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No Longer Driven by Working Hard…it’s a Wonder They Were, Fooled & Sold

Wanting the easy way to make the big cash, and not the hard labors of working, that, is the commonality of the mindset of the younger generations these days here, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

Recently, my wooden door was, damaged, I’d needed it replaced desperately, several times, I’d called up the factory, and can’t find the master to fix it for me, and so, I’d gone to the shop to wait for the owner, and finally, I caught him, he shook his head, and sighed, “nowadays, no younger generation wanted to learn the skills of carpentry, I’m in desperate need for workers in my shop right now, all the workers all had a ton of work to manage, and can’t even finish their own separate work load, I can’t find a person to help you fix up your door.”

In the corner of the shop, there was an older worker, with his head close to the work counters, focused on measuring, and, used the electric saw to cut off the pieces of wood, and, sawing off the pieces swiftly, and precisely, doing the complex work.  The older master saw me standing there, looking odd, with that helplessness about me, walked over to the owner and started whispering to him.  Later, the owner finally agreed, to send the masters who didn’t mind working the overtime, to use their weekends off to help me fix my doors up.  Before I’d left the shop, I’d especially gone to the older master of the trade, and thanked me, for his willingness to work the overtime, to give up his weekend, to help me fix my home up.  Although the man was covered in saw dust and sweat, but he was, the most admirable laborer that this country lacked the most off, the skilled workers.

Comparing to the busyness of the shop, I saw a ton of college kids, doing nothing all day long, getting addicted to the internet, and as they needed the extra spending cash, they’d gone to the 24-hour stores to part-time, or gone to the restaurants to work as waiters and waitresses, to make the deliveries, they seemed not want to learn a set of viable skills at all.  Their goals in life seemed to be just to become a “lain-flat”, dreamed of making money easily, and pursuit the lifestyle that pleased them.

The recent news of the younger generations getting tricked to Cambodia, the unreasonable asking, like working in the casinos locally, no experiences needed, easy work, with the wages of anywhere from $50,000N.T.s to $80,000N.T.s monthly, with the bonuses, eight days off per month, with the couples’ suites offered for them to stay………and it’d, tricked many of the younger generations to go.

Although, none of the victims were of the “lain-flat” group, but, the con artists only used the means of “no need to work hard” as the bait, and, the trap had caught many of those who are into, laying flat, not working, and making the top dollars.

The writer, Hong mentioned in her book, “finding something, do it for the entire life, benefiting the world, that’s, the source of true, happiness.”, reminding the generation of lain-flats, that they should use the example of the carpentry shop owner, to find the meanings to ones’ own existences, learn the skills that is necessary, to NOT get tricked into the scams, to live your lives, fully.

And so, this just showed, how the younger generations all wanted an easy way out, they do NOT want to work hard, but, expected that they can still make the cash, without realizing, that it’s a positive correlation (hello, hello, hello!), the amount of work you put in, with what you get out of it, they all want the easy way out, that’s why, so many of these younger generations had, fallen prey to these schemes of the human traffickers.

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Although He’d Abused His Mother, He Still Got His Share of His Father’s Inheritance

The importance to document everything, otherwise, it would be a he-say-she-say, and it won’t be evidence in cases of fighting over the inheritances, the parents’ right to disinherit a bad offspring who wasn’t kind enough to them, off of the Newspapers, translated…

The civil laws stated, that if the children abused or severely insulted the parents, they will lose their rights to inherit, but awhile ago, the judge found that the youngest son was abusive toward his mother, but still maintained his right to inherit his father’s assets; the legal realms stated, that there’s another key, that’s needed.

Lu passed away last June, originally, his assets should split between his wife, and his four offspring, but his wife, his eldest son, his second son, and his eldest daughter felt, that the youngest son had severely abused the father before he passed, that he should lose the right to inherit; the four claimed to the judge, that the youngest son had had his mind set on getting the assets for long, suspected that while their father was still living he’d given $3.5 million N.T.s, to the eldest son, he’d called and had a serious altercation with his own father about it.

The four also claimed that the youngest suspected that their mother had signed over the fishery the family owned in Pingdong to their eldest brother, forced the parents to go to the land offices to review the papers, while Lu had stated multiple times, that he didn’t want the youngest son to have any of his assets, that if he tried to take it by force, the families should notify the police to resolve it in the legal setting, refused to give him a cent.

The youngest rebutted, that the mother and his older siblings were defaming him, he’d gone to visit his ailing parents, and had a run-in with his two older brothers, and his older brothers threatened that they will beat him to death, that was why he’d, stopped visiting his parents.

