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Fell in Love with Someone Else’s Wife, Sent Her Threatening Messages, to Force Her to Move

This is called, STALKING, hello, hello, hello???  From the Newspapers, translated…

The thirty-four year-old man, Chang about a year ago, met a married thirty-three year-old woman, Chen at a betel nut stand in Sanchong District, he’d started pursuing her endlessly, but they both had families, and the woman turned him down.  Chang got angered by her, awhile ago, he’d sent an anonymous letter to Chen’s neighbor, rumored that she was suicidal, to attempt to get her landlord to evict her, and the neighbors to force her to move out, the police yesterday followed the leads, arrested Chang, charged him with damaging someone’s reputations.

The police investigated, that on the 12th, the neighbors received an anonymous note, and that very day, they’d handed the letter to Chen, in the letter, it’d pointed out how she was beaten up by her husband who was a drunk and intended to take her three young children to commit suicide, and that if a fight broke out between her and her husband, the neighbors might be impacted hard, or that their rental home may become a place of murder and suicide.  The very next day, Chen called the police, said that she’d never offended anyone.

Until the police wouldn’t stop chasing the leads, Chen admitted that she’d gone to the betel nut stands to chit-chat, and met up with a married man who’s a customer there, Chang, she’d turned his love down, but told him that she would be a god sister to him, Chang started showering her with clothes, gifts, took her out to dine, and had gone to her home, to help fix up the plumbing and electric matters as well.

But last summer, they’d started arguing, and, Chang threatened that he was going to tell the relationship they carried on in to her husband, Chen believed that she’d gone within the realms of morality, she wasn’t threatened by Chang, and returned the cost of the goods, amouting to $10,000N.T., and returned the amount to him, wanted to sever the relationship; on the eleventh, Chang went to Chen’s front doors, and started screaming again.

The police found Chang using the leds, he’d admitted to typing up the letters and sending the message to the neighbors, planned to force Chen to move, by damaging her reputations, he was taken into custody after the police inquiries.

Wow, so this, is how you deal with a woman, turning you down?  You spreaded rumors about her, sent her threatening messages, stalked her, and tried getting the neighbors, to chase HER out of her home?  And it still didn’t work, and you still ended up, getting sent to jail, and all of that, because you felt you’d given too much to her, a married WOMAN, who hadn’t RECIPROCATED your feelings back to you???  Are you FUCKING kidding me here!

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The Boy from Next Door Showed His Love for the Male Actor in a Creepy Way

STALKER ALERT!!!  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

The male actor, Chuang who was once in an ad with a namely model, and acted in a show, awhile ago, he’d received a love note from the son of his neighbor, and, ever since, he’d found, that he was followed, wherever he went, riding on the MRT, buying breakfast, he feared for his own safety and called the police.

Chuang said, that his neighbor’s son was in high school; recently, there had been news on how crazy the younger generations are acting “I don’t know what he’s capable of?”, and now, before the actor goes outside, he’d tilted his head, to make sure that the high school student didn’t see him, and he couldn’t sleep soundly at night either, “I’m already considering selling this place I’d lived for five years.”

Based off of understanding, at the beginning of this year, the high school student and his family moved in next door to Chuang.  Chuang said, that in mid-February, he’d found a letter in his door, it had, “I really want to get to know you.”, and, in April, he’d gotten one, “I’m in love with you”, “I really want to meet you, I hope you won’t turn me away”, and the guy had left his phone number too.

Chuang said, that at first, he just brushed it off, later, as he’d ridden on the MRT, and gone out to get his breakfast, the neighbor’s son would follow closely behind him.  And he’d considered that the boy was still just a kid, he’d told the incident to the boy’s grandmother, and asked her to talk some sense into him.  A few days ago, he’d closed his windows before he headed off to bed, but, when he woke up, he found his windows opened, “It’s truly scary, I feel like I’m placed under a microscope all the time now.”

The officers from the subprecinct paid a visit, and the uncle who lived with the guy was shocked, stated that his nephew is in class during the day time, and when he’d come home, he’d stayed inside his room, that he couldn’t understand why he’d done such things, “I’m truly sorry toward Mr. Chuang”; as he’d inquired about it with his nephew, the high schooler didn’t deny it, nor did he give a reason.

The uncle said, that these couple of days, he’d asked his nephew to go to the shop where he’d part-timed to stay, and warned him, “Don’t do it again”.  Chuang stated, that he only wanted the harassment to stop, and that he would be willing to give the child a chance, so, for now, he’s NOT pressing charges.

The Hsinbei Family Education Center stated that this high schooler came from a single-parent home, that he’d behaved like this probably because of his projection of the lack of paternal love, and suggested that he can seek out therapy from experts.

And so, this young man had a crush on this dude, probably because he grew up without a father, and with this absence of a male role model, he imprinted his own images of how a father should be onto this male actor, and, made himself believe that he loved him.

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He’d Given Her All His Wages, and the Twenty-Four Year Old Man Still Couldn’t Get His Fifty-One Year Old Girlfriend Back

Apparently, this DUDE here, IS blinded by L-O-V-E, or, maybe he’s got a SERIOUS case of the “mommy complex”, who knows???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A twenty-four year old man, Tien, who’s a mountain climbing guide fell in love at first sight, with a woman, who’s twenty-seven HIS senior, who worked as betel nut stand operator, he’d given Liu ALL his wages; awhile ago, Liu wanted to break up with him, Tien started flash-calling her, and had even climbed over the walls to her place, and was arrested by the police.

The police found, that Tien works as a mountain climbing guide, at 5’9, slimly built, but muscular.  Two years ago, he’d met Liu (age 51) who dressed provocatively, at a KTV, fell in love at first sight, didn’t care about their age difference, and against the family’s advising, moved in together.

After dating for a year, the guy’s family consoled him, but to no avail, Tien had even given Liu ALL of his earnings, to show, that he is willing to go the distance with her.  Without knowing, that at the end of last year, Liu started dating a new guy who’s ten years her junior, she’d kicked Tien out of their rental home.  After losing everything, Tien still felt love for her, kept calling her nonstop, hoping he could get her back; without knowing, that his passions weren’t returned, Liu couldn’t stand the harassments, asked the courts for a restraining order, hoping, to sever the love.

Tien still won’t take a hint, awhile ago, he’d gone to downstairs from where she lived, acted like Spider man, climbed up to her second story rental place; but they’d gotten into a disagreement over something, started fight, they got violent.  Liu reported it to the police, accused Tien of breaking and entering, and domestic violence.

“I can’t love her enough, who can I bear hitting her?”, Tien cried to the police when he was taken in for interrogations, the patrol officer did his best to comfort him, he couldn’t understand why, a handsome man as he, would fall for a woman who’s two years older than his own mother.

Tien’s father felt helpless toward his son’s behaviors, begged Liu to forgive him and drop the charges.  In the end, Liu caved, and dropped the claims of breaking and entering, but she’d still insisted on pursuing the charges of how he broke the rules of the restraining order she had on taken out on him.

And so, because we don’t have anything else to go on, so, we can only SPECULATE (and, speculations are almost NEVER right!!!), that this young man didn’t have a mother-figure growing up, and so, he’d fallen for this older woman at first sight, and maybe, he was drawn to her, as a mother he never had growing up, who knows???

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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