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The Predator Lured the Woman to the Breastfeeding Room and Sexually Assaulted Her, Sentenced to Three and a Half Years

How the FUCK (don’t pardon me here!) is THREE and a HALF years enough, for what this LOSER did to this mother, huh???  It’s not, but hey, that’s what you get, as the laws still don’t protect us women, from RAPISTS!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

Four years ago, the man, Chen went to a five-star hotel to attend a seminar on American-Taiwanese Industry cooperation, and used the excuse of “the designs of the breastfeeding room was awkward”, lured the female employee of the seminar, ushering the attendants of the conference into the room, and sexually assaulted her, later on, he’d told that it was consensual; the Highest Courts found Chen guilty of forced rape, sentenced him to three years six months.

Chen was an employee of a foreign bank, in the leaders of the future seminar that was held in February of 2018, met the victim, they’d contacted through email on the means of the seminars; on the afternoon of March 16th of the same year, Chen arrived to a high-end hotel to attend the introductions seminar of Louisiana and Taiwanese Business cooperation, saw the woman working as an usher, he’d asked her to have a chat right before the seminar started outside.

The woman told him that the seminar was about to start, that she needed to get with her coworker, as the two walked together back to the seminar, when they’d passed the first-floor breastfeeding quarter, Chen claimed, “the designs of the breastfeeding room seemed a bit weird”, had the woman go in with him to check it out, as soon as she’d gone into the room with him, he’d locked the doors, then, grabbed the woman, kissed her, molested her, dropped his pants, told her to masturbate him.

The woman told him no repeatedly, Chen started masturbating, then, forced the woman into a squatting position, and because the woman is physically not as large, and Chen being an esteemed guest of her boss’s, she was forced to comply, later she’d told what had happened to her to her fellow coworker, called the police.

Chen denied the allegations, said that it was consensual, that it occurred naturally, that the woman was active in the sexual intercourse with him, that he’d not gone against her will; while the female employee told, that the reason why she didn’t fight off her attacker was that Chen was a guest of her boss’s that there’s the connection to be considered, “I am afraid of offending him.”  The courts found, that to satisfy his own needs, he’d dragged the woman whom he’d met for the very first time into the breastfeeding room to rape her, and used her being trapped with him, with no escape, and couldn’t fight him off, to rape her, that afterwards, he’d stated that she came on to him first, that there’s no remorse in him, in the first and second trials, the courts gave him three years six months, the Highest Courts tossed back Chen’s appeal, case settled.

So, what’s three and a half years in prison, compared to what this woman weathered through, huh???  And, how can it be severe enough, that this PREDATORY male only receives three and a half years of jail time for what he did to the woman, using the fact, that he was a client of her boss’s, and how she wouldn’t DARE offend him?  This is still just, SHIT!

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Bruises & Red Wine

Such, an odd, combination…

Bruises and red wine, they go so well together, don’t they?  Every single time, you’d bruised me, you’d, spread the red wine over my injuries, to help it get better, to make the pain that much, sweeter…

note how the colors…

photo from online

Bruises and red wine, that became, my life from before, I knew you were violent, but I can’t snap out of this cycle of abuse, because my father had, beaten my own mother too, and I’d, watched, and learned from the interactions, of how she’d always, apologized to him, for making him angry, giving him, an even, higher up status in the family, and he’d ruled over us like a king, and we were, peasants, without any say in anything!

Bruises and red wine, well, I’d had enough bruising in this FUCKED up (so???) lifetime of mine, and now, I’m downing those, bottles of red wine, one right after another, and another, and another (kinda like how you would, use those, alcohol cotton swabs to sanitize those, open sores!), only, that the red wine, they don’t do enough, to DROWN all the pain out, instead, it’d, made the bruises, magnified.

and the color of this

photo from online, are similar!

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The Sighting of a Predator by the Mayor of Tainan’s Side, Huang was Criticized for Allowing the Predator to Go Unpunished

And the DDP ruled city still covered the ASS of this, @#$%ING, sexual predator too, believe it or don’t!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The former assistant speaker of the Tainan City government, Yi was reported for cases in sexual harassment of children and adolescents, the issues were brought up in yesterday’s press conferences, the city councilman, Hsieh criticized the mayor, Huang for not being careful enough, that he’d allowed a predator to work for him; and took out the intel papers of how the head of economic development, Chen had been taking bribes in money and in sexual favors too, demanded that he be suspended from his position, to be investigated, Huang stated that everybody is innocent until there’s proof that s/he had committed a crime, and stated that he’d demanded Yi to explain himself as well, to tell the public the truth.