The judge investigated and found, that on the inheritance of $3.5 million N.T.s and how the claims that he’d forced his parents to sign over the papers, the four siblings can’t produce the physical evidence for it, as for how Lu had multiple times said he was going to cut his youngest out of his will, although all four of the families all produced the voice recordings, but, they were all by words of mouth, and the courts didn’t take it as valid.

The legal realm told, if people encounter something similar, for instance, the parents had stated multiple times they wanted to cut a child out of their inheritance, the rest of the siblings must keep the evidence, the proofs of the parents’ saying so, voice recording or video recording, or to written it into document, and found a notary public to verify, then, it fitted as the evidence that the courts needed to affirm this.

And so, this is the importance of getting things in WRITING, because, the word of mouth, are inadmissible in court, I mean, anybody can say that so-and-so said something, and if you don’t have the voice, the video, or even, written forms of proof, then, the claims won’t stand up in court, as this case suggested, and, as for whether or not this bad son was bad, we can’t really judge, because, we’re not members of that family, and we weren’t there when the confrontation, the conflicts happened.

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The Era of, STRIKES

Until ALL of our demands had been met, we will NOT, return, back to work, see how y’all can live without us…

The era of, STRIKES had now, arrived, and it’s still all due to that precedence (you MOTHER @#$%ING, spoiled rotten BRATS!), of success from before, leading the rest into believing, wow, if we cried as loud, we too, will get, our undeserved, CANDIES.

The era of, STRIKES, it was first, those, airline pilots, who can’t cope with those, long hours of working their, continuous shifts, then, the flight attendants too, and now, it’s the, post office employees.

like this…photo from online

The era of, STRIKES, we’re, striking, because we feel that we are, underpaid (how’s six-digits annually “underpaid”???), with not enough benefits (what, workers’ comp, health insurance, and your quarantine hotel charges are, reimbursed a bit too!), but it’s, still, NOT quite enough, because WE demand more, because once you’d given us something, we want more of something else, and we won’t stop, because that, is human nature.

So, welcome, bosses, ‘cuz all your workers are gonna be, upset over the work schedules, the pays, the health benefits of your individual, companies, and, they will, STRIKE!!!

And, there’s NOTHING you, as the big shot bosses can, do about it, ‘cuz, it’s the workers’ rights to strike, and if you stop them from striking, then, you get your sorry ASSES, S-U-E-D.

or this…

photo from online

So, do you all, want that, class actions suit on your hands???  Yeah, wouldn’t imagine so.

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He’d Stabbed the Elderly Neighbor, Who Raised Him Twenty-Two Times to Death Because She Refused to Give Him Money, Sentenced to Life in Prison

Stabbing the woman who’d raised him as her own to DEATH, for money, and he still didn’t get the DEATH penalty!  On crime and punishment, and the judge’s considerations, which allowed this individual to escape DEATH, and no, the punishment here still, does NOT fit the crime, nowhere NEAR the vicinity of it!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The Elderly Woman Took Care of Him, Raised Him for Sixteen Years, He Saw Her Money, and Murdered Her, But Admitted to What He’d Done, the Judge Considered that He was Young, that He’d Not Considered the Consequences of His Actions, Didn’t Give Him the Death Penalty

Last year in October, the man, Lee couldn’t successfully get money from the seventy-eight year-old elderly woman, Jiang who’d raised him for sixteen years, stabbed her twenty-two times, murdering her, took away $11,200,000N.T. in cash the woman had on her, went to the sex massage parlors to spend the amount, then, ran to hid out in Hualien, and then he was caught.  The Hsinbei District Courts charged him on murder and robbery, sentenced him to life, stripped him of the government post for life, this can still be appealed.

As the suspect had been caught, he’d stayed in police custody to date.  The judge found, hat the victim wasn’t related to Lee, but loved him like he was her grandson, that Lee wanted money to spend, and couldn’t get it from her, and took to murder, there’s NO means of sentence reduction for him; but considered how he’d admitted to what he’d done, and how he was only nineteen at the time when he’d murdered the woman, at the age of prefrontal cortex not yet fully developed, based off of the two pacts “not a crime of the most severities”, gave him life sentence.

The verdict stated, that when Lee was born, because his father was at large from committing a crime, his mother had a psychological disorder, his own grandmother couldn’t care for him, when he was only six months of age, he was left in the care of the deceased, who was his family’s neighbor; the deceased felt awful for Lee, took him in, treated him like he was her own, cared for him, raised him until he was sixteen; but Lee started running with the bad crowds back in high school, he was sent back home to live with his uncle.

