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If You Can’t Even, Get Along Well Enough with Your Mother-in-Law, How the HELL Do You Expect to Get Along with Your Daughters-in-Law???

Uh, this is what I call, a STUPID QUESTION, so, SCRATCH that “last statement” on how there are, NO stupid questions as I’d, stated, previously…

If you can’t even, get along well enough with your mother-in-law, and how the HELL do you expect to get along with your daughters-in-law?  You can’t, and, no matter how you say, that you won’t repeat what your @#$%ED up mothers-in-law DID to you when you married those, mother @$#%ERS (still NOT name calling here!), you will still, fall, into, that vicious cycle, even IF you do have, enough, awareness, ‘cuz, it takes, more than awareness, to map out that, brand new course.

And yet, what the @$%# (maxed out) would I know?  I’m still, unmarried, with NO children (not physically!), but heck, I still, know my SHIT ‘round this subject, so, don’t doubt me.

The thing is, we will all, pass down how we were, mistreated, by our own, mothers-in-law to our own, daughters-in-law, because that, is just how humans behave, and, there’s, NO way, of, snapping, OUT of this, vicious cycle, unless, you have, that extra-sensitive perception (not like clairvoyance, I’m afraid…), and is, super, duper aware, of, everything that’s, currently, happening all around you, otherwise, you will, NEVER break out of that, vicious cycle, and I got NO need to worry ‘bout getting STUCK, inside, that “vortex” cuz???  Oh yeah, I got, ZERO plans of getting married (just bring that GUN to my wedding, as I’d stated previously???), got NO need to have this, already DEAD daughter of mine, and yes, I still, endured through, a whole lot of, abuse AND neglect, along with, other forms, versions, of BULLSHIT you can, or can’t, ever, imagine, so, do NOT, question my authority on here, ‘k???

Mommy is in need of her F-I-V-E, so, class is, no longer in session, ‘til next time, my “children”…

Uh, you have GOT to be, shitting me on here and, I do apologize (N-O-T!) for my, condescending, tone of voice…for this one, N-O-T!

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Why is it, that the KMT Was Also, Borderlined, When It’s the DDP that’s, Failed in Its, Policies?

So, which one of you, is, the LESSER of, the “two evils” again?  Oh wait, you’re both, NOT good, and so, why would we the people, vote for either of you guys???  Oh yeah, we still go to the polls because, if we don’t, the party that’s currently, ruined this god damn, @#$%ING, country, commentaries, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

After the contracts of FoxConn and TMSC’s donations of the vaccines from BioNTech were signed, the chairperson of the KMT, Jiang demanded that Tsai’s government based off of the ratios of buying up the vaccines, to allow counties of Nantou and three more others, to buy the vaccines; the government used the excuse of how the policies of vaccines needed to consider the whole picture, that there’s, more than enough for everybody to get, to deny Jiang’s requests.  The mayor of Taipei, Ke wanted to buy the vaccines using the debtor system, as Jiang asked Ke to go find Tsai to discuss the matters with her, Ke coldly replied, “we’ll deal with the game of political spitting after this obstacle is tackled”.  In the measures of defense on the matter of vaccines, the DDP clearly, lost the people’s heart, while, Go received the gratitude from the people, Ke created the volumes of the online communities, while, the KMT risked becoming, borderlined.

The failed policies of defense against the spread of MERS-CoV cause the polls to drop for the DDP, but, the KMT didn’t win out.  Even as the heads of Hsinbei City, Hou, Taichung’s Lu, along with other heads who are of the KMT party were all affirmed on their measures in protecting against the spread of MERS, but, their individual rise in popularity, didn’t, help the KMT one bit.  On the matter of defense against the spread, the assistance, along with the vaccines, although Jiang made fun of how the DDP “gets whipped by the KMT, and moves one step forward”, worrying the citizens of the country, but, the KMT lacked actions effectively too, it’d, made the people, collectively upset over how both parties aren’t, doing enough, and, it’d, added on to how the primary political parties are, incompetent.

