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Because Her Boyfriend Didn’t Show Her His Cell Phone, the Woman Got Drunk, and Fell to Her Death from the Top of a Building

See how EASILY people are “crushed” these days??? From the Newspapers, translated…

A woman, Chen, fearing that her boyfriend might be seeing someone else, two nights ago, she’d asked him to show her his cell, and he wouldn’t let her, she’d locked herself up in her bedroom, put on those songs about lost loves, after she’d gotten drunk, she’d climbed up to the tenth floor, and fell to her death, the mother of the woman, after learning that her boyfriend only asked her through the closed doors, “Do you want some midnight snacks?”, then, headed off to bed on his own, she’d blamed him, “why didn’t you show her a little more care and concern!”

The police investigated, that the thirty-seven year old Chen, and her engineer boyfriend had rented a place together in Sinchuang District, Chen was suspected of being clinically depressed, plus she’d been out of work for over a year now, she’d relied on her boyfriend, Chen, to provide for her.

Chen told the police, that the girlfriend suspected that he had another, two nights ago, at around eight in the evening, she’d asked to check his cell, and he wouldn’t let her have it, told her, “it’s MY privacy”.

Chen said, that he didn’t think, that his girlfriend would get jealous like that, and suspected that he wouldn’t let her see his cell, because he HAD another lover, they’d gotten into a HUGE fight, she’d gotten angered, took three bottles of mixed alcohol, and put on music about lost love in her own bedroom, and she’d turned up the music very loud too.

Chen said, that at ten in the night, he’d asked her if she wanted some snacks before bedtime through the bedroom door, and she’d still screamed back at him, “NO!”, and he’d made himself something, then, headed to bed, “I didn’t think she’d do something to hurt herself”.

Early yesterday morn, the community security guard heard a LOUD sound, and found that someone had fallen out of the building, and after Chen was awaken, he’d learned, that his girlfriend had fallen off the building, and went downstairs to check, and saw his girlfriend’s head cracked wide open and that she had died, he was shocked to beyond speech.

The police officer and the coroner examined the body, and the mother of the deceased learned what had happened, she’d gotten so angry that she’d blamed Chen, “Why didn’t you go into the bedroom to show some CARE toward her? Maybe she wouldn’t have died!”

And that, would be the family’s grief talking, and, the fact that her boyfriend wouldn’t show HER his cell, would still merely BE the igniting point that caused her suicide, there MUST be a TON of unspoken things that we do NOT know about here, that contributed to her death, and this still just shows you how EASILY people ARE cracking these days…

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The Two Teenage Girls Ran All Over Taiwan and Made a Mess, Was Charged of Three Counts, Could This Be, the Rebellions of Teenagers?

Is this, their ALTERNATIVE cries for H-E-L-P, by acting OUT and breaking the L-A-W??? From the Front Page Sections, translated…

The two renters who were originally from Hong Kong that destroyed properties, Chiu, and Tseng, was accused of renting under a false name, taking the landlord’s television set at the rental place, and they’d even shoplifted hats in the night market in Shihlin; the Taipei district attorney’s office charged them with falsifying legal documentation, theft, and squatting.

The D.A. pointed out, that Chiu (age 18), and Tseng (age 19) are still very young, and are still in the teenage rebellious stage, and even though, they didn’t think things through, but, in the interrogations, they’d held a good attitude, and show they’re willing to change; reached an agreement with the person who pressed charges against them, and had paid the price, and the D.A. asked the judge to give them a fitting punishment.

Chiu and Tseng had come to Taiwan using a tourist visa back on January 18th, they’d used a false name, to rent a place from Lin, the landlady in Da-An District; on the evening of February 8, they’d gone to shop at Shihlin night market, and stole two hats that a store had placed in the areas outside the shop, and they’re also involved in falsifying legal records, and theft.

On February 24, they’re suspected of being displeased at how pricy the rent was getting, they’d gone to Danshui of Hsinbei City, and used a false name, to rent another place with the owner, Cheng, but, as they moved out of the place in Da-An, they’d taken everything that belonged to the landlord, the television, along with other small affects, and was suspected of squatting.

And because while the two people rented in Da-An, they’d placed cigarette butts, food, trash, into the toilet bowls and the sinks, causing them to clog up, and the rental place was packed with expired foods, and they’d even slashed the couch, the sheets too, and they’d managed to break the microwave, and wrote messages on the walls, using their lipstick, and, on the part where they’d trashed the house, because they’d already reached an agreement with the landlord, they weren’t prosecuted for.