Yesterday, Yi posted on his FB, that he’d not had any intentions of sexual harassment, but, he apologizes for making others feel uncomfortable by his words, or his, actions.  Called out, that if there are any physical evidence that others are accusing him of, to pursue him in court.

from ten hours ago

“the assistant spokesperson of Tainan City Office, Yi suspected of sexually molesting multiple children for as long as three years”…from a Chinese paper based in Hong Kong, from online

The KMT hosted a press conference yesterday, that after Yi was accused of multiple counts of sexual harassments of teens, he’d only sent in his resignation, but the city government didn’t investigate the matters further, suspected that the mayor, Huang was, overlooking the illegal behaviors of his own subordinates., to the point that as soon as the city government received the notices, someone had pushed Yi to resign, and Yi immediately used his friends to pressure, told the victims to withdraw the claims, suspected, that the personal data of the victims had been, leaked out.

The mayor of Tainan, Huang stated, that as he’d been notified that the Children & Youth Welfare Leagues told that they were hosting a press conference, he’d had Yi speak to the press, and explained himself, that day at 5:45 in the afternoon, as the city government received the letter that accused Yi, Yi also sent in his resignation, stated that, he had new plans of what he wanted to do with his life, that nobody had, forced Yi to resign.

Huang told, that the contents of the disclosures are between the individuals involved only.

And so, there must be, a leak, based off of this, otherwise, how did this get out into the open, and clearly, this mayor was, covering for his subordinate’s ass, because, there were multiple accusations of this LOSER (b/c that was what he was!) sexually molesting the minors, and as the mayor learned of this, he’d not fired the man, instead, he’d, vouched for him, not even a suspension.

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The Predatory Coach Who’d Sexually Molested a Total of Seventeen Adolescents & Children Receive a Heavy Sentence of 236 Years

Yeah, as if, any amount of prison time would be, enough to, make it up, for what this mother @#$%ER (maxed out!) had done!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The man, Lo used his time of volunteering as a coach at the elementary school basketball teams, taking the young boys out, sexually assaulted, molested a total of seventeen adolescents and children, the Hualien District Court found him guilty on twenty-five cases of sexual molestation on a child by adult, based off of the one charge one punishment, recently, the courts sentenced Lo to 236 years ten months, and he will serve a combined sentence of thirty full years, this can still be appealed.

The verdict pointed out, that Lo had molested the children in the elementary years a total of eighty-four times from before, and sentenced to two years, and five years of probation, and yet, during his probation, he’d taken the opportunities of his work as a basketball coach in the elementary schools in Hualien, attempted to rape, to molest multiple young boy, he was prosecuted by the Hualien D.A.’s Office last year in June.

The courts found, that Lo worked as an assistant coach with the basketball teams, followed the teams as they traveled out of district to compete, and had paid for the students’ meals out, and taken to saunas to soak, and later, some of the victims started fearing physical contacts with other people, and there were the boys who’d originally loved playing basketball, who’d, suddenly hated it, the parents found something off, and inquired them, and that was when this predatory voluntary coach’s behaviors got found out, and the parents reported it to the schools that hired him.

The verdict pointed out, that from 2019 to 2021, Lo had had the boys comply to him to do the health checks on the victim boys in his car, in his bedroom at home, in the elementary school restrooms, and the basketball courts, etc., etc., etc., molested multiple boys, and had forced the young children to fellate him, and took footage of the acts.

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deserving NO chance of, parole! Photo from online

In the interrogations, Lo tried to explain that the coaches normally pay attention to the players’ health conditions, that they would check for injuries on their players, that it was, out of goodwill, as for keeping the footages, it was an accident, that he’d, accidentally taken the shots, that he’d not intended to obstruct the students’ sexual freedoms.

The Collectivist Courts found, that the victimized male students all made similar claims, and there were the victims who’d drawn out the home of the coach, and the police, the district attorney also found the photographs, the footages of Lo molesting the victims in his cell phone, in his hard drive in his computer at home too, and, found that he was guilty of six counts of raping the victims against their will, and twenty-five times for molestation, that his keeping the footages of the children he’d molested and raped on records, breaking the law of prevention of exploitation.

The judge of the Hualien District Court, Huang stated, that Penal Code 51 had “the combined sentencing of the multiple charges of the defendant shall not exceed thirty years”, and the Collectivist Courts decided to give him the highest limit of the sentences of thirty years.

And this is still not, harsh enough punishment for this, sexual predator who’d, used the opportunity to victimize his students, and even if he got out of prison an elderly man, who’s to say, that he won’t, offend again, after all, sexual predators come in all shapes, and sizes, and ages too, and this is still nowhere, NEAR, severe enough for this predator here.

