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He’d Killed His Wife after Thirty Years of Looking After Her after She Had a Stroke, to Release Her from Her Body, the D.A. Begged the Courts for Mercy

Because seeing his wife in so much pain, it’d pained him even more, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The sixty-nine-year-old man, Tsai couldn’t watch his wife who’d had a stroke and had been bedridden for thirty whole years keep on suffering, at the hospital, she’d, suffocated her to death with a plastic bag, and was charged on domestic violence murder; as the trial started, both the Taipei D.A.’s Office as well as his families asked for mercy from the courts, Tsai’s son also said, that his father took care of his mother for thirty years in smiles, never had a word of complaint; the judge believed, that the murder that Tsai committed qualified for two reduction of sentencing, and sentenced him to two years six months, this can be appealed.

The attorney of the defendant used the “murder of mercy”, and it’s a rare instant, that both the district attorney and defense had agreed on it, the district attorney on the case did NOT take Tsai into protective custody, the district attorney in the trial only care if Tsai was responsible for what he’d done or not, the defense had also played the recording of Tsai’s wife’s cries of pain, to prove that Tsai murdered his wife to put her out of her misery.

The judge found that Tsai had qualified for the two “turned himself in”, “understandable circumstances” reduction of sentencing, and gave him half, then half of the lowest terms of the murder sentence of ten years.

The district attorneys stated, that Tsai, because his wife had long-term been tortured by illnesses, on September 5th of 2020, at the Changgang Hospital of Taipei, he took a bag and suffocated his wife to death, and went to the nurse’s stations, told the nurses, “my wife is now, free!”

Tsai’s wife, after five days’ worth of resuscitations, due to anoxia, complications from her pneumonia, died, the district attorneys charged Tsai on domestic violence murder, Tsai didn’t fight the D.A., and admitted to his guilt, and the district attorneys believed that his situation is understandable, and suggested to the courts to give him a lighter sentence.

And every time Tsai went to court, he’d not talked much, and admitted to the charges, the courts asked the Changgang Hospital to do a psych evaluation, and it’d shown that Tsai was of sound mind when he’d murdered his own wife.

Tsai’s son testified, that his mother had seven strokes, that the first few times, she got better with the rehabilitations, and returned back to work, by the sixth time, the surgery had left her paralyzed on the left side of her body; and since his mother became completely paralyzed, she’d never had a single bedsore, his father took her to physical therapy, like helping her slide her fingers, he’d told her, ‘We’re at Badozi right now, almost to Yangming Mountain”.

Tsai testified, that his father in caring for his mother, he’d grown older and ill too, “there’s not just the medicines for my mother on the bedstands, but also the heart, the hypertensions that my father needed too”, that his father always wore a smile in caring for his mother, and he blamed himself for not being able to shoulder the burdens.

The defense attorney told, that Tsai is in emotional pain in making the decision to kill his own wife, that he’d grown ill physically too, there’s no record of him being treated, he had to work, and look after his wife, and asked the courts to consider Tsai’s mental state to give him a fitting sentence.

The judge believed, that Tsai lost his personal life due to having to care for his own wife long-term, that after he fell ill too, he’d not placed her in a long-term care facility, that he loved his wife deeply, that Tsai couldn’t handle the strains, and selected to take his own wife’s life, to put her out of her misery, “different from the motives of hurting the victim through murder”.

The verdict pointed out, that after Tsai smothered his wife to death, he’d gone to the nurse’s station, and apologized, cried and stated, “I’d killed her”, told the police who came to arrest him that he’d “felt he was about to fall”, claimed that his wife “she’d convulsed and cried out in pain every single day, she wanted to die”, based off of Tsai’s statement, he knew what was happening to his wife, and can’t use the insanity plea to get his sentence reduced to even less.

And so, this is, another case of mercy killing, and the husband can’t stand to see his wife in pain anymore, he felt tried by her pains, and, he’s also, overcome with his own ailments, and killing her, was setting her free from her sick body, and even though this qualified as mercy killing, because that’s his “motive” for “murdering” his own wife.

