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Banking on Love

Despite ALL the “warnings” you’d received from those TRAINED PROFESSIONALS (your investment bankers???), you still went ahead…

Banking on love, well, that’s a G-A-M-B-L-E that I’m not willing to make, after all, there might NOT even BE a chance of “returns”, instead, I might be losing everything. Banking on love, because I mistook your gestures, and I went HEAD-FIRST, put ALL of my “chips” in one bet: Y-O-U, and, I ended up losing everything and now, I’m three sheets to the W-I-N-D here.

Banking on love, is there a guaranteed return? If not, then, don’t talk to me, because I’m NOT willing to throw the dice and see where it lands, and besides, I want something with a hell of a LOT higher odds than that.

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A College Student was Unsuccessful in Telling a Younger Classmate that He Loved Her, So He’d Posted His Sexual Fantasies of Her on a School Discussion Board

You’d have to wonder, when something like this happens: What the F*** (sorry, “maxed out”!!!) is WRONG with the youth today, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

After a male graduate student got turned down for his proclamations of love to a younger woman of his same class, he’d modeled after the scenes of the pornography, wrong down sexually illicit messages and sent it as an e-mail to her, and put her picture, alongside those words, and spread the flyers all over the school’s bulletin boards; when the police called in this grad student, he claimed to have NOT known the woman, but she’d told the police that she’d turned him away, and his lies went bust.  The police sent him to the Taipei D.A.’s office based off of obstruction of reputation.

The twenty-five year old male graduate student, after the end of last year, he’d met this woman, he’d started his pursuit of her like crazy; the woman told him she wasn’t interested, and told him that they wouldn’t fit well with each other, and, the male grad student started hating her, and started his revenge.

The male graduate student first falsely applied a Facebook account in her name, and claimed her to be his “wife”, and started writing about his sexual fantasies of her, and wrote down the segments of them making love on Facebook; then, he’d used his mother’s smart phone, connected to a foreign website, and forwarded the segment of his fantasies to the younger woman, attempted to confuse her with the IP addresses, so she couldn’t track him down.

After the woman received the sexually illicit messages, she’d wanted to ignore, but he’d gone farther, he’d copied her photograph, her personal information, and his imaginary segments of them making love, and posted the flyers all over the campus; it’d gotten the discussions of a TON of the professors and students, and the woman finally called the police about it.

After the police dug into the matter, they’d found that most the e-mails were from foreign web addresses; but, the male grad student had a small mishap, one of the letters, he’d sent, via his cell phone, and so, the police zoomed in on his involvement.

The police called the grad student in, he’d denied having threatened the woman, claimed that he’d lent his cell phone to someone else, which caused someone to hack into the accounts, and claimed that he didn’t know the woman he was threatening, but when the police asked him who he’d allowed to borrow his cell phone, he couldn’t answer them, and the younger woman told the cops that he’d professed his love for her, and that broke his lies of how they don’t know one another.

And so, this, is obsession on the man’s part, because he couldn’t have her, the woman flatly told him she wasn’t interested, and, maybe he felt that his pride was wounded, so, he got her back, by spreading sexually-illicit photos, and, that still just shows, that IF you do something B-A-D, then, you WILL get C-A-U-G-H-T, you will NOT escape, and this man had thrown away a perfectly good future, simply because he could NOT get his ways, are you FUCKING kidding me here???

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He Wanted Your Money, and Not You

So, why won’t you just WAKE up already, woman???  A Q&A, translated…

Q Ms. A Wrote…

About a year ago, she’d caught her boyfriend in bed with another at his place, turns out, that the “spare” was her boyfriend’s boss, she’s eighteen years older than he.  The boyfriend took out $30,000N.T. from his bank accounts to keep her, acted as her chauffeur and fuck buddy, the two of them would go everywhere together, and the woman had promised to give him two million dollars too.

A worked real hard, to get her boyfriend back, but the boyfriend stated it all too clear, that he would rather have the money than the love, that he couldn’t live without the money the other woman gave him, so, he chose to break up with A.  A felt taken, decided to destroy both, so, she’d told her boyfriend’s other partner, and, the other woman, after realizing this, kicked her boyfriend to the curb, and ended the relationship.

After the boyfriend had been “fired”, he’d come back to A again, and A, who was unwilling to let go of the love they’d shared for three years, took him back, and moved in to his place with him, and she’d also shouldered up the responsibilities to providing for his family, his parents, AND him too.  The boyfriend’s family is registered as one of the low income households that lived off of government assistance, the family of three, none of them had jobs, the parents are easy-going in daily living, and when they have extra cash, they’d blow it off on lottery tickets, or donated it the church; and A, in order to help provide for the boyfriend and his family, she’d nickeled and dimed, saved up every penny she could, really lived, like a low income person too.

