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Because She Wanted to Break Up with Him, He’d Strangled Her

 

From the Online Newspapers here, translated…

A twenty-three-year-old woman, Chien, early in the morning today, was found, strangled to death in her own kitchen, the police pointed out, that the woman had just broken up with a man of age twenty-eight for a year, the boyfriend came home from Taipei, and wanted to see her, but she’d said no.

The neighbors of the woman, a before eight o’clock in the morn today, found Chiu, wandering around the neighborhoods, and the woman’s mother, at eight-thirty, received a call from her work colleague, saying that she didn’t show up for work, she’d rushed home to check up on her daughter, found her daughter, strangled to death, and, at eight fifty, she’d called the cops, and rushed her child to the hospital, but, she was already dead.

The police believed, that Chiu is the primary suspect, and he didn’t return to him home in Chingshui, and so, the police are currently, tracking his whereabouts.

And, because this IS the preliminaries, we can only speculate, but, if this man DID kill his soon-to-be-EX, then, the man has a REALLY low E.Q., just because someone wants to break up with you, still doesn’t give YOU the right, to take their lives, does it, and, IF the boyfriend did it, he will NEVER be able to rest, because of HIS guilty conscience!

 

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Because She Wanted to Break Up with Him, He’d Strangled Her

From the Online Newspapers here, translated…

A twenty-three-year-old woman, Chien, early in the morning today, was found, strangled to death in her own kitchen, the police pointed out, that the woman had just broken up with a man of age twenty-eight for a year, the boyfriend came home from Taipei, and wanted to see her, but she’d said no.

The neighbors of the woman, a before eight o’clock in the morn today, found Chiu, wandering around the neighborhoods, and the woman’s mother, at eight-thirty, received a call from her work colleague, saying that she didn’t show up for work, she’d rushed home to check up on her daughter, found her daughter, strangled to death, and, at eight fifty, she’d called the cops, and rushed her child to the hospital, but, she was already dead.

The police believed, that Chiu is the primary suspect, and he didn’t return to him home in Chingshui, and so, the police are currently, tracking his whereabouts.

And, because this IS the preliminaries, we can only speculate, but, if this man DID kill his soon-to-be-EX, then, the man has a REALLY low E.Q., just because someone wants to break up with you, still doesn’t give YOU the right, to take their lives, does it, and, IF the boyfriend did it, he will NEVER be able to rest, because of HIS guilty conscience!

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Because She Wanted to Break Up with Him, He’d Strangled Her

From the Online Newspapers here, translated…

A twenty-three-year-old woman, Chien, early in the morning today, was found, strangled to death in her own kitchen, the police pointed out, that the woman had just broken up with a man of age twenty-eight for a year, the boyfriend came home from Taipei, and wanted to see her, but she’d said no.

The neighbors of the woman, a before eight o’clock in the morn today, found Chiu, wandering around the neighborhoods, and the woman’s mother, at eight-thirty, received a call from her work colleague, saying that she didn’t show up for work, she’d rushed home to check up on her daughter, found her daughter, strangled to death, and, at eight fifty, she’d called the cops, and rushed her child to the hospital, but, she was already dead.

The police believed, that Chiu is the primary suspect, and he didn’t return to him home in Chingshui, and so, the police are currently, tracking his whereabouts.

And, because this IS the preliminaries, we can only speculate, but, if this man DID kill his soon-to-be-EX, then, the man has a REALLY low E.Q., just because someone wants to break up with you, still doesn’t give YOU the right, to take their lives, does it, and, IF the boyfriend did it, he will NEVER be able to rest, because of HIS guilty conscience!

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A Man Used Porn to Get His Courage Up, to Rape His Seventeen-Year-Old Younger Sister-in-Law

And you still don’t think that watching those VIOLENCE and SEXUAL shits are affecting your minds???  From the Newspapers, translated…

A Man in his twenties had the eyes for his wife’s younger brother’s seventeen-year-old wife, and when he’d gone to visit his brother-in-law’s house, he’d made sure that his wife’s sister-in-law, and her baby were home alone, and he’s watched porn in their living room, to work up his courage, then, waited until the woman’s asleep, then, he raped her, and the D.A. in Hsinbei City prosecuted him based off of forced sexual acts.

A man in his twenties saw that his younger brother-in-law’s seventeen year old wife was sexy, and got horny; at the end of last December, one morning, he’d called her house, to make sure that she was home alone, then, he’d gone to pay her a visit.

When the brother-in-law was taking a nap with the baby, the man watched porn in her living room, to get his courage up, waited until the woman and her baby was sound asleep, then, he’d snuck into the bedroom, took the baby to the side, then, pinned the woman down, the woman fought him off nonstop, but because he was way too strong, he was able to rape her successfully.