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Outrageous!  It’s the THIRD Time that the Taoyuan District Court Had Drawn a Demented Elderly Person as a Member of the Jury

Anybody CAN be selected as a juror, now that all of us, over eighteen are all, in the systems here, problems of jury selection in the brand new system of trial by jury here, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The trial by jury system is set to begin next year, but there had been, multiple instances that are, off, a one hundred one year old elderly severely demented woman, Chang who lives in a nursing home had been selected three times to sit as a juror, her daughter was upset, and wrote, called the district courts of Taoyuan, but no response, claimed, “this is, outrageous!”  The justice department responded yesterday, that in this particular case, the evaluation committee of the Taoyuan District Court system had failed in its functions, that they’re sorry it’d caused the inconveniences to the members of the public, the court system will reevaluate the juror selection process.

The jury system is the most important item of Tsai’s reforming the justice department.  The judiciary branch had smashed down a ton of money to set up the mock practices, and had the director, Wu film the promo, etc., etc., etc., and now, a one-hundred year-old demented elderly woman had been picked, more than once, it’d caused great debates.

The Justice Department told, that the jury system mandates that the selected must be “twenty-three-years-old age at least, and needed to reside in the jurisdiction for more than four months, a citizen of the country to qualify.”  But it’d not set up the roof of the age limit, unless one is “under the custody of another”, otherwise, the hundred year old elderly can still be selected as a juror.

The daughter of the woman in Taoyuan, Chang, who had been selected as a juror stated, that last August, they’d received the very first notice of their mother’s being selected, but because the mother had become severely demented, and couldn’t speak, is immobilized, and had started living in assisted living three years ago, she’d had to use certified mail to respond to the justice division her mother’s conditions, stated that she wouldn’t be fitting to serve as a juror.

And in February of this year, Chang once got her name put down for the list of the second round of selection for the jurors, as her daughter received the second notice from the courts, she’d called up the courts herself, and the individual she talked with stated, “the man in charge of the department is busy to take your call”, the call ended.  Two days ago, Chang’s daughter received a third notice for her to appear in court as a juror, demanded that her mother present herself at nine in the morn on August 16th, she’d exclaimed, “this is outrageous!”

The justice department told, the roster for the eligible jurors were set up by the local governments, that if the selected jurors had an illness or isn’t fit to serve, the district court’s evaluation teams would make a note (to delete those who are with a severe disability), believed that it was the members of the evaluation group that’s problematic.

Last night, the Justice Department issued a press release, formally apologizing to the families and the individual who’d been troubled by this, stated that before the actual implementing of this process, they will set up the needed regulations, discuss if as the selected jurors refused to participate in the trial systems by legal means, then they will be eliminated early in the juror selection process.

The Taoyuan District Court stated, that there are improvements in this case particularly, that they will advise the justice division to set up the related regulations, that as the evaluation teams the first time or the second time give the notices, to eliminate citizens who are over seventy, or those who have severe illnesses, and stated that they are unable to serve as jurors, that they will tailor to the practical needs of the citizens, but insisted that the court didn’t do anything wrong.

Yeah, because this is only the beginning stages of the trial-by-jury system that’s begun here, there are a ton of things that the justice department overlooked, and, that’s just inconvenient for us, the citizens.  Besides, the jury system isn’t always justified, because, there would be biases in everybody, and who knows, the members o the jurors may already set up in their minds, that the defendant is guilty or not, and the cases would be deadlocked, as there’s a need for an unanimous verdict of guilty or not guilty that’s required.

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But It’s Our, Bodies…

You Say that Roe vs. Wade is MURDER

But it’s Our, Bodies…

That at Conception, there’s, Something that’s Alive Inside

But it’s Our, Bodies

You Tell Us, that it’s Un-Christian, to Take a Life

But it’s Our, Bodies, Carrying Those, “Lives” (are they really noted as living at the moment of, conception???)

It’s just Not Right, that the Government Now Controls Over ALL of Our (Women’s) Reproductive Rights

But WHAT Can We Do?  We are Now, Second-Class Citizens of the Free World Here

And We Can Only, Allow the Government to DICTATE WHAT is to happen, and what isn’t to happen, with our bodies

Now Consider this:

Would this have happened, if it’s the MEN we’re talking about?

Of Course N-O-T!  ‘Cuz YOU LOSERS ain’t got what it takes to carry your babies, unless, you’re all, seahorses, sea dragons, but your not, or, are you all, kangaroos, with them, pouches here?

