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Allowing the Children to Learn to Become Independent

Observations from the workforce, translated…

I work in a food manufacturing factory, every time around the New Year’s, we’re the busiest, and so, the company would hire some temporary employees, to increase the help, so we can become better adapted to this busiest time of year.

Recently, there was a new part-timing kid, tall and strong, and, perhaps, this was his first job, he’d worked very slowly, but that could slowly be trained, but if he didn’t have the energies, everything he did, becomes, dead and boring too.

This kid has a very BAD level of comprehension, it’s hard for me to imagine, that he’s going to college, he’d repeated the same actions for the work, and still, he didn’t have a CLUE what he was doing now.

Every day around lunch, he’d received a call like clockwork, it was from him mom, asked him if he’d eaten yet, and what he’s doing now!  And that, was when I first gained the perspective, of what a “mama’s boy” actually looked like!

He’d already in college, and his mother still hovered over him, when will the child become truly independent?  Seeing how many blood suckers there are in the world today, are they all caused by the parents’ unwillingness and inability to let go too?

Yes, that, is the “creation process” of blood suckers, because you keep on hovering over your kids, you’d taken away the ability to fend for themselves, and, unless you stupid parents CAN outlive your own offspring, there’s NO way you can possibly watch over your young 24/7, and, the process of letting go SHOULD start early, because the later it got, the harder it would be, to WEAN them ALL!!!

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The Mother Has a Man to Keep Her Company, and Spent All Her Money on Him

From a concerned child, a Q&A, translated…

Q: Ms. D who’s filled with doubts wrote…

She’s single, the youngest of three kids.  After her mother became a widow, the three siblings are worried that there would be NO one to keep the mother company, because all three of them worked, and the seventy-two-year-old mother is healthy in the body and the mind, and she’s at the time of her life when she’s enjoying her life, but she couldn’t find company.

At this time, the mother found a man in his sixties, they looked seemingly well-matched, like a boy and a girlfriend should.  Normally, this should be a happy event, but, Ms. D had a new concern, because the boyfriend seemingly didn’t have much money, ever since they were together, he’d been living off of her, and, the mother’s spending cash came from the three children.  Ms. D saw how the mother’s boyfriend was having a grand time, spending ALL their hard earned money, and thought about how hard it was, for her to earn it, she started becoming doubtful.

A My Opinion

I can understand Ms. D’s heart, to tell the truth, the mom and the boyfriend had gotten along too quickly, started going everywhere together, what’s yours is mine, as children, you will naturally feel doubtful.  First, a man in his sixties, he didn’t have any money, what’s THAT about?  Is it because he was out of a job from before?  Without a retirement pension?  Without any savings?  Or, did he fail in his business ventures?  There should be an explanation, to let the others know, that way, the children would be more at ease.  And, how is his family?  Doesn’t he have children to care for him?  How about marriage, or relationship with the opposite sex?  On this, I believe, that it is Ms. D’s mother’s obligation to tell her kids, and to know it herself too. Ms. D gave her mother $5,000N.T. per month, plus the money from her older siblings, if they’d given her a total of $15,000N.T. a month, it wouldn’t be too luxurious for two, so, the mother started using the cash from the red envelope from her kids last year, and this had alarmed D!  D isn’t supposedly worried about the money, but whether or not the man is really into her mother?  And, what might happen next?

And so, the mother’s dating, and, this man she’s dating is seemingly a BLOOD SUCKER, but the mother is in the infatuations stage of her relationship, she’s way too in love, to even think clear, and, the child should do as the advices said, get to know the man’s background, and then, if he’s really a bad person, then, persuade the mother to NOT see him anymore, but, we ALL know how words have little to NO effect when it comes to love already, don’t we???

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Taiwan is Crumbling Down: a Thirty-Year-Old Blame His Mother: Why Did You Retire

Wow, look what I’d just found, another “SPECIMEN” of a BLOOD-SUCKER, translated…

The former head of the education department wrote that Taiwan is crumbling down, said that there are four “withouts” and one “no”: without marriages, without children, without taking care of children, without life, and NO future, this, is NOT from out of the blue, the lower end of the socioeconomic scale had all felt this.

A pair of couple who retired from a government agency, with a very high retirement fund, still has to take care of their 30-something child, who’s incapable of finding work.  The two retired individuals worried about the child’s inability to find a steady job.

An elderly woman talked of how her thirty-something son asked her, “Mom, what am I good at?”, upon hearing, her heart felt sour.  And, the child even blamed the mother, “why did you retire so early?”, the woman retired with a little more than two million dollars, in order to take care of HER aging parents, she’d saved up as much as she could, and she still can’t cover her son.

A neighbor who had retired, went back into the workforce, and, other than his own work post, he spent all his money to set up a store for his children who don’t have jobs, she ended up, burned out on BOTH ends.

There are some commonalities between all of the children from the above examples, they’re ALL older than thirty, and all fit in the “Four Withouts and One No” category, the society in Taiwan is worrisome for all who live here.

Because our parents allow us to, therefore, we WILL SUCK ‘em dry like the LEECHES we are, and, you still can’t blame us, because we’re BORN this way, after all, it IS our parents’ jobs to RAISE us, to look AFTER us, to show CARE and CONCERN for us for the rest of their lives, after all, we NEVER asked to be “brought out” of our mothers’ wombs, right?

This just F-U-E-L-S to how there are so many out there with a HIGHER degree, and very LOW ability to take care of oneself, are you kidding me?  And, guess W-H-O is to blame for all of this?  You guessed it, it’s Y-O-U, the PARENTS, because you hovered over your offspring, took care of their EVERY single N-E-E-D and W-A-N-T, so, they’d learned very early on that hey, all I need to do is cry out “wah-wah-wah”, then, mommy is sure enough to bring me my “bottle”, and, if I hurt my “wee-wee”, she’s going to KISS it to make it ALL better, are you FUCKING (my B-A-D!!!) kidding me here, YOU, the parents, are still FUELING to your children’s INABILITY to STAND UP on their own, and by the time you finally C-U-T, on the day that you D-I-E-D (not wishing anybody D-E-A-D here!!!), and that, would be H-O-W this next generation kills themselves.

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