And, they were also accused of not paying for their perms after they’d gotten them, shoplifting chocolates from super convenience shops, and made graffiti on the walls of the hotel room they stayed in Tainan, and, on these charges, because there’s NOT enough evidence, or that the victims refused to press charges, the charges were dropped.

And so, you have TWO teenage women who ACTED UP, while in someone else’s country, and they were only charged with THREE counts? Because they had a good attitude, and had reached an agreement to pay up the price with the people who owned those places, and, what sort of values is that teaching? Oh yeah, I CAN pay MY way out of TROUBLE, that’s W-H-A-T!!!

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A Woman Received a Life Sentence for Murdering Her Mother, as Her Verdict Was Read, She’d Become Limp

IF you couldn’t stand and take the FALLS for your own CRIMES, then, why did you do it in the first place??? From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A woman, Yi Chen, two years ago in May, was murdered by her daughter and her daughter’s boyfriend who was her accomplice, her body was dumped by the seaside in Hualien; the Hualien District Court made its first ruling yesterday, that Tsai will be serving life, and her boyfriend, the DEATH penalty.

Tsai (age 32), upon hearing that she’d gotten life in prison, she went limp, and thankfully, the bailiff gave her a hand, to keep her from falling to the floor. The judge, Huang consoled her, “Do take care of yourself”, she’d nodded slightly. Tseng (age 51) however, still held on to his own pompous attitude, wouldn’t stand UP in court, in the end, the bailiff had to take him up to stand up, so he could hear his own verdict.

Jing-Jing Tsai’s father too, was there at the reading of the verdict, he was shocked at how his baby girl received the life sentences, he’d wanted to rebut to the judge, but, his families and friends prevented him from so doing.

Tsai said, that his daughter was well-behaved, but, after she’d met Tseng in New Zealand on her study trips abroad, her mother, Yi Chen was against them dating, she’d gone to New Zealand to prevent them from dating, but, it wasn’t successful at all. Tsai and Tseng returned to Taiwan four years ago, and they’d lived off of Yi Chen, and, the mother had paid the couple a total of three hundred thousand dollars total; the two individuals asked for another one million dollars, the mother refused, and that, was why she was murdered.

Two years ago on May first, Tsai and Tseng went to where Chen lives, and premeditated that they’d get some money from her, but they were successful in so doing, and so, they’d killed her and dumped her body; in the process, Tseng was scolded by Chen, and he got angered, took out the wires that he had prepared, and together, with Tsai, they’d strangled the woman to death, then, used a boy scout rope to tie her up, put her into a suitcase, then, dumped the body by the sea side in Hualien.

The judge, Huang stated, that he’d taken into considerations, that Tsai was emotionally dependent upon Tseng, and she’d shown signs of remorse during the trials, that it would be quite possible, for her to be reformed, and that Tsai was diagnosed with schizophrenia, so, he’d sentenced her to life in prison.

And Tseng was the primary accomplice of the entire thing, afterwards, he didn’t show ANY remorse, and that there is a need, to separate him from the rest of the society, and so, the judge gave him the death penalty.

And so, here, the motive was still M-O-N-E-Y, and, people DO kill, for a WHOLE lot less than you can imagine, and, the daughter DID plan out the mother’s murder with her boyfriend too, and so, how come she’d only gotten L-I-F-E? Oh yeah, because she’d shown “signs of remorse” at the hearings…

 

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A Middle-Aged “Leech” Wouldn’t Find a Job, Choked His Own Mother to Get Money from Her

And, the fault is still with the ENABLER, the parent, from the Newspapers, translated…

A thirty-five year old man, was raised by his mother who’d worked odds and ends, he was spoiled, and didn’t work, awhile ago, he’d choked his mother’s neck, asking her for more money to spend, and screamed: “You are my mother!  How could you call the police on me!”  The District Attorney’s Offices in Hsinbei City took him into custody, and, prosecuted him based off of hurting his next-of-kin.

On the hearing held by the D.A., the mother started crying, sighed that her son didn’t show any gratitude, but also begged, “Can you please not put him into jail?”, hoping that there is an institution that will teach her son, to NOT take anything in life for granted.

The D.A. investigations found, that Chang was spoiled, and would often get spending cash from his mother, last year in February, his older sister couldn’t stand it any longer, scolded him, Chang used a knife, to threaten her to shut up, she was so scared, that she’d moved out.