Of course NOT!

And you TAKE away the RIGHTS of our bodies???

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The Castration of the Rights to Our Bodies

Thank GOD, that we women don’t got them, PENISES here!

The rights to our bodies, well, that’s, CASTRATED all right, by the U.S. Supreme Court decision, overturning RvW!  The castration of the rights to our bodies, well, we are now, breeding pigs, kept in those, tight corrals of the government, each one of us, inside our own, units of, existence, with the sounds of panic (push!  Push!  Push!).

The castration of the rights to our bodies, well, thanks, U.S. Supreme Court for RE-possessing the rights to our bodies, and if we die during child birth, oh well, who CARES, I’m mean, you’ll just find the next carrier, right?  The castration of the rights to our bodies, this, is what U.S. Supreme Court’s overturning of RvW does, and, it puts women’s right, back into, the CAVEMEN days (or maybe even way before???), where all we women can do, is stay inside those caves you’d built for us, taking care of those babies that are, popping out of our undersides, ‘cuz we ain’t got nothing else we need to do, but lie on our backs, waiting for all you mother FUCKERS (so???) to come back from killing the MEATS, and to hump us as a stress-relief, as we all know, how much energies you losers had drained, from chasing after those large game animals…

This is still, just one of many things, that men do, to TAKE the rights to how we women CHOOSE to live our lives from us, and, there’s nothing we can do, ‘cuz, CASE CLOSED, that GAVEL had, come down already!

This is still, way too, FUCKED (don’t pardon me here!) up…

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Those Broken Quarters in the Wishing Fountains…

Those broken quarters in the wishing fountains, they were, dropped in, and because all those wishes made with those quarters never came true for someone, that’s why, people no longer come here, to make their wishes no (and your point being???) more.

Those broken quarters in the wishing fountains, they’re, of no use, they’d gotten broken, can’t be used anymore, they’re, junk and waste metal now.  Funny to think, how not so long ago, when they got tossed into the wishing fountains, they were still, all, brand new, bright and shiny too!

what those, looked, like

tarnished, from soaking in the water way too long! Photo from online

Those broken quarters in the wishing fountains, might as well, just, collect them, and, give them away, to the homeless, better than nothing, right???

Those broken quarters in the wishing fountains, those wishes, that didn’t make it, those bubbles, that burst, well, that’s how life goes, isn’t it?

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The Cost of Electricity, at an All-Time High, the Tsai Government Still Keeps on Evading the Problem

As we the people should know by now, this government of the DDP is best at???  Oh yeah, EVADIND responsibilities, how the DDP government’s consideration of winning the elections had, screwed the entire country over, and now, we are looking at the cost of electricity, at its, highest, rate, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The cost of electricity evaluation committee announced yesterday, that there would be an average of 8.4-percent increase in the cost of electricity, for the high capacity usage facilities, there will be a hike of fifteen-percent in costs, it’d gotten to the highest estimated cost of electricity by the Taipower Company, it’d made the businesses cried.  On the angle of the consumer’s, the larger usage clients, for the sake of their business sales, they would need more electricity, and surely, they should be paying at a higher rate, but, as the entire global economy heads into recession, the government of Tsai came up with this way, of making the cost of electricity to hike up to an all-time high for the maximum capacity users, is this the government’s, only choice?

Originally, there’s no need to hike up the cost of electricity all the way up to 8.4-percent.  Reason why this happened, first, it was to cover over the seven straight years’ worth of not increasing the cost of electricity: those seven years’ of no hike in electricity, is based solely off of political considerations, the populist opinions, worrying that the increase at once would make get the people back to the mindset of how when the former president,

Ma had ruled, with the dual hikes in costs of gas and electricity, all of these accumulated, and it’d made Taipower lacked the means to patch up the holes, to lower the uncontrolled risks that Taipower is now, shouldering.  But, just for this year, the Taipower Company had lost more than the 8.4-percent rate increase, by three, four times, to the ceiling rate of the plans posed by the government, and all of this, is only the tips of an iceberg.

Had these past few years, we’d already started at a set cost of the local usage rates, then, the Taipower company would NOT be hanging by a thread like it currently is now.