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The Humanistic Education Foundation Protested the School for Halting the Instructor Who’d Sexually Harassed the Students for Only Six Months

This is still too, @#$%ED, up, and instead of terminating this instructor’s contract for hire, they’d, only gave him that, slap on the wrist!  Off of the Newspapers, translated…

The Kaohsiung City Government Fined the School $180,000 for Breaking the Laws of Child and Youth Protection, the School Hadn’t Responded if They’re Going to Terminate His Teaching Contracts Yet

A middle school instructor, Chen in Kaohsiung was suspected of long-term sexually bullying his students, sexually harassing the students, using the derogatory remarks to verbally abuse his students, the Humanistic Foundation last year demanded that the school terminate the contract of Chen, the school only terminated the contract to teach for him for six short months, the Humanistic Foundation went to the school, to object, demanded that the school stopped hiring the unfitting instructor.  The school called an evaluation meeting, and used the privacy clause, said that they’d already sent the teacher’s evaluation up to the Department of Education, to discuss whether to terminate the contract of hiring, and refused to tell if the school will, terminate his contract to teach there.

The social services stated, that the instructor will be fined $180,000 for “abusing children or teens physically or psychologically”, and the name of the instructor will be posted to the public to know; the head of the school’s PTA stated however, that the instructor, Chen may be a bit tougher, but was very responsible, that his behaviors may not have been correct, but not to the point of having his contract to teach terminated, and there were students who’d wanted Chen to keep on teaching, the school already did its best, to fend for the right of students to get an education best as it could.

The office manager, Chang of the southern branch office of the Humanistic Education Foundation told, last year, as Chen started out as the homeroom instructor of the first year middle school class, shortly after the school started, they’d received the complaints from the parents and students, that the instructor would smack the students’ heads, pinch their ears, and, cussed their parents out for not teaching them, that the students are way worse the dogs, and to the male students who couldn’t focus in class, he’d asked, “did you stay up all night to watch porn?”, or mocked the female students, “maybe, I’ll see you, with your pregnant belly on your graduation three years from now.”

At the end of last year, the Humanistic Foundation already demanded that the school terminate the contract to teach for Chen, the school held a gender equality evaluation, and the investigations on the accusations toward the instructor were all found to be, valid, and for the matter of sexual harassment, the school issued the punishment of terminating the contract for hire for six months, and the bullying portion, due to how it’d been reported, and the school already gave the instructor a written warning, they’d done away with punishing him this time, and this terminating his hiring contract for six months meant, that the students will have to be subjected to his abuse of them the next semester, that the school had totally, neglected the right of student to be educated.

The principal of the school stated, that the instructor had been on the teaching staff for twenty years of the school, that some of the beliefs of teaching that the instructor carried may be a bit, outdated, that they’d already, negotiated with him on it.  The school also held another teaching evaluation, and had invited two of the expert scholars in law and child development to attend, and they’d also allowed Chen to state his case, and in the end, they’d voted anonymously, that the behaviors of the instructor would be written about in an evaluation, and submit to the Department of Education for review, the Department of Education stated that it will review over the records, and see what needs to be done.

And so, this, is how this teacher still got away, with her/his, improper behaviors toward the students, and, this sort of an instructor, if the accusations were valid and true, should NOT be allowed, anywhere NEAR a student, think on it, parents, would you want an instructor like stated above, to teach your children?  And how can you, the parents, continue to subject your own young, to this sort of abuse and continual mistreatment?  Given that the accusations made were found true, that is.

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Families or, Outsider

Caught in her mother’s, mind games, and she hadn’t, figured, a way out yet, and so, she continues to, enable her mother in her, bad behaviors!  Translated…

My parents were divorced when I was young, three, five………or maybe even, younger?  I really don’t, remember, but I can’t, recall what “home” looked like.

I’d followed my father and stepmother to live for a while, in my, not happy enough but without the worries childhood years, and, in high school, I’d, gone to live with my mother, at the family home that she got, remarried to, and started, my not bright-colored, filled with dreams, teen.  I think, it took me a lot, to make myself grow up fine, tried my hardest, to learn what exactly, this world is to, teach me, to learn about the relationships, the love, that aren’t, constants in my life, to get to know, what families, and family members, look, like.

Until I had left home, become independent on my own, started renting away, I’d started, trying to, understand the meaning of, family.

My mother is remarried, she’s taking care of her other family, I had three more siblings, and we’d spent the New Year’s holidays together, gone out, and gathered for meals.  And, as my mother worked too hard, felt too bad, after she’d felt taken, and gotten drunk, she’d called me up, to pour her heart out to me, cried about how the home she now had, did not show her, enough, respect, the complaints came one by one: how bad the foods tasted in that home of hers, how she and her new families are having disagreements on the delegations of the chores around the house, the frictions she’d had with those family members of hers.  Every time as I’d done hearing her, I was the one, getting too upset, because that is what I’d lacked, growing up!  Then, I’d walked out of my place, like I was, getting someone back, went to my mother’s, home, with the words, sharpened like the swords, my eyes, sharp like the arrows, like I was, getting even.

