We’re all, impacted by this, because they (whoever they may be???) still don’t call it “growing pains” for nothing, do they? Nope!
The debris of childhood, we’re all, feeling the impacts of the destructions, at various stages in our lives, and for some, because they refused to acknowledge, that their childhoods are so FUCKED up (and your point being???), that they needed a lie to live in, and so, they’d made up this HUGE wonderful lie, that they actually had amazing parents who loved them.
The debris of childhood, had you been impacted yet, I had, my life was sent, on that CRASH course, and, I was tossed, from that rollercoaster called my own life, but, I’d held on, refused to let go, and that, was how I was able to survive! The debris of childhood, are you ready, to face it, up front? Can you, handle the truth, that your parents may be like mine: abusive AND neglectful? Because NOBODY can choose her/his family of origin, that, is why all families of origin is a SOURCE of pain for all!