Category Archives: Physical Bullying

The Courage, to Face up to Being Bullied

How the adults’ attitudes are what helped this girl, dealt effectively, with the bullies that picked on her in school, the importance, of providing a safe environment that a child feels comfort enough, to tell the adults, translated…

In the meetings, my phone vibrated a couple of times, I saw, using my peripheral vision, that it was from my daughter’s school teacher, with an unsettled heart, I’d found me an excuse, rushed off to the restrooms, clicked open the screen, the photo of my daughter’s glasses being, damaged popped up, in the message, her teacher told, that the two boys from the next classroom thought that my daughter was, horseplaying with them, pinned her to the ground, and scratched her glasses.  I was glad that my daughter wasn’t, physically, injured, but I’d, questioned the teacher’s description of the events, I’d thanked her notifying me first, as for how we’re to, handle the matter, I shall wait until I get off work, and go home to my daughter to discuss with her on it.

like this???

查看來源圖片
taking the smaller child’s lunch money! Photo from online

And yet, my daughter’s telling me of what had happened, thrilled me!  She said she was playing in the track field, the two boys came up to her, without any warnings, they’d, pinned down her shoulders, and, as she tried to break away from them, they’d, pushed her face to the pavement together, and they’d not mentioned that they wanted to play with her from the start, they’re not even her friends, one only took the afterschool help classes with her, the other, a complete, stranger.

From what my daughter had, described, I saw NO signs of friendly interactions, nor was this, some, careless, mistake, this is, a conscious, banding together, picking one someone lesser sort of, bullying someone for the kicks of it.  I was really angry and upset now, my emotions went up and down, she is only, in the first grade of the elementary years!  Then?  I’d asked my daughter if she were hurt, and did she cry?  Was she angry, was she, afraid?

She’d shook her head steadily, she said, that although she couldn’t, beat those two boys, but she’d, remembered their appearances, and, as she returned back to class, she’d, checked to see if her glasses are all right.  I patted her head, felt that she was, brave, and smart, and am, deeply, proud of her. I’m glad, that this incident didn’t cause any bad things to stay with her in life, but I’d, felt, deeply—maybe, I wouldn’t want to, believe, that children that young are with, malice, or maybe, I’m, affected by the eastern values of, the desires of, keeping the peace, how many incidents of bullying, actually, got misinterpreted as, horseplay?  Because of a naughty temperament, because of lacking of awareness and not knowing better, because of some, misunderstanding, because of, not being, careful, enough…………we’d, given an assortments of getting off easy for the bullies, like how in Harry Potter, all the characters, dodged the topic, the name of, Voldemort, they’d, dodged the word, “bullies” and “bullying” too.  Not realizing, that the unwillingness, to face up, to what’s happening, bullying, it’s harder, to resolve the incidents of, bullying.

illustration from UDN.com

圖/Dofa
how the child feels isolated and alone being bullied…

As I’d discussed the matter with my daughter, she’d, decided, to forgive the two classmate who’d, picked on her, and I’d, supported her decision.  I’d thanked her teacher, for making her feel safe and secure, for her, to go straight to her, as the incident was, occurring.  And I’m too grateful for her teacher for believing in my daughter, for being, supportive of her, to protect her.  But what I’d, hoped more is, from the school and the family angles, we can all, get the courage to, face up to the bullies, because, only when we’re, willing to face up to the events, then, we will be able to, sort through it, bit by bit, and let it go.

And so, this, is the importance of the attitudes of the adults, when cases of bullying is occurring in a child’s life, the daughter of the writer is being bullied by the boys, and, she’d, told her teacher, and her teacher had, been there, supporting the girl, giving her that safe place to go to, and the child was, intelligent enough, to note the boys’ names, and told the teacher afterwards.

Leave a comment

Filed under Abuse, Bullying, Interpersonal Relations, Life, Observations, Perspectives, Physical Bullying, Properties of Life, Values

The Abuser Was, Ganged Up On, Sixteen Were Taken into Custody, Most Didn’t Know Each Other, the Gathering of the Crowds from Online, Taking Matters into Their Own Hands, Against the Bullies

Vigilante justice, is still???  Oh yeah, NO justices, but hey, that’s what we do, UNDER the INFLUENCE of the WWW here right now!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

After the footages of the technical high school female student, Lin getting bullied went viral, the online did a human search and found the abuser, and used violence on the abuser; the man, Huang, who’d led the group in slapping Lin came out, apologizing two nights ago, but, there were the members of the online community who’d, “leaked out” the message, and it’d become a matter of “vigilantes seeking justice”, there were about twenty individuals who’d taken the weapons, and ganged up on Huang, beaten his right elbow to and his ring finger to fracture.  The police were notified, and arrested a total of sixteen people, including seven teenagers, and the police found, that most of whom didn’t know each other, and they were all charged with physical assault, gang-related activities, threats, and other charges too, and two of the group were sent to the D.A.’s office, and the district attorneys after interrogations, sent them home, while the rest of the group were, taken and kept in police custody.