Second reason being, the discussions of whether or not to increase the costs of electricity, it’s getting close to the mayoral elections, and from that angle, there’s very little chance the rates will be adjusted them, and so, the government ignored the union’s advice, to increase the cost by the sections, various stages, holding that banner of “cost of everything is up, Taipower can’t go bankrupt”, to bleed the major users out.  And, if the mountains that kept this country secure dared made a peep, then, it would be like how the C.E.O. of the TMSC Liu stated, “Taiwan will experience more power outages”, and getting his words soured down by the head of economics Wang on the radio shows.

Not to mention, how the industries are losing money, the biggest wishes of the industries are to have the stabilized provisions of electricity, and none of the government officials can guarantee this either, the government officials knew well, that the root cause is not in the cost of electricity, but due to the faulty energy policies, it’s only a false front, that the officials claimed, that the cost increases of electricity can keep the electricity provisions needed in this country stabilized.

The cost of electricity had increased by 8.4-percent, this was only, the start of the government led by Tsai’s running away from the problems.  This government, with its focus on the elections, will keep on, manipulating the costs of electricity, and, chances of the cost of electricity going down, is nil!

And so, the sole cause of this problem of higher cost in electricity is the elections, because had the DDP government not considered winning the elections, then, they would NOT have pushed the cost of electricity to too low, and now, the Taipower Company is suffering, and there’s a shortage of electricity that we are in need of, and, as the summers heat up higher, you can see how this is a vicious cycle, that this government of the DDP got itself, and us the people on this island, stuck in, right???

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In an Elitist Society…

We are many, ruled by one, in an, elitist society, with the government taking control over EVERYTHING we do, and we still don’t “share” anything (see how this SHIT is way worse than Communism???).

In an elitist society, the chosen few gets to decide the fates of everybody else, because they’re selected, they’re chosen, to MAKE the choices regarding our lives FOR us, and we got no say!

In an elitist society, the government ruled over us all, and we’d become, like those, trained doggies, when our owner (the government) says go right, we head right, when the owner says SIT, STAY, and the difference between we the people at those pets is that we still don’t get that “treat”, when we follow the commands of our separate governments.

In an elitist society, but, who the FUCK gave the rights to those who are now, ruling over us?  Who gave them the POWER over us?  And, WHY do they get to decide, what we can, or cannot do with our lives, our bodies, our minds even?

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The Politics of the Constitution of the Supreme Court Justice

EXCUSES, of why RvW is overturned, and it’s still based off of the individual court justices’ CONSERVATIVE views, it does NOT consider how it’s our bodies, our rights if we want to abort, if we don’t’ want to have babies, yeah, this takes women’s rights, back to the Cavemen Days when we’re supposed to just sit around inside them caves, and tend to the children, while all you mother FUCKERS (and no, don NOT pardon me on this!) go out hunting with your big, bad ass clubs (BAM!  BAM!)!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

On the twenty-fourth, the U.S. Supreme Court overturned the 1973 case of Roe vs. Wade, and the Casey case of 1992 on women’s right to have abortions, it’d caused the world, as well as the U.S. public’s attention.

The verdict of the Casey case was six to three, currently the makeup of conservative members and liberal members of the Supreme Court of the U.S. currently.  And so, the verdict of Amendment two on the twenty-third, with the verdict of overturning of Roe vs. Wade on the twenty-fourth, the verdicts from these two issues of controversy, we see, that the Supreme Court is controlled by the conservatives in majority.

There’s no single U.S. amendment that was on the right to abortion.  The Casey case verdict was based off of the precedent, respecting the verdict from Roe vs. Wade, in the women’s rights to abort, and it’d pointed out, that the right to abort was protected by the fourteenth amendment the “Freedom” clause of the U.S. Constitution.

under the Supreme Court ruling to overturning Roe vs. Wade, this is what we women will become…

the BIG fat one, not those tiny little ones, fighting for the TITS! Photo from online

Alito, who’d written most of the opinions of the Supreme Court believed, that not all freedoms are guaranteed by the unlisted freedoms of the fourteenth amendment, that the freedom and rights should be “from the deeply rooted American history and tradition, and this being a vital part of the orderly government of freedom”, that’s why the restrictions were set, to keep the supreme court justices to abuse the power, and select freely whichever side they preferred to be on.  Justice Alito analyzed the past histories, the traditions, the general laws, the state laws on the matter of abortion, believed, that the right to abortion is NOT rooted down in American history, or tradition, that it doesn’t belong to the “orderly freedom” that’s absolutely necessary to the people.