Go’s purchasing and donating the vaccines, “bearing with the shames himself”, broke past the obstacles Tsai set for him, and even as he was, publicly, made fun of by Su, the head of legislature, how the DDP’s, libeling against him for leaning toward Communist China, Go still firmly, pushed the proceedings, to the point of giving the ultimatum, demanding to see the president personally, and finally, he’d, broken the barriers set by the government officials, and, successfully, helped Taiwan buy in some of the vaccines that we’d, desperately, needed.  While FoxxCon’s success in buying the vaccines, showed how the Tsai government failed, and broke the lies of her stating, “The local communities can’t get the vaccines”.  No matter how the Tsai government tried to take the credit at the end, Go’s hard work, and every moment he’d put into, making the vaccine purchases successful, we the people are taking in.

Comparatively, the KMT, rather than riding on the tail of Go’s success, to fight for the votes, a lot of the people here, just about, forgot, the meaning of existence of this party that’s, not in power currently.  Jiang is hurried to lead the KMT’s four counties and cities, to “force the government” out, to break through their own bad image of “not doing a thing”, knowing that the Tsai government wouldn’t allow, but, if the KMT doesn’t do anything, people will soon, forget the party’s existence as well.  Besides, Jiang is faced with the challenges of keeping his position as the leader of the party, with Cho’s coming after his position; Cho’s announcement for the leader of the party, clearly stated, how shortened the leadership of the KMT became, that there’s no sign of mobility in the party’s, trying, to take control of the country back again, that it’d, lacked the roles of the party out of power, being, a check and balance system for the party in power.  How much support Cho will receive is yet to be seen, but, it’d, added to Jiang’s, pressures now.

The KMT are in control of fourteen cities and counties in the country, and claimed that they’d, set up, a “defense against MERS-CoV league”, but, on the buying of the vaccines, it can only, get a total of four counties of Nantou, Yunlin, Hualien, Taidong, it’d not received the supports from Hou of Hsinbei, Lu of Taichung, these bigger cities’ mayors’, supports.  While the party in the legislature other than shouting aloud, it’d not had, any, effective tactics, and they’re, ever the more, worried of the DDP’s and the net armies’ “reddening” them.  And even as the DDP failed in its policies in helping us to defend against MERS, the KMT couldn’t even work up the strengths, to fight for something more for the people.  And so, even as the people are, too disappointed over Tsai’s rule, the KMT still, couldn’t, manage to get the people’s, trust either.

What’s even odder is, the former chairperson of the KMT, Wu published a book, disclosed of the “insider details” that all of us knew of already of the 2020 Presidential Election.  And yet, as the outbreaks are hitting us hard, we are all worried over that, while Wu still, counted up the done-me-wrongs, evading responsibilities, placing the blames, pointing the fingers, as for those legislators he’d left in the legislature, don’t know what their functions were, in the war against MERS-CoV?  At this time, who gives a SHIT about how the KMT lost the last presidential election?  The KMT fell to the point where the DDP didn’t even want to take a second look at it, as it fought against their rules, and the internal fight within the party still ongoing, pointing fingers, placing the, blames on each other, how can it, get away from the fates of the party’s, being, borderlined, as the party is, fighting to regain the control of the legislative department?

Why is it, that the DDP lost the points, and the points aren’t, won over by the KMT?  Other than the People’s Party, the biggest problem of the KMT is its, own selfish fights, not taking a stand, not shouldering up the responsibility for the country.  After the party got out of power, the KMT stopped, showing its ability, to lead the country to become, independent, and only learned the old school measures of the party not in power, other than talking trash about the party in power, not known, how to, get into the masses.  Especially, with the chairperson of the party being so, narrow-minded, couldn’t collect the powers of the masses that are now, against DDP’s ruling the country, and its party members together, how can it, innovate?  This sort of a party that’s not in power, is it, that important, who becomes, the leader of the party?

And so, this, is still on how we the people will be selecting for the LESSER of TWO evils the next time election time rolls around, because this party that’s no longer in power, could NOT get its acts together, without the leaders that can, actually, turn the party’s workings around, there’s, NO way that this party will win in the next election, and we the people are still, SCREWED over, because look at how awful the DDP had, ruined us, with its, stupid policies, with its, delays in getting the shipments of the needed number of vaccines into the country, with people who are, dying left and right, and yet, the KMT still also, didn’t, prove to us, that it can, do something better, and so, we the people, are, SCREWED over, no matter WHICH party takes power the next time!