Lin, the technical high school student, and the woman, Hsiao had monetary disagreements, on the 22nd of last month, Lin was ganged up on by Hsiao’s boyfriend, Huang (age nineteen), and the group, drinks were poured on her face, while the bystanders shot the footage of a total of fifty-six seconds, and streamed it online, and members of the online community found out Huang’s identity, and some of the online community threw eggs at Huang’s residence.

vigilantes, seeking “justice”…

查看來源圖片
here, we have, a “mob” of only TWO! Found online

Two nights ago, Huang’s friend, the man, Fang (age 19) asked him, “do you want to fix it”?, Huang wanted all of it to be over soon, and agreed, that he would meet out two nights ago at ten, outside a super convenience shop in Hsiaogang to discuss how to apologize, and the man, Lin got in touch with the girl who got slapped, Lin to come but because there was a gathering of, seven to eight individuals, the police were called and came, Fang rode his scooter out to the Rose Cemetery in Daliao District with Huang on the back and continued to “discuss” the matter.

Someone Instagrammed the goings on of Huang making the apology, and everything was tracked online, from the posts and reposts, and reposts of the online community, at around midnight last night, there were, more than twenty individuals who’d, rushed over to the cemetery, and Lin showed up with her father, and talked with her abuser for no more than five minutes, then left, but, within five minutes afterwards, Huang was, ganged up on, and, was taken to the Hsiaogang Hospital, and the hospital immediately, notified the police.

Huang stated, that he’d only known three, to four people who were there, that he’d not known most of them, and that someone had hit him with a bat; Fang tried to cover him up, but it’d not worked, that he planned to sue his abusers for threats, and assault.  Fang also testified, that back then, he did, try his best, to protect Huang, he took along six, to seven others, to film the process of his apologies to the girl, that he’d not known most of those who were there.

查看來源圖片
at the tips of our, fingers too! Photo from online

The police took in sixteen of the suspected abusers one by one, and found, that most of them didn’t know each other, and suspected that someone had, shared the passage of Huang’s apology to the adolescent girl at the super convenience shops, and someone started tracking his whereabouts, and, as the online community posted, reposted, and followed up, there were more and more of those who’d gathered around the cemetery, and as soon as Lin and her family members left, they’d, started, gaining up on Huang; the abusers included Fang’s friends, and there were those who were there, because of the posts online, the “vigilantes”, using violence to fight violence, the police took Fang and one another individual into protective custody, while the rest of the involved were taken to the police stations locally.

Based off of the viral video on IG, while Huang was getting cussed at and beaten on by the gathering crowd, Tseng tried to block him from being attacked, and kept moving backwards; there was another footage that showed Huang getting asked, “how do you want to apologize to the woman?”, with Huang stuttered, “I shouldn’t have, slapped her”, and the individual filming asked  him again, “How are you going to apologize?”, Huang kept bowing, and said, “I’m sorry, I should not have hit the girl!”

And so, thanks to social networks such as Instagram, Facebook, and, YouTube (for allowing the footages to go VIRAL???), that was HOW and WHY this beat-down happened, and this is happening, more and more often these days, because of all of those tiny matters that you and/or I feel to be, unjustified, and, there are those of you (which I’m nowhere NEAR a member of???), who felt that oh, she got beaten up, and that’s not right, and so, you’d, gathered up that huge crowd, and went to TAKE the guy who’d, beaten up that teenage girl up yourselves, and now, you are all gonna get charged, for ASSAULTING the original ABUSER, and in the process of seeking out what you deemed to be, justice, you’d, turned into, ABUSERS too, and wow, you still, don’t REALIZE this, because, you’d TOO BLIND by what you deemed to be “justice”.

And all of this is due to???  STREAM it LIVE!!!