If the laws are based off of the deeply rooted American histories and traditions, then, all of the past Supreme Court decisions regarding personal rights to decide (same-sex marriages, contraception, marriage, even the 2015 decision for the rights of same-sex couple to be married), may never pass this test.  But, Alito did NOT challenge any of these on whether or not it’s personal freedom, and stressed that the right to abortion is totally different, as it involved the “life of a fetus” or “someone unborn”, meaning, that having an abortion will hurt the potential of a life that is existing.

The American court systems stressed that they’d reviewed over the precedence, so how can the Supreme Court overrule these two major decisions that came before?  Those who are on the other end of the opinions believed, that principally, the Supreme Court should upheld the rulings that came before, unless there are the evidence of major changes in law or facts of the case.  But most opinions believed, if the verdict was faulty from the start, then, it can be, overturned, there’s no need to wait for time to prove, to have these drastic changes legally and factually.

There were many articles on the five problems that the supreme court justices’ means of overturning Roe vs. Wade and the Casey case.  No matter if the majority of opinions are correct or not on providing the evidence to overturn the previous decisions, at least, work hard to set up a set of standards, and describe why these standards fitted to current situations, that the courts can overturn any of the cases that had already been ruled on.

And this still just showed, that these supreme court justice are ruling over these debatable issues based off of their own preference, they do NOT give a flying @#$% (trying not to “swear” too much here!) about precedence, bluntly stated, they’re ALL conservatives, and conservatives are against same-sex marriages, abortions, etc., etc., etc., etc., because it’s un-Christian, that’s what it worlds down to, and it’s still bullshit, because it neglected the right of us women, took away the right of our bodies, and, gave the right of our bodies to the federal government, so yeah, we’d all become, breeding pigs, ladies, now, start crankin’ ‘em all out here, heaven KNOWS we need to repopulate this planet!

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The U.S. Supreme Court’s Overturning Roe vs. Wade, the Two Sides Stood Opposite, Causing Impact on the Global Community

The U.S. is only that very first domino, following this, there will be more countries, with the extreme conservatives or extreme radicals that take over, and this will have gone to H-E-L-L!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The major news of the U.S. recently is the Supreme Court’s overturned Roe v. Wade from fifty years ago.

And, as I’d read the responses from the website, most of the messages left were all of confusion.  After all, every year, during the month of July, the important part of “helping the soul pass on” is on helping those unborn pass on.  Based off of Taiwanese beliefs, the souls of the aborted won’t be able to reincarnate, and they will stay by the parents eternally.  And I suppose, that the Taiwanese may not agree with the right-wing of the U.S.’s “right to life” beliefs?

I also read the posts from my friends in the U.S., they are all clear on the sides.  Actually, most of the universities in the U.S. leaned toward the left, and I’d often heard of the newest trends in marriage from my friends; but every year around Thanksgiving, Christmas, it’s always the conservative churchgoers who’d invited the students who can’t go home to celebrate with them.  Once I’d read a short story by Michael Cunningham, about a man who’d found his wife’s younger brother on drugs, and worried of whether or not he should disclose it to his wife, then realized, that keeping what he knew to himself, the courtesy from this, was the way to survive in the society.  But the social media had cause, this matter to spin out of control, even though there were those who’d believed that it doesn’t affect them, they’d only posted their own opinions, reblogged someone else’s articles, and they got labeled, and after the wars of the pens, they received a thumbs up seal.

The politicians in the U.S. surely took advantage of this, turned the debate into a national affair.  For instance, the senator, Cruz who is famed in Taiwan for speaking up against China stated, “this is a huge success for life”, while the American President, Biden stated, “Wade is on the ticket of election this fall”.  The Mid-Terms elections are coming up in the U.S. in the fall, inflation caused the Americans to feel furious, and Biden had used the abortion laws to shift the focus of the war of ideologies, and maybe, it’s what will help the Democrats win.

protests all over the U.S. on the Supreme Court ruling

the pro-life! Photo from online

From the practical side, this decision by the Supreme Court, it’d given the right to ban abortions to the states individually, but currently, the situational (for instance, rape, abnormal fetus) abortions can be performed, if the women needed to go to another state to get the abortions, what sort of economic help can they receive, all of these, seemed to be the anti-abortion of the extreme right’s to get the laws set up.  Or maybe the left had come lately, and was hit too fast, or maybe, the Democrats were planning to focus themselves wholly on the election of the latter of this year, and expected the debates to get too hot, to the point, that there’s no, turning back.