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The Man Enticed a Teenage Girl to Have Sexual Intercourse, Posted that it was “Her Area of Specialty”

How this MOTHER @#$%ER got away a first time, and tried it a second time, thinking he could, get away too, but the adult woman didn’t keep silent like the adolescent girl he’d raped from before had, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The man, Jiang used $30,000N.T.s to entice a fifteen-year-old middle school age girl to go to a motel, in the three days, they’d had sexual intercourse six times, afterwards, he’d not paid her any money, and posted on FB, her photo, her name, and stated how she was “a hooker for sale”, then the man played two roles, used the excuse of helping to get an adult woman work, gotten the woman to go to a hotel room, and threatened her that he had a gun on him, and, raped her twice, recently, the D.A.’s Offices charged Jiang on forced sexual acts and other charges, indicted Jiang, asked the courts to make his punishment more severe.

The police and D.A. investigated, Jiang (age 32) on May 17th of last, met the adolescent girl on FB, texted her, “I’ll buy a shot of your breasts and your pubic area for a thousand dollars N.T. is that okay?”, the adolescent was unwilling, he’d stated, “I’ll pay you $30,000N.T. for sex”, the young woman was too naïve, and needed the extra cash, and agreed.

For three consecutive days, Jiang took the adolescent girl to a motel to have sex with her six times, and he’d demanded her to have sex with him after he woke from his sleep, until the morning of May 21st, did he finally, release the adolescent girl for her to go home.

And, the following day, Jiang texted the girl, “I’ll, share this for you”, then, he’d posted the adolescent’s photo on FB, and disclosed her name, the school she attends, and, stated how she was a “professional hooker”, smoked marijuana, dating multiple guys at once, defamed her.

A few days later, Jiang used the exact same methods, used the friendship app on his cell phone, met an adult woman, played two roles, and fooled her completely, used the false excuse of helping her to find a job, gotten her to come with him, then took her to a motel, told her he had a gun, and raped her twice.

During the interrogations of the District Attorney’s Office, Jiang only admitted to having sex, was ambiguous on his making the threats, and that he’d raped the victims, and because the two victims’ testimonies were factual, and they’d saved the messages as proof, plus the police took the women’s clothing, and found Jiang’s DNA, and there were also the motel surveillance footages as proof, his rapes were confirmed.

And this still just showed, how men are still, going to RAPE, when the opportunities presented themselves, if they think they won’t get punished for it, because we women never tell anyone about what’d happened, when you mother @#$%ERS raped us, well, maybe those teenager girls are too fearful to SQUEAL, but grown women like us, we won’t take it!

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The Founder of Watchout, Liou, Charged with Sexual Molestations, Sentenced to a Year and a Half

And the IRONY of this is?  Oh yeah, this platform is on keeping an eye out for danger, to prevent injustices, and abuse, and its founder does this???  Yeah, uh, what the @#$% (maxed out!), off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

Liou, the founder of Watchout, was suspected of using the excuses of giving massages, under enormous pressures, and the excuse of not seeing his victims for too long, demanded to hug three women, and forcibly kissed them, molested their breasts and pubic areas, he’d denied the allegations, claimed that the ladies wanted to date him, but he didn’t want to date them, that was why he was, framed; the Taipei District Court disregarded his claims, and sentenced him on three counts of forced sexual molestation charges for a total of a year six months, this can be appealed.

Liou was an active member of the Sunflower Student Movement, and received the title of “Social Movement Physician”, also a founder of the online media group “Watchout” and “MedPartner”.

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the LOSER who’d, molested the three women, photo from online

On Chinese Valentine’s Day of 2015, he’d invited a high school age girl whom he was the leader of the physicians summer camp to supper, as he drove her home, he’d, forced a kiss on her, and got his way.

On April 16, 2017, Liou used the excuse of setting up the product database “MedPartner”, a line of beauty products, invited a woman whom he’d met in a school lecture tour, forcibly kissed her in his car.

On October 3rd, 2017, after Liou set up the platform, “MedPartner” he’d had a part-time female worker to come to his home to clean to earn some money, he’d forcibly kissed her ears, and, grabbed her breasts and her pubic area too.