Leave a comment

Filed under Abuse, Abuser/Enabler Interaction Style, Bullying, Cyber-Bullying, Facebook, Life, Physical Bullying, Properties of Life, Puberty, Social Awareness, Trends, Wake Up Calls

Told His Cousins After He Was Drunk that He Was Bullied, Got Victimized Even More

In this particular case, had this middle school student NOT gotten drunk, he probably would’ve, never dared to tell, and now, the bullies will be, severely, punished!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

An unnamed middle school in Taichung had an incident of students ganging up, a second-year male were beaten on the buttocks by two adolescents from the same school, there was another young lad who was filming the incident as it happened, and the footages got out, and the online community started ranting, the police stated, that the grandmother of the student who got beaten already reported the incident to the police, and the three adolescents involved were sent to juvenile court.

A member of the online community posted out the footages of the bullying sessions, with a male student on his knees on the ground, with two young lady using the sticks, beating on the kneeler’s buttocks, and the one being beaten could no longer withstand the pain, started yelping, and fell limp onto the ground at one time, but the others warned him, “Kneel up straight”, even cussed at him, “Don’t make trouble for us later”, “two more times”, “That’ll teach you to mouth off!”

On the evening of New Year’s Eve, the victim was having a barbecue with the older and younger cousin of the guy who’d beaten him up, in the meals, he had some alcohol to drink, and the cousins thought he’d snitched on them as they got to school the teacher called them both to the office, after school on January 6th, the two cousins used the chained rods, beaten the young lad four times each, causing the victim to have bruising all over his body, and there was another guy, filming the process of the victim getting beaten up.

After the footages were shot, it was streamed onto the cousins’ LINE group, then, the other students in the group, passed the footages around, that was when the whole thing blew open.  The school stated, that the victim was from a single parent family, lives with his grandmother, that the school already asked his grandmother to take him to the hospital, to get his injuries documented by the E.R. and reported to the police, the students who’d beaten the victim up already went to his house, and apologized to his families and him, by their parents’ demands, currently, and currently all three students are attending school as they would normally.

So, because this victim was from a single parent family, lived with his grandmother, that was why the bullies targeted him?  And this still just showed, how violent children can get, and the kid that was filming the process of the victim getting SPANKED is also, equally guilty, and this still should NOT just get resolved with an apology, to the victim, by the perpetrators, led by their parents, these crosses between children and adults should get SENT to PRISON, live in JAIL for a couple of years, and that’ll teach them, how it feels, to be, someone else’s, BITCH!

Leave a comment

Filed under Abuse, Abuser/Enabler Interaction Style, Bullying, Crime & Punishment, Life, Physical Bullying, Properties of Life

A Man Abused His Girlfriend’s Young Daughter, Got a “Heavy Sentence” of Fourteen Years

Did you NOT read that last case of the newborn being COOKED by the mother’s boyfriend???  So, why the FUCK (don’t pardon me this time!) is this still happening???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Chou, in Yunlin two years ago, moved in with a married woman, Ke, and because of Ke’s young one-year-three months old daughter won’t stop crying, Chou had multiple times, used rulers, sticks, or cloth hanger, to beat the child, he’d even scooped up the child, and fly-kicked the child, causing her to fall to the ground, the infant, after these abuses, because of the back of her head was beaten, she’d fallen into a coma, then died.

The D.A. charged Chou and Ke together, the first trail, the courts sentenced Chou on abused to death to eleven years, eight months, and sentenced the mother on abuse for three months and she is to serve one more month in jail.  The second trials maintained the ruling toward the mother, but believed that Chou didn’t follow the payback plans, and he is without remorse, he’d charged him on abuse to death on fourteen years and a half, and, on the damages part, he could pay a fine.  The highest courts maintained the rulings of the appeal courts.

As the trial was proceeding, the grandmother of the child showed up and started wailing, screamed at Chou, called him “inhumane, I must get you back for my granddaughter’s sake.”  Even though, Chou had reached a settlement of two million dollars with the infant’s father, Chou still hadn’t paid a single dime.

The verdict pointed out, in an online game, Ke had met Chou, who fixed up the air-conditioning systems, two years ago in May, Ke took along her daughter, and moved in with Chou in Yunlin, the one year three months old daughter would cry often, and Ke would used glue sticks to beat her own daughter’s back or legs, causing the child’s back to swell and bruise.

Chou claimed he was a psychic, claimed that the infant was possessed, not only had he used the punishment toys, rulers, to beat her up, he’d also burned the child with incense and beat her body with a clothe hanger, last June, he’d even fly kicked the child, the child flew across the living room, fell beneath the sofa, and, went into shock, thankfully, a friend of Chou’s performed CPR, to help save the child’s life.