Should the constitution stay neutral in the matter of abortions?  Had all Trump’s supporters never had an abortion?  Is voting democrat meaning the voters supported abortion?  The features of a democracy became clear as day in this matter, the three supreme court justice that Trump had put into the supreme court kept the rightist at a majority advantage, and they all voted according to the values of the Republican party, and people don’t need to listen, or watch, and they immediately decide on the right or wrong, based off of stereotypes, who they should support, who they should ban, so scary, this hyperpolarization!

And the American President Biden criticized harshly, that the Supreme Court had taken the U.S. back 250 years; but what I’m most worried is, that the either/or of the culture of election will take the global community back one hundred fifty years.

and the Pro-Choice!

photo from online

And so, this is how it goes, because the extremists got their ways in the U.S., there’s that shift in power, and this is only the first domino that got tipped over, because with the U.S. setting this precedent, there will be more countries’ extreme left or right groups tilting the balance in their countries separately, until, all dominoes fall flat, and there’s gonna be a HUGE spill on AISLE three!

Who the HELL put the firewood and GASOLINE for the barbecue cook-offs next to the rotisserie chicken anyway???

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The Rituals of Love

How to raise your own young with love, so they’d become, loving people too, by modeling for your kids, what the expressions of love should be, and surely, as they watched you, they too, will start, to express their love to each other, as well as everybody else they may meet in their own lives, translated…

“Come!  A kiss, a hug, embrace me!”, when the kids were in elementary school, every morning before they set out, when they’d come home at night, I’d opened my arms wide, to perform this “family ritual” of hugging them, and, as the kids felt that they are fulfilled, smiled radiantly.  And to this very day, my passionate daughter would still hug me like so, with her face close to mine, make her eyes crossed, to make me laugh out loud.  While for my son who’s shier, he’d minced his lips and smiled, and, hugged me, and patted my back, and I’d hugged him and patted his back.  As the kids get older, the arms that wrapped around me became, stronger, and stronger.

The prayers before bedtime, it’s another ritual of love we shared.  The whole family reset ourselves back to zero; “Dear heavenly father, we are all your children, we all need your guidance, your help.  Please give us the wisdom every day, the courage, the love so we can face up to the challenges daily, bless us with strength, with peace and safety”.  Sometimes, my kids would say, “Dear heavenly father, there’s an exam soon, I’m really nervous, please help me have more courage, more strengths…………” in the nightly prayers, we’d become, equals, no lectures, no pressures, just being humbled together, lifting our heads toward up high.

The affirmations, the praises we gave one another regularly, it’s also a ritual of love.  When my son was in middle school, his classmates made fun of him, “you moron!  Retard!”, to which he’d responded back, humorously, “Yeah, with the guarantees of wisdom, I’m bound to be able to make a living for myself.”, he’d effectively resolved the badness those classmates’ words might have on him.  I’d told my son often, “I’d found, that you are a kid, with so many good qualities, you have the frugal morals of your grandfather, your father’s punctuality.”, and I’d told my daughter, “You have that flair to do major things in life, you will become, so very capable like your grandmother in the future, even more talented than I!”, the children respected us as their adults, and became fully confident, filled with their own hopes and dreams of their own futures.

Some say, that there’s this space inside our hearts, and only love can fill it up.  If this space is emptied, then, we would feel empty inside, to the point of feeling depressed.  So, I’d thought of some ways, to fill the love into that space inside my own children’s hearts.  In our home, there’s these warming rituals, hmmmmmmmmmmm!  Let’s call it, the “scientific behaviors of expressions of our love”, through the endless rehearsals, turning into this good cycle, filling up all the spaces in our hearts, with love.

And so, growing up in this environment full of positivity, the children are bound to be more optimistic, because the parents not just preached of these values to their own young, they’d, shown the kids, how to perform these behaviors using love too.

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