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A Drug-Addicted Mother-to-Be

This, is how you’d have your F.A.S.’s, S.I.D.’s, along with those “crack babies” out there…

In Keelung, a twenty-six year old woman got pregnant because of sex solicitations, she had NO idea who the father is; six months in, she didn’t care about the fetus’s health, she’s involved in drug abuse and selling drugs. When she was picked up by the police, she said, that she knew that drugs would affect the development of the fetus, but, she’s already “hooked on “drugs, and she needed a high,

so, she couldn’t care that much anymore.

The police found in the residential area in Keelung small doses of amphetamine, along with two paraphernalia, and took the woman, along with her live-in boyfriend, his nephew back to the station.

The cops found that Lee a few years ago had gotten hooked on drugs, and often went online to find chances to hook, to earn money to pay for her “habit”, and, when she’d gotten the drugs, she’d separate the packages to resell it for a profit. In order to prevent herself from getting caught, she’d made sure that her buyers don’t have any priors, so the other individuals will get hooked and help transport the illegal substances for her.

Lee told the cops, that these past two years, she’d rented for short-term in large communities of Ba-Dou-Tze area, that she’d never stayed at a place for more than two months. That before she was pregnant, she had sold herself out for sex, and, because she sold herself for sex, she has NO idea of who the father of her offspring is.

Four months ago, she’d met then, fell in love with Lee at a Mahjong table, after found out she’d been taken in by the cops, he spoke on her behalf, said that when they first met, he knew about how she was selling and got pregnant, even that she had used and sold drugs, but, because he loved her, he was willing to accept everything about her.

And, the mother did finally admit to drug use and abuse, while the male had denied it, and, afterwards, they were all taken to the local precinct to be “booked”.

Are you kidding me?  You’re pregnant, and still using drugs to get high, do you N-O-T know how it will affect the fetus? Not just physically, but emotionally and psychologically as well, because those crack babies won’t have a chance to have a normal life, because they had a bad start in life, and that, is that.

Irresponsible parenting is what THIS is…

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A Father Raped a Daughter, and Blamed it on the Son

Call it bad parenting if you want to, story on the N-E-W-S, translated…

A man, Chen, lived in Xinbei City, because he was violent toward his son and daughter, he had divorced his wife twice, and married her again; ten years ago after they were wed, he was suspected of raping his eight-year-old daughter, and he tried to frame it on his teenage son, the wife saw how the son was beaten into a confession, in order to save her children, she filed for divorce a third time, and this time, the judge had approved it.

The wife told the D.A., that she and her truck-driving husband married back in 1997, had a son together, the next year, she couldn’t stand getting beaten up by him, she filed for divorce and it was approved, but, because all of her friends and family told her that she’d be making the wrong choices, leaving her son behind, she got remarried to her husband back in 1999 with her ex; but, her ex-husband still didn’t change, so, she filed for divorce a second time back in 2001, and, was granted that, but, the next year, she remarried him once more.

She said that in the three marriages with her husband, they had a son and a daughter, one in the middle school years, one just an elementary school child; near the end of last year, when she was giving her daughter a bath, she found the child’s pubic region to be swelling, after inquiring, the daughter at first, told the mother, that “my brother did it”, but the mother didn’t believe, then, after grilling the daughter, she’d said that it was the father, and told her mother that her father told her to lie.

The wife had pressed the husband to tell the truth, he denied it, and blamed it on the son, he’d even beaten the son with a wooden chair badly; the poor son got beaten until his fingers were broken, and he was beaten into confessing on raping the younger sister; the wife couldn’t put up with the husband’s monstrous behaviors, she finally called the cops.

Chen denied having raped his daughter OR domestic violence, and stated that there are so many points which are unclear, that needed to be looked into, the judge should wait until the evidence had been collected and analyzed then decided whether or not a divorce should be in process; the judge felt that the girl was believable, plus the son, when placed on the stand, cried like crazy, and stated that he was beaten up by the father, and, the judge decided that Chen did indeed abuse and rape his children, and, granted his wife a divorce.

The judge had given the custody of both children to the wife, and made Chen pay child support of $15,000N.T per month each, until they turn twenty.

Another example of a B-A-D parent, I mean, what the H-E-L-L? The man not only used violence against his wife and son, he’d also RAPED his own daughter, now, what kind of a “good father “would do something so awful to his offspring?

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Mother Was Only Away for Ten Minutes, and a Ten-Month Old Baby Drowned

Are you kidding me, after ALL the stories on the N-E-W-S, and you still don’t learn?  Translated…

A twenty-two-year-old young mother, after finishing up bathing her son, left water about ten centimeters, so his son could keep playing in the water.  She went into the bedroom, to do some chores, unknowingly that her two-year-old daughter was playing with her brother, accidentally turned on the faucet, causing the child to drown.

