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Holding You Close, Traveling Back in Time

This one is about regrets, I’m afraid, translated…

Based off of Chinese traditions, during the month of recovery after birth, women aren’t supposed to go outside.  And, I’d finally waited until my daughter was one month old, I couldn’t wait, to sneak out; but, my daughter was fast asleep in my arms, I couldn’t leave her home alone by herself, so, I’d gotten a thought, “why not just leave her in the car seat.”

My excitement had totally caused me to neglect the traditional beliefs of “the Heat in June is Going to Burn”.  As I’d started the car, I’d driven into the city.  “Hey!  When did this furniture shop get set up here?”  In order to make sure that daughter has a nicely shaped head, as well as good skin, I’d parked the car by the side of the road, and turned off the ignitions, lightly shut the door, I wasn’t going to be long anyways.

When I’d opened up the car again, it was, half an hour later, and I saw my daughter, SCREAMING, CRYING at the top of her lungs, her face had turned purple, it’d shocked me, a first time mom, had I returned a few more minutes later, I may have lost my child.

I’d wanted to drive backwards, to twenty-two years ago, and wipe away this heart wrenching moment, hold you close to me tightly, so, you, the newborn, won’t have any fears, and I would’ve not let you out of my sight for even a few moments in time.

And so, this, is the mistakes of a first time mother, she’d been locked up for too long, and, she’d wanted to get some air, and so, she snuck out of the house with her daughter, and, left her infant child in the car, because she didn’t think that she’ll take too long, but, by the time, she’d come back, her baby was SCREAMING, and that, made her realize, how fragile a young life is, and, that, is a lesson learned, the HARD way, rookie mothers………

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The Afternoon Daycare Programs Received the Calls Falsifying as the Kids’ Parents, But They Failed to Check to Make Sure

The carelessness of adults, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The Parents Went to the Afterschool Program, But Couldn’t Find Their Son, and They’d Discovered Their Son in the Home of a 25-Year-Old Man, the Man Took Medication to Commit Suicide and Was Brought Back, and the Other Thirty-Two-Year-Old Male Claimed, that He Was a Killer-for-Hire, and Was Paid Half a Million Dollars N.T.

Two days ago after school, a sixth grade boy from the city of Hsinchu failed to show up to his afterschool program, and, in the evenings, he was found, suffocated to death, at the rental home of the 25-year-old Lee, Lee left a final note, and was saved, from committing suicide, the man, Chen who was on scene claimed, that Lee gave him half a million dollars, wanted him to smother the child to death, the D.A. asked for Lee and Chen to be taken into custody late last night.

The medical examiners autopsied the child, and found that there were bleeding on his eyelids, and, the muscles behind his larynx had bled, suspected, that he was fixated to death, but didn’t discover any sign of sexual assault on the child.  The officers reviewed the surveillance, and found, that Chen (age 32) was also there at the scene of the crime, lifted him from Chiayi to the station to interrogate him.

At first, Chen claimed, that night he was staying with Lee at his rental property, as the child and Lee entered into the room, he was in the other room, listening to music, didn’t see anything up with the child and Lee; not short thereafter, Lee called him to help, he’d found, that the child was already unconscious, he and Lee took the child by elevator, to the basement, then, transferred into a suite of another building on the fourth floor, he didn’t know how the child had come to die.  The officers worked hard, to break Chen’s defenses down, and, he’d told them, that he’d killed for the money.

Chen claimed, that awhile back, Lee wanted him to help murder, “the son of the business owner he worked for”, and would pay him half a million dollars, and because he needed the money, he’d told him that he’ll do it.  Two nights ago, he’d waited until the child was too focused, playing his video games, strangled him from behind, until he’d stopped breathing, at which time, Lee stood by, and watched, later on, Lee carried the child, to the suite on the fourth floor.  The police found, that Lee and Chen both had NO priors in criminal behaviors.

The police investigated and found, that the sixth grade boy got off school at around four two days ago, at around six in the evening, Lin’s mother went to the afternoon program to pick her son up, but, the afternoon program claimed that “an official from the school said that Lin had detention after school, that he wouldn’t come to the afterschool programs”, Lin’s mother rushed to the school, and was told, that it was, an impersonating call, and the school had NO idea, where the child went.

Lin’s mother learned, from the school, that her son was with the friend he’d often hung with, Lee, and rushed to Lee’s ninth floor rental home to find her son, couldn’t, and, the mother called the police, and, the police reviewed over the surveillance, and found, that they’d gone to the fourth floor suite in the building next to where Lee lived.