Afterwards, the man told him, “It’s just for this once, don’t tell your husband”; the woman felt she was shamed, didn’t know how to tell her family, she’d used a crafts knife and slashed her own arms, and posted the pictures of her bleeding arms onto Facebook, with the captions, “This, is a sort of beauty, a sort of a warning, that not everybody is to be trusted by me.” Her husband noticed this, called the police, and the police caught his brother-in-law.  The D.A. found that the evidences were stacked up against the man, and that he’d raped a woman who was NOT yet eighteen, and asked the courts for a more severe punishment.

And, just because a woman is very hot or sexy, that still does NOT give you the right to fucking rape her, and, on top of that, you’d watched porn, to help boost your courage to rape her, and that merely shows, that pornography have the tendency to cause MORE violence against members of the opposite sex, but it’s still JUST a correlation, NOT a causation…

 

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A Proclamation of Love Became Rape, He Asked Her “Who am I”…She Shook Her Head

Because your love wasn’t returned, that, is how you do it?  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

An eighteen year old man Chou was in love with a fourteen year old middle school girl, she’d turned him down three times, and he’d taken her house keys, and found an opportunity when no adults were there, wore his motorcycle helmet inside; the girl’s six-year-old younger brother was waken up, and, for the safety of her younger sibling, the girl chose NOT to fight him, her eyes were covered by Chou, and he was able to rape her.  The District Attorney’s Office in Hsinbei City yesterday prosecuted Chou based off of forced sexual behaviors.

Last September, Chou met up with the thirteen-year-old middle school girl, he’d started having a crush on her, learned where she’d worked, he’d gotten a job there too, finally worked up his courage and told her he loved her, but, she’d turned him away three times.  Chou was successful in his pursuits of her, and claimed that he was willing to be her close friend, had accompanied her home multiple times, and found that her mother took the graveyard shift, and he’d waited until nobody’s at home at night, and picked up the keys that she’d accidentally dropped.

At two in the morning on April 7, Chou took along some duct tape, gloves, condom, and helmet, and walked to her home; he’d opened the doors, gone into the girl’s bedroom, covered her mouth and nose, and choked her, in the process, the six-year-old younger brother was awakened, the girl told, “He’s just a child, don’t hurt him”, and she’d stopped fighting.

Chou dragged the girl to the next room, and taped up her eyes, took off his helmet, got his way with her, then, pulled her into the bathroom to wash up, and he’d asked her, “Do you know who I am?”, the girl suspected that it was Chou, and Chou left.

Later on the girl notified the police, the police reviewed the surveillance footage and found that it was Chou; Chou admitted to it, said that it was due to impulse from how he was turned away by the young girl.

And so, when you get turned away, you got embarrassed, and your EGOS felt “damaged”, and this, is how you GET someone who’d turned you away back?  Are you kidding me?  And, can’t a girl tell a guy “NO”, without putting HER own life in jeopardy?

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The Woman He Lived With Murdered Him, After He Was Comatose, and She’d Chopped Him Up Into Pieces Too

From the Front Page Sections, translated…

They’d cohabited for eight years together, she’d blamed him for NOT giving her share of the money, hated him for making her abort, she’d planned for two years, gotten familiarized with the human anatomy, chopped him up, and placed him in eleven separate bags, she’d cried and admitted, that the charcoaled tree was where she’d burned his body up.

The second generation owner of a small mill manufacturer factory, Lan went missing four days ago, the police found that he was drugged by his girlfriend from China, then murdered, then chopped, and burned.  Huang admitted it, that she’d thought up of this plan two years ago, to kill the man whom she’d been sleeping with.  After the D.A. interrogated her and asked the judge to allow for custody, which was granted.

The woman who was so fierce in murdering was a young grandmother, only forty-five years of age, had a previous marriage in China, had two children, the son is already married, with children of his own.  She’d claimed, that two years ago, Lan had forced her to have an abortion and had taken the money she’d invested in his ventures as his own, that, was why she’d started contemplating murder.

And, this just shows?  Oh yeah, we women WILL get you losers back for doing us wrong, and that no matter what, you still can’t dodge the consequences of your own misbehaviors, because this woman got caught, and there’s NO way you can dodge the consequences of your own guilt conscience either…

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A Woman Wants to Break Up, the Man Spread Out Her Nude Photos to Her Friends & Families as Retaliation

A man Wang was dissatisfied at how his girlfriend wanted to break up, was suspected of getting her e-mail account passwords, and downloaded her contact information from a distance, then, sent sexually illicit photographs, video footages, to the woman’s friends and families, Wang admitted to so doing, and was prosecuted by the D.A.’s office in Hsinbei City based off of obstruction of privacy, and some other charges.

