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Allowing the Children to Learn to Become Independent

Observations from the workforce, translated…

I work in a food manufacturing factory, every time around the New Year’s, we’re the busiest, and so, the company would hire some temporary employees, to increase the help, so we can become better adapted to this busiest time of year.

Recently, there was a new part-timing kid, tall and strong, and, perhaps, this was his first job, he’d worked very slowly, but that could slowly be trained, but if he didn’t have the energies, everything he did, becomes, dead and boring too.

This kid has a very BAD level of comprehension, it’s hard for me to imagine, that he’s going to college, he’d repeated the same actions for the work, and still, he didn’t have a CLUE what he was doing now.

Every day around lunch, he’d received a call like clockwork, it was from him mom, asked him if he’d eaten yet, and what he’s doing now!  And that, was when I first gained the perspective, of what a “mama’s boy” actually looked like!

He’d already in college, and his mother still hovered over him, when will the child become truly independent?  Seeing how many blood suckers there are in the world today, are they all caused by the parents’ unwillingness and inability to let go too?

Yes, that, is the “creation process” of blood suckers, because you keep on hovering over your kids, you’d taken away the ability to fend for themselves, and, unless you stupid parents CAN outlive your own offspring, there’s NO way you can possibly watch over your young 24/7, and, the process of letting go SHOULD start early, because the later it got, the harder it would be, to WEAN them ALL!!!

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Her Son Stole Money Continuously the Eighty-Year-Old Mother Paid it Back for Him Each & Every Time

Guess WHO is the ENABLER in this story???  From the Newspapers, translated…

A forty-year old man, Deng was under great economic duress, and, in order to pay the debts he’d owed, he stole a lot, and each and every time, he had his eighty-year-old mother take care of it for him, awhile back, he’d gone to the local guardian’s temples, and stole away Liu’s over $140,000N.T’s lotto tickets, in the end, his mother took the cash, and went to the subprecinct, got down on her knees, and begged, for a favor for her son, all the officers felt bad for her.

Based off of understanding, the seventy-year-old woman, Liu would set up scratch off stand at the local guardian’s temple until the early morning hours, the forty-year-old man, Deng on the early morning of the 7th, went to the temple, to ask for money, saw how Liu was putting up her tickets into her handbag, he’d taken the advantage of the time she’d turned away, and managed to steal away all the tickets, with the total worth of well over $145,000N.T.s.

The police reviewed the surveillance, and followed the leads, and managed to find Deng on the 11th, Deng told the police, that the $56,000N.T. he’d won, he’d used it to pay off his debts.  Based off of the investigations, Deng had multiple charges of theft, and accumulated a ton of credit card debts, and because he couldn’t pay off all his debts on a $23,000N.T. a month salary from the printing company, that, was why he’d stolen.

As Deng’s mother got notified by the police, she’d rushed to subprecinct, his mother said, that she has three children, and this middle child had gotten her worried the most, would often steal, and was unable to pay back what he’d stolen, and would need her to pay for him, every time he’d done it.

Deng’s mother begged on her knees to Liu, and gave the $145,000N.T.s back to Liu, and cried, “Do forgive my son”, the officers there felt bad too, and, Deng said, that he knew what he’d done was wrong.

Liu said, that she too, lived off hard, and was willing to forgive the man.  But stealing is a prosecutory crime, after the police interrogated the man, they booked Deng to be processed in court.

And so, because you couldn’t pay your bills, you’d stolen the lotto tickets that someone sold, well, did you NOT consider that the person who’s stand you sold from has to make a living too, and, you still had your mama come and WIPE your ass for you?  You’re a GROWN man, are you FUCKING shitting me here?  And, the mother is at fault too, because she’d not cut her son off, which caused her son to SUCK onto her like a LEECH!

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