A few days later, the young girl had her bottle, and as sitting on the toy car, Chou, all of a sudden, started hitting the child on the back of the head, the child cried two loud cries, then, fell into a coma, Chou once again, ask his friends to perform CPR, and lifted her to the hospital, the child never woke up again, she’d died six months later.  Chou claimed that he’d only lightly hit the child as a disciplinary method, and Ke claimed that she wasn’t there, but the courts didn’t believe them.

And there are still a TON of parents who are NOT supposed be parents, in this case, the man has emotional problems, and he took his anger of whatever out on the girlfriend’s young daughter, and, fourteen years is still too lenient, these sort of LOSERS should be locked away for L-I-F-E, if you ask me!

Leave a comment

Filed under Abuse, Awareness, Bad Parenting Behaviors, Children Murdered, Crime & Punishment, Excuses, Lives Lost, Murder, Murdered by the Dates of Parents, Negligence, Negligence Homicide, News Stories, Observations, Physical Bullying, Psycho Parents, Right to Life, Scapegoating, Slaps on the Wrist, Social Awareness, Social Issues, Tragedies in the World, Vicious Cycle, White Picket Fence, Wrongful Deaths

Breaking the Cycle of Domestic Violence

From a victim to a survivor here, translated…

When I heard people tell me, “On the fact that B had died, we really don’t know how to make you feel better, so, that, was why we didn’t call.”, on the other end of the line, A started crying hard.

A is a hard working career woman, not only was she able to keep herself well economically, she’d also supplied more than her share of the household income. But, underneath her amazing work abilities, A had the life of an abused woman—after getting beaten by the husband, she’d reported it to the police, gone to the hospitals to get her wounds documented, left home, to get started on healing, later on, she fell into the soft words of B’s consoles to get home again.  Year after year, this was the same script that kept happening, again, and again, it’d made ALL who really actually tried to help A out feel helpless, like it wouldn’t be right, for them not to offer assistance, but, they can’t really help her out, because she keeps circling around in that same vicious cycle.

One time, we’d learned that A moved back in, I’d immediately called her up, to get her to move back out, told her, that IF she couldn’t make her mind up about leaving home, then, B may not do as they’d both agreed, go to the hospitals regularly to get checked, and the kids that grew up in this violent environment, it would be hard, for them to develop well psychologically. And still, the feelings still overcame A’s rationalism, in the end, she’d chosen to stay at home, with her abusive husband, and B, refused to check herself into the hospitals.

And, this only exacerbated, several years later, one day, A’s mother just so happened heard the rumors floating around A’s neighborhood, “We’d often heard a household getting too rowdy, followed by a woman’s crying.” She shocking realized, that the woman that the neighbors heard crying might be her baby girl.  She did some checking into it, and, it WAS her daughter, and so, the mother took her baby girl out of her abusive home.  A, who’d finally had enough of being abused regularly, finally made up her mind, never to return home again, and so, ever since, the status of A and B’s marriage became “separated”.

The days of being abused is just way too scary, A and the kids now lived independently and steadily, from day to day, with NO contact with B whatsoever. A short while ago, B who has NOBODY next to him died all of a sudden.  When A and the kids went to pick up the house, she’d found, that as her husband was starting to live alone, he’d started to change, had prepared for the children’s education and everything, and still, he’s already gone, and, no matter how much he’d saved up, it’s not going to be enough, to make up for that emptiness he’d left in them.

Had A been more stubborn on leaving, and never returning back home again, and break the vicious cycle of domestic violence earlier, maybe, it would’ve all ended differently. To every abused woman, leaving the home, making changes is never an easy choice, and yet, if you’re able to set up your minds, and end this vicious cycle, there’s still a good chance that you can rebuild your families again.

This, is still ALL in H-I-N-D-S-I-G-H-T, and, there’s a ton of “had…only…” involved in this “equation”, and, it is hard, for someone who’s been abused LONG term, to finally SNAP out of it, and, when this woman finally decided to make the changes, everything starts improving, but for this loser who’d abused her, his change came a bit too late.