After the police knocked, Lee came to answer, in a daze, after he took some unknown tranquilizers and other substances, as the officers entered into the apartment, they found the child, dead in bed, and, there was pesticides, and a final note at the scene of the crime too.

The officers found out, that Lee had taken out two suites, and, two afternoons ago, he’d taken the child to the ninth floor, then, transferred the child to the fourth floor of the other building, Lee had his suicide note, as well as the photos of him with the boy too.

And so, that just shows, how those afternoon programs, and the schools are NOT smart enough, to ask further questions, and, had the schools not been so careless, this little boy’s life would’ve been spared, but, because the school wasn’t careful enough, that, was why the child’s life was lost…

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“Lost the Last Bet in Life”, a Last Year High School Placed Over Ten Thousand Dollars of Debts, Gambling on the Teams of the N.B.A., He’d Committed Suicide

Had he known better, but he didn’t!  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A high school student, He from the city of Taichung disclosed to his classmate on the 10th that because he’d signed the gambling slips for NBA, he’d managed to owe over thirty thousand dollars’ worth of debts, that his life was over, “I’m going now!  Lost my final bet in life.”, the classmate immediately went to the police to report, and the police managed to find out where He was, but, it was too late, he’d already, committed suicide by burning charcoal in his bedroom already.

The 64th Police Precinct in Taichung on the afternoon of the tenth received a panicky high schooler who rushed in, and he’d shown the police the conversations he’d shared with He using LINE, told them that he worried, that He might commit suicide.  The police found his address, along with the records of members of his family, they’d notified the father, and, He’s father recalled how he hadn’t seen his son come out of his room, that it was odd, he’d broken into his son’s room, found that he was already dead, and there was also, a bowl of charcoal, burned, completely.  The coroners believed, that He had committed suicide by burning charcoal, and they will look into, whether or not He was forced to pay the debts he owed from signing the gambling slips or not.

And so, that, just shows, how easily they will fall, and, when you’re that young, you should NOT even BE into gambling, but this young man was, and, because he couldn’t pay up the debts, he felt his life was OVER, and committed suicide!

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Gone to School at the Developmental School, the Slow-to-Develop Boy, Jun is Improving, Bit by Bit

So, step by step, and you’ll still, get there, eventually!  From the Newspapers, translated…

A lot of the slow-to-develop children looked no different on the outside, and the parents couldn’t detect, they’re without any sense of warning, thus, delaying the treatment and intervention, the mildly autistic, child, “Jun” who couldn’t go to the bathroom on his own, who couldn’t talk, in the accompaniment of his great grandmother, got into the intervention program, he’d started getting interested by the materials, the new toys, and, had improved on his interpersonal skills, his progress made his great grandmother feel better.

The senior social worker, Bai said, most of the parents just wouldn’t admit that their children needed professional help, and, most parents have a lack of understanding of children who are slow-to-develop, believed, that everything will come eventually, and, delayed the treatment phases.

The community set up to help those children who are slow-to-develop by the Home and Family Org in Hsinbei City pointed out, that the expert of studies in delayed developments said, that before the age of six, the slow-to-develop children should be placed in intervention programs, compared the children who went into the intervention programs after the age of six, the improvements are thirty times better.

The eighty-one year-old great grandmother, Liu, for over two years, had taken Jun, the six-year-old great grandson’s hand to ride from their place to Asia-Eastern Hospital Station, and walked for half an hour, then, they arrive at the kindergarten.

Because Jun was from a lower income household, lacked the needed stimulus, so he’d developed slow, and was diagnosed with mild autism, and, his grandparents, and father died, and, two years ago, his physically handicapped mother got remarried, left him with his great grandmother, but, at the age of three, he still couldn’t speak, or go to the bathrooms on his own, his great grandmother felt that something wasn’t right, took him to get diagnosed, then, she realized, that he needed to be treated.

When Jun arrived at the developmental school for class, he’d lacked an understanding of his external environment, would get jittery, and start to cry, throw temper tantrums, but, after he’d gotten introduced to various classes, drawing, music, life training, he’d improved a lot, and when he’d come into contact with new materials, new toys, he’d touched them with excitement, and wouldn’t bear to leave, and, would start to think in holding conversations with others, and it’d made his great grandmother feel better, “He is improving, quite a bit!”