Liou denied all allegations, the judge believed, that the three victims’ posts on FB and related information, and accused him on what he’d done, which was, in similar measures, which showed, that they’d, not made it up; and the victims didn’t know each other, and they’d hoped that he wouldn’t get away with fines, and the courts found him guilty on three counts of forced sexual molestation, sentenced him to eight and nine months each, of the sentences given, he will be serving a total of a year and six months.

And so, this is still, a sex crime from opportunity, because the losers saw himself as all that, and he thought that no woman could, or would reject him, and that’s what drove him to molest his victims, and, he’d, attempted to weasel out from getting punished by claiming that the ladies couldn’t date him, because he wasn’t interested, that was why they’d, tried to frame him for the forced sexual behaviors, but thankfully, the courts didn’t believe him, but the sentence still isn’t, tough enough, I mean, who’s to say, that this SEX offender wouldn’t offend again, once he’d, served his terms???  You can’t guarantee the women that!

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The Hired Nurse’s Aide Displeased of Her Treatment by Her Employer, Fed the Person She Cared for in a Vegetative State Urine, Got Indicted

Taking it out on the individual whom she was supposed to care for, because this migrant worker felt displeased of the treatment from her employer, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The female nurse’s aide from Indonesia felt displeased at how her boss didn’t give her three daily meals, she’d taken her anger out on the completely paralyzed, in a vegetative state elderly man, Chang, she’d urinated into the stainless steel cup and made Chang drink, causing Chang to choke, run a high fever, and in critical condition, and as she was caught, she’d excused her bad behavior as “some evil spirit entered into my body and made me do it!”; the D.A. believed that this was the social tragedy of the “lesser abusing the weak”, and recently, the nurse’s aide was indicted on attempted murder, and the D.A. is asking for five years in prison for her.

Based off of investigation, “Di” (age 37) the hired nurse’s aid started working as Chang’s caretaker last September, knew that Chang who’s bedridden needed around-the-clock care, that he relied on the feeding tubes, and had gotten corrected by Chang’s two daughters for not feeding the formulas in.

Di was displeased at the treatment of her employers, starting on October 1st of last year, for three days, she’d taken the stainless steel cup, bottle, and urinated into the containers, then, force fed it to the elderly man, causing Chang to vomit severely, to choke, with his face covered up in urine and fecal matters and vomit, and in the end, she’d, wiped the elderly man’s face off, pretended that it was, nothing.

Because of this, Chang ran a high fever, and was rushed to the hospital, and the medics found that he had the inhalation sort of pneumonia, and urinary tract infections, and his life was spared after the emergency resuscitation measures were done on hi, the family found something suspicious, reviewed the surveillance, and found what the female nurse was doing to the elderly man.

During the interrogation of the district attorneys, Di admitted to being trained as a nurse’s aide, that Chang’s daughter showed her how to draw the phlegm out, knew that the formulas should be injected in through the feeding tubes slowly too, and new from the forms in Indonesian, Chang’s conditions, and because the families didn’t allow her to have her three meals a day, that was why “she’d taken her anger out on the elderly man”.

The D.A. found her to have an unsure motive for murder, that she’d not shown any remorse after what she’d done, and it’d caused the families psychological pains too.

The district attorneys considered how the migrant workers are far from home, that they had to deal with the unequal treatment of their status quos, that the workload had caused the nurse’s aide emotional, physical fatigue, which caused her to develop the feelings of being mistreated by the individuals who’d hired her, which led her to make the wrong decisions, and this case is no doubt, a “lesser abusing lesser” tragedy of the society.

And so, this, is what’s happening, and yes, there are these cases, because there are those who’d hired these foreign nurse’s aide who viewed them as nothing MORE than hired help, because we’re PAYING your wages, therefore, we can, ABUSE you, MISTREAT you, and in turn, these hired help to watch over our elderly, our young, take their angers out on the ones they are looking after, and the problem still won’t be solved, because there’s always a party in that, higher up, status quo (the employers) and those on the bottom, the hired nurses, the migrant workers.  And to think that all of this could be prevented, had the family treated the hired help kindly…

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Piece by Piece, You’d, GLUED Me Back…

Call this, the, “confessions”, of a, porcelain if you wish!