Leave a comment

Filed under Abuse, Abuser/Enabler Interaction Style, Abusing Someone's Trust, Coping Mechanisms, Cost of Living, Decision-Making, Domestic Violence, Family Dynamics, From a "Victim" to a "Survivor", Innocence Lost, Issues of the Society, Issues on Gender, Kids Raising Kids, Letting Go, Lives Lost, Losing Sight of What's Important, Loss, Marriages, Physical Bullying, Rationalization, Social Awareness, Social Issues, Spousal Abuse, Stories of Hope, Story-Telling, The Fate of a Woman, The Observer Effect, Values, Vicious Cycle, Violence Against Members of Opposite Sex, Wake Up Calls, White Picket Fence, Women's Issues

Using Gaming Tokens as a “Bait”, He Was Suspected of Raping Over Ten Young Boys

Enticing someone who’s unsuspecting, the BAD behaviors of an ADULT, from the Newspapers, translated…

An eight-year-old boy in the city of Taipei was suspected of being too caught up in playing the online games, in a single month, he had been taken away by a man named Tseng, who used virtual coins as “bait”, and had had sex with him EIGHT times.  The police had also found photos of the child’s pubic area, and they suspected that there may have been over ten victims.

Tseng, as he was brought in to the police station, stated, that back when he was in the second year of middle school, he was raped by a former classmate, and couldn’t get out of the shadows ever since, that, was what got him interested in little boys and he’d started sexually molesting them.

“If you take shots of your own winkies, then, I’ll give you fifty gold coins!”, the man, Tseng (age 27), in Yonghe, through the online game, “Time Hunter”, chatted it up with an eight-year-old boy, and used “virtual coins” to tempt the child to have sex with him.

After the little boy agreed, they’d met up in the public restrooms of the Dongmen MRT station, other than giving the young child fellatios, he’d even asked the child to pee inside of his mouth; in order to get the boy to come out again, other than paying the virtual gold coins to the child, Tseng had even given the child anywhere from $50 to $300 N.T.s each time.

In the middle of August, the child’s mother found that he’d been emotionally unstable a lot, and would get scared when he saw others, and asked the child’s sister to go online to check, to see if the online games are affecting her son.

As the older sister logged online, Tseng mistakenly thought that it was the eight-year-old who was logged on, and asked him to send him photos of his own penis; the older sister reacted very quickly, immediately asked him, “Why don’t you send me your shots first?”, and, after Tseng sent the photos of his own penis, the older sister and the mother immediately took it in as evidence, and went to the police.

Tseng after getting caught by the police, admitted to having raped the child, and claimed, that back when he was a second year middle school student, he was bullied by his classmates, that, was what caused him to act out like this.

Based off of understanding, Tseng had NO priors, after he graduated college, he started working in the computer industry, the police found a TON of photos of little boys’ pubic areas on his laptop, and they estimated that there were at LEAST ten victims.  After he was interrogated, the Yonghe Subprecinct took him into custody based off of obstruction of sexual freedom.

So, if what the loser said was true, then, that just shows you, how easily abuse can pass from one person to another, and, because this man was picked on (or so he’d told) back in middle school, and now, he’d become a sexual predator, and that, is the general development of these kinds of incidences.

 

Leave a comment

Filed under Abuse, Abusing Someone's Trust, Awareness, Emptiness of Modern Man's Souls, Everyone Else's Fault, Excuses, Improper Behaviors of an Adult, Innocence Lost, Issues of Morality, Issues of the Society, Issues on Gender, Lessons, Life, Losing Sight of What's Important, Loss, Messed Up Values, Physical Bullying, Reforming a Sexual Predator, Sex Sells, sexual misconducts, Slaps on the Wrist, Social Awareness, Solicitations, The Price of Virginities, Tragedies in the World, Unsafe Neighborhoods, Utilizing the Internet, Vicious Cycle, Wake Up Calls, White Picket Fence

Enticing Adolescent Girls to Go Out on Photo Ops, He’d Pretended to Be a Female Model and a Photographer

Even AFTER SO many PREVIOUS cases, and you’re still falling for that OLDEST trick in the book, ladies???  When will you E-V-E-R learn???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Weng, who works in an architecture firm as a designer, on the friendship software online, he’d posed as a female model and photographer, and enticed female students to go out on scene for a detailed photography session, then, used the excuse of an audition to get the adolescents to a motel, then, rapes them.

The police examined Weng’s office and home computer, and didn’t discover any nude photos, and, the camera they took into custody had NO traces either, based off of Weng’s statements, he’d told the police that his laptop has NO more spare memories, and so, he’d deleted the pictures, and that he’d photographed three young women; the police suspected that there had been multiple victims, and booked him based off of obstruction of sexual freedom, the D.A. set the bail at fifty thousand dollars.

