOT allow someone else, to take that from me, how can love change as it pleases?  Asking those involved to let go of the love, is asking them to lose their lives, and so, naturally, the persons would use the most drastic of all measures, to defend the love, as well as life too.

The magic of love lies in that it’s easily believable, that love is the only thing in life, without the rooms for mistakes, and, if there are mistakes, then, it would be, a matter of, life, OR death.  Even in the 21st Century online world, this myth of love being life still didn’t get changed, instead, the views became even MORE narrow instead.

The unfortunate events keep on happening, over, and over again, emotional management, life education, love education, all of these, would come into the public’s attention, after something had happened.  From before, the Department of Education encouraged the universities have classes on love, and gave out $70,000N.T. per class held to the schools, there are a TON of forms to fill out, a TON of fees to write up on, who would want to apply for it?

If love is a mandatory course of life, then, breaking up is the mandatory course for students, why not start teaching the kids in elementary schools about it?  So they would understand, that love is only a process that occurs in life, that those who loved life can have the ability to love others.  And what needed to be emphasized, is how to deal with the losses of love, there may be things missing from a life without love, but, that, is the nature of love, also, a process of life.

The tragic events caused two lives to become lost, and made two families in pain, this will keep on happening, it’s that the roles are not exactly the same, the families’ way of facing the losses, can it be resolved at all?  So long as we have the ability to love life, to love others, maybe, it would, reduce the incidences of murders that happen because of love.

And so, this, just shows how little kids understand about love, and, there had been, SO many incidences of this sort, and, it will, keep on happening, because that, would be, the matters of love, and, when love wasn’t dealt with properly, then, it may get turned, into MURDER!

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Sweeten Those Bruises with Kisses

Sweeten those bruises with kisses, like you’d always done…you had, beaten me up, again, and this time, I didn’t PUSH you, like some of the previous times I got beaten up by you.

After that shiner and my broken cheekbones, you’d sweetened those bruises and broken bones, with kisses, you’d dressed my wounds up, painted them over, with mascara, so only you and I know of their existence.

Sweeten those bruises with kisses, you had done that, all along, and, I’d allowed you to, for the sake of my young kids, but, they’d grown up now, and, I got NO need to put up with your abuse anymore, but, the moment I told you it was over, you went NUTS, and this time, after you’d beaten me, HALF to death (b/c I still got that breath left inside of me!), you’d tried to, sweeten those bruises with kisses, but, I won’t have it again, because I had had it with you, I’d called the abuse hotline, and, the officials came, took me to the hospitals, and this time, when the cops asked me if I wanted to press charges, I’d told them, YES!, which was, not like the times before………

Sweeten those bruises with kisses, you will always do, but, I’m NO longer, and I just don’t want to put up with it anymore!  Sweeten those bruises with kisses, you will NEVER again, because I will NEVER allow you to, hurt me like that EVER!

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A Major General Found Guilty of Sexually Molesting a Female Subordinate, Was Court Marshalled

Women are once again, mistreated, LIKE WHORES in the armed services here, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The former major general commander, Wen-Cheng Yang was accused of molesting a young female officer four times, the army courts, as well as the Highest Courts of Taiwan all believed, that Yang had done wrong by the rules of the army, used his status of power, to sexually molest his subordinate, found him guilty, and sentenced him to one year, two months, but he can pay a fine, without serving any real jail time.  The case can still be appealed.

Wen-Cheng Yang entered into the armed services eight years ago, he graduated from the military school in 1980, is also the younger brother of the legislator of the KMT, Li-Huan Yang; after the incident, he received one major reprimand, and was transferred to an executive position, as a board member of the army, and was alleviated of duty early.

The victim, back in August of 2012, because she was there, to do the reports of her area of work, Yang caressed her left breast; and, not long thereafter, Yang bear-hugged her, and kissed her on the lips, stuck his hand into her panties, said, “I want to see if you have any pubic hairs, if you’re clean shaven, it would be great.”  On the evening of October 16th, Yang used the same measures, and sexually molested the woman again, he’d committed the crimes of sexual molestations a total of four times.

The victim was only twenty-one years old, at first, she’d complied with him, without wanting to, feared, that if she’d come out to the open, nobody would believe her, that she might be reprimanded, for not following the orders of her superior, and had only complained of the events to her close friends, and she’d had a melt down outside her sleeping quarters, “I can’t take it anymore!”, the victim felt that she didn’t do right by her boyfriend, and asked for a break up, and her boyfriend held her tightly, and they cried together.

Later on, the victim had finally had it, told the protections unit in the army about it, and, the court martial case was started, and Yang was prosecuted.

Yang denied the allegations, claimed that he did touch the female subordinate’s forehead with his lips, his cheeks, but he couldn’t recall each and every time clearly; and that back then, his intentions were to encourage her, to console the victim, and he’d used socially acceptable manners to touch the woman.  Yang claimed to have been set up by the female subordinate.

The military courts believed, that Yang is ranked higher, and didn’t uphold a higher standard of behaviors, had multiple times sexually molested his female subordinate, and after he was taken in, had tried to avoid the responsibilities of his own behaviors, and had not settled with the victim, but the military courts took into considerations, that the woman was willing to forgive him, Yang was sentenced to one year two months in prison, which he could pay a fine, and not serve the time.  Yang went for an appeal, and because the court martial cases were ruled as regular criminal acts, the High Courts in Taiwan, after reviewing over the case, agreed with the rulings of the military courts, threw back Yang’s appeal.