On the bottom half of January this year, Chang bought cigarettes for her son after work, then, when she’d returned home, he’d hollered to her to give him money, she’d marched angrily back into her own bedroom, but her son took her by the neck, she’d started screaming, ran out of the house, then, went to the police.

Two patrol officers came to Chang’s residence, Chang was emotionally distraught, and started screaming like crazy, and beaten his own mother with his fists; the D.A. thought that Chang showed NO sign of remorse, and prosecuted him based off assault on family member, obstruction of justice, and other charges.

And so, this, is still the RESULT of spoiling, and, this “leech” still SUCKED on his mama, because he knew that he could get his way with her, and the mother still didn’t see, that SHE, is the one, fueling to HIS bad behaviors?  How BLIND can you, STUPID parents BE???

 

 

 

 

 

 

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“Please Don’t Ruin My Son’s Life”

A mother’s words, spoken, on behalf of her son, who’d rammed a car into someone else’s child’s body and killed him.

“Please don’t ruin my son’s life, don’t SUE him for this accident”, she’d cried, as she’d begged and pleaded with them, with a total disregard of how the family is still mourning for their own child’s death.

“Please don’t ruin my son’s life”, well, he’d ruined HIS own life, by getting behind the wheels that night after he’d had one too many to drink, and would NOT allow the bar, to call him a cab, because it “cost” too much from this end of town to where he lives.

“Please don’t ruin my son’s life, and allow me, his mother, to pay for what he’d done”, the woman takes out her checkbook, and pen, looked up at the family of the victim, as she waited, for them, to holler out an amount, the amount that’s “tagged” on the child’s life…

“Please don’t ruin my son’s life, he’s ALL I have, it’s all my fault, that I didn’t teach him well, if you want to blame, blame me instead”, but, you’re NOT the one to have gotten behind the wheels that night, were you?  And, your son, NO matter how precious he is to you, MUST pay for the lives that he’d taken too, the lives of someone else’s babies.

 

 

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He Will Have an Excuse, Every Single Time…

He will have an excuse, EVERY single time, because he’d gotten away with the lies, because NOBODY ever made HIM pay!!!  He will have an excuse, every single time, because he’d gotten away with MURDER (or rather, something less severe, but yielded the same kind of consequences) with his mama, and so, naturally, he’d transferred that to you, because you are, after all, HIS “surrogate” mother (aka. His W-I-F-E???).

He will have an excuse, EVERY single time, because nobody’d taught HIM to stand UP right, and take HIS beatings, square, on HIS chins, and, because every single time, there is a woman (sometimes his mama, sometimes, his wife, sometimes, his W-H-O-R-E???) BLOCKING the troubles OUT of his life FOR him, therefore, he’d never learned, to stand UP right, and take responsibilities, like he is supposed to in life………

He will have an excuse, EVERY single time, as he’d been getting away, with the MISDEMEANORS, because his mama had let him S-L-I-D-E, and now, he’d lived his life, like he would, play a baseball game: getting STRUCK out, every THREE tries.

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Worries Forever~~~the Mindset of a Mother

Overbearing, yet again!!!  Translated…

Awhile ago, I’d heard on the radio, that a doctor talked about healthy eating, and then, opened up the lines for the listeners to call in.

An elderly woman called, to ask the doctor, that her daughter is already fifty, and she’d always had great appetite, but she doesn’t gain weight, with a bad temper, and inquired, if there’s a way, to  help her daughter get more body weight; the elderly woman also told, that her daughter had some sort of illness that she’s taking medications for long term, feared that there might be side effects to her health.

The doctor gave the elderly some advice, then told her, that her daughter is already fifty, and should know how to take care of herself, that she too, must take care of HERSELF.  But the elderly woman disregarded his concerns, just kept asking questions for the sake of her daughter.

My neighbor, Mrs. Chang, her daughter lived close by after she’d married, but she’d owed some debts, and it’s kept Mrs. Chang worried.  After she’d done, preparing supper each night, Mrs. Chang would call up her daughter, to ask if she’d cooked, if not, she’d hollered for them, to come over; whenever there’s an offering, she’d had her daughter, take every food item she’d prepared home.

Normally, I’d cook, from Monday through Friday, and would go out on weekends, but since my daughter gone off to college this year, I’d changed my habits, from Monday through Friday, I’d eat whatever, but on the weekends, I’d prepare a home cooked meal, to welcome my daughter home.

There was a song, “All Mothers in the World are the Same”, so true, no matter how old the children get, they’re always going to be seen as kids in their mothers’ eyes, and there’s that never-ending worry we have for them.

