Superstitions, are what ruined THIS marriage, or, maybe, their marriage was already “on the ROCKS”, who knows, from the Front Page Sections, translated…
Huang’s husband was extremely superstitions, and would often consult the gods on everything, and he would often use the results from that, along with his own dreams, to question her; when he didn’t pass a government examination, he’d blamed her for putting in a water purifier, and had said that she’d fallen ill, because she did a TON of bad things. She could NO longer withstand the emotional tortures, and had filed for divorce, and the courts allowed it.
Huang was married for six years, without children, the reason for her suing for divorce was that her husband is always in doubt, would dream of ghosts and gods on a day-to-day basis, and is emotionally unstable, he would take his angers out on her, and cuss her out on a day-to-day basis. When she’d fallen ill, and made an appointment for a surgery at the hospitals, and had gone back to her own family’s house to recoup, the husband didn’t have ANY empathies toward her ailments, he’d even called up the hospitals, to cancel her surgical appointments, and that nearly killed her. She could NO longer withstand the tortures of her husband emotionally, she’d moved back in with her mother two years ago, and filed for separation with her husband.
Huang’s husband rebutted, that he has the habit of consulting the gods, but NOT on every single matter; that he’d only had dreams of ghosts and spirits, not on a day-to-day basis, and that after he’d planned to purchase his house, he’d dreamed of how he’d opened up the front door, and saw someone, hung inside. He’d used the dreams, along with the results of consulting the gods, to ask why his wife was heading to her family’s house, that there was NO malice, that he’d never treated his wife as a punching bag. He said, that whilst his wife was at her house, she’d refused him to pick her up, and refused the visits from his parents as well, he did NOT want to divorce.
The judge found out, that after the two married, they didn’t get along, and the primary reason was because Huang’s husband had become too superstitious, and would consult the heavens on everything, and, other than blaming not getting a high enough grade on the examinations on the water purifier, he didn’t like his in-laws; as his mother-in-law became bedridden, he’d accused her of faking her illness, and he’d become annoyed, as his wife fell ill too, said that it was because she didn’t do enough good, that, was what’d caused her to get sick.
The judge believed, that the two had separated for two and a half years, and they didn’t have any kind of good interactions, that they’d become totally separated in the hearts and minds; although Huang’s husband didn’t say that he wasn’t willing to divorce, but during the separations, he’d shown NO signs of trying to make it work, that it’d been hard, for both, to maintain their marriage, that the divorce is granted.
And so, that, is ANOTHER day, at the FAMILY CIRCUS court, and that just shows you how a marriage WAS ruined by self-doubt, transference, along with superstitions here.