But Lee would steal from his uncle too often, his uncle couldn’t put up with it, to the point that his uncle and aunt almost got divorced because of him, changing the locks on their doors, to the ultimate, chasing Lee out; Lee became homeless and wandered in the local parks, he’d turned to the deceased for help, her heart went soft for him, and would give him the money he’d asked her for, and last year in September, she’d even had her youngest son to apprentice at the plastic factory he’d owned.

Many times, as Lee had asked the woman for money, she’d agreed, and he’d taken the money out of her own pockets, and he took it to be norm.  On October 20th of last, the factory paid the fees for the construction work, the woman’s youngest son withdrew the $360,000N.T. out, Lee started having the bad thoughts, before work on the following day, he’d gone to the woman’s house to ask for the money, and on the way to the woman’s house, he’d gone and bought a fruit knife too; and because the woman refused to give him the money he’d asked for, he’d stabbed her a total of twenty-two times on her head, her back ferociously.

After Lee murdered the woman who’d raised him so brutally, he’d robbed away the $112,000N.T. in cash, left the murder weapon on the staircase of the first floor of the place where Yang-Jiang lived, went back to his rental place in a cab, changed out of the blood stained clothes, headed to the sex massage parlor to spend the money, then, hired a cab to escape to Hualien, and hid in the friend he’d met online, who had no clue what he’d done.  The police chased the leads of his whereabout, and he was arrested as he’d gone out to get the midnight snacks, and, turned over the $99,300N.T. that he hadn’t the chance to spent up yet that’s stained with the blood from the murder.

And so, how is this not a death penalty case?  I mean, this LOSER murdered the woman who raised him up as her own so brutally, because she’d decided to cut him off, because she didn’t want to give him any more money, and this is the end result of spoiling someone rotten, because this loser got away with asking the elder who’d raised him for whatever he’d wanted as a child, which was why he supposed that it was okay for him to get more money from her, and when she’d refused to “feed” him any longer, he’d snapped, and, murdered her, so, brutally, and yet, he still didn’t get death penalty for what he’d done.

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The Frontline Workers Interacting with the Customers Often Treated as the Scapegoats, the Service Industries Really Need to Reconsider the Beliefs of “the Customers are Always Right”

The customers aren’t, ALWAYS right, because, we all had, encountered, MORE than, our shares of, unreasonable, customers, right???  Am I right, (everybody, high-five me!!!), off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

In a local grocery store in Minnesota, recently, there was a man in his sixties, who’d wanted to buy the Campbell imported cheeses.  He was at home, staying out of the outbreaks for too long, and, it was a rare occasion that he’d made it out for a shopping trip, he’d gone around the grocery store, didn’t find it, had the store clerks look for it, which the store clerks didn’t find; and he’d, demanded that the clerk go to the warehouse to see if there are any, and, the store clerk checked for the stock on the computer in the storage, none.  Then, the customer raged out of control, started making a huge scene.  This was, the frequent encounters of the employees of the service industries in the past two years in the U.S., the consumers had become, more and more, difficult to handle by the days.

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“I want to see your manager!”…photo from online

The store clerk, Loona told of the experience, that the atmosphere at the grocery shop was anger, confusion, and fear.  She’d believed, that as everybody watched the man go off, people must be thinking, that the outrage the man was acting out on, probably, had, NOTHING to do with the imported cheese.

What’s before us, is, a weird era, with the outbreaks continuing on.  As people are in the shops, on the airplanes, and talking with the customers’ service reps, there were the outbursts of angers from the consumers: “I want to speak with your manager”.

And, these maliciousness made the owners of the business rethink the prime principle of “the customers are always right!” in the service industries.  If those working in the service industries have to play the role of calming therapists to the customers, then, their superiors, managers, became the bodyguards who must, keep the safety and wellbeing of their, workers.  And, every single time, as these “bodyguards” showed up, they should not tell the workers, “you’re fired”, instead, to the customers, “you are on the blacklist, don’t come here again!”

what the modern day consumers got, spoiled into

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and no, this is still, NOT, C-U-T-E!!! Photo from online

But yeah, that’s never going to happen, because, we all want our businesses to be flourishing, don’t we?  And so, even IF the consumers are acting up and out, for unjustified reasons, we can’t do anything about it, we can only, blame those cashers, store clerks, for not calming their customers down, after all, this is an industry where, we are, solely, reliant on our customers happiness, their satisfactions at our shops, to make a living, as for the rights, the wellbeing of those workers hired by our companies, yeah, let them deal with it on their own.

