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A Product of His Enviornmental Interactions

He was, a product of his environmental interactions, there’s NO denying that!  Being a product of his environmental interactions, he’d worked hard, to get along with, to adapt, to everything that’s happening around him, because that, is how he would survive.

A product of his environmental interactions, he’d fallen victim, and, once that had happened, he found himself, STUCK, and, NO matter how hard he’d tussled and rustled, he just, couldn’t, get back out again.  A product of his environmental interactions, during the last parts of his life, he’d come to understand, that if one is to ge4t along well with the world, then, one must make oneself malleable, so one can deal with the changes around oneself…

A product of his environmental interactions, he’d become, and, he’d fallen, to that mindset, and, NO matter how hard he’d tried, he just, couldn’t get out, he’s now, STUCK, for good!

A product of his environmental interactions, there’s no way, for him, to rid himself off that, because NO matter where he goes, he is right there, the consequences of his life, will always, be right there, behind him, ready to, catch him, RIGHT in the A-C-T………

 

 

 

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Helpless, a “Learned” Response

Getting RE-active here!!!

Helplessness became a learned “response”, because, in your earlier days, (and yes, this still dates WAY back into your own childhood years!!!), those two PRIMARY attachment figures FAILED miserably at what they’re supposed to do, for whatever reasons there may have been, how the HELL should I know???

So, you’d learned, to feel helpless, and, this “shadow” from your earliest interactions with the world (and, there are still just THOSE two “characters” in a child’s world, remember???), will tag along behind you, even AS you’d become an “adult”, and, you’re MORE than likely, to seek out whatever it is that you’d lacked, whether it was love, being cared for, etc., etc., etc., in people you come across.

Helpless, a “learned” response, once you’d learned to be helpless, you will NEVER, ever, EVER be able to, help yourselves, solve YOUR own issues, problems, or WHATEVER, because you’d gotten used to, having someone, to come to your rescues, and, you’re totally, SCREWED!!!

Helplessness, a “learned” response, and, once it’s been learned, it simply, can’t BE unlearned, just like Little Albert, do you think he’d EVER gotten OVER that FEAR that those god DAMN unethical scientist had, conditioned him to fear?  Heck no, he probably carried that fear of RATS that he could NO longer recall where he’d picked THAT up from, all the way, into his adulthood years.

Helplessness, a “learned” response, just like how EASY it would be, to condition (as in operant/classical/aversive???) someone, to RE-act to something, OR someone a certain way, and, once that condition is SET, it would be, NEXT to impossible, to make the response EXTINCT!

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Attributions to His Loneliness

Welcome, to, another “application” of an already-written down theory!!!

Part I…the Internals…

In this view, that attributions to his loneliness is made, to not the external environments, not the interactions he’d shared, or lack thereof, with the world, and, in this view, the man (person???) is more than likely, to ponder on, how s/he could get her/himself, involved with the world all around, like getting more involved with the world, showing cares and concerns to the people that s/he comes across, thus, solving the ISSUES that are contributing factors that’s made her/him feel so lonely, and, in this way, the man (human) IS the one in control, of getting RID of her/his own feelings of loneliness.

Part II…the Externals…

In this case, the man (still talkin’ ‘bout HUMAN here, hello, hello, hello???) IS blaming his loneliness on how hey, nobody wants to play with me, like in the kindergarten day, and focusing solely on how others may have done her/him wrong, which takes away from the person’s ability to INTROSPECT, meaning that if this process continues, meaning that NO one set this man/woman STRAIGHT, then, s/he will go on, into her/his adulthood years, continue to, blame other people for her/his own problems, and this translates into the workforce as, oh, I got passed over for that promotion, NOT because I don’t got the skills for it, but because someone ELSE in the office IS a kiss-ass, and s/he knows just H-O-W to SUCK up to the manager, that, is why s/he got the promotion, instead of me…

And, in the case of loneliness, the person would blame her/his own loneliness on how someone refuse to befriend with her/him, how they’re all teamed together, and working on a conspiracy, to pull me down, and, before you know it, this person would become paranoid, which would lead to, maladaptations of one’s realities, or, the person can become so withdrawn that s/he simply, cut OFF all contact with the outside world, and start living in her/his own ivory towers, and keeps but, minimal contact with the world, like ordering in delivery, and handing the cash for the food to the delivery boy, and, beyond that, s/he is completely, SEVERED, from the rest of the world, and, this would be bad because???  Oh yeah, we are social animals, hello, hello, hello???  And, being social animals, we’re naturally, drawn toward connections with one another, meaning that without the connections to those around us, how the HELL can we become properly socialized???

So, who, are you going to blame, for feelings of loneliness now?  I don’t blame anyone, for my loneliness, in fact, I still much rather have that CUP (try the ENTIRE carton’s WORTH!!!) of SOLITUDE, all to myself, all in my lonesome, with nobody, but me, myself, and I, as MY best company, and, the “four” of “us”?  We’re still getting along, quite well with one another, and, feel free, to see this as my Multiple Personality Disorder (uh, yeah right!!!) “acting up” if you want to, but hey, I’m still highly aware, of myself, and I know DAMN well, that ALL of my “characters” are developed as a WAY I learned, to COPE with things, growing up, and, there’s still NOTHING wrong with me, not right now, ‘cuz I’d FIXED everything here!

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