Piece by piece, you’d, GLULED me back, only, to SHATTER me, all over again?  Why, huh?  Why do you need to, hurt me like that?  It’s, hard enough, to feel all of my, broken pieces, not intact, like I’m, about to, fall apart at any given moment.  Why why had you, put me back together again?

Piece by piece, you’d, GLUED me back, and, the next time someone did something AWFUL to you again, you’d, taken it out of me, and I’m supposed to what?  Just, keep on, getting, beaten up by you, is that it, huh?

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what became, of me…photo from online

And so, what if, I’m only, a porcelain doll, an object, I hurt too you know?  Well, I don’t, but I get shattered, and that, is how I know, that I’m, hurt!

Piece by piece, you’d, GLUED me back, and again, and again, you’d, shattered me, all over, and now, there’s, NO a single millimeter of my skin that’s, in one-piece, because of you!!!

And I blame you, for breaking me apart, you should’ve, just, trashed me when your mother told you to, but you didn’t…………

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Temporarily Escaping from the Volcanoes the Neighbors Became a Key Helper to Prevention of Domestic Violence

The ABSOLUTE necessary SAFETY net that needs to get set up that’s for sure!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The associate professor of Minchuan University’s Crime Prevention Major, Dai pointed out, that the American scholars conducted a survey of up to a thousand individuals who bore witness to child abuse, found that a-third of males are inclined to model after their fathers and become abusers themselves, two-thirds of females modeled after their mothers, became victim/enablers.  There’s a lacking of this sort of research data here in Taiwan, what’s worrisome is, that even though there’s more focus on women’s rights, the Taiwanese women still couldn’t break away from the traditions, and, the young children who bore witness to abuse still continued to hide behind their helpless mothers, trapped in fear.

Dai said, the American child neurologist, Perry discovered, that children as young as two years and nine months can feel the conflicts in the atmospheres, and this will affect their frontal lobes, which is in charge of focus and cognition the most, as well as the hippocampus, responsible for interpersonal relations and intimacy.

Dai found that for children who bore witness to violence develop that sense of shame, and as adolescents, they wanted to escape from home, and would act out by becoming truant.  The more the children bore witness to violence, once they get lost, it’s easy, that these children will join gangs.

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各縣市政府委託民間團體投入目睹兒關懷輔導服務,社工依據個案年紀等需求安排遊戲治療,引導年幼孩子表達內心感受,也撫平心中的傷。圖/善牧基金會高雄中心提供
the way the neighbors can help keep a child safe…

Two yeas ago the case that shocked the entire society in Chien-Zhen District, Kaohsiung, with the bodies on ice, the ignition point was the man, Ting’s long-term abuse on his wife and children, his wife got so furious, told their son, “you need to make him (her husband) disappear from our lives for good”, and in the end, the mother and son murdered the man together.  Dai stated, that in recent years, the cases of murder by children are mostly caused by domestic violence, the children saw their mother get abused by their father, and, accumulated the anger or in a moment of anger, crimes were, committed.

The Kaohsiung Teachers’ College associate professor, Wei told, that when parents used violence to control everything, the children will learn, that violence is the only way to resolve things, and some of children raised in such an environment become abusers.  The social workers needed to give counsel to those who bore witness to these acts of violence, but currently, there’s only, limited resources the government puts into this.

Dai suggested that the schools, the communities, the medical facilities can all work together, to have a stronger effect, to set up an attachment relationship of trust.  The teachers should NEVER carry the attitude of “once you’re out of school you’re not my responsibility!”, they are the keys to keep the children’s minds and bodies safe.

A lot of people would turn a blind eye to the neighbors’ business, but the protection of children exposed to abuse, the neighbors can step in at the right time, when the parents start fighting, the children can temporarily head over to the neighbors to work on the homework, and the neighbors would do a great job in protecting these children.

And so, because of the prevalence of these domestic violence cases, and children being raised under such an environment, it’s not healthy for the children, this is why the neighbors need to be a sort of a safety net, because if you don’t look out for someone who’s in need, when you’re in need, nobody’s going to care about you either, and it still, goes, both ways!