Based off of understanding, the thirty-four year old Weng works in an architecture firm in Taipei, has a gentle look about him, with a steady girlfriend, at the end of June this year, he’d used the communications program “Bee Talk”, and claimed himself as the female model who shoots on scene, “Jessie Wu”, and posted the pictures he’d found online, and struck up a conversation with a seventeen year old high school student in Hsinbei city, managed to talked her into the fact, that the business of modeling is easy money, that “she” had gotten paid $2,500N.T. an hour, and introduced the photographer, “Xing” to her.

The female student was moved, and Weng used the identity of “Xing”, through the “Bee Talk” program, and discussed with her how far she needed to go, and the price, he’d discovered that the girl has some issues, then, he’d switched back to the role of the female model and given her consultations, claimed that the photographer is excellent, and that she’d trusted him completely, “It’s just a photo shoot, it’s really safe!”

“Xing” invited the girl for an interview during the daytime at a café, the girl agreed, but, before she’d arrived at the café, Weng changed the location to a motel close to the Dome for an interview, said that there, they can talk about how far she’s willing to go, the girl didn’t suspect, they’d met up at the doorway of the hotel.

Based off of the statements, Weng used the excuse of “making you look more beautiful in the shots”, to have the girl take a bath, then, he’d used a camera to take her pictures, shot her hands, her back, then, he’d asked her to take her panties off, so he could photograph her pubic region, and started sexually molesting her, after the female student realized that something wasn’t right, it was already too late, Weng forced his finger into her, and managed to record the footage of him, raping her, afterwards, he’d tossed down $1,500N.T., then, left.

As the female student went home, she’d cried to her parents about it, that evening, they’d gone to the police, the Detective Squad based off of the IP address, and took the surveillance footage, and zoomed in on Weng, and made an arrest at the place he worked; he’d claimed, that the photographs he’d taken of the girl were for his own viewing pleasures, that it was a spur of the moment when he’d touched her inappropriately, and because the girl didn’t say no, that, was why he’d had sex with her, with her consent.

Yeah, just how D-U-M-B are THEY getting these days?  I mean, those modeling agency gigs should BE a RED FLAG themselves, and, how many cases of young teenage girls like this one there must be, for you all, to realize, that this, IS a dangerous world?  And, parents, DO teach your children to PROTECT themselves, I mean, at least, bring along a BOTTLE of M-A-C-E!!!

 

 

Leave a comment

Filed under Abusing Someone's Trust, Awareness, Bad Behaviors, Belief in a Just World, Betrayals, Broken Promises, Cost of Living, Downward Spiral, Early Exposures, Expectations, Getting Exposed Too Young, Growing Up Too Fast, Improper Behaviors of an Adult, Improper Misconducts, Invasion of Privacy, Issues of the Society, Issues on Gender, Lessons, Life, Messed Up Values, News Stories, Nowhere Is Safe, Observations, Physical Bullying, Rapes, Re-Experiencing the Trauma, Self-Deceptions, Sexual Assaults, sexual misconducts, Slaps on the Wrist, Social Awareness, Social Issues, Solicitations, Stupidity, The Teenage Years, Trends, Values

A Father Took His Five-Year-Old Daughter to Jump a Ditch, and Was Forcibly Hospitalized

 

And that still makes you an UNFIT parent!!!  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Jiang, who’s been diagnosed as emotionally unstable, was displeased at how his wife kept ignoring him, he’d set his house on fire, then, used a screw driver, took his daughter hostage, and jumped, with her, into a deep ditch, and was in a stand-off with the police for two whole hours; and the police took advantage of the time when they’re handing him a cigarette, to carry the little girl who’s shocked away, and forced him into the hospital, after he was charged with public endangerment.

“Would daddy burn us to death?”, every time the child spoke of her uncertainties, the family would also fear; in order to prevent any more threatening behaviors from Jiang to his family, the families hoped he could get the complete care and hospitalizations he will require.  The Sanitary Department stated, that they will get a medical doctor’s opinion on the matter, then, see if there’s a need for forced hospitalization.

The man in charge of the Center for Domestic Violence Prevention, Lin pointed out, that last year, they’d listed the Jiang household as a high-risk family, and had sent social workers to visit them regularly, and giving them counsel and the situations are improving, and that Jiang had lost it two days ago, they’d already helped Jiang’s wife and kids by filing an emergency restraining order against Jiang.