Wang’s ex-girlfriend was in her twenties, graduated from a public graduate school, worked at a namely hospital before, at the end of last April, she felt that Wang (age thirty-something) had become too controlling, wanted to break up.

Wang begged and pleaded with her, in a few short days, he’d harassed her using text messages of wanting to get back together, the woman ignored him; the next month, Wang got worse, he’d used the e-mail pass codes he’d stolen from her, logged on to the web pages, and downloaded the woman’s personal information, and befriended the woman’s friends and families from her social networking contacts.

Because the woman refused to take calls from him, and NOT replied to his texts, Wang uploaded the photos of intimacy, that they’d had when they were dating, and spread it to all of her friends and families; last year at the end of June, Wang went to guard her residence in Chunghe District, and managed to block the woman as she was driving out, gotten on the car to prevent her from leaving, until the police showed up and made an arrest.

As the D.A. interrogated him, Wang admitted to secretly downloading her contacts, and spreading her nude photos, but claimed that it was with HER permissions, that he’d started taking the photographs, and that he’d blocked her path because he wanted to know why they’d broken up.

And so, it’s ALL excuses, because this man does NOT take the breakup easily, because he felt that there’s still MORE control (and let’s face it, he WAS, a control FREAK!!!), and this, is very bad, and, just because a woman wants to break UP with you, still doesn’t give you the right to FUCKING terrorize her now, does it???  And now you’d been caught and found, you used the excuse of wanting an explanation?  Who the FUCK (oopsy!!!) you kiddin’ here???

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Because Her Boyfriend Didn’t Show Her His Cell Phone, the Woman Got Drunk, and Fell to Her Death from the Top of a Building

See how EASILY people are “crushed” these days??? From the Newspapers, translated…

A woman, Chen, fearing that her boyfriend might be seeing someone else, two nights ago, she’d asked him to show her his cell, and he wouldn’t let her, she’d locked herself up in her bedroom, put on those songs about lost loves, after she’d gotten drunk, she’d climbed up to the tenth floor, and fell to her death, the mother of the woman, after learning that her boyfriend only asked her through the closed doors, “Do you want some midnight snacks?”, then, headed off to bed on his own, she’d blamed him, “why didn’t you show her a little more care and concern!”

The police investigated, that the thirty-seven year old Chen, and her engineer boyfriend had rented a place together in Sinchuang District, Chen was suspected of being clinically depressed, plus she’d been out of work for over a year now, she’d relied on her boyfriend, Chen, to provide for her.

Chen told the police, that the girlfriend suspected that he had another, two nights ago, at around eight in the evening, she’d asked to check his cell, and he wouldn’t let her have it, told her, “it’s MY privacy”.

Chen said, that he didn’t think, that his girlfriend would get jealous like that, and suspected that he wouldn’t let her see his cell, because he HAD another lover, they’d gotten into a HUGE fight, she’d gotten angered, took three bottles of mixed alcohol, and put on music about lost love in her own bedroom, and she’d turned up the music very loud too.

Chen said, that at ten in the night, he’d asked her if she wanted some snacks before bedtime through the bedroom door, and she’d still screamed back at him, “NO!”, and he’d made himself something, then, headed to bed, “I didn’t think she’d do something to hurt herself”.

Early yesterday morn, the community security guard heard a LOUD sound, and found that someone had fallen out of the building, and after Chen was awaken, he’d learned, that his girlfriend had fallen off the building, and went downstairs to check, and saw his girlfriend’s head cracked wide open and that she had died, he was shocked to beyond speech.

The police officer and the coroner examined the body, and the mother of the deceased learned what had happened, she’d gotten so angry that she’d blamed Chen, “Why didn’t you go into the bedroom to show some CARE toward her? Maybe she wouldn’t have died!”

And that, would be the family’s grief talking, and, the fact that her boyfriend wouldn’t show HER his cell, would still merely BE the igniting point that caused her suicide, there MUST be a TON of unspoken things that we do NOT know about here, that contributed to her death, and this still just shows you how EASILY people ARE cracking these days…

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His Girlfriend Refused to Get Back Together with Him, He’d Force-Fed Her Dish Detergents and Sent Her Nude Photos to People

Wow, and you believe by doing that can get HER back???   Are you fucking (oopsy, my B-A-D!!!) kidding me, this, is VERY B-A-D behavior!!!  From the newspapers, translated…

A man, Su, in order to get his girlfriend, Lee, back, he’d tied her up at their rental home with electric wires, beaten her, and had even, forced dish detergent down her throat; Lee fought hard, and would NOT allow him to get back with her no matter what, and Su had gone to China, and, falsified himself as an unknown person, sent her her nude photos as way of threatening her, the Hsinbei District Attorney’s Office indicted him based off of obstruction of freedom, along with other charges.