But, who am I, getting even for?

Then, my mother would, switch her tone, and soothe me, told me that it was, all right, then, my anger made me into, an outsider of that, family, I’d turned into, that, outsider.

And, turned out, the hardest of the choices, wasn’t who I want to live with when my parents got divorced; nor is it, whether or not I’d answered the phones, to hear whoever was on the other end pouring her/his heart out to me.  This difficult choice that God had sent my way, which side do I belong, in the realms of, family relations, so I can, feel, like, I’m not, the, odd one, out?

And so, this is how bad these parents are, they made their kids choose sides, and, this mother had, manipulated her own young, to feel sorry for her, by emotionally blackmailing the child, perhaps, to make her feel more important, like in the cases of Munchausen by proxy, to get the attention on her, and this child feel, too tired of all of this now, and still hadn’t a clue of how to stop her mother from doing this, and this child unknowingly, became, the enabler of her/his own mother’s, emotional blackmail.

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Little Boy, Broken

Little boy, broken, nobody knew when, or how, he got found that way…

Little boy, broken, nobody can fix him back up, he’d been, injured, in too many places already, and those old wounds, they never, healed back up, at least, not, emotionally or, psychologically, as in, E-V-E-R!

Little boy, broken, there’s nothing we can do about that, he’d heard them saying, and he’d learned, to become, helpless over his situation, and in time, the helplessness became, anger, and he’d, turned his rage toward everybody who’s near him, drove EVERYBODY who actually cared about him, away.

what he, looked, like…

photo from online

Until his all alone, in that, darkness, deep down, inside, that hole inside his own mind.  Stuck in the abyss now, with NO way of getting out.

Little boy broken, picked his pieces up, mixed and matched, to make himself whole again, and yet, the pieces of his own truth went missing, they’d, escaped out of his mind, he’d searched high and low, but still not found.

Little boy broken finally grew up into man, and he’s now, a full grown, broken man, and just like how others had, broken him before, he too will now, break people too.

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The Dreams I Got Caught in, Yours, the Nightmare You Got Caught by, Mine

I was, caught by a dream once, long, long, long ago, that dream of you I’d had, that kept on, recurring, recurring, repeating in my state of sleep, I couldn’t break myself free out of it, and for a very long time, you were all I was, ever going to, dream about…

The dreams I got caught in, it was you, and you’d, become, my nightmare then!  I tried to, work my way, through these walls of my own mind, but kept, ramming into, the dead ends, like there’s no way out.

The dreams I got caught in, yours, and now, you will get stuck in the nightmare of my making, call it karma, or, pay-back if you will, after all, I’d already, gotten, ground down too hard, into, bits, and pieces here.

like this, caught, in a trap…photo from online

And now, it will be your turn, to get, slaughtered, by the nightmares of my making, because I’m in control of everything that will happen (or won’t!) here.

Let’s see how you enjoy these sweet little, nightmares of mine…

I will no longer be caught in your dreams, your turn, to, suffer, by living in my nightmare now, honey!

Note: this is still NOT directed toward anyone who CAN read, and if you can’t read yet, and can understand this, do give me a call, I love to meet ya.

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What We’re Told Not To Talk About – Christine E. Ray — Brave & Reckless

we liked you better when you were a girl with your mouth muzzled shut by strong adult hands seen but not heard on your scabbed bony knees easily rendered docile compliant we liked you better when you were young held the shared secrets close carried the blame our blame as if it were your own […]

What We’re Told Not To Talk About – Christine E. Ray — Brave & Reckless

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A Few More Dream, Then, I’ll Be, Done

A few more dreams, then, I’ll be, done, she’d told him, not even, opening up her eyes…

A few more dreams, then, I’ll be, done, but, those handful of dreams, well, they’re, never gonna be, enough, are they?  No, as I got accustomed to, living in this, dormant, state of mine.

A few more dreams, then, I’ll be, done, are you sure about that, huh?  That’s what you’d told me last time, and yet, you still, hadn’t, waken up yet, from the last time we’d, spoken!  A few more dreams, then, I’ll be, done, then, I shall, face up to this, real world, this, harsh reality I come to, wake back up in!

passed out, C-O-L-D!!!

like this…photo from online

A few more dreams, then, I’ll be, done, yeah, just keep telling yourself that, because, it’s, this addiction that you’re, currently under, just a few more rounds, just one more fuck, one more, forgiveness, then, you will, change, right?

Like I believe you, and, unlike you, I’m already, wide, awake, and I shall, NEVER get dragged back down, into, that state of, dormancy again.

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