A had thought about, so long as she’d moved back home, she wouldn’t need to worry about her boyfriend and his family anymore, but she didn’t want to break up with him because of this.  She didn’t know what she should do?
A My Opinion

Let’s return back to the moment, the scenario when A caught her boyfriend in bed with another: he’d told her clearly, that he wanted the money, and NOT the love.  He’d chosen the spare with the money, and NOT want someone who gets a regular paycheck from a regular nine to five like A, that, was his true self.  And the reason why the boyfriend came back, was because the other woman dropped him, and so, he’d settled for lesser, just wanted to use his original motive, of scamming and living off of her!

A is merely a “substitute”, until he is able to find another richer “supplier”, he would dump A, without a second thought!  He’s a truly useless man, with NO ties to emotions, A did everything she could, to keep him and his family fed, not only the boyfriend, but his parents, they showed NO gratitude toward her, and, A risked getting dumped, when there’s a richer girl.

This, is not yet considering how his mother would waste the use of the utilities and the toilet paper too, do WAKE UP soon!

And, this woman still get TRAPPED, why is that?  Oh yeah, because she IS involved in all of this, so, she couldn’t see it clearly.  It will take something ELSE (oh wait, he’d cheated, and stole, and lived OFF of her too!!!), even W-O-R-S-E, like she nearly dying, and he still don’t pay ANY attention, for her to finally turn cold, I suppose, and, she’s currently S-T-U-C-K!!!

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We Lay Love Down to Rest

We all gathered, as the reverend or the father or whoever it is, that oversees the burial process, said those final words, and, we lay love down to rest…

We lay love down to rest, and, there was just silence, on the ride, back home, the only thing we’d shared (that WAS love you know???) is now, completely dead and gone, and we’re still both just waiting, for the sadness, the sorrows from this HUGE loss in our lives, to set in.

We lay love down to rest, there was NOTHING else we could do, it’d fallen ill, and, we were the culprits that caused it to fall completely ill, and eventually, leading, to its untimely demise.

We lay love down to rest, and that, was that, there was NOTHING more we need to say to each other, the death of love said it all, and so, on the way back, from love’s funeral, we went to the courthouse, and finalized that long-awaited divorce, and I’d never looked back since…………

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A Second-Year Middle School Male Took the Leap After His Proclaimation of Love for Someone Wasns’t Reciprocated

Apparently, this young man hadn’t heard the EXPRESSION of “there’s plenty of fish in the S-E-A”, translated…

Yesterday morning at around nine, a student named Tsai wrote on a piece of paper, “Miao-Miao, before I leave, I need to find an owner for this silver bracelet, to keep it well for me, okay?”, he’d left his signature, left it on the desk of the girl who’s in charge of the entire class.  But, Miao-Miao said, that she didn’t know the intentions of her classmate, Tsai.

Based off of the descriptions of the witnesses, after Tsai put the note and the bracelet in place, he’d left the class, flipped through the fourth floor walls, and landed on the track field.  There was a huge impact when he landed, and a lot of blood too, that scared all the other students.

When the students bore witness to this suicide, they immediately called the teachers and the school, the cops came and took Tsai to the hospital for emergency resuscitation.  The doctor found his femur broken, had intracranial bleeding, treated him for three hours, but, to NO avail.  Tsai’s parents rushed to the hospital after the school contacted them, they were broken-hearted.   The parents told the cops, that these couple of days, their son seemed normal as he’d gone off to school, and they had NO clue of how this had happened.

The cops investigated and found, that Tsai was into a female classmate, but, when he proclaimed his love for her, he got SHOT down.  His classmates, however, said that Tsai was excellent in his interactions with the rest of the class that he is quite optimistic, and they’d rarely heard him talk of what went on at home.

The girl in charge of the class, Miao-Miao said, that after the first period chemistry class, she was collecting the homework books of the class, Tsai had left something on her desk; a few minutes later, she’d heard someone from outside yelling, “Someone had fallen off the building.”

The cops found, that the female student director of the class had nothing to do with the case, but, they’re confused as to why Tsai had left the note, the bracelet, and asked the girl in charge of class, wanting her to find a new owner for these things.  As for whether or not the bracelets were given to Tsai as a gift, or if he’d bought it himself, is yet to be determined.

The school counselor, Jiang stated that Tsai was an upbeat, happy student, with mediocre to high performance in grades, is also an active member of the school band, that there was NO sign of him being unhappy in his notebooks, his assignment books.  The instructor of HIS class also said that there wasn’t any sign that showed that something wasn’t right with Tsai.

Another SUICIDE?  Is there a TREND or something?  And, this, is an extreme case where a normally bright, sun shines and smiles male had gotten KNOCKED DOWN by a failed attempt to proclaim his love for someone, and, I’m pretty sure that that, was NOT the reason for all of this, I’m thinking that there must be something ELSE bugging this youth, and then again, nobody will ever know, because the only one with the ANSWERS to the questions is now, DEAD, and, DEAD man don’t talk, so…

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