And so here, early intervention is still the KEY to effective treatment, and, because there’s NO physical signs from these children, unlike how some of the genetic disorders have a certain traits, there’s NO way that the family can know, and, this child’s parents just dumped him to his great grandparents, and, because the great grandmother wasn’t aware of the existence of the child’s condition, that, was why the intervention came a bit later, but, the child is making progress…

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How We Spent Our Childhood Nights…

Memories, from, the GREAT BEYOND here…

How we spent our childhood nights, remember?  Oh yeah, we’d spent our childhood nights, waiting, endlessly, for our parents, to come and kiss us goodnight, but, they NEVER did, we were the ones, to give them the kisses and the hugs, remember that?  How we spent our childhood nights, waiting, for our parents, to read us those bedtime stories, but, we’d waited, and waited, and, where the HELL were they?  In the living room, arguing, about HIS infidelity toward her, and, they both thought, that we were asleep too, but, we weren’t, instead, we’d pulled, the covers UP over our young heads, and just, sobbed, gently, because we’re afraid, of our family, falling apart.

How we spent our childhood nights, fight hard, to keep those monsters underneath our beds, and inside our closets, LOCKED up, so they won’t come out, and SCARE the SHIT out of us, and, where the FUCK (and no, do NOT pardon me here!!!!) WERE those people who called themselves OUR “parents”???  Too busy, fighting about HIS infidelities toward her, that we got totally, IGNORED, and, we were, taken, by those god DAMN, scary-as-HELL monsters already!

How we spent our childhood nights, nobody knows, because, we’d all, worked too hard, to BLOCK those, long-ago memories, OUT of our god DAMN freakin’ minds, thinking, that if we don’t acknowledge what happened to us when we were younger, those EVIL things that actually happened, really didn’t happen, but, ARE you sure, that they NEVER happened?  Are you FUCKING shitting me here!!!

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Guns as “Toys” for Children…

You DO realize, how this would constitute as NEGLECT, right???

Parents are leaving those guns, UNLOCKED, outside of those combination safes, and across the kitchen counter, I’m thinkin’…

Guns as “toys” for children, this, is what’s happening, in the homes across America, because, we are ALL Second Amendment or NRA (National Rifle Association???) supporters, right?

Guns as “toys” for children, this, is really dangerous, because that two, three, four, five, OR six year old child doesn’t KNOW that the guns are loaded, and, tragedies like that little third-grade boy, shooting his little ten-year-old girl classmate is bound to repeat itself, and all of this still happens because?  Oh yeah, you GOD DAMN F***ING stupid PARENTS are way too CARELESS!

Guns as “toys” for children why don’t you just hand that kid who’s BORED out of her/his bones a grenade, with the safety pin pulled out?

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A Twenty-One Year-Old Didn’t Heed the Advice of His Elders, Got Involved in Drugs, and Murdered His Own Grandparents, Then, Set Their Bodies on Fire

Another TRAGEDY, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

“Come quick, I’d murdered my grandma.” A man, Lee, in the city of Kaohsiung, early yesterday morn, reported it to the police, as the police came to the scene, they’d found an elderly woman, with multiple knife wounds, and another elderly man, in the bedroom, burnt to charcoal, and, they’d believed, that Lee, who’d reported had gotten high, and afterwards, murdered his own grandparents, then, set their bodies on fire.  The police booked Lee based off of murder charges, and, after the D.A. interrogated him, they’d asked the courts to keep him in custody.

As the paramedics and the police arrived on scene, Lee (age 21) who’d called, wept nonstop by the side, and, afterwards, as the fire department rushed his grandma to the hospitals, he drove with them, and, on the way to the hospital, he became dumbfounded, and, cried out from time to time, “Grandma, Grandma”, but the grandmother was already, covered with blood, with her eyes, wide open, with the look of shock on her face, not responding.

The assistant manager of the Chi-Shan Police subprecinct, Dai stated, that two nights ago, Lee called on his buddies, to gather at his grandparents’ place, and used drugs, at first, they’d started using the mixture of multiple illegal substances called “Coffee”, then, they’d gotten high on ketamine.  Lee claimed that after he’d gotten high, he’d wanted to go and hold a conversation with his grandma, and grandma told him, “Stop using whatever you’re using already”, he was in a daze already, as he’d gone to the kitchen, took a kitchen knife, and, started hacking up his grandmother, the grandfather tried to block him, he got madder, and, chased after his grandfather with the knife, then, he’d lit up half a bag of toilet paper, and, threw it toward his grandfather’s bed.