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A Woman Spied on Her Husband Who was Having an Affair, Followed Him from Taichung to Fujian, Case Solved

Women are great private investigators when it comes to things like this that’s for sure, as this loser still attempted to WEASEL, and he was unsuccessful, because his WIFE is, too intelligent!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

A woman, Chen found it odd, that her husband often went to China, once she’d followed him there on the ships, and forced him to admit, “I have another woman, with kids” I needed to deal with; she’d wanted to just turn a blind eye, but as her husband had the webcam chats with the other woman in front of her, she got furious, sold the land, and pressed charged against him.  Although Chen’s husband told, that “I’d admitted to having another woman to get under her skin”, but the courts used the voice recording files, and mandated that he needed to pay his wife $300,000N.T. for the emotional distresses.

In 2018, Chen found her husband had gone to China quite frequently, and every time he’d not told her he was going off, and took a ton of cash away, she’d started suspecting that he had another woman in China.

At noon on August 19th, Chen found her husband, after waking up, rushed in the shower, and headed off in a hurry, she’d asked, “Where are you going?”, he’d, dodged answering her, and told her to butt out, then, rushed off.  She’d shockingly thought, that he may be off to China again, and checked and found her husband’s passport gone, decided to follow behind him.

As Chen took her passport to the Port of Taichung, bought the fare, and she’d found her husband for sure; he’d refused to tell her why he was heading over to China, she’d decided to tag along behind him, followed him to Fujian, as they reached shore, her husband told her, “I’m with someone else in China, I have a child too, I need to take care of it.”, asked her to give him time so he can, try to get rid of the child, and take care of the other woman.

Chen was forced to accept it as a fact, but cherished her marriage too, decided to give her husband a second chance. But, she’d found that he’d gone to China again, to cohabit with the other woman, and had webcam conferences with the other woman with her right there, she’d decided that she was done with forgiveness, sold off the land that her husband gave to her as a gift, and sued him for encroachment, and demanded that he paid her in court.

Her husband claimed, that during the time he was away in China, she took up with another man, after they couldn’t communicate, to get his wife angered, that was why he’d lied about how he was having another woman too, but he didn’t.  He said, that he’d lied about the other woman a long, long, long time, that his wife was suing, to cover up the fact that she wanted the assets left by his families to him, to divert the attention.

But the judge reviewed over the voice files provided by Chen and found Chen stated, “it’s you!  You’re the one taking up with another, and have a child too, and you asked me to prove my faithfulness to you, how do you plan to handle this?”  Her husband answered, “I will deal with the other woman.”  Chen stated, “You have another woman”, and he’d stated, “I’d already, broken it off with her…………”, and based off of that, the judge believed that the infringement claims were, true.

And this still showed???  Oh yeah, we women keep on forgiving, and forgetting, while you MOTHER @$!%ERS keep on humping around, with your whores, and now you have an illegitimate child, you still ask us to put up with your FUCKED (don’t pardon me here!) up ways?  And we’re all what?  Just supposed to look the other way, and feel blessed that you LOSERS still come crawling back?  Well, I got NEWS for you FUCKERS (don’t pardon!): we won’t, because we’re all done, forgiving, and we will, NEVER forget, as in, E-V-E-R.  Not in this sort of a serious betrayal.

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Until the Darkness Swallowed Us, Whole…

Until the darkness swallowed us, whole, we will, NEVER be aware enough of what the darkness entailed, and, by the time the darkness takes us over, it’d be, too late!  Until the darkness swallowed us, whole, until we have, NO more light, we won’t, know just, how precious, light really is, as we’d, taken it, for granted, all this time…

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Until the darkness swallowed us, whole, but, that would be, too late then, we would’ve, sunk, too deep, into, that darkened, abyss, to even, get our selves, back out to the surfaces again.  Until the darkness swallowed us, whole, it’s always, until the darkness swallowed us is, took that light away, would we, finally realized, just, how precious, light is, in our lives, but by then, we have, NO way of, getting it back.

Until the darkness swallowed us, whole, until, we lived in the darkness, for a long, long, long, long time, we won’t, realize, just how important, that light we’d, once had was, and then, we can’t, EVER, get it back, it’s, already lost…

They don’t call it HINDSIGHT for nothing you know???