Hello???  Overbearing AND unwilling to let go!!!  I mean, hello???  Your ADULT children are what?  Older than FIFTY, and you’re still worried that they hadn’t had their lunches?  Are you FUCKING kidding me here, this, is just W-A-Y (and I do mean: W-A-Y!!!) overboard here!!!

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Where Did All Her Money Go???~~~Between Siblings

So, do we loan our money, to a next-of-kin or not???  That, would be the Soup of the Day here, translated…

I’d gotten yet, another text, asking to borrow money from my older sister again, and I’d taken the mindset of skimming through it, and I couldn’t give her an affirmation or a negation.

My older sister had been married for almost twenty years now, and she’d started borrowing from her family of origin for god KNOWS how many times already.  At first, I’d loan it to her, because we’re siblings, but, she’d never paid me back the money I’d loaned her, and we’re both working for others, living on our separate paychecks, and in the end, I just couldn’t handle it anymore.  As to why my older sister is always short on cash, it’s hard for us to comprehend.  When my sister had work, so did my brother-in-law, but, the two of them took out loans after loans from credit cards, as to how this problem got started, it’s still a mystery to us all to date.  My parents aren’t willing to see how their child’s house got repossessed by the banks and sold, and wouldn’t have a place to live, they’d pulled their pockets empty, and in the end, she’d still kept borrowing nonstop.

After becoming a “slave to her credit cards”, my older sister wasn’t willing to allow the banks to take a-third of her paychecks, quit her job, and stayed at home, and, every two to three days, she’d called people to cry about how poor she is.  We’d consoled her to find a job that pays her in cash, that way, the banks wouldn’t know, and that way, she could also help pay her own household expenses too, but she’d turned all the offers down using an assortment of reasons.

I’d asked my brother-in-law why he didn’t encourage her to work, he’d told me, that they’re getting on without her extra paycheck.  Would it be, that my brother-in-law feared losing face, wouldn’t admit to their economical difficulties, or, was my sister borrowing money for something else?  Our lives don’t crisscross, it’s hard for me to understand, and I can’t help her either.

So, the sister is probably hiding something, and, because the sister had a “prior” of borrowing money from her family, without returning the money she’d borrowed, which was exactly W-H-Y, the sister is having such a difficult, getting yet, ANOTHER loaner from the family again, and sometimes, money is what comes between the siblings, and, it WILL ruin an originally okay interaction, when money gets involved.

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The Woman Whose Throat Was Slit in Her Own Home, the Perpetrator Was Her Husband’s Nephew, Over a Matter of Settlement Money

So, once again, money is still the ROOT of this E-V-I-L, the “follow-up” from yesterday, on the Front Page Sections, translated…

Hong, the woman who was found dead, having her throat slit two days ago, the police suspected, that it was done, by someone she was close to, the case was solved yesterday, and it turned out, that it was someone she knew who’d killed her, it was her husband’s nephew, Yang; it was suspected, that because Yang’s aunt turned him down when he’d asked her to loan some money, that he became embarrassed and angered, then, murdered her.

Yang is also involved in the case from last year where another woman, Jiang, had pushed a woman, Kuan, to jump off of a bridge, Jiang went after the debts owed to her by Kuan, threatened her, that if she didn’t pay her back, then, men will gang-rape her, Kuan didn’t want to be raped, and so, she’d leapt off of a cliff, and killed herself.  Yesterday, Yang didn’t only JUST admit to murdering his own aunt, and admitted to the rape of Kuan from last year.  Today is the one-year death anniversary of Kuan, and Yang was caught on a day before, the police commented on how coincidental it was.  The D.A. asked the judge to take Yang in, and the judge agreed.

Hong was murdered, and her mother-in-law couldn’t stop crying, said that she’d been nothing but a fitting and kind daughter-in-law.  Yesterday, she’d learned, that it was her own grandson who’d done it, she’d cried, in front of the morgue hard.  The suspect, Yang’s father said, “Because my mother spoiled my son rotten, that, was why he’d become the way he was.”

The police investigated, that in the case when Yang had forced Kuan to leap off of a cliff, because there was a lack of evidence, he was free, but he needed to pay the settlement money in installments, Hong’s mother-in-law took out $150,000N.T. from a friend, to help her grandson pay the settlement, but later, the mother-in-law couldn’t pay back the loan, and so, Hong had took it upon her shoulders, to help pay the debt.