And so, this, is still, how messed up, the values are, and it’s all because, of how the businesses are, spoiling the consumers, rotten, telling them, that they’re, ALWAYS, right, when they’re, not!

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He’d Owed the Gambling Debts, and Masked Himself Up, Robbed His Own Father, Sentenced to Three Years Eight Months

See how men are still, SPOILED, by their, parents here?  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The thirty-five-year-old man, Huang owed debts in gambling that accumulated, and he’d started, thinking of robbing his own father, as his father took out the cash to pay the union, he’d used a toy gun, and robbed $410,000N.T. wearing a mask; the police first suspected that this was a set up by Huang’s father, and after chasing the leads, they’d found out, that it was Huang who committed the robbery, and as Huang learned that it was his son who’d robbed him, he’d decided, to drop the charges, but the courts still sentenced Huang for possession of a dangerous weapon, and robbery, sentenced him to three years eight months.

The police investigated, that Huang lives with his fifty-seven year-old father, had the debts accumulated from his gambling habits to $430,000N.T.s.  Last year on October 14th, he’d learned that his father was about to drop off payment at the union, at three in the morn that day, he’d called his father, asked to borrow a thousand dollars, and, got his father to go to the location, and ambushed at Linkou, as his father was about to get into his own car, he’d shown up with his face covered up as the man, Chiu who’d come, to drop off the amount, used a toy gun, threatened his own father, ordered him to give the money, robbed the $380,000 for the investment fees, as well as the $30,000N.T. that his own father had in cash.

Afterwards, Huang’s father immediately notified the police, and the police reviewed over the surveillance of the getaway car, found that the car was registered to Huang’s own son, suspected that Huang didn’t want to pay the union, and had collaborated this script with his own son, and the police suspected this, they’d notified both the father and son to come in.

Huang’s father told the police that he’d never done such a thing, claimed that after he was robbed, he’d asked his friends, and that was when they’d told him, that his son accumulated up the gambling debts out, and, as he’d returned home, he saw a toy gun inside his son’s car, and inquired him about it, then his son came clean, that he’d owed $430,000N.T. in gambling, and broken the laws; and, as he gave his statement, he’d begged the officers for mercy for his own son.

Huang originally admitted to robbery, claimed that the money he’d robbed from his father he already used it to pay up the gambling debts that he’d accumulated, but at the trial, he’d claimed that his father WAS the one with the gambling addictions, worried that his father might take the money and gamble it all away, that was why he’d, robbed him, and that the courts can call his father to the stand to vouch for him.  But the courts found that his statements are not in correspondence with the evidence, that it wasn’t reasonable, ruled that he was lying.

The judge considered that Huang was on probationary term for his public endangerment case, that he’d robbed his own father, Huang’s father loved him, and decided to not press charges, and he was given a lenient sentence of three years eight months.

Yeah, and what do you think this “kid” learns???  Oh yeah, I can ROB my father again, or someone I know, and get away with it, and this man had, spoiled his own son rotten too, he should’ve pressed charges against his son, and put his son away for a long, long, long time, after all, the son had, robbed the father, and so what IF, he didn’t use a real weapon, that it was, only, a fake?  He still deserved to be punished, more severely, than this, but the father went soft, because it was his son who’d, committed the crimes.  And so, another LOSER is, spoiled by his own, “daddy dearest” here!

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The Landlady of the Rao River Night Market Beaten into a Coma by Her Own Son

Another BLOOD-SUCKING L-E-E-C-H we have here, as his families finally, CUT him off, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The Man Couldn’t Get His Mother to Hand Over the Deeds to the Properties, the Neighbors Heard the Shrilling Cries, Called the Police.  The Police & Fire Department Broke in to Save the Woman, the Son Taken into Custody.

A man in Taipei, Jeng, couldn’t get his mother to sign over the deeds to the properties that she owned, in the midnight hours of last, he took a huge nail puller, hit his mother in her seventies until she was in a coma, his younger brother was beaten up by him too, the locals heard the shrilling “help us!”, they’d called the police, the police and fire department broke down the door and saved the injured mother and son pair, Jeng’s mother lost consciousness, was taken to the I.C.U. for observations, the district attorneys charged Jeng on domestic violence and attempted murder, and the courts mandated for his being taken into custody.