The police investigated and found, that the thirty-eight year-old man had been unemployed and stayed at home for awhile now, and the household relied on outside charity, along with government assistance to get by; recently, Jiang’s personality had changed, and every time he’d gotten into a disagreement with his families, he would start throwing things, and had multiple times, set fires to his own place of residence.

Even though, the family had multiple times, scheduled him for hospital stays, but he’d always manage to sneak out.  The nurses from the public sanitations department had three-times, helped him to get hospitalized, but, he’d locked the bedroom doors from the inside, and, the nurses considered that he might be emotionally unstable, and so, they’d left him alone, and didn’t force their way into his room.

At the start of the month, Jiang first used a knife to threaten to kill his own wife, on the 24th, he’d set his own house on fire, the D.A. allowed him to make bail.  Two days ago, in the morning, Jiang was displeased at how his wife ignored him when she was cooking, he’d committed arson once more, and had used a screw driver, and forcefully took his own five-year-old daughter, and jumped into the ditch next to his house, claimed that he will take his own daughter to die with him.

Jiang had several times, pushed his daughter’s head under water as threats.  And, the patrol officers who were called to the scene worked hard to console him, wanted him to think more on his own, along with his daughter’s behalf, and asked his wife and made communication between the couple possible, but they’d still argued nonstop.

The police saw how shocked the little girl was, and was struggling and wailing in her father’s arms, and the police pretended to hand Jiang a cigarette, wanting him to calm down so they can talk; as Jiang reached for the cigarettes, the officer managed to get the child, and, the rest of the crew rushed up, and pulled him onto the ambulance that took him to the city’s care facility, and the child who was still under shock was sent back with Jiang’s eldest brother.

And so, because you were unstable, you jeopardized your own child’s life, what SORT of a father are you?  And, you SHOULD be forcibly hospitalized, whether or NOT you like it, because something IS wrong with you, after all, you’d made your families live in fear for their lives every single day, and that, is how there are still so many unstable adults, and, the ones who suffered the most are still the kids!

 

Leave a comment

Filed under Abandonment of Children, Abuse of Power, Adult Children, Awareness, Bad Parenting Behaviors, Children in Mindset, Cost of Living, Crime & Punishment, Domestic Violence, Downward Spiral, Everyone Else's Fault, Excuses, Family Matters, Felonies, Innocence Lost, Issues of the Society, Life, Messed Up Values, Misdemeanors, My Thoughts on Various Issues, Negligence, News Stories, Observations, On the Wrong Side of the Law, Parenting/Parenthood, Physical Bullying, Psycho Parents, Scapegoating, Social Awareness, Social Issues, Tragedies in the World, Values, Vicious Cycle, Wake Up Calls

A Change in Her Heart, He’d Killed His Girlfriend and with the Man His Girlfriend Fell in Love with Execution Style

 

Because she doesn’t love you anymore, and you can’t bear the thought of her, being with someone else, is that it???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Lin, was suspected of being angry at his girlfriend who was twenty years his junior, finding another man, early yesterday morn, he’d gone into her house, and took the time when she was sleeping with his opponent in love, and shot them both, execution style, after he’d killed them both with one shot in the head each, he’d ran back to his place of residence and committed suicide.

When the shooting was occurring, Chuang, the woman’s last year middle school daughter was on the first floor, sleeping soundly, and because there was a huge storm, the child didn’t even hear the sound of the gun, going off; as the police arrived, they woke her up, she’d gone into her mother’s bedroom and found her mother, and  Jiang, dead on the bed, the daughter broke down.

At around a little pass five in the morn yesterday, Lin (age 57), was found in an empty lot, in his car, with gunshot wound to the head, and next to him, was a gun and shell casings, the police ruled it as a suicide, and after they’d checked into his personal life, the police feared that Chuang may be in danger, and by the time they’d arrived at Chuang’s home, it was already too late.

The police investigated, that the three deceased had all been previously married, Lin, because of his drug abuse past, met up with Chuang’s ex-husband, later, Chuang divorced, and it was just her and her daughter, and they’d set up a stand next to the local temples, Lin works as a skilled worker, the two of them fell in love, because they saw one another on a daily basis, and moved in together, Lin moved his registry into Chuang’s place too.