And so, here, you STILL have a man, in a status of power, forcing himself onto his female subordinate, and this, is power rape, and because the victim in these cases usually are too scared to speak up and out, that, is why they keep on being victimized over, over, AND over again, and, the reprimand or punishment this army officer received, was still TOO light if you ask me!

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Slipped a Date Rape Drug to a Married Woman, Used Illegal Substances to Control Her, to Force Her to Sell

From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Liang was accused of using ketamine, date raped a female coworker, and afterwards, forced her to continue to have sex with him, using the sex footage he’d kept the very first time, and he’d used drugs, to force the woman to leave her home, to get sold; after the police were told, they’d chased the leads on Liang for about six months, and, two days ago, they’d found his hiding place, and arrested him on charges of human trafficking, drug possessions, forced sexual acts, along with other charges too.

Liang claimed that his coworker was libeling against him, that it’d never happened; the Shihlin District Attorney’s Office believed, that Liang is a primary suspect, and runs the risks of destroying the evidences, and going back to his old ways, the courts believed, that Liang’s cell phone was already turned in, and that it’s still not yet certain, if the woman who’d turned herself in, was really actually controlled by drugs by Liang, set his bail at $50,000N.T.s.  The D.A. wanted to overturn the ruling on his bail hearing; the police will also be more prone in patrolling, to keep the woman safe.

The victim woman accused, that two years ago, in February, Liang asked her out, wanted to ask her about how to pursue another female coworker, but, she’d gotten drunk, and Liang gave her ketamine to smoke, and took her to his car, and when she was in a daze, raped her; later on, Liang had threatened her, continually, using the sex tape footages, and flashed a gun, saying that he will do something awful to her families, forced her to have sex with him over twenty times.

Last January, Liang threatened her to leave home, rented a suite in the metropolitan area of Keelung, to force her to sell for sex, and, all of her johns are all Liang’s friends; she’d said, every time, Liang would ask his friends for $5,000N.T., but she never got a cent from it, Liang would only give her ketamine and amphetamine to use.  She’d stated, that because she’d been hooked, she’d seen customers over ten times a month, that last year, when her husband sued Liang for obstructions of family, that, was when she’d finally been allowed home.

She’d pointed out, that after she got home, she didn’t DARE tell her husband about what Liang forced her to do, until last August, when Liang asked her out again, gotten her high, and raped her again, as she’d returned home, she was in a daze, her husband asked her about it, that, was when she’d told him what Liang did to her, and the husband immediately called the police.

And this, is how easily, someone CAN and WILL get sold, a little date rape drug, some illegal substances, and, threatening someone’s families, and that, is all it takes, and, because the victims are usually too scared to say, that, is why these perps will keep on, taking advantage, but, gladly, this woman’s husband helped save her from this LOSER!

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A Wolf Used the Excuse of “I’m Feeling Depressed and Contemplating Suicide”, He’d “Swallowed” Her “Whole”

Preying on her emotions here, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

A janitor, at a namely hospital, Chen told his mildly retarded female coworker, “I feel awful, and I want to kill myself, have a drink with me”, he’d gotten her to go back to his residence, managed to get her drunk, and raped her; the woman’s mother couldn’t find her late in the nights, she’d called the police, and the police were able to track her using the GPS on her cell phone, managed, to rescue her, who was, already, DRUNK, and passed out on Chen’s home, and booked Chen based off of rape charges.

“She got drunk, and came on to me!”, as Chen was being arrested, he’d told the officers, but, the police reviewed the surveillance close to his residence, and found that before he’d called up his female coworker, he went to the pharmacy close by, to buy condoms, which showed his premeditation.

The police investigated, that Chen (age 55), had gotten along well with his janitor coworker; through chit chatting with her, he’d learned, that in the evenings, she’d head over to her grandmother’s to look after her, and, would wait for her mother to get off work, then, the two of them would head home together.  A night not too long ago, Chen called his female coworker when she was on her way to her grandmother’s place, said, that he’d been fighting with his family members, and, wanted to take sleeping pills to commit suicide, and cried to her, “Then, come over to my house, to accompany me to drink.”

The woman didn’t detect anything, without telling her family, and, went to Chen’s place on her own; she had never drunk, and, after he’d downed two cans of beer into her system, she’d passed out, and after that, Chen stripped her clothes off, and was able to rape her.  The woman’s mother thought that she’d gone missing, and notified the police, the police used GPS and tracked down her cell phone, and, they went to Chen’s place, and found him to be involved in raping the woman.  Back then, Chen was not consistent in his statements, first, he’d told the officers, that when he’d gotten home, he’d found his female coworker, not dressed up properly, then, changed to, “I drank too much, I can’t recall.”

The police suggested, that in these situation, you can use stalling techniques, or, maybe, have someone else, to go to the place, and, that you must notify the police immediately.  And if the members of the public had noticed that their loved ones are behaving out of the ordinary, they need to pay more attention, show more concern to them, or, call the suicide prevention hotlines.

And, this man was able to successfully PREY on this woman’s kindness, and that, is what usually happens, because we are so soft, and so, we are prone, to have the tendency, to take care of those in need, and, this, is when those LOSERS can take advantage of us, and this woman was too unsuspecting, which was why, she was, raped…and, this could’ve been prevented, but, it still wasn’t!

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