Lee had killed both his grandparents, his eldest uncle who lived in Tainan came home, and saw what he’d done, he’d blamed his nephew, “you ANIMAL”, “such a shame, that they loved him so very much”.  He said, when his nephew was just three, his parents divorced, that, after the divorce, his sister-in-law disappeared, leaving behind three young children, whom the grandparents managed to raise up, his younger brother died of illness three years ago, and gave him his youngest to look after, that the murdering of his parents by his nephew, was something he’d never thought could happen.

He said, that his nephew just won’t behave, didn’t graduate from middle school, later on, he’d become a car washer in Kaohsiung, and would lie often, recently, he’d gone back to his old home in Neimen, saw his nephew, getting high with his bad friends, and that, was when he’d learned, that his nephew has a drug habit.  And, he’d warned him too, that if he’d found him using again, he will call the police on him!

He’d stated, that his nephew was involved in a fraud case, and was sent to jail for three months, and, he felt that this, couldn’t continue anymore, before the Chinese New Year’s, he’d taken him to Tainan, and sent him to work, as a delivery man, wanted to stay close to him, so he could keep an eye on him, but, he’d only stayed with him for just one month, two nights ago, the nephew had, slipped away back home, and, “this awful thing happened”!

After Lee’s older sister learned about what he’d done, she’d left the statements of anger on Facebook, “Grandma and grandpa are so kind, and, how DARE you, kill them!  How am I supposed to look at you now, and how, do I face up to our dead grandparents?”

And, the culprit that caused this young man to murder his grandparents was still???  Oh yeah, ILLEGAL substances, and because this man was already, HIGH, and so, his judgments were impaired, and, when his grandparents told him to stop using drugs, he went psycho on them, and, this, is exactly what happens, when you get involved in drugs.

A Man Was Mocked “to Only Have the Abilities to Urinate Left”, He’d HACKED His Wife Up

This, I would imagine, would be, a build-up, to murder???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A sixty-three year-old man, Chang, early yesterday morning, used a kitchen knife, hacked his fifty-nine year-old wife to death, afterwards, he’d attempted suicide by crushing himself down with the steel gates, but because it was too painful, he couldn’t do it, he’d called the police; he’d falsely claimed to the police, that his wife would often come home in the middle of the nights, that early yesterday morns, she’d headed out again, he’d suspected she was having an affair, and she’d insulted him by saying, “you only have the ability to urinate left”, he couldn’t withhold his own anger, that, was why he’d gone to get the kitchen knife, and, hacked his own wife to death.

The coroners examined, that Chang’s wife had a total of twenty-eight knife wounds on her, and, the slash that killed her was the one on her neck; Chang was booked on murder charges, and the reason for Chang’s wife’s death, and the reason for the murder, is still under investigation.

The paramedics told, that early yesterday morn when they received the call, to Chang’s place, the steel gates were already rolled up, and as they were taking Chang to the hospitals, they’d found Chang’s wife, lying on the living room floor, with knife wounds on her face, her neck, and the left and right hands, as well as the legs, she was, already dead, and, there were blood, in the kitchen, the bedroom, as well as the living room too.

Chang said, that he’d gotten so furious after his wife made fun of him, he didn’t recall how many times he’d hacked up his own wife, that in order to get away from him, his wife had, run from the kitchen into their bedroom, then, to the living room, in the end, she just, fell.  After he’d learned what he’d done, he’d tried to commit suicide, crawled under the electric steel gates, and, attempted, to close the door on himself to try to suicide, but the steel gates crushed his back, and he couldn’t withstand the pains, that, was when he’d called the police.  He said, that his wife has a history of depression, is long-term medicated, and had, used a fruit knife, and threatened to kill him.

But, his second son stated, that his parents hadn’t been getting along for a very long time, that his father has records of domestic violence, denied that his mother was depressed, believed, that it was his father, trying to weasel out of getting charged with murder; the residents of the same building told, that the Changs weren’t getting along at all, the husband had often complained of how his wife doesn’t cook for him, and stated, that his wife tried to hack him up with a knife, two years ago, he’d filed for a restraining order against her.

And so, we still have, a NUT who cracked here, and, because his wife made fun of him for long term, and this time, he just, CRACKED, and, in the HEAT of the moment, he’d HACKED her up, and that just shows you, how you should NOT make fun of someone, because, the person is surely to take it to heart, and, who knows, WHEN it’ll BLOW UP in your face!

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