The thirty-year-old Su had dated his girlfriend, Lee, for about two years to date, they’d lived together, at a rental place they’d shared in Banciao; last year around April, Lee wanted to break up, and Su had bound her wrists and ankles with electric wires, and dragged her into the bathroom, used the showerhead, gotten her all wet, threatened to take her nude photos and that he’ll spread it out online.  Lee was so scared, that she’d dropped the thought of wanting to break up.

After Lee put up with Su’s violent ways for another two more months, she’d mentioned breaking up again, and this time, Su tied her up like he’d done before, beaten her, then, force-fed her dish detergents, made her deprived of oxygen, and then, rushed her to the emergency rooms; after Lee recovered, she’d cut herself completely from Su, wouldn’t even see him again.

Last year during the month of July, Su called Lee, to threaten that he will make her life a living hell, and Lee texted him back, “I’ll hate you for the rest of my life”, “Even if I’d died and become a ghost, my hate will still be just as strong”, “You can destroy me, but you will never see me again”; Su was angered, and wrote back, “You’re the one who wanted to play it this way.”
Later, Su went to China, falsified his identity, to become someone else, and sent Lee’s nude photos to her home and her workplace; after Lee had called the delivery services in China herself, she’d suspected that Su was behind this, she’d reported this to the police, and accused Su of stealing her cell phone, with her nude photos on it.

The D.A. went to search Su’s residence, and found the nude photos; Su claimed, that Lee must’ve saved that onto his cell herself, and onto his desktop too, that he had nothing to do with it, and denied having abused her, or sent her nude photos as a threat.  But the D.A. believed, that Su had premeditated all of it, and that he was trying to weasel his way out, wanted to escape punishment, showed NO signs of remorse.

And so, this woman had finally HAD it, and when she wanted to pull the plugs, he wouldn’t let her, and, instead of letting this woman whom he “claimed” to have loved go gracefully, he FORCED dish detergent down her throat, and threatened to spread her nude pictures, and how is that a show of love?  Uh, I dunno, you TELL me then!!!

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He’d Given Her All His Wages, and the Twenty-Four Year Old Man Still Couldn’t Get His Fifty-One Year Old Girlfriend Back

Apparently, this DUDE here, IS blinded by L-O-V-E, or, maybe he’s got a SERIOUS case of the “mommy complex”, who knows???  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A twenty-four year old man, Tien, who’s a mountain climbing guide fell in love at first sight, with a woman, who’s twenty-seven HIS senior, who worked as betel nut stand operator, he’d given Liu ALL his wages; awhile ago, Liu wanted to break up with him, Tien started flash-calling her, and had even climbed over the walls to her place, and was arrested by the police.

The police found, that Tien works as a mountain climbing guide, at 5’9, slimly built, but muscular.  Two years ago, he’d met Liu (age 51) who dressed provocatively, at a KTV, fell in love at first sight, didn’t care about their age difference, and against the family’s advising, moved in together.

After dating for a year, the guy’s family consoled him, but to no avail, Tien had even given Liu ALL of his earnings, to show, that he is willing to go the distance with her.  Without knowing, that at the end of last year, Liu started dating a new guy who’s ten years her junior, she’d kicked Tien out of their rental home.  After losing everything, Tien still felt love for her, kept calling her nonstop, hoping he could get her back; without knowing, that his passions weren’t returned, Liu couldn’t stand the harassments, asked the courts for a restraining order, hoping, to sever the love.

Tien still won’t take a hint, awhile ago, he’d gone to downstairs from where she lived, acted like Spider man, climbed up to her second story rental place; but they’d gotten into a disagreement over something, started fight, they got violent.  Liu reported it to the police, accused Tien of breaking and entering, and domestic violence.

“I can’t love her enough, who can I bear hitting her?”, Tien cried to the police when he was taken in for interrogations, the patrol officer did his best to comfort him, he couldn’t understand why, a handsome man as he, would fall for a woman who’s two years older than his own mother.

Tien’s father felt helpless toward his son’s behaviors, begged Liu to forgive him and drop the charges.  In the end, Liu caved, and dropped the claims of breaking and entering, but she’d still insisted on pursuing the charges of how he broke the rules of the restraining order she had on taken out on him.

And so, because we don’t have anything else to go on, so, we can only SPECULATE (and, speculations are almost NEVER right!!!), that this young man didn’t have a mother-figure growing up, and so, he’d fallen for this older woman at first sight, and maybe, he was drawn to her, as a mother he never had growing up, who knows???

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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