Thoughts, from observations here, translated…
One day, I’d gone with a good friend, to take her emergency rescuer test, she’d really hoped she could pass and get chosen, because when her mother was hospitalized, she’d received a ton of assistance from the volunteers at the hospital; my friend believed, that one day, after she’s retired, she hoped, to become a volunteer who can also help others. And so, the examinations on that day is very important to her.
At the end of the exams, I saw her come out of the testing room, with her head, hung downward, looking upset, I guessed, that she may not have done as well as she would’ve hoped to. On the drive back, I’d inquired: did you lose, or, did you just, not win? She’d replied: what’s the difference? I’d continued asking: are you going to take the examinations after this one? She’d replied, “Of course!” And so, I’d congratulated her, today, she just didn’t win, she didn’t lose at all. Because, “not winning” was exactly what’d happened today, but, “losing” is completely negating one’s own abilities from one’s own minds. My friend smiled and nodded in agreement, and gave me a hug.
The test that came a month later, at the same place, I’d still gone with her to take it, and, this time, she’d hugged me, this time, she’d passed her examinations successfully. She said, “Not winning doesn’t mean losing”, will be the motto she will keep on living by.
And so, this woman had helped her friend get her confidence from not passing that exam that first time, and, that still just shows, how easy, you can change your losing attitude to a winning one, with JUST one thought, and the way you see things, are often the main determinants of whether or not you’re successful in life.