Tag Archives: From the Outside Looking In

Why Are You So Unhappy???

This, is from an observer’s perspective…

Why are you so unhappy?  You already have everything in life, everything I can EVER dream of, so, why are you still dissatisfied with life, I don’t get you, you know?

Why are you so unhappy?  What the F*** (maxed out, remember???) do you KNOW about my life?  Just because I look like I have all the gold, glory and everything ELSE in between, that still doesn’t mean, that I have EVERYTHING that makes ME happy, and, who the HELL are you, to JUDGE?

Why are you so unhappy?  I don’t see how my unhappiness is of anybody’s concerns here!  Why are you so unhappy?  You shouldn’t be like this, you know, instead look around, and see all those others, with less than you, they’re still, doing the best they possibly can, to make their lives matter, but, they’re still NOT me, so, how the F*** (“maxed” out, remember???) would they know, how I feel?

Why are you so unhappy?  Why the HELL do you care, and, since WHEN, did my happiness or unhappiness become a “public” issue?  Why can’t you just LEAVE me, in my misery already?  And, STOP bugging me!

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Walked In & Out of Your Life

It STILL takes T-W-O, to do that T-A-N-G-O, here comes, another, ABUSER/ENABLER “relationship”…

He walked in and out of your life, because you’d allowed him to, because each and every time as he’d walked back in, he’d apologize profusely for leaving you from before, giving you that false sense of security, that façade, of he will NEVER abandon you again, and yet, it still happened all over again, didn’t it?

When are you EVER going to learn?  Walked in and out of your life, that, is what he was destined to do, to be a “leaver”, someone who will only come back, when he needed a soft place to land, or a FREE FUCK even, because you’re HIS safe place, but, who’s your safe place?  Surely NOT him that’s for sure!

Walked in and out of your life, and you still took him back, if I were you (but I’m still NOT you, so I couldn’t make that choice for you!!!) I would’ve changed the locks, added the BOLTS, to pad down that door of mine, to make sure, that he never got back inside again.

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