Based off of understanding, Jeng’s mother collected the rents from the Rao River Night Markets, has two sons and a daughter, after her husband died, she inherited the properties, the first floor, she’d rented the space to the shops, and lived on the second floor with her second son, and rented out the first and third floors to tenants.

Based off of understanding both of Jeng’s sons are unemployed, the eldest who was involved lives on the boundaries of Songshan and Xinyi District, at Huling Street, because he got into drugs, and had priors in drugs, he’d gone home often to ask for money, and demanded that his mother signed over the deeds to the properties, to attempt to get his hands on the family’s assets.

The fifty-year-old eldest son at around one in the morn, returned to his mother’s home, demanded that she signs over the deeds of the property that’s worth $20,000N.T.s, but the mother was already in bed, and not paid him any heed, and this caused Jeng to feel upset, he’d used the large nail puller, and attacked his mother’s head, hands, his mother lost consciousness.

This tragedy happened late at night, because the elderly screamed out the shrilling “HELP!”, the neighbors heard, and called the police immediately, as the officers arrived, nobody answered the door, but due to safety considerations, the police called over the fire department to break down the door to save the elderly.

As the police and firefighters entered, they’d found Jeng’s mother on the ground of the second floor bedroom, suffered severe head injuries, with blood over her, she’d lost consciousness, they’d sent her to the E.R. immediately, she regained consciousness, and is now, in the I.C.U., the second son who was injured, and ran to the balcony to call for help, suffered fractures on his wrist and hand, and arm.

The police subdued Jeng and arrested him, confiscated the nail puller that he used, the case is being reviewed as attempted murder from domestic violence.  The neighbors told, that Jeng was unemployed, not gotten along with his families, only when he ran out of money, would he return home, and asked for valuables from his own mother, and, they couldn’t imagine that as he got home late last night to get more money, that he’d, beaten up his family members when they refused to give him the money he asked for.

The attorneys said, that in the more severe cases of domestic violence, the families can file for an emergency protective order, and after the courts reviewed over the facts and believed that the abused are in immediate danger, then, they will issue the restraining orders in four hours, and contact the local stations to keep the records of the case on file.

And so, this, is what happens, because you allowed this son of yours to SUCK you dry all those years, and now, you’d finally decided that ENOUGH is ENOUGH, and he couldn’t get the money from you this time, and, he flew into a rage, and, started attacking you, and this is still caused by the parents’ spoiling their own young, because you allowed him to SUCK you dry before, so why would this time be any different?  That I think, was the main reason why this man had, blown up and attacked his family members.

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The Son is a Driver, and Had His Poverty-Stricken Parents Pick Up After His Mess

We have here, a SPOILED ROTTEN B-R-A-T who needs his mama and papa to CLEAN up HIS bad mess, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The nineteen-year-old youth, Deng worked as a driver for a scam ring, followed the orders and collected one million dollars totally, from the two victims, after he’d received $3,000N.T. for his work, he was arrested; although Deng was from a poverty-stricken background, his parents kept apologizing to the victims and paid for the damages their son had caused in installments, the Shilin District Courts, after reprimanding Deng, gave him the lightest sentence for the crimes, just one year in jail, hoped that he could really turn over a new leaf.

The judge pointed out, that the last year amended fraud of “over three accomplices” are over one, and under seven years of prison terms, and considered that Deng was still quite young, and was at the bottommost level of the scam ring, and that, was why the judge was willing to reduce his sentence.  Lu and Chen fell prey to the overly used scam of “We have Your Son”, and had paid Deng $200,000N.T. and $800,000 in ransom to Deng, after Deng got his $3,000 in payment for his work, he was caught.

Last year, the woman Lu got a call said that her son signed for someone, but couldn’t make the payments, and had been taken away, she’d quickly made withdraws of $200,000N.T.; five days later, a retired man, Chen got a similar call, he’d placed the $800,000N.T. by the MRT station in Danshui, but the caller stated, “You still need to pay us $500,000N.T. in interests”, he felt that it was odd, immediately called the police, and, the police caught Deng, who was there, to pick up the cash drop.

Deng said, that his friends told him, “just pick up the cash, and you’d earned some money”, that, was why he’d become a driver; Deng said, that a man named, “Stinky” only gave him a cell phone, and that the headquarter of this scam ring is located in China, and had remote controlled him by phone, telling him what to do, he was unclear who was responsible for doing what in the ring.

Their son had helped scammed someone and got into trouble, the parents are heartbroken, continually apologized to the two victims, and promised to pay up the money.  The victims saw how stressed out the parents of Deng was, said, “we’re worried that our son was abducted, that, was why we were scammed, and you worried about your son getting jailed”, all parents are the same, so, they’d taken pity on Deng’s parents and agreed to settle with them.

