Allowing the Children to Learn to Become Independent

Observations from the workforce, translated…

I work in a food manufacturing factory, every time around the New Year’s, we’re the busiest, and so, the company would hire some temporary employees, to increase the help, so we can become better adapted to this busiest time of year.

Recently, there was a new part-timing kid, tall and strong, and, perhaps, this was his first job, he’d worked very slowly, but that could slowly be trained, but if he didn’t have the energies, everything he did, becomes, dead and boring too.

This kid has a very BAD level of comprehension, it’s hard for me to imagine, that he’s going to college, he’d repeated the same actions for the work, and still, he didn’t have a CLUE what he was doing now.

Every day around lunch, he’d received a call like clockwork, it was from him mom, asked him if he’d eaten yet, and what he’s doing now!  And that, was when I first gained the perspective, of what a “mama’s boy” actually looked like!

He’d already in college, and his mother still hovered over him, when will the child become truly independent?  Seeing how many blood suckers there are in the world today, are they all caused by the parents’ unwillingness and inability to let go too?

Yes, that, is the “creation process” of blood suckers, because you keep on hovering over your kids, you’d taken away the ability to fend for themselves, and, unless you stupid parents CAN outlive your own offspring, there’s NO way you can possibly watch over your young 24/7, and, the process of letting go SHOULD start early, because the later it got, the harder it would be, to WEAN them ALL!!!

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