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The Ambassador of Peace on LINE

Trying to keep the peace, when members in your group are at each other’s throats, when they get on each other’s nerves, what can you do?  Try to mediate, in a round-and-about sort of a way, so you don’t end up, as the common enemies, but it’s, not that easy!  Translated…

My daughter-in-law one day, chimed excitedly, to the Family LINE group, how there’s, a night market close to her home, and the photo she’d sent to the group was a street, lit up with the lights during the nights, with a world of fried food stands, the arcades, I’d immediately replied back, “be careful as you don’t know the quality of oils the owners used to fry the foods, and the kids shouldn’t be allowed to play those arcades, as they may be easily addicted to these games…………”

As soon as I’d typed all of that, my daughter who’s away on another continent immediately added on, “it’s fine that you go and take that stroll every now and then.”  I was shocked, I’d, immediately recycled my message back.  Thinking about this calmly, if someone rained on my parade, it naturally would, make me feel, awful, and it wouldn’t matter if the words that someone was saying to me was right!  I’d, contemplated, and felt grateful for my daughter’s round-and-about-way of reminding me, so I slammed on the brakes before damages are done.

My friend was once the head of a certain club, he’d shared things on LINE quite a lot.  He’d told, that often, as a subject of discussion was opened for debate, some of the group had started, firing those cannons, some, quite stubborn, to one’s own beliefs, some swayed with how the winds were blowing, some agreed to others’ words, and the words were sharpened, ready for war.  The most often was the fight for the parties in the politics, some debated on the policies, some toward the incumbents, and, it’d, made it difficult, for my friend, who wanted to try and mediate between those who are then, engaged, and, he’d, spoken of his “New Year’s Resolution” aloud via LINE.

He’d said, “from here on out, no talks of politics, no personal attacks.  When we have a difference of opinions, DO delete those emotional words, to keep the conversation flowing smoothly, rationally”, and, for the six months that followed, there’s, more harmony within the group of LINE.

getting into an argument on LINE

illustration found online

With the inventions of the high-tech gadgets, it’d, made people leap into an alternative world, the parents are, disregarding the needs of their children more now, and the problems between the couples, the parents and children, worsened, as our heads, lowered to our high-tech gadgets these days.

But, think on it, it’s not the gadgets that are awful, it’s the mindsets of the users, and the timing.  If one can use the gadgets, and not let these high-tech devices control us, then, we won’t become, slaves.  Like how those who’d retired who don’t live with their children, sliding on their tablets or cell phones, sending the messages, their emotions found a viable outlet, and they’re, able to get some news and new information from everywhere around.  Sometimes, they’re even, having a webcam conference with the children and grandchildren who don’t live close by, the comfort from interaction with one’s own loved ones, although they’re, separated physically, but they’d become, more than, connected psychologically.  To the point when there’s an emergency, the high-tech devices are, very good for sounding off the alarms.

illustration from UDN.com

圖/Tai Pera

My friend’s older sister-in-law didn’t get along with her parents, although one live up north, the other, south, they’d still gotten on each other’s bad side over miniscule matters, and, as the two sides were getting heated on the group on LINE, she’d, privately texted her youngest nephew, told him to commend his mother on her cooing, how he’s, looked after so well, so the grandparents who lived faraway, in the southern parts of the island know, that they have a good daughter-in-law.  And, other than posting the messages on how to live well, my friend told her older sister-in-law that her parents had, commended her in their circles of friends, how they’re, so proud of her.  And naturally, the problems between this mother and daughter-in-law pair, slowly, resolved on their own.

Working hard, being the middleman of peace, at first, you may feel, tried, because you couldn’t make the results of the changes you want to see happen faster, but, after awhile, the results will, show.  The communications apps are of various sorts and kinds, with the members numerous, and, it certainly isn’t by chance, that we’d, found each other, in the vastness of the ocean-full of people.  If you can cherish this affinity, and, work hard, as a connector in every group you’re involved in, keeping the peace, for everybody’s sake, as you turn on the apps, it can only bring you joys in the days.

This is on, being, THE middleman, and, this woman has some valid points, but, I don’t, necessarily agree with her on everything.  I mean, it’s important, that you want to keep the peaceful flow of conversations on your LINE accounts, sure, but sometimes, you just, can’t ignore how someone’s words made you flare up, and, if you don’t find a valid way to get the angers you feel out, then, it will surely, damage you, and not just your relationship with that other person.  And yeah, a middleman who will help, diffuse this, lit up bomb, may be necessary in these cases, but not always.

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