The courts investigated, that Deng was given a two month sentence for public endangerment for drunk driving, he was also involved in another case of fraud, and was being overseen by the district court of Taipei; awhile ago, when the judge of the Shihlin District Court opened the courts, he’d scolded the teen, “You really don’t have a clue”, Deng replied, “I didn’t know that the laws were this strict!”

And that, is how this young criminal got, BUT that minor SLAP on his wrists, and, because he had yet to learn his lessons the HARD way, he will surely return to his old ways of being bad after he’s released from jail, and, it’s all because the victims took pity on the parents, who spoiled their son rotten!

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Allowing the Children to Learn to Become Independent

Observations from the workforce, translated…

I work in a food manufacturing factory, every time around the New Year’s, we’re the busiest, and so, the company would hire some temporary employees, to increase the help, so we can become better adapted to this busiest time of year.

Recently, there was a new part-timing kid, tall and strong, and, perhaps, this was his first job, he’d worked very slowly, but that could slowly be trained, but if he didn’t have the energies, everything he did, becomes, dead and boring too.

This kid has a very BAD level of comprehension, it’s hard for me to imagine, that he’s going to college, he’d repeated the same actions for the work, and still, he didn’t have a CLUE what he was doing now.

Every day around lunch, he’d received a call like clockwork, it was from him mom, asked him if he’d eaten yet, and what he’s doing now!  And that, was when I first gained the perspective, of what a “mama’s boy” actually looked like!

He’d already in college, and his mother still hovered over him, when will the child become truly independent?  Seeing how many blood suckers there are in the world today, are they all caused by the parents’ unwillingness and inability to let go too?

Yes, that, is the “creation process” of blood suckers, because you keep on hovering over your kids, you’d taken away the ability to fend for themselves, and, unless you stupid parents CAN outlive your own offspring, there’s NO way you can possibly watch over your young 24/7, and, the process of letting go SHOULD start early, because the later it got, the harder it would be, to WEAN them ALL!!!

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The Plans of a Birthday Party Didn’t Fall Through

On the education of the young, translated…

One day, as I’d picked my sixth grade daughter up from school, she’d told me happily, that a classmate was having a birthday party, that he’s taking everybody in the class out for steaks next Wednesday.

I thought, which parents have the money, to take out an entire class, the cost must run up high.  A few of the parents from the same community, after learning about this, started discussing, whether or not to shop for presents, and whether or not they should allow their children to go.

The birthday party came quick, on Tuesday, I’d gone to pick out a present, and picked my daughter up afterschool, she’d told me in disappointment, that the birthday party was delayed until after mid-terms, because the parents were sending her older sister to France to study, it was canceled.

After I’d heard, I started wondering, that the dates for sending the daughter aboard should’ve already been set, plus, can you cancel the reservations at the restaurant instantaneously?

After the mid-terms, the kids started discussing when they’re going out for steak again, the teacher called the parents who were supposedly throwing this party, and the parents said, that the child didn’t have an older sister, that he wasn’t going to France, nor was the throwing of the birthday party discussed.  Turns out, that the child made the whole thing up, and he managed to trick the rest of his classmates, his teachers, along with the other kids’ parents as well.

Later on, one day, this student who’d lied to everybody had an early leave, the teacher asked around the class, to see how many of the classmates had been in the same class as the child, and, a few of them raised their hands, and told everybody else, that this, was not the first time that this kid had done something like this.  The entire class got mad at the few of them, “Why didn’t you tell us?  Allowing us to get tricked like that.”  Actually, nobody lost any money, it’s just that all the kids’ expectations fell out.  And, some of the parents claimed that it’s great that the party wasn’t thrown, due to the recent food crises.

My daughter couldn’t believe, that she was scammed in school, that her expectations fell out.  I’d reminded her, that school is a microcosm of the world, that after she goes out into the world, there would be, more scams like this, that she must have a good heart, and to not want anything that doesn’t belong to her, and maybe, she could, reduce the chances of getting scammed.

And so, it’s still the parents’ fault, perhaps, the parents spoiled the kid, made him think that he could get away with murder, and so, he blurted out that promise, got the whole class going, and he became the center of everybody’s attention, and that made him feel special, who knows, but, it’s this bad behavior that the parents overlooked that will, end up, screwing this kid over in the future, and the parents doesn’t seem to pay any heed to their son’s bad behaviors.

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