After the accident, Kao was broken-hearted, she claimed that she was cleaning up the bedroom, ten minutes later she heard her daughter scream, she rushed to the bathroom, saw that her son had went “belly up” and wasn’t breathing, she called the ambulance.

The woman blamed herself “I didn’t pay attention to the older sister playing with the faucet.”, she said, she’d left about ten centimeter’s water in the tub for the children to bathe in, maybe that the older sister turned on the faucets, when she heard her daughter scream, the bathtub was filled with water, “it was too late”.

The hospital said, that when the boy was brought in, there was NO sign of life, after resuscitating him for one and a half hour, he still died; the woman was crying like crazy when the y couldn’t revive him.

The woman is currently eight months pregnant, she will be due in February next year, she’s taking care of two toddlers, she couldn’t free her hands.

The Nanny’s Network from the family center in Hua-Lien, Li-Yun Wang said that after the child’s finished bathing, s/he should be taken out of the bathroom, and placed in a safe environment, “there are too many factors of danger in the bathrooms, it is the most dangerous place in a house.”

Wang also said that in their professional nanny trainings, they’d point out how if the water temperature is too low, it might cause the child to get a cold, or if it’s too hot, then, it might caused them to get burned, slipping, and accidentally ingesting of cleaning agents, the professional training for nannies will stress, before the age of 3, a child should NOT be left alone in the bathroom, if playing in the tub, then, must prepare a floating device, like the doughnut.

Call this NEGLIGENCE, because you should N-E-V-E-R leave one young child in the care of another young child, that would be Y-O-U-R job, to look after your children, and, it only takes one minute for an accident to occur, and, it can’t be repaired.

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A Father “Pushed” to Murdering His Own Child, then, Commits Suicide

Story in the FRONT PAGE section, translated…

The father owed some debts, couldn’t pay it, he strangled his daughter, then, dove off of a bridge, because the father, Chang didn’t have a steady source of income from driving his cab, he had a daughter who’s handicapped and mentally retarded, on the 19th, he was suspected of murdering his child, then, dove off of the bridge, the D.A. found, that the child was once a part of a documentary discussing her conditions, and now, her body had turned cold, into a corpse.

The D.A. found, that the father was a cab driver, married to his Chinese wife for more than 10 years, with a son and a daughter, the older girl is mildly retarded and has a genetic eating disorder where she just couldn’t control her own appetite, he also has a five-year-old son, who’s left in the care of his parents in Xindian.

Chang found that his wife had stolen all of his savings, claiming she has an investment in China, but instead, she’d given the money to her boyfriend in China, more than a year ago, they got divorced, he took sole custody of the children, and, he became depressed.

Later, he stopped driving his cab, his daughter had some adjustment difficulties in school, so he sold his cab, and bought a regular car, went to sell oil in Hualien with his daughter, the daughter was transferred to a special eds school locally, recently, because he couldn’t pay the rent; plus he had to take eight days off a month to care for his daughter, “what company would hire someone who has to take eight days off monthly?”, he wanted to start a business, he needed the funds, and in order NOT to get his families involved, he took his child.

The daughter was picked up from school on the 16th, because she was absent for three days, the school called Chang, he claimed that there was a road block on the freeways.  On the 19th, Chang was suspected of murdering his daughter first, then, at 4 o’clock the next morning, he dove off of the Bitan Bridge, and he wasn’t aiming for the water, but the concrete.

This family had refused the assistance of social workers…

The principal at the girl’s school said, “Chang would take his daughter home once every fifteen days, they were very close, I couldn’t believe that they’d died together.” the Xinbei City Social Services points out that if parents are having some difficulties, economically, emotional, they should seek help, instead of taking the children to die with them, sacrificing their offspring.

The Social Services pointed out, that Chang’s household hadn’t been “tagged” as a “high risk” family, on the 20th when he committed suicide, the social services sent social workers to his home, where the father didn’t want them to intervene; even when the social services department offered to give them funds, they’d said no, the social workers tried to communicate with the family, but, to no avail.

The principal at the special ed school stated that the girl was mildly retarded, and a live-in student, she’d transferred to their school last year, and she’s not even there for a year yet, and the school didn’t charge them for tuition.  Normally, the parents would pick their children up on weekends, then, send them back to school on Monday, but Chang said that he lived far away, so, he’d only picked her up once every two weeks.

The principal pointed out that the father and daughter was interacting “normally”, last week when he came to pick her up, the teachers didn’t detect anything; and when they heard about this incidence, they were all shocked.

The principal also said, that the father didn’t tell the school that he was having economic difficulties.

See, what parents ARE doing to their children?  I mean, even IF the child has some handicap, doesn’t s/he also have a right to life?  This is how selfish the father was, thinking that he’s sparing his child pain, and, he is probably right, but, there’s NO way to know that for sure, because the girl is dead.

Can this be prevented?  Sure, but, by the time people realized, it IS too late, because the child is D-E-A-D, and, the parent would probably BE charged with involuntary manslaughter or something else???  Who knows.

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