Two mornings ago, because Yang couldn’t pay up the settlement, he’d asked to borrow $50,000N.T. from his aunt, the aunt said, that he had YET to pay her back from the last time, that she wasn’t willing to let him borrow more.  Yang claimed, that he’d gotten down on his knees, hoping the aunt could loan him another $50,000N.T., but she’d scolded him, “You don’t have a mother anymore, and you’re still misbehaving, so useless.”

Yang was angered, took out the sashimi knife from the drawers, threatened her, they started pulling on each other, the aunt screamed, “Don’t make another mistake again!”; but Yang chased her from the first floor to the second, covered up Hong’s mouth, then, stabbed her on the neck, one of his stabs managed to sever her right carotid.

Yang didn’t care that his aunt was losing a LOT of blood by the bed, bleeding to death, ran to the closets, to find more cash.  After that, he’d gone to a friend’s house to take a shower, to wash the blood stain on the clothes off, then, returned to his grandmother’s house, to try to get more money, but, no one was there at home, so, he’d given up.  In the afternoon, he’d gone to the D.A.’s office, to testify on behalf of Kuan, went to the net cafés in the evening, as if nothing had happened.

The police asked around the neighborhood, suspected that Yang was involved, and they’d managed to track Yang down from the father’s statements.  Yang denied having murdered, but the police found multiple scratch wounds on his forearm, suspected that he’d received them from the struggles with the victim, and that, was when Yang admitted to killing his own aunt.

The police said, that Yang’s parents were divorced, he’d been spoiled rotten by his grandmother, last year, after the case with Kuan, he still didn’t learn his lessons, and would LIE to his family about working every day, instead, he’d spent ALL his money at net cafés, and would often ask for handouts from his family.

And so, this woman got murdered because of M-O-N-E-Y, and, the one who’s at fault is still this nephew, along with the family members who SPOILED him rotten, and, this guy has MULTIPLE priors in violence, and now, murder charges are added, on top of his already lengthy RAP SHEET!!!

 

 

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Waiting on His Mother’s Smile

You ARE, your child’s world, you DO realize that, don’t you??? Problems in the family, once again, translated…
In the early mornings, I’d taken my dog along, to a small path to exercise, I’d met the son of my once community college classmate, En, he’d hauled along his heavy backpack, and was on his way to school.
That originally frozen face, upon realizing my face, started shining, ever so brightly toward me. I’d chatted with him, and asked how his mother is. He said, that his mother is still as she’d been, not at all happy, and she’d only smiled when friends come by to visit her.
En’s mother is a Vietnamese bride, extraordinarily beautiful, during the month of rest after she’d had En, she’d started making handicrafts, to help out the family economics, she’d worked day and night, and the result of overworking, tiring herself out, was that she’d gotten a STROKE at such a young age! Later, even though, with extensive rehabilitations, she still couldn’t return to the way she was before. Secondly, the lonely country life, it made her, a foreigner, feel even lonelier, and so, she became depressed, and had attempted suicide too.
I told En, that he needed to hold a positive outlook on life, to NOT get affected by his mom. Without knowing, that he’d told me, with extraordinary optimism, “Depression is not hereditary.”, and, that’s clearly telling me, that I’m worrying too much. I told him, that if his mom did something stupid, he needed to tell an adult immediately.
He’d replied with firmness, “Mom says that after five years when I graduated middle school, she will go and do that thing.” I was shocked, his mother should NOT be telling him that, after all, he is only ten, and inside his young mind, he must have been withstanding a TON of worries and fears.
I encouraged him, “Work hard in school, maybe, you can find a way, to help your mom get better.” This time, he looked at me, with a scent of not understanding me.
On the way to school, he still stopped, and said to me, in an all-too-sweet voice, “Aunt, you must come over to my house to play some time!”
En’s mother lived in depression for so long, not knowing that she was blessed with a little angel. This child, is like a small weed, growing in the cracks, even though, he didn’t have a good environment, he’d still welcomed the sun in, with great optimism.
Parents who are trapped, if you can look over at your children more, then, you’d realize, that your motivations for keep going is your children. So, En’s mom, my dearest, your child is staying constantly by your side, waiting to see you smile. Please, don’t disappoint him!
So, this, is a family with a foreign bride, and, the mother, being away from home, and now, she’d become STUCK with her son, without realizing, that her son is needing him, and the mother is so selfish, thinking ONLY of her wellbeing, without realizing, that her behaviors would affect her son, but thankfully, this kid has positive outlook toward life, and, his blind optimism is probably NOT inborn…

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