But, the thirty-four year old Chuang is very popular, and, three months ago, she was suspected to have been pursued by Jiang, causing her to be on bad terms with Lin, and Lin got angry and moved out of her place, and even though, he’d still helped her out at the stands from time to time, but had gotten into verbal disagreements with Jiang, and was beaten up by him.  The police suspected that Lin had carried a grudge, and yesterday morn, he’d used the key and entered into Chuang’s home, and when she was asleep, that, was when he’d committed the crimes of murder.

The police based on the trajectory of the bullet holes on the skulls, and ruled that Lin had killed them both execution style, and they would’ve NEVER had the chance of fighting back.  The police found, that after Lin committed the murders, he’d used a quilt, to cover up the deceased, and returned to his home, to try to commit suicide, and they’d already taken the altered gun and the shell casings to the investigative offices.

And so, this, is still ALL because of L-O-V-E, or rather, the change of mind, and because she had a change of mind about you, and you are unwilling to let her go, and you feel angered at how she was “stolen” by that other man, that, was why you’d committed the murders?  Are you FUCKING kidding me?  Why are people resorting to MURDER when they broke up?  Is it for the sake of revenge?  Is it for the sake of getting the person BACK for hurting one’s feelings?  I really can’t tell!!!

 

 

 

Leave a comment

Filed under Bad Behaviors, Because of Love, Cause & Effect, Cost of Living, Deaths Caused by Love, Everyone Else's Fault, Excuses, Expectations, Getting Even, Interpersonal Relations, Issues of the Society, Lives Lost, Love Became Murder, Love Became Revenge, Messed Up Values, Murder, Perspectives, Physical Bullying, Properties of Life, Scapegoating, Social Awareness, Spousal Abuse, Tragedies in the World, Vicious Cycle, Violence Against Members of Opposite Sex, Wake Up Calls

Two Men in Their Midlife Years Got Jealous of a Woman in Her Sixties, and Hacked Each Other

All of that, for a woman, are you FUCKING kidding me???  From the newspapers, translated…

The forty-nine year old man, Wang, and a sixty-two year-old woman, He, after they’d broken up, he was displeased at how she’d started dating Tsai, on the evening of the 18th, he went to ambush them at Tsai’s place, and used a kitchen knife and a hammer to attack the other man, but Wang was diagnosed with cancer, and after a few strikes, he’d become weakened, and Tsai took the knife, and hacked him back, both men had bled, and was taken to the police station, where they accused one another for attempted murder, and both were booked.

The enemies in love, and everybody became intrigued at how a woman, He, could manage to get two men so roused up.  Based off of understanding, she is unemployed, slimly built, and because she’d taken good care of her body, she’d looked amazing.  After she’d learned that Tsai was beaten, she’d gone to visit him at the subprecinct.

He said, that she’d parted ways with Wang for two years already, that last year in May, he’d learned that she’d started dating Tsai (age 53), wanted her to come back to him, she’d told him no.  And, Wang got jealous, last September, he’d followed her and Tsai to a motel, and she was so scared she’d called the police.

He stated, that she believed that Wang was a violent man, and had distanced herself from him bit by bit.  Wang once told him, that he knew where Tsai lived, and that he will get even with Tsai.

The police investigated and found that the cab driver, Wang, at a little past ten in the evening on the eighteenth, gone to Tsai’s staircase and wandered.  As Tsai was turning in, he’d bumped into Wang, and Wang attacked him with a hammer and a fruit knife, and Tsai managed to get the knife and fought back, and, they’d fallen down the stairs from the fourth floor to the first.

As Wang was arrested, he’d denied having attempted murder, claimed that he was in Tsai’s building to find his friends for a chef’s position, “Wanted to bring my knife to make him a sample meal.”  Tsai said, he didn’t know Wang, just knew that he was his girlfriend’s ex, that he’d taken the knife in self-defense.

And so, this, is where jealousy and a bad break up leads, and, a woman DOES have the right to END a relationship AS she saw fit, and, so, STOP trying to get a woman back, after she’d dumped you, losers, after all, you must’ve done something wrong to PISS her off, otherwise, why would she dump you and hook up with another man?  Exactly!!!

 

 

 

 

 

Leave a comment

Filed under Abuse, Betrayals, Cost of Living, Everyone Else's Fault, Excuses, Interpersonal Relations, Issues of the Society, Life, Losing Sight of What's Important, Love Became Revenge, Messed Up Values, News Stories, Nowhere Is Safe, Observations, Physical Bullying, Relationship, Slaps on the Wrist, Social Issues, Socialization, Stupidity, Values